₦airaland Forum

JimPerry:
I met a girl on Facebook sometimes last year whom I really did like and admired. She claimed to be a very religious and disciplined person and this made me fall for her more.

We reside in different states so it wasn't too possible for us meet due to my work schedule and her school demands. However on her birthday, I offered to flex her around my city if only she could come around. This we planned will also be an avenue for us to meet and discuss our terms of relationship engagements. I was happy when she agreed to come. But unfortunately, our schedule couldn't hold anymore as I had to travel out of my state for sth else. Since then, we've planning to meet. Later in the month of March, we planned to meet again but just before the day of her coming, she called that she couldn't come anymore due the corona virus lockdown that had already begun in her state. This was a bad day for us and we planned to meet immediately after the virus era.

On one cold evening, last week, I recieved a call from her that she was coming the next day despite the lockdown as she can't stay any longer. I wondered why she suddenly took that decision despite the current situation in the country. I begged and convinced her not to come but relax and wait until after sometime as I wasn't even ready to receive her this period but she ignored it. She immediately went to the park to look for a vehicle and later found out that none of the transporters were coming to my state. Sincerely, I was excited that she will finally change her mind as there isn't any means of movt, but she was feeling very very bad. I was really surprised why she became so so desperate this time around.

The next day around 3pm, I recieved a message from her that she was on her way down. I instantly called her back to tell her to return back as I wasn't around in my state (as I had already travelled earlier without telling her). Her numbers were not reachable. I sent her series of message but her line were not reachable. I had to relax. At about 8pm, she called me with a strange number that she was already approaching my state. I instantly criticized her for boarding a vehicle without telling me. I told her I wasn't around and asked her to turn back but She kept begging me to find someone to host her till I returned. I had pity on her and called my friend to host her till I return. Because of her, I had to return back to my state the next day and she came over to my place.

When she came around, I criticized her as to why she got so desperate to come and see me despite the lockdown without pre-informing me.
She immediately broke into serious tears and began telling me that she ran away from home because she was pregnant for her ex bf (who had absconded) and her family members are very mad at her and will not allow her stay at home anymore. Now she has no where to stay. She said she don't want to abort the baby as she may die. Now she packed her belongings and left the house and want to relocate completely to my state to avoid the shame and embarrassment. She will also abandon her school and start again after giving birth.

I was deeply and terribly shocked. She never told me she had a bf all along when we were getting along. Now she is at my place begging to stay with me till she can get sth doing and rent her own place as she didn't have any money to rent her place now. I was devastated. This is a girl I really liked and I planned may get married to.
As much as I was angry, I just couldn't push her out but had pity on her and allowed her stay for the now.
Honestly, I'm not comfortable with the idea. Though I'm damn scared of her safety, I'm really tempted to tell her to leave as I'm scared of the implications of hosting her.
Will this be right to do. Or what do you think?

Kobicove:
Why would any reasonable Nigerian guy want to marry an akata such as Kaneshia, Lakeshia, Razonda, kelema, Volaqua and all those funny sounding useless names with no meaning they tend to bear?

pyyxxaro:
Death rate is already close toooo 100



If doubt if skols in Lagos would be allowed to resume anytime soon


This Corona has altered the calendar of the World


Fear nor go let person even gist babe oh , because you nor know were she de come from

She fit just carry Full 25litres jerrycan of Corona for body



God pls help Nigeria

Caringfather:
Good evening all
Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?
I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us she is 15. I buys my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and wear out , I have given her the money to buys new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church ,our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time , I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seems to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece . She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buys under wears for her . She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true , I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife , there’s plenty women around me , no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece , I have daughters , sisters and nieces what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry. Please be honest with me was my decision wrong ?

