₦airaland Forum

akpunda86:
Anambra z fun during xmas so is my villa infacr iv warned her after this year i no wan hear i wan go xmas for my villa.she is free to go see d mum and siblings but not every xmas.she can go bf the holidays.besides our newborn just six months.infact she is not going anywhere.
I regret marrying from imo state their culture pissing me off now.

andy1996:
Please i need urgent assistance o, how do i check if a prepaid metre has an outstanding debt, i just moved into a new apartment and i spend so much on recharge

gistshub:
Nigerians have reacted to the court ruling in favour of Commonwealth of Zion Assembly, COZA Pastor, Biodun Fatoyinb, High Court of the Federal Capital Territory dismissed the rape case filed by Busola Dakola against Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA.

Click the link below to see reactions from Twitter
https://www.insidelifes.com/busola-dakola-vs-biodun-fatoyinbo-nigerians-react-as-coza-pastor-wins-in-court/

Jerkules:
I almost cried while watching the match. I was actually confused if I was in the 70's. I had to go back to sleep hoping to come back to reality

chinchonglee:
I started watching d movie fam but couldn't finish it cos it was making me doubt if my reasoning is still functioning.

1kbusiness:


Imagine you finally get yours after waiting for 7 years. And then 3 days later, you misplace it. Na to forget everything cos replacement go kuku take 27 years.

GrabHisBalls:
I applied for mine since 2015, this is 2019. Four years later and was told it'll be out in January of 2020 which I still doubt. Nigeria is a useless country!

adecz:
Go to Anambra state quickly!!

Elder010:
Is There Any Disadvantage In Marrying An Intelligent Or Smart Woman?

setobaba:
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.

Mood11:
Years ago, the whole family went for a vigil together. When it was time for deliverance, the Charismatic brother was calling people in batches. When he called for children, I stepped out like the others and before I know what's up, anybody he lays hands on will jerk jerk jerk and fall then other Charismatic would help the person up... I was trying to decide if the falling was intentional or it was truly the holy ghost in action...
When it was my turn, he laid hands on my forehead and was praying furiously like he did to the others but I didn't fall or should I say the thing no catch me..
I opened one eye and saw my aunt looking at me, then I made up my mind to impress her by falling before they say I am possessed.. Na so I fall backward o, hit head for heard alter floor and passed out

voltron14:
Wanted to hypnotize Okon Abang not knowing his lordship transmits at many levels.

deltateam:
Yes. Banks especially Nigerian banks and exploitation are 2 sides of the same coin. They are 5 and 6.
I opened an account at First Bank. I didn't choose Debit card but customer care filled it for me by herself and gave it to me to go make deposit.

Worst of it all was that she chose Verve option- the worst of them all!

When I told her that I didnt choose it. Why then did she choose it for me? She said I needed it to be getting sms alerts on transactions but SHE lied!

Immediately I made payment I got sms message immediately. Then why did she lie?

Banks make up to 70% profits on charges especially ATM monthly maintenance charges.

It could be #50 a month multiplied by 2 million customers. You will shout!

Other charges are ATM usage charge and transfers etc

dukie25:
So why are your people scared of disintegration?

agwom:
He basically stated that he was getting married tomorrow so he didn’t have enough money for a wedding ring that he wanted to buy and he needed to pay for the wedding venue…

A Texas man has been arrested after his fiancée saw a social media post of him robbing a bank the day before his wedding so he could pay for the ring and the venue of his ceremony. Heath Edward Bumpous from Crockett, Texas was charged with aggravated robbery and booked into the Trinity County Jail for allegedly approaching a bank teller at Citizens State Bank in Groveton, Texas, informing them that he had a weapon and then demanding money which he was then subsequently given, according to ABC’s affiliate station in Tyler, Texas KLTV. “He basically stated that he was getting married tomorrow so he didn’t have enough money for a wedding ring that he wanted to buy and he needed to pay for the wedding venue,” Sheriff Woody Wallace said.

After receiving news of the robbery, Wallace immediately posted pictures of the suspect on the Trinity County Sherriff’s Facebook page in hopes that the public would be able to provide tips that would lead to the capture of the suspect. It was then that Bumpous’ fiancée saw the Facebook post and recognized him. “His fiancée, who he was supposed to marry tomorrow, was able to get in touch with him on the phone when she saw our post on Facebook. She knew it was him. She contacted him and asked him if he robbed a bank … she convinced him that she knew it was him. His picture was all on Facebook. He needed to turn himself in,” said Wallace in a video posted to his Facebook page.

Bumpous took his fiancée’s advice to heart and decided to turn himself into the Houston County Courthouse and confessed to his crimes. Wallace says that most of the money was recovered along with clothes that he threw out of the window of his vehicle during his escape and the gun that he had concealed with him as well. “He is now in custody. He has been charged with aggravated robbery. The district attorney has accepted the charges. It will go to a grand jury and he will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law,” said Sherriff Wallace.

Culled from abc.go.com

Read more: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/man-robs-bank-a-day-before-wedding-to-pay-for-venue-ring.html

ginaolo:
Hi

I’ve been with a lady for some time now but I’m starting to have doubts about this girl.

