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So u nor knw say u go lov wt ur head bfor,u get moni to dey dash gf,hope u dey do ur parents well,d only prt i enjoyed is wen u colect d fone bak

PrinceBBlack:
Well for me, i had a girl who i met in 2016. She is currently in her final year and i work with Nigerian Breweries in Enugu. I give this babe a monthly allowance of 50k while she doesnt even get 10k from being that her parents are in the village and he uncle gives her schoolfees.
First, i realized that i loved her so much with my heart that i forgot to use my head. I had a car accident in 2017. i was in the hospital for four months and then relocated to Ibadan where i was till september in 2018 where i was recouperating getting ready for a final surgery. I got her an Iphone X in that same september. In october, i told her that i was no longer getting salary that i wont be able to keep up with the 50k allowance but i could still manage 25k. Do u believe this girl said she cant come to Ibadan cos its far to visit and that i reduced the allowance i give her that what is 25k going to do for her. She finally said if i cant carry out my duty as a bf, that i should let her be. Well it was easy for me... i could part with the money but i personally sent someone to collect the Iphone X i bought for her and told her that the phone isnt my problem but she is an ungrateful piece of a person. Broke up with her and the phone is still in my wardrobe with full accessories since its not up to 1month i bought it waiting for the next person. I didnt love with my head but loved with my heart. If u dont take care of them, na war, if u do, na still wahala.

PrinceBBlack:
yes you have realized ur mistake but truth is u have realized ur errors so move on. The true man is waiting for you out there only if u happen to be true with urself. That ur not with him means he is not eveb the one but just a memoir for you to realize ur misdeeds and become a better person.

she didnt post this for solution, she only ask ppo to share experience, nobi to cm dey form 1tin here,share ur own

Adebowale89:
I learnt that, going extra mile to satisfy a partner doesn't worth it.

After my always meeting up. my ex biitch was never satisfy so I let go of her till she met her Waterloo that she's still nursing for years


Don't go extra mile to satisfy a lady and stop spending on a lady you don't see future with.

personal advice, dnt try it even if u c d girl as future wife,ntin is certain untill it is certain

Smtyms plan b dey purge,beta stil to 1,if e crash e crash because God mk am crash,beta pray to God to crash ny false gf,dan for u to av a plan b n brk her hrt

Brugo:
Don’t let her know that you love her very much. She would take you for granted.

Also, always have a plan B girl around the corner.

The reason a lot of young ladies don’t have sense is because they are young.

As much as I hate to say this, learn to control your babe. Manipulate her to do your bidding and reward her when she acts accordingly. Women don’t want an understanding easy going guy. They love bosses.

chiefqueen:
I've been in a relationship with only myself since I was born. I learnt that I need to start loving other people besides me. Single bell �, single all the way...

chief liar

How do u view dp here n chat dm up?

Itzurboi:
Please, is dat u on ur dp...

How do u view smbdy dp here ,n chat dem up

Itzurboi:
Please, is dat u on ur dp...

The God of lov no gree gimi better girl,d last tym ,she used my as pilow case,n na den she tel me my bf is d lov of my life a because she c d guy as a husband,ntin i no hear,a lil bit pained,bt i don forget
Bt now shes cmin bak after 4yrs,
I don get experience in dealin wit mst girls
Been single rocks,no disturbances [/size][size=8pt]

c ur name,nun say spare u dat wetin dm 1 spare

husbandsnatcha:
Spare me dat ,not all

foooool

Aku2078:
Make a woman fall inlove with you...all her initial shakara will just vanish, she will still let you drill her hole, even in her point of death

Which kind name u dey bear so

NaijaOlosho:
BUHARI call your boys to order na

This is getting too much

Me am afraid oo

meaning

IkpuMmadu:
Build it ! People are building seriously in East...akụ ruo uno at the end of the day

Dude it's for air to enter dier body,

DeLaRue:
Who took off their skirts/trousers.

Some things are so wrong.

Where's the dignity for the dead

Wen dis girls wer unconscious, some ppo 1 thief dier fone

Acordiin to wat they said,they wer still breathing for 25 minutes, no motor gree take them to hospital, d girl on black,her head press go insyd,if una c d scene,nobi how una c am

Jesus,I was der wen dey brought them to ekp an General hospital, this thing happened at Niger cat junction, when I come dey c how d mum dey shout for hospital hen,I just go corner dey cry,cold catch me dat day,I saw dier bodies,but y we no get ambulance, if not them for survive

PrettyCrystal:
The untimely deaths of two best friends and namesake who were killed in a fatal accident few days ago in Lagos, have left their families and friends devastated.

The young ladies identified as Gloria, were reportedly on a motorcycle on Monday, December 31st, when they were hit by an SUV, according to reports. 