MizJaY:
sorry for d long message but this lockdown period might favour reading long msgs. I'm d quiet type so I have never open mouth to insult my husband during any misunderstanding. just arguments and my voice may go up a bit trying to explain or clear myself but he will start saying im raising my voice and talking back at him and start saying all sort of things, honestly sometimes I wished I could unleash d anger deep down and screammm but I always have self control. if u sit with him, he will give u a million reasons why I'm not a good wife and if u don't know me well, u will fall for it because he tells it so well. I will not say everything he says is false, but 80% is. Only those that really know me, will know he is d one dat has problem he's too difficult at times. In an office, there's usually that one person that quarrels with everyone am I right? But I end up being d only person that dat person doesn't quarrel with cos I try as much as possible to avoid quarrels that's just d kind of person i am. Calm n quiet. When I met my husband nysc days, he was very close to God, organizing programs in church and handling them. That was d main reason I got close to him cos i wasnt so spiritual and needed someone to help me grow spiritually thru life. He told me he was called to be a pastor and that excited me but im not seeing that now lol. He's spiritual life is almost zero. And back then, he had nothing, we would spend all my money even to reach he's sick mother in d village i would buy all d foodstuff to send to her, d way he talked he sounded promising that things will get better with him, but today, I still suffer, I have no savings, all my salary is on d house. He works too and earns but he's salary cover rent and d children's school fees finished. I do d rest but he doesn't appreciate d fact that i sacrifice everything I earn to feeding d house we are family of 6. Everything provision, food, children school snack, fuel for car n gen gas filing etc etc it's me. And that's how my whole salary will just go fiam, if I ws getting a little appreciation I for no mind but rather i get insult o. It's my fault that
Money is finished, it's my fault that we have no savings, I don't know how to manage money, I'm hoarding my money etc etc those are d words that come out of his mouth o � I used to be a beautiful woman but no more, I wear one shoe everyday to work, can't buy myself clothes shoes nothing I had to cut my hair to relieve myself from hair money lol. I'm stressed out thinking of where money will come for feeding when my salary gets finished before month end at times I have to beg my sister or my dad a pensioner or hussle one way or d other. I now developed high bp and today I'm living with hypertension taking drugs everyday. It was my parents that gave my husband d job he's doing today. He is not in talking terms with he's dad n siblings. Before he's mother died, things were not too good between them. My husband likes to always form man of d house and want me to apologise whenever there's a misunderstanding saying that I am d one wrong, I'm always wondering how am always d one wrong and he's not � every time, sometimes self I don't know what I did that mks him angry he will just start carrying face. Today makes it a week we are not talking cos he has been carrying face since 7days now, and went to post something on wassap yesterday that a woman that cannot apologise to her husband cannot stay in marriage. My brothers and sisters if I know of anything I did that I have to apologise for yet I refused to apologise that is making him carry face, may God strike me. If u know I did anything wrong why not come to me and tell me u don't like what I did and tell me what i did rather than carry face up n down. He always does that. At times I do ask him and as usual am always d one at fault. Maybe it's cos I'm a quiet person he's taking me for mumu. D national anthem now is that because he does not have money that's why I don't respect him the way I'm supposed to. Im always careful with my word when gisting with him cos make I make mistake say Donald duke is d current governor of rivers state haaa problem don enter and it may spoil d sweet gisting we were having. He go almost insult me and become uninterested in gisting with me again cos i don talk mumu talk. So how can I handle such man cos if no be say I be quiet person, I for don receive serious beating black and blue from this man cos he has done it earlier on in our marriage not serious beating sha but I had some bruises. If not that my parents are still alive and warn him. Tho he still attempt once a blue moon I go jus arrange myself. But I'm kind of tired. I have no money cos trust me, if I had, Maybe i for don dey plan my move sef I no dey enjoy marriage life at all

Bbankole:
Good day

I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for more that a year now, my bf is very annoying and gives reasons why he is annoying sometimes he say to me thing he Is not suppose to say and when i get angry he will also get angry, and and start justifying him self raising his voice, when people upset me and I confind in him he will judge me saying that me too I''m this and that he will never ever encourage or pet me how much more support me not even for once in his life, the one that got me so worried was when he said he will make jest of me when ever I cry again...... I'm a very emotional person sometimes when i watch film and get emotional i cry when people hurt me I go to a corner and cry just to relieve my self off the pain only for him to say if I cry over anything he does to me he will make jest of me so I will stop crying I felt so bad that he is taking me for granted I feel he doesn't genuinely love me..... he should rather try not to do things that will hurt me instead of staying he will make jest of me, as if I enjoy crying..... the guy is 28 and I am 26 I kinda feel he is not mature to be saying things like that or maybe he doesn't love me. he doesn't feel remorseful, rather he act as if my tears are irritates him that I'm just crying for nothing, are we compertable or he doesn't really know how to handle me.

Please I really need your help his attitude is discouraging me I dont want to marry someone who doesn't care about my feelings it mean he wont feel remorseful when he really hurts me so bad what do u all think

���� I need a good advice thank you all.

