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baby124:
Fake lines to justify mental illness and lack of accountability in life. You think prick de wey no better pass your own? Women are more polygamous.m but only mad people will bring up such lines to justify bad behavior.

You can make your point without personalizing the matter by referencing the sweetness or not of my preeq & mental state.
Anyways polygamy has existed for aeons... ancient Judaism and their neighbours - using the bible as reference.
Our forefathers also practiced same and a good number led responsible lives too
Monogamous men on the otherhand can also be irresponsible so leave matter.


Have a nice day

IyaebeTheGreat:
This boy loves Chioma but he keeps cheating , I wonder why a man will claim to love you and still cheat on you, weird.

Because the average man is polygamous by nature
It is a basic Instinct

BloomingDale:
King ke?? Ayam not understanding these kings with no kingdom. Always japaing to another man’s land, cos they can’t build their kingdom?

I’m just happy the real kings (Whyte men), that have built their kingdoms, don’t require this level of fuckery and foolishness.

Calm down and have a chilled glass of water

Lol I've had keloids on my chest since as far back 2011 and it doesn't deter me from swimming or taking my clothes off.
Just be careful not to pinch wounds or burst pimples when they show up.

whyteteeth:
It's draining dealing with my mom everytime she comes to the city to stay in the same house with me. I live in my elder sister's house but she (my sister) stays abroad with her family. I am the last child and I am not married. I work from home though. My mum visits here once in a while. Anytime she comes around she does a lot of things that spoils my mood. For instance, she doesn't like taking her children's advice no matter how important it is to them. She likes having her way all the time. And when we try to stop her, she guilt trips us and emotionally blackmails us.

I have other siblings who do not live with me but they used to come around with their children anytime mom is around. My father is back home and hardly visits. She doesn't listen to my dad if he advices her.

Mom will first and foremost get someone upset, and when the person complains, she will watch out for one negative word that will slip out from your mouth and use it to emotionally blackmail you. She will cry because of what you said to her until you feel guilty and beg her to forgive you. She also likes reporting her child to another of her child without minding if it would damage their relationship.

She likes making her child feel bad so long as she has her way and she is happy. She pays no attention to the feelings of her children anytime she wants anything. For instance, My mom can make you spend money on something that she already has. Sometimes she will drag for something that she doesn't even need. She feels as a mother all her children must make her happy else they don't like her.

Also, She is terrible with conversations both on phone and physically. If you try to have a one on one talk with her, she will make the conversation very unpleasant because she will keep interrupting, next thing she will cry or she will get up and leave you.

She never sees her fault. Even if she apologies, she would do the same thing again and blame you for making her do it.

If she comes around and everywhere is peaceful, after a short while argument will begin which may lead to a fight.

This is because she likes jamming one person with another person and eventually make them quarel. She enjoys adding words that was never in the conversation when she is reporting somebody to another perosn. Most times those words are very hurting and will lead to a fight. And when the fight begins, she will start crying. Sometimes she would intentionally fall on the ground while trying to separate a fight, just to make sure everybody runs helter-skelter trying to get her up on her feet.

She has blood pressure issues, hence she uses that as a weapon to guilt-trip her children so they can succumb to her demands. For instance, if she says things that are not true about her child to another of her child and the person finds out, once you confront her, she would say " don't query me oh, shey you know my blood pressure would soon go up. I didn't kill my mother, don't kill me oh." Or she will just start crying and say the person hates her and what was said isn't true, and that she never said anything like that. She denies the things she says that are bad soon after she says them.

Gosh, I am just tired of my mom. I feel like packing out of this house, blocking her and not letting her come close to me because of how emotionally draining it is everytime she comes around.

This is because she likes jamming one person with another person and eventually make them quarel. She enjoys adding words that was never in the conversation when she is reporting somebody to another perosn. Most times those words are very hurting and will lead to a fight. And when the fight begins, she will start crying. Sometimes she would intentionally fall on the ground while trying to separate a fight, just to make sure everybody runs helter-skelter trying to get her up on her feet.

I legit burst into serious laughter at the bolded.
Your momsi na drama queen simple.
Show her more love
Maybe age makes some mothers get antsy/irritable cos I've seen one or two cases like you described.
But it's not that deep.

Imo She's showing care for y'all via the wrong means

Creamypie:
That first and second pic girls kneeling, can I have their cell number? Just asking for a friend

Ooni don first you get em
Case closed

Fineman2:
Story of the day;

Hello Omajuwa. I am an only child who is 42years old. My mother refused to remarry after my father died when I was young. She sacrificed so much for me to be where I am today. I got married about 7years ago. My wife and I have been looking upto God for a child. After pleading with my wife for us to adopt at least a child to no avail, I decided to get my mum who stays with us to help me speak to her woman to woman. But this made them become sworn enemies. My wife since then talks to my mother anyhow and disrespects her every now and then. It has been like that for months.

