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Way to go

Hearnow:
Quite spectacular seeing it snow in Africa 🌍

The animals in Nigerian zoo's will curse the day they came here 🤣

They should go see see Madagascar

Irony is when these same students would hardly make a second class upper in nigerian universities.
Nigeria has been stifling growth of her citizens for donkey years
Very sad

The one and only Dr Jingo
If you know you know

akingangan:
Brave girl in a dog-eat-dog world

She almost got away with it like most successful people in the world do.

Dont be silly

Yamleg:
Where can I get this in lagos, biko?
In cartons, pls

Apapa

OloYeOfEgbE:
Prison for prank?

Which law be that

Sexualising a minor (10 year old girl)

family6644:
You understand the situation perfectly. I'm determined to stop today, all I need is support. I just got back from the pharmacy. If this does not work by tomorrow or next, I'm going to general hospital for help. I will take all the shame and insults. I'm not angry at those insulting me here, it's because they don't understand what I went through, I actually lost my wife of 17yrs, my best friend, my other half leaving me with 3kids, I had two options then, either to run mad or go this way. At least I'm mentally stable now to fight this one, then I was almost running mad. I just didn't want to say all these in the post so as not to draw sympathy, I need the harsh truths to help me stop.

Harsh truths of other people ain't gonna make you stop bro.
The only sure way is to live your truth.
The truth is no amount of high you derive from that shit is worth the problem you've landed yourself and what's in store for you if you dont have the mental will power as well as taking all physical measures possible and available to rid yourself of this addiction.

Addiction is a mental disease hence it's not just declaring it.
Fancy snapping yourself when indulging just to pass a point of you being serious.
Naa mhen
Sounds like you ain't ready.
But I know the feeling trust me.

And its possible to quit.

Na your hand e de.

If you're interested you can start attending meetings that will help you in your journey to recovery

You got this

MatrixReloaded:
Most dudes don't study there partner to know what they fantasy are. She may be craving for samsung z flip or iPhone 13 pro max.
Don't buy itel p35 for your gf. She's not cheap unless you are dating an underage.

Na crime for her papa to buy her phone of her choice?

Pisces of H8

🙃🙃🙃🙂🙂🙂☺☺☺

Sanchez01:
From the hotel, one can easily see Area 15 but have no clue what goes on there.

Cool trip

1 wizkid
2. Big Wiz
3. Wiz Khalifa
4. Anything remotely related to Wiz

This man should pity his children nau

Draslo:
Designer babies.
Very soon they will be able to make babies without any physical defect. Like for example if you want blue eyes on a black kid, or a super brain or if you don't want him to be ever interested in penis enlargement. Like there's almost nothing. Very soon, they will give expectant parents a catalogue to choose what they want and don't want from their child.

They do this in fertility clinics already... apart from the penis enlarging bit bit e nor hard them do

baby124:
Fake lines to justify mental illness and lack of accountability in life. You think prick de wey no better pass your own? Women are more polygamous.m but only mad people will bring up such lines to justify bad behavior.

You can make your point without personalizing the matter by referencing the sweetness or not of my preeq & mental state.
Anyways polygamy has existed for aeons... ancient Judaism and their neighbours - using the bible as reference.
Our forefathers also practiced same and a good number led responsible lives too
Monogamous men on the otherhand can also be irresponsible so leave matter.


Have a nice day

IyaebeTheGreat:
This boy loves Chioma but he keeps cheating , I wonder why a man will claim to love you and still cheat on you, weird.

Because the average man is polygamous by nature
It is a basic Instinct

BloomingDale:
King ke?? Ayam not understanding these kings with no kingdom. Always japaing to another man’s land, cos they can’t build their kingdom?

I’m just happy the real kings (Whyte men), that have built their kingdoms, don’t require this level of fuckery and foolishness.

Calm down and have a chilled glass of water

Lol I've had keloids on my chest since as far back 2011 and it doesn't deter me from swimming or taking my clothes off.
Just be careful not to pinch wounds or burst pimples when they show up.

whyteteeth:
It's draining dealing with my mom everytime she comes to the city to stay in the same house with me. I live in my elder sister's house but she (my sister) stays abroad with her family. I am the last child and I am not married. I work from home though. My mum visits here once in a while. Anytime she comes around she does a lot of things that spoils my mood. For instance, she doesn't like taking her children's advice no matter how important it is to them. She likes having her way all the time. And when we try to stop her, she guilt trips us and emotionally blackmails us.

