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Stunning beauty. Excellent brain too. Now that's the kinda girl I'd love to marry.

I can see that some people are pained. Ehya... Epele o.


I hope envy and bad belle no go give y'all hbp.

They rushed here thinking it was one of theirs...

prettysolid:
Yoruba film-maker Seun Egbegbe

Does it mean this man really tried to steal those phones? Well I ain't so suprised, Afterall they are well known for such

At least you won't find anybody from his place trying to defend his actions, which is more than I can say for you people.

VampireeM:
lol. Why molest? No he doesnt



Hopefully this dec ending I will oh. Slavery firm. Thanks

sekem:
I never knew gay men are not allowed to donate blood in countries like the US. Thanks for enlightening me.

But I did a little research and I found out that the reason why gays don't donate blood is simply because of risk of transmitting HIV. This practice started way back in the 80's when HIV was newly discovered.

But the FDA has now relaxed the law.

So gay men can now donate blood if a certain condition is met.



I like your argument on the fact that our generation depends on heterosexuality for our continual survival as species.

But then again, you and I know that the number of heteros surpasses the number of homos by a very large number.

Thus, this large number of heteros will always continue to guarantee our survival on the planet, or don't you think so?

@bolded, says who? You probably aren't aware that the number of male and female gays are growing daily and allowing children to grow up in gay homes isn't helping either.

It's only a matter of time before heterosexuality becomes the misnomer. By then they'd probably be outlawed and hunted for maintaining their heterosexual stance. Quote me when it starts happening.

VampireeM:
My boss is almost guilty of all listed above

Ehya, pele.

Hope you're saving well so you can leave her clutches soon.

Doesn't sound like a bad idea. Not in town currently otherwise... I would totally do it. Sounds fun. Try something new for a change.

TrapSoul:
You'll never really understand unless you are gay yourself, it's very easy to judge/conclude when you are not the one in the situation
What are the spiritual ramifications tho?

No civilization that engaged in disordered sexual practice ever survived it.

You can do your research yourself.

Start with the earliest we are familiar with, Sodom and Gomorrah, then move down the ages to the old Roman empire.

The Bible condemns homosexual acts as intrinsically evil, i.e they are evil in and of themselves.

Lots of people who struggle with homosexual lifestyle probably have mild forms of demonic possession, hence their inability to overcome such disorder no matter how hard they try.

Most sexual sins are accompanied by demonic influence because sex in itself is a sacred act that opens the soul of man at the point of ecstasy.

Opening your soul when you are committing a grave sexual sin makes you defenseless and opens you to the influence of the demons.

There are whole theses written on this subject and I want you to search for them.

It really isn't my job to understand as much as it is YOUR job to understand exactly what you're dealing with here.

Addiction of any kind makes you a slave to it.

I have seen people beat this particular addiction and I repeat that you can too. Only if you want to.

But if you're still lying to yourself that it isn't wrong, then I'm sorry.

sekem:
Sorry to ask, but please can you tell me how gay practices is destroying our society?

The survival of every society rests on the premise that humanity will continue to be heterosexual.

Artificial insemination isn't enough to perpetuate the human species.

With homosexual tendency comes the choice of whether the female homosexual couple wants to raise children or not.

Raising a child in an inherently disordered family structure impacts negatively also on the society.

Like I posted earlier, there's no scenario where homosexuals or homosexual couples come out tops unless they abandon that lifestyle.

If you see any homosexual couple that has been together for 10-15years please call my attention to it cos that would be the exception.

The fabric of human society is always negatively affected because it is a disordered kind of relationship which does more harm than good.

Add to all these, the health implication (HIV AIDS is most prevalent with homosexual makes than any other category) and the spiritual implications. Suicide rate among homosexuals is quite high too.

TrapSoul:
It's not a choice for me.. Why would i ever choose to be gay?
Do you think i enjoy being ridiculed and insulted for being a gay? The answer is "NO"
My attraction to other guys is just something i can't explain i have always tried to stop it but the more i try the more impossible it seems
BTW
I don't engage in penetrative sex
Being gay for me is more than just sex

You feel it isn't a choice because you think you can't help being gay.

You stated in your other post that you noticed being attracted to other males when you were 9.

Here's one thing for you to consider, your sexuality wasn't created when you were 9, your sexuality was formed even as your embryo was being formed in your mother's womb.

You weren't a neuter from ages 1-8years were you? No!

You say you've tried to stop but you couldn't. I'll tell you why. Your being here defending the act and also justifying your orientation by saying you don't indulge in penetrative sex are the reasons why your efforts to stop will always meet failure.

You are lying to yourself half the time that it's no big deal just to qui ten your conscience.

