 Christianity Etc › Re: Joys Priscilla Oyedepo & Abodunrin Olaleye White Wedding Photos by ekitimanalways(m): 1:17pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
WINNERSMOG:
It was a very glorious sight to behold Joys Oyedepo and Abodunrin Olaleye come together in Holy matrimony today! God bless the latest couple in the world. Amen Where're the bridegroom's parents in the photos? |
| Romance › Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by ekitimanalways(m): 8:43pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
JOACHINpedro:
That gurl can give updates for Africa 
Op are you sure she doesn't work for mtn customer care service   |
| Romance › Re: Sleeping With A Married Woman Or Sleeping With A Cousin? by ekitimanalways(m): 8:35pm On Aug 22, 2020 |
fubbyy:
I once slept with a married woman and I have a friend who's presently sleeping with his cousin, anytime I think that he's doomed , I'll just remember my own afair with a married woman
Who do you think have committed a bigger abomination between my friend and I? Having sex with another's wife will ruin one. |
| Nairaland General › Re: What Is The Strangest Thing That Has Ever Happened To You? by ekitimanalways(m): 7:58pm On Aug 18, 2020 |
SmellySperm:
brought a lady home, while the fvck was going on,she slumped,was so scared..
then i recalled stories i read from nairaland abt people dieing during sex,I quickly pulled out the condom,as i was abt fleeing,she gained consciousness and i quickly continued from wer i stopped : Nackson with no conscience. |
| Family › Re: My Wife Said No More Sex I Can Go Outside Make Kids by ekitimanalways(m): 10:24pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
akpunda86:
Hi fellas.To God be the glory.ladies need ur input.The rich also cry.I got married in 2008.was full of life married a young lady of 25 as we believe fertility increases wit young age.well along d lines my wife always took in but miscarriages occur.Ten miscarriages.Infact Lagos gynas are crooks.one of the reasons we moved to Enugu.
In Enugu we met a popular gyna.who adviced once she takes in she come.As God want it my wife was admitted on third month of marriage baby born on seventh month.placed in incubator.My bills was in millions but as God want it a way opened and all debts paid.
Our second kid came two years later at full trimister.
So as we want anoda kid but not now but i always ask my wife when safe to have sex and she gave me green light.Kasa burst she took in again.i was in site and she called me by 2am.i was scared cos tut robbers came.
Said having pains.told her go hospital nxt day.went and after scan doc said ectopic pregnancy so cs operation initiated.
So right now we all fine but my wife said she z is not having children again that im free to go outside meet any woman but for her is done.
It pained me i was weak.im tired thats why i need advices here.
Infact touching her from now im scared as we have spent heavily in dis hospital.
Getting a second wife no big deal for me but wat happens when im gone.I thank God for my two beautiful kids but is four i planned.
Im planning renting a new apartment once i see a matured lady but is painful to me. Do not let your wife push you to be like a stream from which just any woman may take a drink. Save yourself for your wife and don't have sex with other women. The Lord sees everything and watches us closely. |
| Crime › Re: Jailed Drug Smuggling Cat Escapes From Jail (pic) by ekitimanalways(m): 3:26pm On Aug 03, 2020 |
Jumlek2411:
All these drug barons, they go all the way achieving their heroines way of business. The animal version of Michael Scofield of Prison Break. |
| Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Introverted by ekitimanalways(m): 7:04pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Donvic4u:
So rebuking someone is a sign of inadequate love? Clearly, he's immature or inadequately equipped to handle an introverted lady. My lady who I intend to marry soon is an introvert. I don't speak severely to her because she has done something wrong . Maturity , love and patient on my part aid me to see beyond the flaws of her character. He should learn to focus on her strengths rather than constantly complaining about her here on Nairaland. Is he perfect in character...? |
| Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Introverted by ekitimanalways(m): 4:55pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Donvic4u:
My girlfriend is too soft and too introverted.
I don't even know the adjective to use sef..
I can't rebuke her without feeling bad about it..
Any small shout she has started crying, at the end I'll be the one to console
And yes she isn't faking it, honestly it's getting tiring
What should I do please. You don't love her enough. Therefore, I would strongly advise you to let her go... |
| Romance › Re: My Undergraduate Friend Has Gotten Someone Pregnant by ekitimanalways(m): 8:23pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: My Undergraduate Friend Has Gotten Someone Pregnant by ekitimanalways(m): 8:22pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: My Undergraduate Friend Has Gotten Someone Pregnant by ekitimanalways(m): 1:40pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
 itzme2020:
Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened. Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened. Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened. [left]Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened. Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened. Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened. Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened. [left]Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened. Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened. Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened. Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened. [left]Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened. Yesterday a friend of mine called me and said he has impregnated someone and her family said he must marry her. I was so shocked as I knew he was a very decent and God-fearing guy so I asked him what happened.
