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Akeelahtunez:
Well I don't know what to call this thread other than this..

I liked this girl Gina(not are real name),we are in diff department in school,same level.
After much wooing and cajoling GINA didn't deem mi fit has her kinda guy so I let go.
Just some days ago ,she told mi she was pregnant,I was shocked!!,she said it was a result of a fling between her and a guy in pol sci. The dishearten thing about this story is she wants to abort the baby,cause she said its 7weeks old..I dunno what to say to her..any1 with good and reasonable advice should come to my rescue cause she has been asking mi on what to with the baby..m now like her advicer..

Are you the owner of the baby? Why she asking you some dumbass question and you're here asking us same?

No!

It's not silly, it's DUMB!

I understand your pain and yes, you really did mess up with your academics.

As hard as it may sound it's time you moved on from her. You'll have to focus all and I mean ALL of your attention on your studies for now so as to make sure you don't have to start all over again.

Later, you could look out for legitimate ways to earn a living which won't affect your studies anyway.

It's time to move on from her. If you can relocate your accommodation so you won't have to see her everyday, all the better.

Most important of all, learn that particular lesson life has taught you.

All the best.

OK so we've heard your own side of the story. Remains your ex-gf's side of the story and then the real truth.

You said you hit an unexpected setback and a little delay etc which you refused to clarify.

I'm sure it was for photo-effects otherwise that's so wrong. What if I genuinely have an objection.

I like it. Funny. I like their sense of humour.

OILSOUP:
[size=15pt]BUHARI HAVE DEPLOYED FULANI AND ARMY TO RAPE AND MURDER NDIIGBO 4 CELEBRATING CHRIST THIS CHRISTMAS.[/b][/size]

@Bolded, don't you think the time spent online could be better utilized getting some education?

Well I was half expecting that.

A billionaire will surround himself with billionaires.

A thief would surround himself with thieves e.g. Jonathan Goodluck.

A professor would surround himself with professors e.g. Professor Jega.

thebestprice:
seems like brilliant young southerners are being systematically assassinated by fifth columnist out there up north.

#MAnamGrA

Dumbass comment.

[quote author=masonkz post=51513343]My bad, I'm just seeing your post. See my response below.

I was never abused by any guy as a kid. I knew I liked the same sex way before I attained puberty. Long story though.

How would you remember if you were abused as a kid or not if you involuntarily repressed the memory Your nanny probably abused you or kids of your age group.

I don't get what you mean by "comes out top", however if you're talking about successful gay people, I could draw up lists and lists. Bear it in mind, however, that these people are those that are "out" i.e openly gay. many (if not most) gay people remain in the closet throughout their lifetime.

When I said "come out tops" I meant the whole gamut of human living which I listed down there and not just financial success. What's the benefit of your money if you eventually have to kill yourself due to depression?

I don't believe in any of the religions, so this wouldn't apply...and I fail to understand what you mean by "sounding your own death knell"

I guess your irreligiousity helps you to convince yourself that it doesn't matter who you fvck as long as it's consensual, right? And please don't come at me with the "oh it's more than sex" speech.

False. However, this would mostly depend on where you are.

Nobody ever, in any part of the world, prays for their kids to turn gay. That should tell you something...

Sadly, this is true, due to the obvious discrimination that a gay person may find himself/herself in. The main cause of depression amongst gay people is not just because they are gay, but because of how others view them/treat them.

The reason for the depression and subsequent wish to inflict bodily harm upon themselves goes much deeper than the social rejection you're trying to paint it out to be. Those who remain closet gays or who struggle with the feeling and resist it actually hardly commit suicide. The suicide rate of so-called "gay and proud" in the U.S where it is acceptable is quite high.
I'll post a link here as soon as I can get it.

Indiscrminate sexual involvements, whether between gay people or straight people, would always boil down to potential risk for the parties involved. You failed to also state that lesbians are at less risk than their straight counterparts in contracting diseases . Safe sex and dedication to one partner still remains the onus in all sexual relationships

Rate of HIV Aids incidence and transmission is higher among homosexuals than heterosexuals. As a matter of fact, that disease was first discovered among gay prisoners in the U.S.
I as a straight fella don't need to worry about using pads or getting a surgery to stop fecal matter from leaking out of my anus. I'm sure you'll soon have to start worrying about that yourself.