The only authentic first step you can take is to acknowledge that it is wrong and to desire a complete change back to the norm.

Saying that you do not engage in penetrative sex is like a girl who engages in oral and anal sex yet says she's a virgin because her hymen is still intact.

Do you even think of the spiritual ramifications at all?

masonkz:
@Bold, trust you based on what? Are you gay? Nope, so you have no idea what you're talking about.

@2nd Bold, Are you freaking kidding me? You really need to do lots of googling.






_{sidenote: Why are you even using America as a reference?}

I guess you're gay too.

Well, I'm not gay true, but I've had close encounters (i volunteer with a Catholic organization that engages these peeps) with gay people of all shades, single, married, transsexuals, bisexuals etc.

Those of them who are honest will tell you that most of the time they feel lost and alone and unloved.

It is you who need to do a wholesome search for those who were once gay and have had the grace to overcome their sexual perversity. Seems to me that you only Google search to justify your position as gay.

As to why I'm using America as a reference, it shouldn't be surprising, given the huge influence that country has on the economic, moral and social values of every other country in the world.

America is at the forefront of moral decadence in the world and impressionable youngsters like you are being misled by Hollywood and their music industry to not only consider an alternative homosexual life style but to be actively involved in it.

You can change your lifestyle if you want to. That tiny voice telling you that it's wrong is the one you should listen to.

drnoel:
Well spoken, I give u that but u forget one maths in the equation. Free will. They are human and have rights too. No one lets them run amok cos society has already condemned the act.

Where I have a problem with that equation is when society condems them too. Condem the act is fine by me but condemning human beings like u are, I draw a line there. I think in order not to encroach on anyone's right society has to find a balance between not condoning the act and condeming them.

Restrict the act without persecution. Some people here have already called me gay cos I spoke out for them. That kind of stigma is what I am talking against.

The question u should ask urself is this: Should a human being live in fear of his/her life cos she prefers another sexual orientation? (Its a yes and no answer)....and any sane person would answer "No". If u answer that question truthfully it will bring u to the genesis of what my arguement is about. ofcos no human being should be exposed to such sexual acts from childhood and that include my son or any other child.

Then again time will tell us is such expose is good or bad cos we have homosexual couples who are raising children now and the lives of those children will shed more light on if certain society has made a mistake to allow such or not.

While I do not subscribe to homosexuals being killed for their abnormal orientation, I would still want the countries in the world to be very strict with homosexual acts.

My take is that homosexuals should be given two choices, the state should provide "free" psychological, psychiatric and probably hypnotherapeutic help for all not them, or they are incarcerated for the remainder of their lives.

The reason is this, 50years ago, homosexuality was an abhorrent misnomer that nobody would even consider as worthy of emulating. Now, we have gay prides on the streets of NY and everywhere else.

Soon, the next step is to make it the norm and heterosexuality the exception.

There are things we shouldn't even consider at all, all under the pretense of "two consenting adults", and "free will". If that is the case, then a father and his daughter can happily have sex. It's still under the free will thing and they're both consenting adults right? Yet no country so far as at this morning has legalized incest.

It's just a matter of time I assure you. Just like gay sex, maybe in 5 or 10 years time incest too will become the norm.

Society will become the worse for all these unnatural changes.

Our permissiveness is destroying the society.

Evil thrive when good people remain silent.

TrapSoul:
Here we go again... Some of us are born gay, I noticed i was attracted to guys when i was 9 nobody taught me anything And "NO" I don't need psychological help. Telling me am crazy when am not crazy will only make me crazy that's why most gay guys end up committing suicide

But telling you that you're not crazy when in actual fact you're crazy doesn't help your cause at all.

Even nature abhors what you do. The vagina is self lubricating and elastic allowing for safe and pleasurable intercourse, the anus isn't self lubricating because nature didn't design it to have objects poked into it from outside.

But then again, it's your choice.

TrapSoul:
Here we go again.. Some of us are born gay, I noticed i was gay when i was 9 nobody taught me anything And "No" I don't need help all this nonsense psychological helps are what even cause depression

Trust me on this bro. Nobody is ever born a gay.

By the time you were 9 you probably had forgotten or repressed the memory of the gay abuse you suffered while you were younger.

It isn't a normal state and you can get out of it if you really want to.

There's no scenario where a gay person comes out on top, not even in America where it's legal.

Spiritually, you are sounding your own death knell.

Socially, wherever you go, even in America you're an outcast and only tolerated. Nobody prays to have their children turn gay.

Mentally, you have self doubts all of your life. You are forced to cope with psychological issues like depression etc.