Few days ago, while returning from work, I heard their loud shouts from outside but I remained outside waiting for the shouts to be over as I didn’t want to be put in the position of choosing a side. But I had to intervene when I heard a loud slap. My wife had slapped my mother. I was enraged but I kept my cool, took my mother from the scene and catered for her. I have since not said a word to my wife.

All I feel when I am at home is sadness and depression. I have no peace in my own home. I have sacrificed a whole lot just to make this marriage work. The woman I married has become someone else. I have defended this same woman from my extended family for years. I have been labeled a ritualist and all sorts of name due to our childlessness but I have never cheated and I have always defended my wife despite knowing that she is the one with fertility issues.

Even though my mother has been trying to put up a strong front since that day, I know that she has been crying herself to sleep. I love my wife so much but I love my mum too. What could my mother have possibly done to warrant her slapping my mother? I think my wife is selfish and is no longer who I married. Why would she rather constantly inflict pain and sadness on her own family? I just want peace of mind and I have made up my mind to divorce my wife. But hope this won’t be a mistake? Is there still a marriage to save here? How do I go about it? What do I do? Please help me.

Simply ask her what led to her slapping your mom

Then do what comes next

Basicend:
Transcorp that is a dead conglomerate.

A very dead brand from the onset.

Femi, has some old accumulations from Nigeria's crude reserves but he is not so much a wise investor.

He was a FBN, and he left. . Where is his outlay in Forte/AP?

He got his significant wealth from the oil block that FG allocated to him. . Not that he was so inventive or creative.

You can blaze the trail by inventing or creating the next big thing to create your significant wealth to establish a not so dead brand.
Just saying

tamdun:
Liar,no man dead or alive(even with sex enhancement drug)can do that

Use your head
It only goes to show that her man is a one or less than a minute man

So who's to blame...

The commercial sex workers/hook-up babes, small geh big God geng etc etc

or

The men that patronize them - including sugardaddies

Like for the hookers
Share for their patrons.

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Stale

Gaggii:
Please advice, if you have done penis enlargement before, or if you know anyone that has done it.

Is there any side effects?

My babe is complaining seriously about my penis size.

Am considering enlarging it, but I want to be sure of the side effects.

There some annoying sounds I here when having fun with her, she says is because my dick is small.

Please shed more light on the sort of annoying sounds so called you hear when having fun with her

Mine wasn't really a relationship per se or would rank as the shortest relationship ever.

So there was this babe that we met way back when glo was doing africhat
Messaged for plenty weeks/months till she decided to come to warri from benin to write jamb because of me (according to her)

We met after our papers
I'd told a lie @ home that a friend of mine's sister is getting married and thus would not be coming back that day.

So I took her to one hotel and we spent Saturday & sunday night together.

Monday I went to her uncle's place to visit her. This dude entertained me like new in-law.

Tuesday night reach.
Babe calls me that in case her uncle calls me asking for her whereabouts I should say she's with me.
The nerve
I asked her where she was and she said she's with the same uncle's babe at Colle hostel Edjeba.
So why not tell him the truth ?
Cbforvrya yan wldgdnfod dmsbshsn

I eventually cajoled a confession out of her some days later. Y'all dont wanna know the truth trust me but I broke up immediately.
Fear benin babes

Is04970:
There are arguments for and against the bill but I'll tilt towards the Reps.
If you desire to practice in UK or US as a medical practitioner why not school there and pay huge fees for your training?
Why get your education in Nigeria with taxpayers money and end up not being useful for Nigeria?
The hospitals in Nigeria aren't equipped ;Yes. So also the airports, seaports, the roads are bad etc but if the country manages to train you to become a doctor it behoves on you to manage to practice there.

PS:
The same law should be applied to Agricultural Economists, Land Surveyors etc the day we start having shortage of those professionals in Nigeria.

What you're suggesting undermines the principles of Basic and Inalienable Fundamental Human Rights as enshrined in our constitution.
It simply wont work unless in a Socialist or Facist State

madridguy:
What a touching story. I believe your husband is a kind of man that always like to force his opinion on others.

I am sure there is computer department at NAFDAC too. Computer science is a very good course too.
Meanwhile, tell your husband to swallow his pride and apologize to his son. You cannot hire thugs to torture your son for two weeks and expected such son to jump at you again. He still went ahead again after that to hire your estate CSO to beat him up like a criminal.