Why does it always boil down to sex with you lots?? People are gay before they decide to have sex. Sex is the decision, not being gay. There are many gay people that are yet to have sex. And as for the sex part, Yes, any gay person that finally decides to have sex, enjoys it.

Lol. People aren't gay before they decide to have sex, more often than not paedophilic sex turned them gay. @bolded, you can rephrase that as "there are some gay people that are yet to have CONSENSUAL gay sex" and you'll be perfectly correct.
Like I said earlier, that you enjoy doing something doesn't make it right. A psychopath enjoys killing people because it feeds a fetish in his psyche, yet that doesn't make it right, neither does the fact that there are many psychos in the world.
Our moral formation as a species can't be left to the pleasures of the senses.

Lol. No one is seeking "recovery", whatever that is. you don't recover from also being straight.

Speak for yourself. There are people who really are looking for help to overcome their disordered feelings and it is for their sakes that I have bothered to respond to your comment and not a desire to "win" an argument.

I'm quite sure you think that what you feel and the subsequent act that follows are normal and natural. So also a "mad man" thinks he is normal and would run from hypodermic needles attached to injections bearing the solution (pun intended)to his problems.

Instead of feeding yourself with news of gay and proud people, why don't you search for the stories of those who were once gay but were able to break that particular mental disorder.

And until you acknowledge that you have a problem, your day of salvation is very far.

cc kneehighbootz
cc calliope

badejob:
I found THAT person..AND SHE'S TOLD THE LADY OFF TWICE NOW..she as assured me that I'm the one with the mandate & Im right in feeling this..she sees through the lady's game as well..he still won't admit wrong but my sister that I love with my WHOLE heart is going to help me fix it..I know she's being sincere..she feels like it's a soul tie he can't loose of..but like I finally explained to him..he needs to see this woman is out for blood..as I told him, I don't know what happen between them there in Nigeria, but this lady is out to destroy him..period..cos the cousin had talked to the lady a few days before, RIGHT?? Told the lady to let my hubby be..the lady told her yes & she didn't know of any plans, right??

As soon as I showed her those texts messages, it showed I was not making this stuff up..now the lady has been exposed for what she was doing..I warned the lady I was about to bring in the family & she didn't believe me..even his cousin says my husband has changed for the better since we have met..he was changing before my very eyes when he re-established contact with the lady..not into the loving hubby I know!!

There's no way an online relationship can beat an offline relationship. You're the one he sees everyday, and unless he's planning on relocating the girl from Nigeria or relocating himself to Nigeria, I'll say you shouldn't be too bothered.

Akantbiliv dis. You mean with all the national flag gele wey she put for head. Haba, PMB, is not fair o.

Damn! Can't imagine the emotional turmoil the groom would be in. The shame, the confusion...

He should be placed on suicide watch.

I'd bet that girl will still regret her action for the rest of her life.

EastGold:
You must be 12A

No 09A

EastGold:
I don't know why camp officials are so mean to camp members in the north.

I could vividly remember how Col.T.D Wariboko asked us to march with our buttocks in Bukuru camp, Jos simply because some of us complained of the weather.


To serve Nigeria is not by for o

The day my own set of batch A rioted in that Bukuru camp ehn, since that day till the end of the camp the soldiers just dey observe us from distance. No more parades, nothing. We just dey stroll around camp like king.

RIP to the lady. May she find eternal rest.

I feel bad for the family.

ZUBY77:
Some human beings are pretty close to animals

Well that's an insult to animals really. My dog is way better in character than that demon in human flesh.

Pvin:
if not y not. realize marijuana and see the effect of 9ja

Lol. I get it now.

sleepyeyez:
Lol! Wait, seriously, she called the couple ugly? Well, babe dat was dumb of you. So someone comes to nairaland to narrate how she's achieved a milestone in dis crazy world , how she's found probly d love of her life n taken the bold step of making d union legal, how ders still hope in some widly condemned "fishing zone"(social media that is), how she wants us to celeberate with her n probly borrow a leaf or two, and rather than wish them well, ireneony calls them ugly? O girl u don fall ur people hand! Kwantinu!

Yeah she did. Just bad of her really. She should have not commented if she had nothing nice to say.

Let's hope she'll be humble enough and apologize to the couple.

