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mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]So do you think he will be with her for good?

Do you think it will last very long considering he met me first?

And what about our relationship?[/color]

I think you're asking the wrong questions.

The only question you need to ask is; will he be good for me if I marry him.

Just imagine you're already married and he's behaving this way. People don't change so dont think you can change him.

You're right to an extent.

But government has a role to play by providing a conducive environment where people can thrive and be successful if they worked hard enough.

The previous governments of the last 16years and all the way down to Gowon's administration have failed miserable in this respect.

I guess the worst was the ever incapable and clueless Goodluck Jonathan, a president that should never have been.

So we were told last year that president Putin of Russia was coming to release the incarcerated yellow monkey.

We're still waiting for him. And Obama too. Lol.

Sweetle:
Obafemi Awolowo said that if the Igbos should secede the Yorubas would follow suit.

This got me thinking recently.

So the destiny of the Yorubas having their own country depends on weather the Igbos remained in Nigeria or left?

Awolowo's statement clearly meant that the destiny of the Yorubas lie in the hands of the Igbos.

No wonder Yorubas are found running around any thread involving Igbos and self determination.

Your ignorance is embarrassing. That is how people will be going around with half baked knowledge gotten from half baked education and be dabbling in matters way beyond their grasp.

Awolowo's true words: if the Igbos are ALLOWED to secede, the Yorubas will not remain in Nigeria.

Compare that with what your parents and grand parents who lost a war have twisted for all of you.

Thank God for the leadership of the late Sage. Millions of Yoruba people would have also died in that useless and needless war.

The seat of the Federal government was in Dodan barracks in Lagos, a Yoruba enclave. There was no way a leader with sense would instigate a war that would be fought on his own land among his own people.

Now do you see the difference between great leadership and stupidity?

elektra:
No vex oh but read whatever I wrote ON the line. I have written nothing between the lines and anything you read there is simply a figment of your imagination.

Vex ke? How I go vex for fine girl like you?

Not my fault though. I have been trained to spot what is written ON the line as well as BETWEEN the lines. It's instinctive. You really should learn that skill too.

I'll bet even you don't know what you've written between the lines.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]What do you mean?[/color]

You wrote thatthe other lady is spending money on him and he is getting closer to her. Well my dear, trust me when I say that you are now officially the side dish of the guy.

Savigne:
....... You deserve an Nl Nobel prize for this epic comeback

Thank you.

And you still think you have a boyfriend after all you narrated up there mama gee?

kabukabu:
Because it's unprofessional and is a terminable offence... Geesh.Only in Naija would humans who call themselves smart would give excuses for this kind of behavior

Besides Orange Kenya knows that their customers will be watching closely and they'll all be scared if their personal information can be taken so lightly.

The guy messed up.

The guy used his position to acquire her phone number and we all know how girls are about phone numbers right? Personally I wouldn't mind for a lady operator to hit up on me.

It was absolutely wrong for him to do that and yes the proper thing for the company to do is to fire him because he just proved that he can't be trusted with customers' private information.

I'd rather just get her residential address and bump into her "accidentally".

That being said the lady acted in a haste and will definitely have a lot of time to regret her actions especially when the guy gets sacked.

Why ruin a life when you can just let it go?

alfarouq:
Everybody can say whatever they want but one thing is sure, the people of kano don't give a Bleep about your thoughts.

Secondly, for those saying they saw nothing wrong with the video, I will like them to know that when someone is exposed to so much corruption and immorality, some of it appear moral to him.
Ask our parents about the clothes and filths people wear today and see nothing wrong with and they will tell you in their days its immoral, but for the fact that we have been exposed to so much filth, we look for justification.
Some years back , indulging in sex before marriage is immoral, but now, you can indulge in it but don't get involved with a married person and for the ladies, don't get pregnant. How do we get here?.
Lastly, some people say only maryam received threats after that scandal and I ask them, how much details do you actually have, she was the celebrity and not him and besides I was told that the video only showed the ladies face but didn't show the guys face, only those in his inner cycle actually knew who he was and the stated act happened in Lagos and the man in question dwells in Lagos.
Mind you, I am only replying all this because I am not a bakano because a kano man believes replying such is a waste of time.

