₦airaland Forum

pansophist:
A simple trick you can use to determine if she is paying is to ask playfully that she has hammer, since she has decided to take you out. If her response is in the affirmative, then go and chop.

If not, them decide if she is worth bearing the expense. When dealing with women generally, always make sure that your responsibility comes with authority.

Don't ever carry any responsibility, while she enjoys both authority and privilege. You're not a slave. I'll give an example.

So if you ask a girl out, then it means you're spending. Thats the norm. Since you have the responsibility to spend, then you should have the authority to pick where you can afford.

Now imagine if she has the authority to pick a place you can't afford, or bring friends along, leaving all the financial responsibility on you, then you're no different from a slave.

If you watch classic movies, it's always the man that go pick the girl, and he chooses the place they go to, and he pays. The idea that a woman choose a place, invited you, and you paid is very wrong. Never accept such.

And that power imbalance from the start will haunt you, since you can't negotiate from a place of weakness. Accepting responsibilities without authority is how lots of men ended up being a simp, without knowing.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Big men don't complain. But you see these kurukere boys ehn, their wahala is too much . This is not me supporting what she did but there's too much complains over irrelevant things

AchrafHakimi:
Nice.
Hyenas and vultures need food too.

bentenny:
Those onlookers should have rushed the guy to the hospital instead of taking pictures!
The guy's life was just ebbing away without them knowing!
Just 2 minutes could be a difference between life and death!
As for the keke driver,as much as I do not advocate jingle justice,information that I received from my contacts at bayelsa is that few locals at different communities in that state have recently been killed in their farm by Fulani herdsmen and nothing had been done about it from the security!
Not even a single arrest and the perpetrators move as if nothing happened!
When you allow impunity to continue unabated,you are simply telling the people to resort to self help which is what was witnessed yesterday!

Germi9:
They gathered around him and were snapping photos,nobody tried to take him to the hospital

lailo:
Abokis are peaceful people.He wouldn't just stab without excessive provocation. Probably a defence mechanism. Do investigation and u will find out, it is the Aboki who was a victim here

Ijaya123:
And they could do is carry phone and snap pictures instead of rushing him to the hospital.

People are only using smartphones but they are actually daft

Scores of Tricycle has been set ablaze after an unidentified driver from the Northern part of Nigeria allegedly stabbed a man to death over N50 dispute in Yenegoa, the capital city of Bayelsa State.

Abacityblog's correspondent gathered that the incident occurred along Saptex junction in Yenegoa, Bayelsa state.

The victim who is identified as ThankGod Douglas, an indigene of Yenizue-Epie Town in Yenagoa LGA of Bayelsa State, was stabbed to death by a keke driver believed to be from the Northern Nigeria.

According to available information, the passenger and the driver had misunderstanding over N50 difference which angered the Keke driver who brought out a dagger and stabbed the passenger to death.

It was learnt that the victim had boarded keke from a short distanced location and getting to his location, paid the Hausa driver N50. But the driver bluntly rejected the money and insisted he must complete it to N100.

Unfortunate for the driver, he killed his victim within his hometown so youths around the area who identified him quickly rushed to the scene and mobbed the killer keke driver to death on the spot.

The Deceased on refusing to complete it to N100 lead to his timely death when the Driver took off a locally made Knife under the seat of his tricycle and stabbed him.

It was also gathered that the youth also transferred their aggression to other Hausa tricycle drivers in the area, burning huge scores of tricycle while destroying cars which plied along the road.

The youths in their numbers have been going from street to street within the Okaka and Yenizue-Epie areas, destroying any property perceived to be "aboki" property.

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!!


My heartfelt condolence goes to my senior colleague in the industry.

This is my biggest fear, when I finally blow make my mama no go kpaii even though she no encourage my music , I want to show her she was wrong and spoil her with my music money. That apart she try small for me no be small!

mmadu5:
poverty mentality . you hardly see Dangote or Otedola and the rest flaunting cash on social media. this is simply immaturity who is he trying to impress?

CilicMarin:
I hope the military are on standby...

N3TRAL:
Section 299 of the constitution says that for the purpose of interpretation of the Constitution, the FCT is regarded as a State.

The implication is that:

The FCT is a State but given a name.

Since the FCT is given a name by the drafts men, it won't be right to say 37 states.

However, the name is 36 States and the FCT. It simply means 37 states.

Tinubu has met the requirements.

The court has affirmed that position and the constitution is clear.

Urheadmaster:
#100,000

The man couldn't claim he was going to buy fuel

Teeroyzimma:
bros if you can afford whatever you want you have made it, which one be you're not there yet

And is there any online thing wey u dey do to make money?

joyousever:
Your sixth sense should notify you that your current age(26) will rarely get you a financially independent lady that's younger than you are! Most Nigerian adies within your age bracket are either in school, seeking admission, just graduated or hunting for jobs. So all you need do is to remain single till you find a working class/ independent lady.
Cheers..

Thank you so much. This is the best advice I've every gotten here. I'm indeed grateful

BRATISLAVA:
Clearly he doesn't want to be single. It's why he's come up with the usual thread. But he's still so wounded that it's good he's keeping away from women.

Some people never heal. They are captives of their past.

A lot of men want a hundred percent lady. Truth is, he's not up to what he's looking for in anyone else. He's better off buying a doll or making the lady out of clay.

dake40:
You're the thief and irrational leech here, dude just stated his standards and you're here ranting like ekuke. Only a leech and a broke girl will react like this.

Nursepepeye:
you are a gold digger. That's just what you are, I can bet you got nothing only who you want to decieve. You can not even take a simple responsibility? Not all broke girls demand your money but you all out for rich ladies money. Gold digger thief you are

peter0071:
we have single ladies that aint broke bro..... money and good character is perfect

jared007:
I believed in Kwanwaso but he doesn't believe in himself. He's not in the race to win because he's not campaigning. He hasn't campaigned in Southern Nigeria.

Modestanewsreel:
So the children laughing in the background used mic too? Everything don be skit for una when you watch too much skit.

You think it was recorded with all those palasa phones wey you know? Abeg shift!