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I think I would reply
Yes, I'll take care of you so well that you be coming for me everytime.

Martinez39s:
Look at husbands that have been super kind to their wives and have tolerated "equality" in their household (to the extent of assisting in the house chores even though they pay the bills), and look at those that have been dominate and ruled as alpha males. Is there any difference in the way they are treated by their wives when they grow broke and their wives are now making massive money? NO! Forget about what a woman will think of men, she will always do what she wants whether you have been helpful or not. Treat them accordingly and appropriately, and don't die or inconvenience yourself trying to please or protect a woman.

You are not getting my point at all. If you go through my intial comments you will see I have been advocating putting your needs first, don't sacrifice yourself.
What I'm against is saying you can never help a girl.

I was on a queue and the next in line to use the ATM. A pretty lady came up to me ask if she could use the machine that she has somewhere urgent to go. I had to tell her to join the queue not because she would have told me the same if I was in her position but my first priority was to use the machine any other thing is irrelevant to me.

She later told me that she will have her revenge, one day I will need her help and she will do the same thing( crazy bitch)

Read this story

The European scientist Eibl-Eibesfeldt (1975) provides the account of a
German soldier during World War I whose job was to capture enemy soldiers for
interrogation. Because of the nature of the trench warfare at that time, it was extremely
difficult for armies to cross the no-man's-land between opposing front lines, but it was
not so difficult for a single soldier to crawl across and slip into an enemy trench position. The armies of the Great War had experts who regularly did so to
capture enemy soldiers, who would then be brought back for questioning. The German
expert had often successfully completed such missions in the past and was sent on
another. Once again, he skillfully negotiated the area between fronts and surprised a
lone enemy soldier in his trench. The unsuspecting soldier, who had been eating at the
time, was easily disarmed. The frightened captive, with only a piece of bread in his
hand, then performed what may have been the most important act of his life. He gave
his enemy some of the bread. So affected was the German by this gift that he could not
complete his mission. He turned from his benefactor and recrossed the no-man's-land
empty-handed to face the wrath of his superiors.

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Miggs:
Many of you guys simply dont get it.If you were in a similar situation the lady was in,she would NEVER have asissted you even if she had a billion in her bag.Infact she would have been disgusted by you asking her for help.For goodness sake,start treating these women how they treat you men

This is a slippery slope she might, she might not but that doesn't matter. Two wrongs don't make a right.

I will use the umbrella case to illustrate, let's imagine after the girl goes home, she says ”Because a guy refused to help me today I decide never to help a guy again". Then the next day a guy asked her for a favor which is within her power to do but she refuses because she doesn't help guys. Now the guy goes home and says the same thing...

You see where this is going, it's completely irrational.

Mandela27:
I would av helped only if she is one of my bros.
Sorry i can't do that for some manipulative entitled persons.Let her go to hell,if You think I did bad,You can excort her.thank u.

No need for insults. I can't judge if what you did is right or wrong. Just know Red pill is not misogyny

Mandela27:
I would av helped but needed to be comfortable under my umbrella .

You shouldn't explain the reason for your actions to anyone, it is your umbrella you can do whatever you want with it.

But I can tell you are in the anger stage of the red pill awakening you need to get past it. There is no crime in helping a woman as long as you are not sacrificing your needs.

Mandela27:
I would help a bro under the rain over and over again,but I'd never help a girl.

You need to calm down bro, I know one of the unfortunate stages of red pill awakening is anger at womanhood. You need to get past this stage if you want progress in the red pill.

It's like a white man saying he can't help someone else if he is black. You can help as long as you put your needs/self first.

Mandela27:
Indeed!
Lol..it was raining heavily last saturday's morning,one girl(tho fair and pretty)ran under my umbrella without my permission..jeeez! I asked her if she asked me before coming,she said yea she told me,meanwhile she didn't.so i told her i'm not comfortable that she should leave...lol,I didnt even care when I saw her running like a mad bitch under the rain..
Unlike me of before,I'd form gentle man and see a girl under rain and tell her to come join me under my small umbrella..