Not anybody's business what two grown adults decide to do with their bodies.

Yes, it's fornication and it's a sin.

But why do you take it upon yourselves to fight the battles of your Allah? Reall , what's wrong with it that it can't fight for itself?

Now foolish youths are going to start burning houses of innocent people because they feel that they are doing the will of a bloodthirsty god.

Dont you think if Kano youths took up arms and protested their leaders thievery their lives would be better and they'd have jobs instead of waiting for the next provocation to set things ablaze.

Whether they respond or not the rest of the world sees them as fools and idiots who have not a sense in their crania. Nuff said.

I believe Kano has one of the largest if not the largest population of beggars in West Africa yet what the populace is fighting over is the private life of some misguided actress.

Illiteracy is indeed a disease.

The Shari'a law is a form of selective oppression meant only for the poor, otherwise all the former governors of Kano state should have lost an arm or their heads for embezzlement.

Berlynn:
[color=black] Does anyone here know for an absolute certainty that the Bible actually states human souls in Hell have no chance for forgiveness?

Believe it or not, I did read the Bible, and I don't recall it actually explicitly stating "Once you are in Hell, you no longer have any chance for forgiveness, for Redemption."

That doesn't seem too Christian lets assume for a moment there's a Hell and some people are down there praying to Jesus, begging for forgiveness, begging to be forgiven for not believing in the twisted corrupt Churches while they were on earth, and will Jesus just ignores them?

The Jesus I imagine wouldn't ignore them, not even if they were in Hell, the Jesus I know wouldn't be that petty. He doesn't care if they screwed up & they're in Hell....He would forgive them and go get them to heaven

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you funny.

Well nobody currently on earth has been to hell, so experiential knowledge may not help us here.

I guess what I can do is give you a summary of what I think to be true. I'm Catholic by the way.

Hell is not a place God sends one to when they die. Rather hell is a voluntary choice of the individual who while on earth rejected God and his Christ and his commandments.

People in hell are not there against their wish they are there because it's their choice.

The kind of life you live here on earth will determine where you end up. So it's more like you pronouncing that judgment for yourself.

Hell is basically a total separation from God. It's not a place. It's a state of being.

So when a human being closes his eyes to death here on earth, he opens them in eternity.

At that moment his judgment is served.

If he opens his eyes in eternity and he beholds God, he is in heaven. But if he opens his eyes and doesn't see God he is in hell.

Or souls were created to have a great affinity for God, somewhat like a metal and magnet. The reason why we can't feel it here on earth is because our flesh and the creature comforts we all chase around act like insulators. (That's why you fast when you want your prayers answered).

Once your soul is free of your flesh, signified by death, it feels a terrible hunger for its Creator for whom it was created in the first place.

This infinitely unbearable hunger is satisfied when the soul opens its eyes and sees God and is united to its Creator.

The soul in hell can never see God and the terrible hunger and thirst for God continues for all eternity.

Note that it's not because God isn't there for it to see, but because the soul went to eternity spiritually dead. It's just like a blind man. He can't see the sun. Yet the sun is shining in the sky.

I hope someone read my epistle.

Vickiweezy:
That's how the story was put for us as kids, but we all know the apple represented sex.
The devil opened their eyes to see the pleasure of sex.

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OK, seems a lot of people are quoting and want to chew me. Lemme enlighten u a bit.