Health wise, well you only need to read the original post and Google some more to realise what you're risking just to have a moment's pleasure with another man.

In you heart of hearts, do you really feel OK, complete, wholesome, digging into another man anus or having your own anus destroyed by someone else?

Your first step to recovery is to accept that what you're doing is abnormal, and that there was a time when you were a normal heterosexual male even if you can't remember.

Then seek help. You can do it bro. Break contact with all former homosexual pals and flee for your life.

So when she was sending money in six figures to you, you didn't realise that she is an introvert, neither did it occur to you that she is older than you are.

Hmmmm... Why don't you tell us the whole story of how you met another younger babe and you prefer that one to this.

You know what they call Karma? She's a bitch and she's coming for yo @ss.

omamush:
oga its clear u don't love this lady from all you stated above... u mentioned her good qualities and all but still you don't love her Na, so why are u still with her..
see your age difference sef, please leave the poor lady alone don't waste more of her time she is not getting younger.

Happy birthday dear.

drnoel:
Justifying what? Has nothing to do with justifying anything. I find the act repugnant, even more so than u do. That will not force me to condemn them cos of their choice of life. Nothing else in this life is free but will and air.

I'm sure you think you're being a progressive right? Allowing him to do his thing while you do yours. Live and let live, and all...

If you have a chance to mould your son in either way, heterosexual or homosexual, which would you choose for him?

Homosexuals can't be left alone to run amok.

They do not live in a vaccum. They live in a society whose continued existence is based on the heterosexuality of mankind. Therefore, not only do homosexuals have a responsibility to the society that begot them through heterosexual unions, we as a people also have a duty to ourselves, the society and the unborn to protect the fabric of the society by condemning homosexual male and female acts.

It can never be OK to encourage such a lifestyle because eventually it'll affect all of us, unless of course you live in a desert by yourself.

TrapSoul:
Bros this story is fake AF!!! Unless the guy is into some fetish Sexual stuff like Fisting..M

Hmmm... If truly you're into homosexual sex, your soul is indeed trapped and you'd better look for a way out.

Nobody is born a homosexual. It is an abnormal state you acquired AFTER you were born.

Go for psychiatric and psychological help.

You may also enlist the help of a hypnotherapist.

Google the suicide rate among homosexual males. It is very high.

Just like ogres, there's no happy ending, or happily ever after for homosexuals.

Inasmuch as I despise such abhorrent behaviour and acts, I can personally testify to the astronomic increase in the rise of young homosexual Nigerian males.

As a matter of fact some few years ago, I stayed with an older cousin of mine around surulere and young boys come every night to keep him company, a different boy every single night. Yuck!

I wonder where they come from. It's like there's an agency or something that provides this service.

Said cousin is quite wealthy and worked in a bank then.

Nigerians need to snap out of their denial and wake up to reality.

Homosexuality is becoming very very rampant despite the toothless law they passed against it.

There's a 95% chance that you have a male relation who is gay. So sad.

Gluthatione:
I wonder how people reason like this sometimes, if he got the money legitimately do u think he would have hidden it in his bathroom !

I'm surprised that you're surprised.

I was expecting this exactly. They must always come to the defence of their brother who has defrauded them.

Oh Lord, look with pity on us, hear our prayers and grant them their country before the end of next year. Amen

Say no to secession.

Funlordjnr:




Instead of answering this your valid query they would soon come here and start calling you an "afonja or a gambari?"




I've never seen these sort of _imbeciles that want their own country but who can never be found planning for how to exist in their own so called country, but rather prefer to be anywhere else but their own backyard!


Lmfao!!

Lol. We can only hope that Turkey will learn the lesson South Africans refused to learn, i.e, implementing the strict drug policies that is operational in Indonesia and co.

Vulu:
YORUBA MUSLIM AND HAUSA WILL AS USUAL SWARM THE THREAD WITH THEIR LAMENTATTION BEGGING SANE PEOPLE NOT TO BELIEVE THIS PIECE OF NEWS WHILE THEIR OSHOGBO BROTHERS WITH THICK TRIBAL MARKS ARE CLAIMING TO BE BIAFRANS JUST TO AVOID DEPORTATION TO THE USELESS CESSPIT THEY WANT TO DIE FOR.

You must have woken up without your brain. Go back to sleep and try again.

I wonder what Biafrans are doing in Turkey, an ISLAMIC country.

excel101:
People tend to see success in the outside, but they don't know that there are pains behind it. Even the lily hearted melts away with little dose of it. Maheeda, i hail your doggedness, you're now a role model to many. Very good encouragement to many other ladies plying similar trade outside there.

Ummm... Bros, would you want her to be a role model for your daughter?(if you have any).