The ladies were said to have died on the spot following the impact of the accident and injuries sustained in the process. 

Their corpses have since been deposited at the morgue.

Friends and colleagues of the deceased have also taken to social media to mourn their loses. 

May their souls rest in peace. 

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/01/two-female-best-friends-killed-in-a-fatal-accident-in-lagos.html

Neva been in a relationship, wetin u cm dey use ur love do since,plus u bid help from God cos it's the spirit of anger that is with you,who tell u say u don't need a spiritual help,my guy as far as life is concern,all most everything has spirit, shey u know,pray to God for the grace to let go

Alpha001:
Happy new year NL.
I am posting this here because i really need help and i know a lot of people visit this section. Please i need urgent help as i don't want to continue like this in this 2019. Don't come and start insulting me please.

My problem is that i easily get angry and my anger doesn't go away easily. Very little things make me angry. Things that are not supposed to make me angry.
I can live in a room with a person for one year or even more without saying a word to the person just because he/she angered or did something bad to me.

I'm a quiet guy. People say i'm an introvert. I always try my best to avoid trouble. I am in my mid twenties buy have never been in a relationship.

This my problem of easily getting angry and keeping malice has been troubling me. I don't like it but still can't stop it. It is affecting my relationship with my family and close friends. And how can i even go into a relationship with this issue i'm having.
I find it very difficult to completely forgive.
I always envy those who are sociable and who don't easily get angry. I always wish to be like them.

Please i need your help/advice. Please this is not a spiritual problem, so don't start telling me about deliverance.
I would appreciate if this can be moved to the front page.
Thanks.

They said to stat a blog,u nid 50k for site design, how much u 1 dey make frm am,
n also I wana own na site wer people can download movie frm,how e dey work?

A girl dat comes out to say something like dis tells u much abt her,dat she's well brought up n she discipline herself to hustle well,I have much respect for u,are u in delta?

Kenfil:
Lemme tell u this, no man is obligated to give money to a woman they are not married to. If u r dating someone they should at least have small change to care for their needs, then if u wanna help out then great if not don't let any lazy girl bully u into becoming their father Christmas. Please find women and men who are willing to contribute in ur lives and I bet u they are out there. Thank u

Hahahahhahahaha, guy don't be so open to tell her how much u earn,cos as u r telling her,rty in front of u,she don calculated her share,naso dm b,after going tru n seeing what most girls do,I just prefer to be single and it has been so sweet been single

stubbornman:
No dey cover up for her abeg Shebi she show you her salary alert abi no be wetin she tell you wey you go believe

You're not her side hustle!!! she doesn't have the rights to your pocket!!

was in a relationship like that early this year it really drained me bro... Babe was always waiting for month to end whether something go drop she even wanted to know the exact amount I was being paid , I thought we were gonna settle down but guess what this girl came sometime around October that she is liking someone else..... it was damn obvious , the changes were glaring.... I painfully ended the relationship !
Most painful part was that she wasn't even remorseful about the whole thing !!!

But I'm fine now.... I learnt my lesson but unless a woman Worth's it she will never eat my 1naira again... I'd rather spend on old friends (male and female) or family member!!

just be careful bro and end it peacefully while you can .... No allow love turn your thinking!

Finally, I c somebody thinking what am thinking, Jan bless

Qtsnow:
Do not give her any weekly or monthly allowance until you both are married, it is not your responsibility as a boyfriend, else if you have plans to marry her soon. That doesn't mean you are stingy, I think she's just being smarter than you. I repeat do not give her shishi.
Let me scold you small, have/did you spent that kind of money on your mum at a go.

Love with your senses,you dey shower with expensive things,I'm sure you can't do d same for ur family members, some guys sha

limbolimbo:
I recently showed interest in a neighbour of mine, I know she likes me, but she is a very traditional person, she wants us to go through the full cycle before anything further. But something started giving me a reason to worry about here mindset towards relationships.

She celebrated her birthday last month, and I got her a very expensive wrist watch, it cost me 94k, she doesn't know this. I also got her a really nice cake, cost me 10k, so in all I spent over a hundred thousand on her birthday. I know for some this may not seem like much or may seem like too much, I think what really matters is tat I was fine with it and could afford it. Within the same period, she would indirectly ask me for funds, she said she was broke, I could have helped her with this but I felt it was way above my position, as I am only a "To Be Boyfriend", to offer her all this after spending a 100k on gifts for her birthday. The only thing I can tell u is dat,u should love with your senses, n.a. d body wen cash u to dey buy expensive gift n.a. dey folo u so,n I'm sure u haven't given anybody in ur family dis kind of gift.....some guys sha

A week ago we had a very interesting discussion, about the role of the man and the woman in a relationship, she said that "A man should be responsible for the upkeep of his Girlfriend, he should save a portion from his salary monthly which he should give to his girlfriend for upkeep". I thought that was nonsense and I quickly called her out on it, all I can say now is that I don't think we would be dating anymore, because she took it very personally, she said she thinks she would suffer if she goes into a relationship with me, because I am already showing signs of being stingy.