First of all, we see in Gen. 2:25 that Adam and Eve were not ashamed of their unclothedness. They obviously had the perfect bodies that God had intended for them when they were created. Now, notice after the Fall, in Gen. 3:7 & 10, that Adam and Eve were suddenly ashamed of their bodies. Why would you be ashamed of your body if all you had done was eat a piece of fruit? Now, back in Gen. 3:3, Eve tells Satan that neither she nor Adam can 'touch' the 'fruit' of the 'Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil' because if they do, they'll die. The word 'touch' here means 'to lay hands upon, to lie with.' See Strong's again. When you 'lie' with someone in this capacity, it's obviously sexual in nature.
The words 'eat' or 'ate' when used in these passages do not mean the literal consumption of food. The words 'eat' or 'ate' when used in the first 15 verses of Genesis chapter three means '(lit. or fig.) to consume, devour (partake).' Consult Strong's one more time. When you partake in something, that means you are engaging in an activity. And Eve certainly did partake here! She engaged in sex with Satan (the 'serpent') who appeared to her in human form and sexually seduced her. In Gen. 3:13, we read that Eve, called in front of God to account for her misdeed said, 'The serpent beguiled me, and I did eat (partake)' . The word 'beguiled' here means to 'morally seduce.' IT'S NOT A MORAL SEDUCTION TO EAT A LITERAL PIECE OF FRUIT! This further confirms that the grand sin that led to the Fall in the Garden was sexual in nature. In Gen. 3:6 & 12, we see that Eve led Adam into this debauchery by coaxing him into having sex with a member of one of the Pre-Adamic races. Gen. 3:15 then tells us that two literal, biological seedlines are to come forth from Eve. They are the seedline of Satan and the seedline of the woman (through Adam).
Verse 15 also tells us that the two seedlines would be in direct conflict with one another and in the end the Satantic seed will be crushed. And there is to be a major 'enmity (hatred)' between the two seedlines. Also, the 'fruit' spoken of in these passages is not literal fruit like an apple or an orange.
Finally, Eve was to have two literal seedlines come forth from her womb. One being the 'serpents' (Satan in human form) and the other being hers through Adam. And these two seedlines are to be in direct conflict and have a deep-seated hatred of one another until the end times.
In Gen. 4:1 & 2, we read that Eve gave birth to Cain and Abel. NOw Abel was Adam's son. But Cain was not! Cain is found nowhere in any geneaology in the Bible that traces back to Adam. Read Gen. 5:3-5; 1 Chron. 1:1 and Luke 3:38. In Luke 3:38, it states that the unpolluted descendants of Adam are the sons of God (this of course is a verse tracing the geneaology of Jesus on Mary's (His blood's) side). Why is Cain not mentioned here if he was an unpolluted descendant of Adam? In Gen. 4:8-12, we read about the first major enmity between the two seedlines that was promised by God in Gen. 3:15. Here, Cain murders murders Abel. Now, in Gen. 4:25 and 5:3, we read that Adam and Eve had a son named Seth. The name 'Seth' means 'substitute.' Go to Strong's one more time! Seth was the 'substitute' for who? ABEL! Remember, Cain was driven away from Adam and Eve. So why couldn't Seth have been a 'substitute' for Cain if he was Adam and Eve's son as well? After all, he no longer lived with them. The answer is simple. Cain was NOT Adam's son! In 1 John 3:12, we read who Cain's literal, biological father is. It's Satan!
Hope you are satisfied.


CC:

I beg to disagree with your input.

God commanded them not to eat of the fruit from the tree of knowledge if good and evil. Since when did sex become the knowledge of good and evil?

The Bible states that when they ate, their eye opened. Note that I used singular. The Hebrew word for eyes just like the Yoruba word "oju" is always singular. Just to give you a hint.

From your write up, it seems you're implying that Eve had sex with Satan then invited Adam to join in a party of sorts. May I remind you that Satan featuring as the serpent is a fallen angel. A complete spiritual being without the possession of any gross matter. Spirits don't have flesh like we do so it's kinda hard to imagine the devil impregnating Eve. (Yes, yes I know what was written about the sons of God looking down and coming to sleep with the daughters of men in Noah's time. These weren't spirit beings talk less of being angels. Some have even speculated that they we're aliens from outer space. But that's a discussion for another day.

Your suggestion about Cain not being Adam's son is totally false. Go to Genesis 4vs 1. "And Adam knew his wife who conceived and brought forth Cain... "is enough proof against your assertions.

When they ate of the fruit of which they we're forbidden, they we're right to be ashamed and I'll tell you why.