My main concern is that she is too reserved and she doesn’t like to do anything that involves people. I come from a big family unit and she’s always avoiding family get togethers, outings, even to meet my friends and socialise with them is a huge problem. We’ve gone out very few times, she’s met my mum and a few friends, but she avoids meeting them most time. I addressed it to her and she claims she has social anxiety but for how long can I continue like this? All she wants to do is be at home. My family are already starting to get the wrong impression of her and they believe she is proud. I know my older sister is not too fond of her because of her quiet nature and I think this will take a toll on us in the future if we get married. I don’t want a wife that cannot do basic things like go out with me to events or represent me well. I don’t want a wife that will be hiding in the house 24/7.

Another thing is that she has some stubborn traits in her. She’s a lovely woman, she’s very kind, compassionate and she motivates me a lot. When she’s around me alone she’s very cool, but when it comes to going out and doing things, she starts acting up. I cannot deal with her shy nature as it’s too much and it’s becoming embarrassing. She’s 24. What do I do please?

Ariza:
Some miracles ought to be performed indoor.

setobaba:
Don't start using collective words (marital problems) yet, the guy is having serious anger issue and some tribes are known to be angry

setobaba:
You people should stop hiding under marriage is all about tolerance, for God sake she's also a human.
Madam if you feel you've made the wrong decision by marrying your husband you had better retrace your steps back now, the more days you stay in that marriage, the lower the chances of getting another man quick.
Beside how old is your husband and which tribe?

setobaba:
You people should stop hiding under marriage is all about tolerance, for God sake she's also a human.
Madam if you feel you've made the wrong decision by marrying your husband you had better retrace your steps back now, the more days you stay in that marriage, the lower the chances of getting another man quick.
Beside how old is your husband and which tribe?

SALTandFIRE:
Only the wise can see the undertone of disregard and disrespect in OPs post
disregard and disrespect for both your hubby and baby
undertone of disrespect. If he didn't buy it you don't need to start a fight and call it an argument
you disregard your dad instead of you to listen to him. He knows better than you and how to hand a young man.
you too listen to yourself...read this quote to yourself and tell me how it sounds.! Why should you actions always revolve around arguments fighting ?

grossintel:
I literally colonised my mom's phone so she left it for me and bought another one. She will be like where's that boy, please bring my phone it's ringing and I'll respond mommy it's not your call.

maleekfrenzy:
So there is this girl that my big bro introduced to me a couple months ago coz she has been pestering him that she wants to meet me. So after we met,we connected immidiately, it was like we have known each other for years and we have been very close since then.
Being that she's just a side chick, she and my bro are always quarrelling, so anytime they have a fight, I'm the one she comes to. in short, I'm always there for her during those times.
I kinda like the girl coz she's just my type , but being that she's bro's babe, I had to I forget her. But feelings like that are hard to ignore.
So mistakingly one day, I told her , I wished I had met her first and she said the same thing also. That changed everything.
So I told bro to free the girl for me since she's just a side chick and he agreed, but the girl is still so madly In love with him.
She claims to love me and my brother also. But I think she loves me because I'm always there for her.
So I'm kinda confused in this situation.
Should I just follow up and try my luck with her or I should forget about her ?.

healthserve:
My brother you're preaching. Even in marriage don't let your guards down with these entities


I feel sorry for anyone who discounts your write-ups as jokes. If you don't have a mafia mindset forget these ladies as they can only be pinned down by force

Breaststroke:
The lies and deception feels too much. Bros no vex, e be like say you no be street guy.

How did you let your wife koba you like this nah? I am vexing on your behalf because what she knowingly did is cruel & malicious.

She knew you were at risk of being infected but didn't disclose her status. Chances are, she would have turned things around and claimed you infected her via infidelity, if you ever tested positive for HIV.

You are right to be afraid and distrustful of her, in fact you should be. There was a HIV thread where a guy said his former roommate in school deliberately infected him because of a fight they had during first semester.

If you attempt or threaten to take the boys away she may harm you. Whatever you decide to do, plan it carefully and quietly without her knowing.
You're completely right.

aAK1:
Just when you think you have seen it all

tunary:
Are you the one who is suppose to be embarrassed or she herself

MiVida:
there are many words that could've replaced that the gate of Heaven.

Ishilove:
I told the congregation, during Sunday service to open to Isaiah 45 vs 26 and told someone to read. She stood up, opened her bible, leafed through it for several seconds, finally gave up and said "there's no Isaiah 45 vs 26." I felt like the ground should open up and swallow me right there at the altar. In front of the entire church!!

It was Isaiah 43 vs 26, not 45 vs 26. And to think I had it typed out but that typo completely missed my attention.

My head blanked out and I kept turning the pages looking for the book of Isaiah, while the sea of eyes stared up at me. I even went to the New Testament!

My family members suddenly had this very serious expression on their faces. You know, that kind you have when you are trying your darndest not to cringe. Or laugh

I almost wept in embarrassment. I was traumatized throughout the following week.