I have other siblings who do not live with me but they used to come around with their children anytime mom is around. My father is back home and hardly visits. She doesn't listen to my dad if he advices her.

Mom will first and foremost get someone upset, and when the person complains, she will watch out for one negative word that will slip out from your mouth and use it to emotionally blackmail you. She will cry because of what you said to her until you feel guilty and beg her to forgive you. She also likes reporting her child to another of her child without minding if it would damage their relationship.

She likes making her child feel bad so long as she has her way and she is happy. She pays no attention to the feelings of her children anytime she wants anything. For instance, My mom can make you spend money on something that she already has. Sometimes she will drag for something that she doesn't even need. She feels as a mother all her children must make her happy else they don't like her.

Also, She is terrible with conversations both on phone and physically. If you try to have a one on one talk with her, she will make the conversation very unpleasant because she will keep interrupting, next thing she will cry or she will get up and leave you.

She never sees her fault. Even if she apologies, she would do the same thing again and blame you for making her do it.

If she comes around and everywhere is peaceful, after a short while argument will begin which may lead to a fight.

This is because she likes jamming one person with another person and eventually make them quarel. She enjoys adding words that was never in the conversation when she is reporting somebody to another perosn. Most times those words are very hurting and will lead to a fight. And when the fight begins, she will start crying. Sometimes she would intentionally fall on the ground while trying to separate a fight, just to make sure everybody runs helter-skelter trying to get her up on her feet.

She has blood pressure issues, hence she uses that as a weapon to guilt-trip her children so they can succumb to her demands. For instance, if she says things that are not true about her child to another of her child and the person finds out, once you confront her, she would say " don't query me oh, shey you know my blood pressure would soon go up. I didn't kill my mother, don't kill me oh." Or she will just start crying and say the person hates her and what was said isn't true, and that she never said anything like that. She denies the things she says that are bad soon after she says them.

Gosh, I am just tired of my mom. I feel like packing out of this house, blocking her and not letting her come close to me because of how emotionally draining it is everytime she comes around.

This is because she likes jamming one person with another person and eventually make them quarel. She enjoys adding words that was never in the conversation when she is reporting somebody to another perosn. Most times those words are very hurting and will lead to a fight. And when the fight begins, she will start crying. Sometimes she would intentionally fall on the ground while trying to separate a fight, just to make sure everybody runs helter-skelter trying to get her up on her feet.

I legit burst into serious laughter at the bolded.
Your momsi na drama queen simple.
Show her more love
Maybe age makes some mothers get antsy/irritable cos I've seen one or two cases like you described.
But it's not that deep.

Imo She's showing care for y'all via the wrong means

Creamypie:
That first and second pic girls kneeling, can I have their cell number? Just asking for a friend

Ooni don first you get em
Case closed

Fineman2:
Story of the day;

Hello Omajuwa. I am an only child who is 42years old. My mother refused to remarry after my father died when I was young. She sacrificed so much for me to be where I am today. I got married about 7years ago. My wife and I have been looking upto God for a child. After pleading with my wife for us to adopt at least a child to no avail, I decided to get my mum who stays with us to help me speak to her woman to woman. But this made them become sworn enemies. My wife since then talks to my mother anyhow and disrespects her every now and then. It has been like that for months.

Few days ago, while returning from work, I heard their loud shouts from outside but I remained outside waiting for the shouts to be over as I didn’t want to be put in the position of choosing a side. But I had to intervene when I heard a loud slap. My wife had slapped my mother. I was enraged but I kept my cool, took my mother from the scene and catered for her. I have since not said a word to my wife.

All I feel when I am at home is sadness and depression. I have no peace in my own home. I have sacrificed a whole lot just to make this marriage work. The woman I married has become someone else. I have defended this same woman from my extended family for years. I have been labeled a ritualist and all sorts of name due to our childlessness but I have never cheated and I have always defended my wife despite knowing that she is the one with fertility issues.

Even though my mother has been trying to put up a strong front since that day, I know that she has been crying herself to sleep. I love my wife so much but I love my mum too. What could my mother have possibly done to warrant her slapping my mother? I think my wife is selfish and is no longer who I married. Why would she rather constantly inflict pain and sadness on her own family? I just want peace of mind and I have made up my mind to divorce my wife. But hope this won’t be a mistake? Is there still a marriage to save here? How do I go about it? What do I do? Please help me.

Simply ask her what led to her slapping your mom

Then do what comes next