I was loseguarding!Giving girls sweet treats they dont deserve..

Calm down bro. I believe you wouldn't have lost anything if you helped. The Redpill isn't about being heartless, think about it.

Greengrazz12:
I don read book tire it just Don't work

If you have read the book then you should know that you shouldn't compensate.

It shows that you feel you are not adequate or good enough for them. Stop being a provider, you will see an improvement in your problem.

Genuine desire can't be negotiated.

I don't have strenght to type.
Go and read "The Rational Male" by Rollo tomassi. Thank me later.

Read this

https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/11/of-love-and-war/


https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/

Macro231101:
thanks for the link. Just a glimpse I'm already hooked.. Let me go back and finished reading it

You are welcome bro. Use the knowledge wisely.

Peace

Macro231101:
it was last month I asked her if she was a virgin she said she doesn't know, can u imagine a girl of more than 20yrs doesn't know if she is a V or not..

Hmm...Anyways let me check if I still have any red pill left in my bag.


Aha!
https://therationalmale.com/2020/03/03/your-mission-her-mission/

I have a redpill for you
https://therationalmale.com/2012/06/04/final-exam-navigating-the-smp/

I got two redpills to take the blues away.

masculineprinciple..com/2015/03/youre-such-tool.html?m=1


https://therationalmale.com/2018/08/01/blue-pill-trauma/

Bonus: https://therationalmale.com/2019/09/03/selective-breeding/

Ride on bro

Ariza:
Lol Rollo Tomassi is right. And you are only confirming my points with that quote. The game (redpill) is only a game. It is what it is. You the player determines how and how well you want it played. Meaning Redpill is only Redpill, You determine how much you take and it's effect on you.

Bam! Very good.
My problem was with this your initial comment and i quote

"If Redpill can be preached sanely with no extreme, it will be of great impact in the society"

I mistook it as you insinuating a good/dark side of the redpill.

Yes there will be people who will try to mask their dark personalities with the redpill. The redpill should be taught all the same.

When you train a person to use a gun, you have control over what they do with the gun while still in training.
What they do right after, that you have no control over. But you teach them to protect themselves.

FlordFlorez:
Chai, what a devilish statement. She has ended up promoting it. Fathers f**king their daughters and sons f**king their mothers or siblings f**king theirselves. This's barbaric, ill-bred, ill-mannered and ill-civilized.

Bro stop typing rubbish. She was talking about gender roles. Learn to comprehend.

Ariza:
I believe in Fairness. In all dealings be fair, no one should be used. As for masculine attributes I consider toxic... Toxicity isn't a gender thing to me. Both genders can be toxic, perhaps you may want to rephrase your question.

I will rephrase my question. What part of the redpill do you consider extreme/toxic.
And do you regard it toxic to the individual or to the society.


You already know the redpill is a response to what feminism has evolved into.

It might seem counterintuitive but there is nothing like extreme redpill. The redpill is the redpill. But I desire to know what teachings of the redpill you don't quite resonate with.

"
There is only Game and the degree to which you accept it
and are comfortable in using
it in the context that you
define.
" — Rollo Tomassi.

Ariza:
Can we say same for feminism?


BTW there's a difference between Toxic Masculinity and Real Masculinity. And I'm a propagator of Moderation and Balance. I hope you understand my point.

We are talking about being male. Feminism is about equal rights (or so they say)

I don't see how extreme it can get.

What masculine attributes do you consider toxic.

Ariza:
If Redpill can be preached sanely with no extreme ,it will be of great impact in the society. Because the truth is, Women are no longer at that position society used to have them. Women have evolved and with the way things are only the fittest will survive.

There is nothing like extreme, the truth is the truth unedited. It's either you take it or continue living a lie.

kingkoboko:
Simple! Jst force simps 2read THE RATIONAL MALE by Rollo Tomassi

I learnt many things from that book.