doctor had confirmed she was six weeks pregnant and she decided to come clean to her parents. Now they are insisting that he must marry her. What do you think he should do. By the way it's not my friend it's someone else's story and also sorry for the long write up |
| Family › Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ekitimanalways(m): 4:16pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Swtbabyvee:
@bold you should keep decieving urself . With this thread ? Extrovert hv no problem expressing their feelings, to friends and family. And we get solution or atleast get encouraging words or atleast get it off our chest . But u all die in slience . Telling urselves I am special but you all mentally unhealthy. It’s not okay or normal to be in isolation . It’s not Normal . With this thread u honestly think introverts deal with depression more than extroverts? Ain’t u funny . You commented like a demented witch on crack. |
| Romance › Re: Who Else Has Done That Risky Unclad Trip From Bathroom To Bedroom? by ekitimanalways(m): 3:32pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
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| Health › Re: I Can't Smell Or Taste Anything, Please Help by ekitimanalways(m): 4:11am On Jun 15, 2020 |
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| Health › Re: I Can't Smell Or Taste Anything, Please Help by ekitimanalways(m): 8:52am On Jun 07, 2020 |
lastchild:
Since 2 days now I just realized that I can't smell nor taste anything,no scent, no odour, no taste, this morning I poured 1 full spoon of salt inside my mouth but couldn't taste anything
am healthy, I don't have any headache nor malaria but I don't just know what is going on
Doctors in the house please help I am afraid you're exhibiting one of the symptoms of Coronavirus. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman & His Wife, Lizzy Celebrate 16th Wedding Anniversary (Photo) by ekitimanalways(m): 3:55pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
JasonScoolari:
I really love this man...
He doesn't even have time to spare for his numerous haters. When God makes you so happy you won't have time to worry about your numerous haters.  |
| Romance › Re: My Ex-boyfriend Sent Me Money by ekitimanalways(m): 3:08pm On May 27, 2020 |
Genset:
My ex-boyfriend just me money out of the blues, should i be worried? We broke up since the beginning of the year and haven't spoken since then. All of a sudden he texted me asking for my account number and then sent me money. It's just weird. Your state of confusion makes me sadder than dancing with my pastors' daughters.  |
| Health › Re: I'm Ready To Sue One Of The Biggest Private Hospital In Lagos by ekitimanalways(m): 2:22pm On May 24, 2020 |
jagaban002:
Take am easy no sue them because of cream , they may be a mistake and no one is above That . Your comment makes me sadder than dancing with my neighbour's sister.  |
| Romance › Re: Can You Sponsor Your Girlfriend Or Fiancee In School? by ekitimanalways(m): 1:41pm On May 22, 2020 |
Johntemmy:
As stated on the topic.. Can you do it? ... a bull's horn I dare not take... |
| Agriculture › Re: My New Tomatoes Farm by ekitimanalways(m): 5:40pm On May 20, 2020 |
veggieman2be:
At Last! after all the read up here on Nairaland and other sources including from real farmers I decided to open this trend to show off my own step by step practicals on tomato cultivation.
I will need assistance in terms of what to do when there are issues as the journey of my
tomatoes moves on because is going to be live with pictures of activities and progress.
I want to thank @Jidestroud for inspiring me both on NL and Whatsapp
Also @Okoroemeka the pepperman.
@Ogbongenet
@Olamimo12
@Jethro2
@pistotito the analyst
And numerous others.
Your advice would be appreciated. May the herdsmen and their cows not locate your farm. This is my sincere prayer... |
| Travel › Re: Nigeria Airways: The Nigerian Picture That Will Bring Tears To Your Eyes by ekitimanalways(m): 6:54pm On May 16, 2020 |
sarrki:
Nigeria hostess in 1973, Nigeria leaders are among the best in the world. They have turned Nigeria airways to a super intercontinental carrier with 1500 destination across the globe, generating 150 billion naira yearly and providing jobs to 10,000 Nigerians, Kenya and Ethiopia, South Africa and the United Arab Emirates have indicated interest in learning the magic industrious Nigerians, now the towering pride of the black world. Nigeria ain't worth my tears! |
| Career › Re: Ghanaian Nurse Who Twerked In Her Uniform Declared Wanted By Nurses Association by ekitimanalways(m): 10:21am On May 16, 2020 |
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| Culture › Re: Who Knows Any Igbo Name That Starts With Letter P? by ekitimanalways(m): 9:49pm On May 14, 2020 |
Loris576:
Who knows any igbo name that starts with Letter 'P' and the meaning
I need am Parachukwu. |
| Family › Re: What Secret Is My Husband Hiding? by ekitimanalways(m): 4:22pm On May 12, 2020 |
Tasha7:
Hello, I am a black woman born and raised in North America and married to an Igbo man. We have been in a long distance relationship for the majority of our relationship. We got married almost 2 years ago while still long distance and he recently immigrated to Canada in Jan 2020 under the spousal sponsorship. He has a wonderful bond with my mother and sisters. (my father has passed). I have met his family and we get along very well.