If I keep writing I would not end, so my question here is, is she right? Should I have instead given her the cash rather than the gift? Because to me it now seems she doesn't see the value of the gift and would rather have cash. I want adult opinions please.

(Please note that I am not trying to paint this lady as an evil person, she is really sweet, loving, caring, she loves getting attention and doesn't have any problem in showing me how she really feels about me, overall she is a great lady.)

AbbeyDaniels:
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First, no person or institution can use the top level domain (TLD) .gov.NG. Only government institutions can (and in this case, Nigerian government institutions and/or parastatals). So you're free to go about the business the programme is meant for.

And secondly, the Federal Government recognizes the programme which means it is real and legit. So no qualms.

thanks man

ElNero:
Hahaha hahaha.... Like buhahahahaha. If I hear say na the culprits. �

my thoughts exactly

What are u sayin,wen u get married, use your husband do footwear, but u can't try it,nobi here u go take show ursef

Angela777:
I think it's not wrong to marry an old lady for a younger man. For centuries men are taking advantage marrying much younger ladies. Modern times, it's changing, specially in developed countries, women can work and support themselves and kids very well, women don't need a man for to get a decent living and nowadays only gold diggers are marrying much older men.

Also the nature makes a woman to be attractive being young and have children, fulfill her duties to raise them but sexually the woman develops late, sometimes very late (late blooming in white women, I don't know about other races) and when the woman can have sex at any age, many women become even better after menopause, men her age are not well in bed. Then it becomes, why an old widow or divorced woman needs to be married? She has her house, car, her income to live alone and she already knows from experience that marrying the man her age or older it's to be his nurse and caregiver, means more work for her taking care of him, even hard physical work if her man becomes sick. So many older women in America don't marry at all when old men are trying to chase them as they know, they live longer being married. And older women, finally realized, they can marry a younger man or date and still enjoy life being a woman.

Sounds more natural to me, men with age can't perform well in bed, women aging perform even better, younger men can enjoy good sex with older woman and even marry her if it suits both, maybe even younger man is helped in life by his older woman and work better, gets better job.

Times change, now many older women date or marry younger men. Old men can't make women fool and being submissive, his servant for life.

tiredoflife:
Ladies do all these nonsense
Yet call them sexual objects they get offended

Tweaking is now a job

cos it pays dm

EVILFOREST:
ASHAWO
Object of mere satisfaction to the men.
LADIES deserve to be treated the way they present themselves.
See her Nyansh like HANDFAN
She looks like this animal dey call “ IMPALA”

No MERCY

lefulefu:
cherookee d azz"s ukwu na im be ur preferred size?
bro do u want to die young?

OkaNaUbe:
Una two flat yansh! The minimum size I consider as big is Cherokee da azz. Every other sizes na flat screen.

Let's hear what lefulefu da ukwu man has to.say.

guy u b fowl oo,u b customer

spiritedtete:
What about a situation when you are on a queue(ATM) with a lady ...and suddenly the lady jumped the queue and you reminded her it's not her turn yet... The next things was Two resounding slaps from the lady. "Please my your business" she says.

I remember the guy was speechless and he left immediately.

However remember temperaments are different... But ladies shouldn't go about assaulting men .. because they feel it's improper for the man to hit them.

Personally the last time I had a scuffle was in J S S 2.

However... I don't pray my gentle patience should be tested... I hope I survive it... But one thing I know... I will still shoot from afar 1month after... Without you smelling me. So I stay very far from anything trouble...

However maturity had thought me to apologize even when I am not guilty... So our trouble can die a natural death.

But how far is too far... When your limit is over stretched... I pray people are not tested beyond their limit.

dont let ursef b fooled,if a girl givs u beta thunderstorm, ur e.y.e go clear,its easier said dan done,if sm section of ppo tinks ders no reason a man shud slap a woman,den ders no reason a woman shud slap a man.mk d woman respect hersef,dey form gentle jack der until dm slap ur personality

Wen a man slaps a woman,they say that the man haa no shame that he hit a woman,but if a woman slaps a man,she's a hero.....nygirl wen go try am wit me...if i c dat d reason for u slaping me is not justified.... I will give d girl Superman slap wen dey caryy persn burst wall

Tinz dey blog nowadays, if cleavages nor dey,bikini must dey