As in eerrh
The husband nor try.
If the boy snaps and does something drastic to either himself and/or the father you guys already know where the blame lies.

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

No need to worry yet
Step up your love game
Spice up your romantic life
Try new things
Eg. If you nor de give her head before, try to de do am.
Allow her wear her beads. Its nothing spiritual, it will only make her more sexy and desirable to you

If you are used to only missionary, try new positions

Sit her down and ask her to suggest ways you could be more romantic

Marriage is all about communication and compromise

Good.luck

IyaebeTheGreat:
Guilt is worrying you, I can see beyond your facade.

Whatever rocks your boat
Carry your wahala go

IyaebeTheGreat:
Be deceiving yourselves, Nigerian men will suck anything. The reason why you jumped on this is because you are guilty.

The matter simple
That the man or men you sleep with or perhaps your male siblings, uncles / possibly your dad admit they do it shouldn't make you generalise.
For the record I nor de do am.

IyaebeTheGreat:
You will drink menses join with the right woman, stop all these pretense you guys are known for on social media. Abegi

That some dude who considers you as the right woman gives you head when you're menstruating doesn't mean every bloke out there would do same.
You could be having brown showers for all we care with your Mr Right.
Your cuppatee babe

Dtruthspeaker:
Why did she think this? Is this guilty conscience? Children of God do not miscarry.

Miscarriage is one of the punishments upon evil women.

Yes I said it. "Cursed is thy conception" is not a joke.

Yours is a classic case of My people perish for lack of knowledge

Houseontherock1:
I hope the guy that brought them down this low is happy now

Oh shut up

Dearlove2me:
The truth is right now, I feel like going somewhere for a while. I feel like I need rest. Somewhere I can forget about all my problems and breathe a fresh air.
My husband has not been honest with me since the beginning of this marriage and I doubt if this is an attitude of a man that loves

He has always been in debt even before I married him. and he wouldn't let me know what he do with the money he keeps borrowing from people. Even my friends I introduced to him, he is owning them and can't pay back.

The bad side is, he borrows and stop picking their calls not respond nicely to them.
He behalves badly to them.
I'm suspecting he's into some kind of addiction that demands money. Maybe gambling but he wouldn't tell me.
He's constantly on his phone.

He is owning loan app everywhere. To the extent that the app had to send hurrible messages to his contact's lists including his bosses, office colleagues and my relatives.
It's so embarrassing and tiring.
He has apologized several times that I should give him time to work on himself to stop an addiction, but he refused to explain what it is. Claiming that I might leave him if I know.
But he has not changed abit.
We are always hungry in this house. No baby food for my 6months old baby, no pampers and everything is total struggle. I quit my job last year but I'll soon start job search once my baby grow a little.
In this house, If I don't look for food, then, we starve, I don't look for means of getting pampers, food, wears,then my baby will suffer, because his daddy is not capable of providing anything for us. It's so annoying.

I have dreams before I married him, but right now, I feel lost. There's no romance, no love, no affection in this marriage anymore, as I wouldn't even let him touch me because of the stress, suffer he constantly brings on us.

Money I raised to start up a business, (340k) I ended up using it to pay for his debt last two months because the people were always coming to embarrass us in the house and neighbors were coming to pleade on our behalf. I had to clear up the loan, yet he couldn't explain what he did with the money.
With that start up capital, I would have been growing by now, but here I am. Still at the zero point.

I'm really tired
I'm so confused here.
What should I do?
What would you advise?

How long did ya'll date before getting married ?
You didn't see no red flags during that time ?

Open the floodgates

galantjoe:
Let's tell ourselves the truth, why should a car seeing a police checkpoint and fail to stop for checking? The woman and her husband blatantly ignored police checkpoint with reckless abandon because she was a lawyer. Layers are above the laws.

There will be also a law that checkmates this reckless disregard and respect of Police checkpoint by Nigerian elites. They believe that police checkpoints are kept for poor Nigerians,

Law is no respecter of persons. He killed herself not the police officer.

Even if what you're saying is correct that they refused to stop for check, does that justify him aiming at her point blank range and pulling the trigger?

Classicalman:
Nigerian judiciary sef. Whether the bullet penetrated from chest or side, the issue is that he shot and killed her. Why wasting time in passing sentence?

What about the part that says the ballistics report show that the bullet that killed the woman doesn't match the gun of the accused ?
No one seems to be addressing that point here.
Unless the prosecution can prove that the report is an outright lie or fabricated, the accused may just go scot free