Everything was going well until I was looking up something in the search history of the laptop we both share and stumbled across emails he had recently accessed. Please note, I could not read the email itself, I could only see the subject lines in the search history. I will attach pictures if possible. It wasn't a normal email account like yahoo or Gmail. It was from a website called: Roundcube webmail. I had never heard of it before. Anyway, there were a bunch of emails forwarded from a hotel in Istanbul where people were being asked to pay their outstanding hotel bill (unfortunately I didn't take a screenshot of the hotel stuff). In addition to that, there were emails to 2 different women (named Wendy and Elizabeth) with the subjects: re: Thank you for written, re: back from customs baby, re: I am so happy our paths have crossed re: I am writing you with much sadness in my heart etc. I will try to attach the screenshots I took.
Lastly, within the same search history, my husband seemed to have been looking up songs like: 'what songs make a woman feel confident about herself' and 'what if I never get over you', and 'songs that make a woman feel beautiful'.
I confronted my husband that same night. It was 2am. He was already sleeping. I woke him up bc I wanted to catch him off guard. His explanation was that his friend in Cyprus had a bad internet connection and asked him (my husband) to look up something in his friends email account. He insisted that he had no idea what his friend was up to, as it was none of his business. In the process of me confronting him, he grabbed the laptop from me and deleted the search history. I told him that was making him look real guilty and I started packing my things to leave. He pleaded and insisted it had nothing to do with him, it was his friends email account blah blah blah. I wanted to believe him but some things just didn't add up...like why was he looking up those songs if he was just checking his friends email for him? His only saving grace was that the subject lines were written with poor grammar and my husband has excellent English speaking and writing skills.
Fast forward a few weeks later, my husband left the bathroom to put out the garbage and accidentally left his phone in the bathroom playing music. This is significant because he has never parted from his phone from the day he arrived. He sleeps with his phone beside him. He showers and uses the bathroom with his phone beside him. When he cooks, he keeps his phone beside him. The day in question, I went into the bathroom and locked the door shortly after he left the bathroom. Side note: I only lock the door bc sometimes he jokingly sneaks up on me to scare me while I am in the shower, so to avoid being snuck up on, I sometimes lock the door. I digress. I commenced using the bathroom when I noticed that hubby left his phone on the side of the bathtub with Nigerian gospel music blasting. I was shocked! It was the first time he was separated from his phone! I didn't touch his phone and started using the bathroom. Within 15 seconds, my husband started knocking on the door saying he really needed to use the bathroom and wanted me to open the door. He was saying he really needed to pee. I asked him to hold a minute, because I was on the toilet. He said he didn't believe me and then things escalated from there. He started pounding really hard on the bathroom door, demanding that I open the door because he really needed to pee. He was eventually pounding so hard and yelling to the point where he started to lose his voice! I was freaked out! I told him to hold on and I would be done in a minute! But he wouldn't listen and eventually broke open the bathroom door by force...there is literally a large crack down the bathroom door now. I was shocked. Beyond words. Once he broke down the door, he quickly did a scan of the bathroom and saw his cellphone was right where he left it. I didn't touch it. Then he was more calm. He then reiterated that he really needed to pee and went into the shower, pulled the curtain and turned on the water.
I started freaking out. I started yelling telling him that he was a liar and if there was any doubt in my mind he was hiding something, I need not doubt it anymore! He broke down the bathroom door NOT because he really nedded to pee, but because he was so terrified I was going to snoop through his phone! Of course he denied it. He was saying that if that was the case, the first thing he would have done is grab his phone. I responded saying that he's not stupid, if he grabbed his phone first, it would have made him look guilty. After that blow up, we stopped talking to each other for days...
And here I am today. If anyone could provide me insight into what is going on, I would be so appreciative. What is this hotel stuff and what are these msgs to multiple women? I am thinking he may be involved in a 419 scam or his friend is a yahoo boy....but why is he using such poor grammar when he speaks and writes excellent English?
I am so stressed over all of this that it is literally consuming my every thought. My husband only denies everything and gets defensive then ignores me if I keep pushing for answers. Outside of this incident he is incredibly loving and affectionate and treats my mother so well. He cares so much about what she thinks of him.