Ishilove:
Dog Lovers, Please I Need Advise On My Rott's Naughty Behavior

I have a one and a half year old Rottweiler named Gift and I don't understand him anymore. We can't chastise him again when he misbehaves because he bares his teeth and growls menacingly at us if we try to spank him for being naughty. He welcomes us when we come home like any loyal, loving pet, but yesterday he shocked me. Usually as we are about to enter the house he playfully holds one foot down so we can't enter, or he jumps on you and hugs you tight so you can't move. When I got back from work yesterday I was exhausted and I didn't have energy for his play so I hugged him briefly but as I entered the house I mistakenly stepped on his right hindpaw.

He howled, left me, and lunged at me, this time to bite me. He actually narrowly missed my arm.

I was mad. I turned and yelled "Gift are you mad?" He bared his fangs and barked at me. Me sef I bared my teeth at him and ordered him to stand down. He growled, me sef I growled back. Do you know this dog kept advancing menacingly at me and barking? I quickly borrowed myself brain and locked the door. Werey dog.

I can't shoo Matilda, my chicken in his presence. He covers her with his body and warns me away. And now, the most perplexing thing is he now marking every where in the compound. My sib came visiting and before he entered the house, he quickly relieved himself outside because he was very pressed. Do you know Gift went to where the dude urinated and peed on top? It has gotten so bad now that Gift entered the house and marked different sections of the corridor and smaller dining area with pee.

Now, I don't know if this is classic Rott behavior or if he is just being indisciplined. I confess we spoilt him a bit because he is such a sweet animal when he is not misbehaving.

How do we discipline a dog that has grown wings? He is well socialised so it's not a case of too much isolation.

BonPatrick:
Guys can you date a woman with 3 kids and still in her husband's house but the marriage is about to be dissolved because her husband is not touching her for over a year and doesn't give her food or talk to her.

She met you on Facebook and loves you so much and wants you to sleep with her when both of you see. She even sends her naked video to you to show you how much she loves you. Will you sleep with her when you meet as she is about to divorce her husband?

karnap:
hello nairalanders!
it was nice to be in this forum,how ever its something I would love to hear from matured minds, preferably married people
I'm 30,I have already set my traditional wedding on 23th May before the lockdown of covid 19 virus.
as its now marriage is not for immature minds as many of my elderly people do tell me,
marriage come with different fashion in life.
please I would love to hear your advise.
thank you

eddieguru:
Hello nairalanders,


Although, I'm not good at writing

I had sex with a girl I met on Facebook, and now my urine hurts.

I'm currently taking injections and drugs, but I don't really know what I've been infected with...

While I'm taking treatment i've been having coloured urine ( yellow, brown and orange)

Guys I'm simply confused right now...advise a brother

Bismark707:
I remember during service, served at kwara state(yikpata) this warri girl came to sit beside me during a football match between my platoon 3 and platoon 5, we got talking and she started gisting me how she can finish 5 bottles of beer, I just dey look am they nod my head.

We got close and started spending time together in camp, after camp she was posted far away from me but we planned to meet at Ilorin, o boy no be play o, this girl finished 5 bottles of star, while I took 3 bottles of legend, she was very nice and appreciative for the fact I took care of her, she suggested she pay for the room.

We beeped like crazy, non stop during the night and had occasional breaks to catch our breath, na then I respect warri girls, we lost contact, I was posted to irepodun LG, while I think she was posted to patigi, bleep a few corpers, but no one comes close to her, no disrespect I look like a black American and I have a likable personality so people generally likes me.

Next story is how I bleep a girl at college of education, Ilorin during my service year.

Share yours!!!

casa101:
First pls all the married men that allows their wives to attend a different church from the one he attends pls it's very bad, stop it.
It's been 7 months we starting seeing(fu#king) each other but am yet to officially ask her out BC she is 4yrs(33yrs) older than me.
We meet in a church love feast/program which my cousin forced me to follow her to like 7 months ago. I normally see her on Sundays bc after church she drives to my house like for a month but during that first month we stay in her car downstairs bc she was so scared of Dogs and note she doesn't wear her ring while coming to see me. In fact I hv never seen her with a ring till today(this afternoon). We started from there. One thing led to another till we discovered that we are so so into each other so I decided to invite her over my place(like into my house) bc I have eventually built a cage downstairs for my dog. So she was now able to come up on her 5th visit were she told me she is 33 & single but the age won't be the problem that lets enjoy ourselves then from there we will see if dating is a possibility. Like that the "sexcapede" started
To cut the story short.. Today my aunty called me to go and help her pick her kids from school that she wont be able to make it.. When I got there and i was seated inside my car waiting for their dismissal.. I saw a familiar car pulling over a pole ahead of me. I quickly recognized it. She came down entered the school picked her kids by then I was already walking down towards her. Then I heard the kids calling her "Mum" like Mum I want to take icecream. I was shocked and the first place my mind went to was her hand and I saw her wedding ring which I have never seen her with before. I then intentionally asked her in front of the kids.."madam are they your kids??.. But bc she didn't know how she will deny them there and with the presence of other parents picking their own children. She said YES.