Is this the story you plan on telling God on judgement day?

skeendyke:
I think you should pay your vow in the church you currently attend because you were specific that you would give it to God, not to a widow or orphanage. If you want to pay your vows through the young pastor who stood by your family then you have to go to the church where he pastors to pay your vows. Giving it to him directly is not paying your vows to God. My opinion.

I beg to disagree with you.

Who actually needs the money more, the pastor or the motherless babies?

Unless your trying to tell us here that God actually comes down from heaven to collect naira notes.

Queenstana, if you haven't given the money away, give it to the beggars, the poor, motherless babies, the downtrodden. See God in them and give it to them.

Remember what the bible says, "whatsoever you do to the least of my brothers, so also you do unto me...".

My mum said she would never watch me marry him. Her reasons being that his hometown has many traditions that doesn't favour wives. Also, that they individually don't treat their wives well. My mum's rejection got me really depressed cos I've always seen him in my future.

Stereotypes have elements of truth in them, though they aren't the whole story. Ordinarily if this was the only issue you had I'd advice you to move very close to the family and observe how the dad treats the mom and vice versa. That should tell you a lot.

I've been kind of making a mental picture of how it's gonna be, dating another guy.It just doesn't work out in my mind. Naturally I'm introverted, and he has been the best partner cos he is okay with staying indoors.

I'm worried for you because you think you can't find someone else who would love your introverted nature. This is a wrong reason to want to stick it out with a man not to even talk of marrying him.

Recently, I've had cause to start having doubts about the relationship. Things I used to put up with,these days they really get to me. When we started dating, he didn't have much, but I believed in him. He has a job but to help out is always a problem. And asking for money is one thing that is very difficult for me. Even when I'm in dire need and muster enough courage to ask him, he will come up with excuses. Most times its really embarrassing when I try borrowing money from people they will be like, 'I thought you have a boyfriend'. It really hurts me cos when things weren't cool for him, I used to share my pocket money with him.

Here's a rule of thumb for you when you eventually dump this guy, try your best never to ask for money from whomever you're dating. That's so not cool. It takes away from your sense of pride as a woman and points indicting fingers at your parent that they can't cater for your needs, or an indicting finger at you that you can't manage the little you have well. Ordinarily, a woman should be content with what her family can give her and what she can earn for herself. A boyfriend isn't necessarily an ATM. Having said that, someone who truly loves you will not wait to help you out especially if you've been dropping hints or it is glaring you're really in need, IF HE HAS.

Whenever we have an argument he would upload another girl's picture as his dp . Or sometimes when making up, he will be like, he sees other pretty girls just like I see other handsome dudes but he wants just me. I so hate that.

Now, right here is the real reason why you should never ever marry this guy. Guess what? When you're married he's gonna continue uploading pics of other women just to spite you whenever you quarrel. You think he's going to change? No way. Whatever attitude you notice in him right now will only become worse when you guys are married.

Right now there is another guy. We've been friends, though he accepted friendship cos I told him I have a boyfriend and can't double date. He brought it up again last three months. And has been persistent. Right now I'm confused. This minute, I will feel like following my friend's advice to cut off from my bf since we can't marry, the other I feel I should stay and hope my mum changes her mind. Breaking up sef is gonna be difficult.

This is probably the worst thing you could do. If you decide to leave your bf, going straight into another relationship is going to be traumatic for both you and the new guy because your heart is still with another. Dump your current bf, and then go on sabbatical. This will help you heal, so that the next relationship you get into will be healthy and it will be with clear eyes.

I'd like to see her face without excessive makeup.

Cucumber things.

NIGHTMAREOO7:
Yorubas and igbo who is hating on d other.
U ar3 just speaking trash.
U yorubas hate to hear the truth...
Becoz fasyose yr brother refused to follow ur lies and deceitful ways. Thats why u pple hate him so much... becoz he says the truth dat why u call him names... GOD IS

You are a joke!

NIGHTMAREOO7:
See a child of hate talking... bullshit.
some1 whose hormones and chromosomes were filled with lies and hate from birth!

We know you guys won't mind hero-worshipping Satan as long as there's some financial benefit attached, or if it furthers your hatred of the Yorubas.

Fayose and co are the dregs of humanity in Yorubaland. You can have them all.

You deserve them and they deserve you. A people can never rise above the limits of their prejudice. Keep hating on those in whose land you and your family find your daily bread. Apoda.

Incredibleme:
This event just paved way for more investments in ekiti because it creats an awareness that non indegenes are welcome in his state.

Lol. You really are a comedian.

I'm just wondering what's going to be invested in the state.

More corner shops? Or maybe fake and expired drugs?