The problem is some guys are uninformed (society has programmed them to behave that way) and don't like to read. If you have the book pass it down to your male friends that can help a lot.


But I recommend you read

masculineprinciple..com/2015/03/the-masculine-principle-table-of.html?m=1

before The Rational Male.

So in summary, you want her to be a feminist?

The point the guy was trying to make just flew over your head.
This is why comprehension is taught in school.

Redwater666:
I'm learning so much from him, i was empty but he gave me ideas and encouraged me to start my business which I'm making serious profit from, he's intelligent, business minded and really cool + cute but I'm afraid I'm not even the right one for him because I'm not in his league intellectually, swag etc etc But we've been friends for years...

(edited, added paragraphs for easy readability)

Hypergamy at work. You don't really love the guy.

My best advice is tell a mutual friend (a guy) to convince him to ask you out (let him not know you sent the guy).
Never ask a guy out directly, it will end in tears.

But it is better to stay friends with him, your relationship with last longer.

Or read about "Sirens" in Art of Seduction

Stop masturbating, that shit ain't worth it seriously .

Herodutus:
Please guys and ladies, this is not just another how to stop watching porn kind of thread. there is this experience i have been having over time now. Most times when am watching ponography, i often feel a sharp cut on my skin, as though a person use a blade to cut me. When the cutting happens, i will feel the sharp pain and when i look, the lines will be fresh and redish.
At times, i can feel this cut at 3 difz

Yes I have observed it too. Like thin line. But I always notice mine when i'm about to bath by that time it has already clotted.

Now that i'm abstaining, I don't notice it again.

Stephenmoka4:
I think I'll try that, I'm good at handling rejection (just in case), I'm a pessimistic person, so I can get over it.

Being pessimistic has it's advantages, that is you'd hardly get disappointed. But you need to be optimistic that girls will like to meet you.

Sometimes what you call rejection is resistance that is why you need to persist. Don't take no for an answer. But don't go overboard, if you persist and she still says no then that is rejection, just divert your attention to someone else.

Stephenmoka4:
Oh, then number 3 is my problem. here. 1. is like 59% and 2 is likely to be 95%+ according to the definition there but, 3 is likely to be 30% of control/dominance/charge. Reason is that I don't want to be seen as a jerk, player or trying to take advantage of...

And yet players have better luck. I'm not saying you should be a player in fact if they sense you are one they will put up more resistance.

Doing no. 3 shows you are confident and that you want them and they want to feel wanted.

Besides that you are attracted to someone doesn't mean they are right for you. You have to keep sampling till you find the one

Stephenmoka4:
More like the opposite of me
I'm
1. Somewhat shy, not much.
2. I am not really a stylish person, If that's what charming means.
3. I'm more of a laid-back guy and like people who takes control.

From what I know.

Shyness is not so exactly opposite to confidence, they are considered as near antonyms. The stricter antonym of confidence is self-doubt.

1. To be confident takes more than not being shy. To be confident you need to be dominant, shameless, optimistic, selfish, ambitious, feel important, not feeling inadequate, never seek approval etc.

2. Charming is the ability to make people around you feel good about themselves. When you are around people they get positive vibe. To be charming you need to be happy, caring, funny, protective, selective etc

3. Well you need to change. A girl will expect you to take charge so you won't see them as cheap. That is they expect you to approach, go for first kiss, isolate them, initiate sex, persist etc.

When you lead they can just follow along, and in case things they are caught doing something they are not "supposed" to do, they
can blame it on someone else, specifically, you.

MOnkeyBabe:
so this is what you have been doing with my pics. No wonder you refused to call me over.

So you decided to follow me here. Nice try.
I still won't call you.

MOnkeyBabe:
what is Pomo?

Pomo is Cow skin

PMO is "Porn Masturbation Orgasm"