I have turned to this forum with the hopes that someone would have more insight into what is going on. Thank you so much to anyone who has taken the time to read this very long post and respond. I truly appreciate it. Again, I attached photos, but scratched out names just in case.
Thank you,
Tasha Hire a private detective and keep your fingers crossed. |
| Romance › Re: The Craziest Thing Your Partner Has Ever Asked You To Do? by ekitimanalways(m): 10:47pm On May 09, 2020 |
kaymicxy:
There was this girl I was dating in secondary school, and I use to help them wash their water tank just to be closer to their family..
Av tried several times to bleep this girl but she had always been reluctant, untill one day she agreed but the problem is where to do it.
Then suddenly, I remembered that there was this old reservoir tank they were no longer using so I persuaded her to climb it that I will join her in the next 10 mins, so as to keep watch. She did then i joined her.
But unfortunately, while we were busy enjoying ourselves, we did know that someone actually saw us and removed the ladder we used to climb..
Till today I can't forget the shame and embarrassment we faced that day... |
| Romance › Re: The Craziest Thing Your Partner Has Ever Asked You To Do? by ekitimanalways(m): 10:42pm On May 08, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:
This one guy I was dating was a biter, which I really didn't like, so I'd fiercely object to being bitten because I bruise easily & needless to say, it's painful/weird. He was so into it, that he wouldn't be able to climax unless he bit me & since that was out of the question, he'd ask me to bite him instead. So every time we'd get to it, I'd have to ready my teeth for a salty bite. It made me to dislike salt & vinegar flavoured chips because that's what he tasted like The fetish is called odaxelagnia. |
| Romance › Re: The Craziest Thing Your Partner Has Ever Asked You To Do? by ekitimanalways(m): 10:34pm On May 08, 2020 |
Dreyton36:
There was this girl I met on Facebook, I was in Dubai then
Base on some cars that I shipped home , I decided to spend some time with her
I invited her over to an hotel make man bleep small cuz Arab countries ehn , woman na gold
You must owe better money before you go bleeep confirm one
So, she came to the hotel , trust me John Thomas don already stand
As she bend for doggy, my favourite position, I slide into her DM
Mehn that horrible smell like Pomo water wey them soak for 2yrs
I no free pull out so that she no go feel embarrassed
I continue Las Las na so tears just they drop for my face like oppressed houseboy
She even get mind they shout Bleep me harder, na so the tears they rush for my eyes
After that day i block her |
| Politics › Re: Today Is 8th Of May And Most Federal Agencies Haven't Received April Salary. by ekitimanalways(m): 4:19pm On May 08, 2020 |
mistacoco2:
What is really happening, since this year government takes time before paying workers salary, this is 8 of May and FG workers haven't received April salary. What is really delaying the salary. I guess COVID-19 is the cause... |
| Romance › Re: What Has Love Made You Do That Annoys You Anytime You Remember? by ekitimanalways(m): 1:18am On May 07, 2020 |
penisilin:
Like someone said - it has been flogged very very well but women matter will continue to flog men as long as them still get yansh and bleast cool.
One of my many mumuness.
It was 2000, I was very young (after SSCE) and had a girl crushing on me but for reasons known to only God & devil, I just no send the babe.
But for the mumuness in me, I was seriously pursuing one yeye girl because of her yansh so tey in my bid to win her favor, I took a family cherished flask and made a sumptuous chocolate beverage with bread and sardine (from money I fapped from my sister) for her on a rainy day.
I told her from our balcony that I was coming with the goodies and she beckoned on me to come quickly. Only for me to reach her house, she asked to carry the flask follow her until we reach her boyfriend house angry. She jumped on him and said "Thank you Ola, shebi you have given me the flask" and they shut the door while I was standing there and smiling like Ganduje.
Anger no gree me sleep for 2 days |
| Romance › Re: What Has Love Made You Do That Annoys You Anytime You Remember? by ekitimanalways(m): 1:15am On May 07, 2020 |
[quote author=julieeni post=89141395]  I'm over it now, at least I didn't give in to thoughts of commiting suicide  I used to hate him and wish him death, but not anymore because I have forgiven him and I wish him well, but he will never see his son again.[/quote] You're still bitter... |
| Health › Re: What Are Those Things You Have Stopped Doing Because Of Coronavirus? by ekitimanalways(m): 6:37am On May 06, 2020 |
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| Health › Re: Gombe COVID-19 Patients Protest Over Inadequate Medical Attention, Block Highway by ekitimanalways(m): 4:34pm On May 05, 2020 |
bigiyaro:
funny how sick people have the energy to destroy people's property and block road, when they are complaining of hunger. |