But I'm not holding my breath.

Colombia-happiness No way!

Colombia-drugs.

bogolobango:
@ireneony


Na yr ig handle i need no mind the guy na bad belle dey worry am

Hmmmm...kissass

ireneony:
so you think marriage is the only way a woman can feel complete
when will Nigerians in Nigeria grow up.

See where i live, marriage is not a priority. .
i was 18years when most backward Nigerians started singing marriage on my ear.
this is why the developed country is better than poverty riddled backward country like Nigeria.

Look, don't change what this is all about. You saw a thread where a couple was celebrating their union and you had to go and sh1t all over it calling them ugly.

That is what this is all about. I'm not saying you should get married by force and I'm not here to measure d1cks about where anybody lives, whether in naija or outside naija. I hope you got that.

If truly you're a classy lady like you say, and I'd like to believe that, then you'll actually apologize to the couple for calling them ugly and maybe I'll apologize to you for calling you names and we can bury the hatchet.

ireneony:
like i give a fuuuk about your meaningless rant.
keep chasing females on nairaland, don't go and work.
i can see you are a stalker.
Only a jobless person can go all the way to stalk a classy lady like me on Facebook ..

You and i know that I'm pretty more than all the women you have ever met in your life.


Say no to fuccvk boy

Classy? . That's hilarious.

Who would wanna be stalking yo ugly @ss? Checking you out on FB doesn't mean I'm stalking you, get yourself some brain cells.

And you're wondering why you are single and bitter at your age? Check your original post to the lovely couple again and tell me which man will actually wanna put up with your sh1t.

No dear, you aren't pretty. Your post to the couple showed that not only are you ugly outside, you're also ugly on the inside.

Unfortunately for you only fvckboys can give you the time of day. No serious man will want to deal with the calamity that is you.

Keep on digging cucumber into your smelly veejay while your mates whom you call "ugly" are busy settling down and making a family.

If you're pained about somebody else's happiness, it shows the kind of bitter human being that you are.

I pray for healing for you cos without doubt you're sick.

Stupedinluv:
And the bride is yoruba o.

I didnt see yorubas posting how beautiful their women are

How couldnt i have known the yorubas were respectable people.

Some other tribe would have littered the fp with their self delusion

Congrats to the love birds o jare.

Well said.

ireneony:
Mtcheww...not cute to say the least.

The ugly one keeps meeting each other here.

Who marriage don help

I actually have seen your pics on Naira land and on Facebook and I'm surprised that you have the effrontery to call someone ugly when you can easily pass for the masquerade my ancestors used to worship.

Are you by any chance married? No? I smell bad belle. When eventually you get married in like 59 years time, post your wedding pictures here and let our grandchildren admire them. Mumu.

This is great. I wish you a happy married life.

God bless your union abundantly.

Wow. I'm impressed. By you and the bus conductor. Nice one.

otemanuduno:
Is Egypt mentioned among them or not? Just answer yes or no. Don't try to avoid obvious facts. Greek worked on what Egypt, Babylon, India and China began. Kemet or no Kemet, the landscape didn't travel to occupy another place. It could just be a case of Change of name, like when we have the Sokoto Caliphate and the Benin Kingdom before Nigeria began, yet anything that happened there could be ascribed to the precolonization era of Nigerian history. FACT IS EGYPT IS THE PLACE OF EARLY CIVILISATION AND IT WILL RETURN TO ITS FORMER STATE SOON.

I guess you're the one that's going to return it to it's former state.

My only question is, if her dad wasn't the President, would he still have married her?

None of my business though.

otemanuduno:
I can't mislead people. If I don't know, I don't say

What you posted only highlighted Greece mostly. That's to let you know that you probably don't even understand what you're talking about.

I'm not denying the fact that what is called "Ancient Egypt" today actually practiced medicine many many centuries ago, way before the civilization of other parts.

As a matter of fact, go and read or learn about the person called Imhotep. You'll realise he was the father of medicine from "Egypt". Yes the same Imhotep that was cast in the movie "the mummy series" as a bad magician. That's the whites' narrative for you.

Most of the modern medicine which we claimed we got from the Greeks actually originated from Imhotep who lived in Kemet, now known as Ancient Egypt.

Read more dear. There's a ton of information out there.