Fast-forward she is now calling me telling me that she loves me and I should not leave her. That her husband don't bleep her well. But I was like but your husband provides for you and your kids and your still married to him.. She just dey cry over the phone..
The truth is that I can't even continue with it BC I have always told myself I won't sleep with someone's wife so that nobody will do that to mine.. Now my conscience is killing me here

kingjomezy:
I did something weird but out of necessity,I was about to be beaten to pulp by some big boys I was very little then.I had to think ,I saw an ant I grabbed it and I ate it ,I saw another one the same thing and I dared them.They all ran away . .

PuZZyNegro:
So, there's this small rat that has been playing hide and seek with me.

I have made several attempts to kill it but it always finds a way to meander and escape from me.

I feel helpless seeing this rat get away each time I try to kill it.

Then it happened one evening around 7pm. I managed to buy Nasco cornflakes in this lock down period and the wicked rat still insists I cannot keep it in my house in peace.

I kept the cornflakes beside my freezer and within few minutes, I started hearing some funny noise inside the nylon. I knew then that my uninvited visitor has come.

I didn't want the hide and seek no more. If I decide to let it out to kill it, it might still escape. So, I remembered the saying "There are many ways to kill a rat".

So, I just opened my freezer, packed the cornflakes with the nylon and closed it.

Your guess is as good as mine. My sweet frenemy escaped from the nylon and ran under my plate of soup to take cover, not knowing that that part of the freezer is even colder than where I left it.

Good news: The rat died happily ever after


Somebody shout "Alleluia"

DonBenny77:
During my school days in Ghana i had this room mate from Burkina faso I nicknamed him Bance because he is tall, black and ugly like the player. This guy eats soured stinking rice of like two days, for instance if he runs out of gas rather than borrow mine to preserve his food he prefers eating it like that and the pot of rice can last him for two days. When he's full he will cover it and keep then continue later. I was shocked because I could perceive the smell of soured rice from my end of the room whenever he opened the pot to eat.
The guy dey fear me like winch but I never complained about that I just let him be.
Different people different norms I thought.

People dey sha
Man like Bance

charlesluthor:
I do this also till date. Right from my jamb days, my phone is always on silent. Everyone complains about it. The weird tin abt mine is I don't miss calls. I always pick up my phone at the right time. Even though the phone is in my pocket, I always reach out for it at the right time.

infotainment:
YES, I have a family friend who gave birth to a baby girl before writing WAEC, Her baby girl too gave birth to a baby shortly after writing her WAEC.

FortifiedCity:
This story is fabricated; you are simply advertising that ashawo site

Nelsonnwagbo:
I knew one couple that are childless nd praying for fruit of the womb bt they always use condom to have sex



I was surprised thou

showafrica:
Ur wife fit leave u waka

ZINIBANKS:
That's life
But your sister isn't serious in the first place sent to school and got pregnant

loveyou123:
This days whenever i feel the urge to urinate and go to the toilet to urinate, only few drops will come out and few seconds later i will start feeling the urge to urinate again, when i go back to toilet again same thing will happen... What could be the problem

BadLuckonmyGame:
I have fvck all my gf female family members and friends she have introduced to me so far.

MadeINchenzen2:
mine: Her best friend asked for it behind closed doors and I delivered

veave:
I don't think so. My mum and dad have one of the best writings in the whole of Africa but mine looks like... Naira Marley's dada maybe

Deadratgrill:
That accent was an Afonja accent but they said he is a biafran cant be 100% sure but whatever the case his balls must be made of steel

2prexios:
Nope, I be Yoruba. I don't descriminate, buh the language ehn. Me no too comfortable with o, not used to it as were other major languages them. Can't play God but I pray for guidance, the lady speaks Yoruba wella.

Legalcriminal:
Two women came here from local government yesterday said they’re searching every house if someone got fever or any symptoms for the virus.

The next thing she said was nothing go happen in Jesus name they are tired of walking but they believe no one would have virus

sarrki:
While we all slept, Gov Ayade kept vigil at the Calabar/Itu bridge, the boundary between Cross River State and Akwa Ibom State to ensure that the border closure order is absolute.

Gwagone:
Do you trust your daughter?