Sin is an act of defiance against God and they we're stripped automatically of the goodness of their nature. That's what sin does. They were stripped naked of the grace of God and they both stood in the cold hard glare of reality hence thy looked for something to cover their supposed unclothedness. But their naked wasn't of the body it was deeper, buried in their souls.

Have you noticed that little kids who haven't yet known the difference between right and wrong run around naked with shame? Remember Jesus's words that unless we become like little children we won't inherit the kingdom of heaven? I'm giving you little clues. Hopefully you'll be able to tie them together and get the answers you seek.

The original sin wasn't sex.

Cully408:
Is possible bro, i knw of a man who is rich neighbour slept wit his wife for 7 times at the man place and 8 times in their matrimonial home making it (15) times, the man had to approach the man after he caught dem red handed and the neighbour slap the man for confronting him. The man still forgive his wife and dey re together but the man family disown him for accepting her back

The things we do for love...

Vickiweezy:
That's how the story was put for us as kids, but we all know the apple represented sex.
The devil opened their eyes to see the pleasure of sex.

Wrong. It isn't sex. God created them and asked them to multiply. Surely not by vomiting their kids.

Danfuster:
I'd choose ice cream brain freeze over this hoe saving scenerio.

Meanwhile...i definitely would never ever do this, once you mess up... You gone, you just diffuse from my life like a piece of mess that you are. The bitter truth is, bítches gone take you for granted if you still being that gentleman SHÍT.

Lol. That's brutal.

MrCEO69:
See ehn, to me all dis twitter stories are all cooked up by bloggers, just to draw traffic. How get time to dey narrate their life story, piece by piece on twitter. Even does that comment are part of the drama.

So true.

Damilolababy:
Lol. ok oh

Good. We're waiting o.

Beadex1:
no bruh me no fit go such miles ooo....... only did it becos of free beer and suya every evening from my frd for that 7 days ..... I get limit

Lol.

Damilolababy:
Am happy. i dnt av big butt? i just av simple structure?

Ok dear. Here's how it works on Nairaland. When you say you have small butt, you'll have to show us some pictures so that we can understand exactly what you're talking about. Understand?

My mind is trying to process that mass behind her and it's showing me error! Error!! Error!!!

Obviously it can't get around that box shaped @ss. Too rectangular looking.

Impossicant.

This is the kind of thing I read that gives me brain freeze.

OP. You try. Which part of stop don't you understand?

Good news and bad news.

Good news: she can't prove that you raped her just as you can't prove that it was consensual.

Bad news: it doesn't matter. She doesn't have to prove anything. As long as she has more financial and social clout than you, you are going to pay for your actions if she so wishes.

Prepare yourself bro. Your life is about to get a lot interesting.

Don't forget to update us here.

Nnamdikalu:
Truely I appreciate,My morale is being boosted...Lolz

You're welcome. All the best.

oloyeagbaakin:
There is this girl am currently dating i discussed the issue of se*x with her that i can't stay in a relationship without se*x she felt reluctant claiming she is a virgin that i should do her introduction before any se*x but this girl is just seeking for admission and i don't think i can do her introduction without she getting her degree. Or how do you think i should act peeps in the house

Oloye e fi awon omo kekere wonyi sile fun wa boys now haba.

Nnamdikalu:
Thank you so much.

Sure bro.

Here's the secret. When you're rejected it's an opportunity to get someone better.

What is yours will always come to you.

Ymain:
do i knw u

Probably not with this moniker though.

Ymain:
its nt by force move on

mumu

That was harsh dear. Welcome back. I'm sure I missed you.


Op, nnamdikalu. She isn't into you. You'll need to stop thinking about her and move on. Life is too short to mope about over a girl. Wish you the best though

Beadex1:
lol ...tis reminds me of acting as refuse collector with my friend just to enter her house ......naso so we do am for one week till my frd had her number.....

Hahahaha... *thumbs up# that's the spirit.

Marxxx:
Don't be selfish spill it out let's laugh. I am waiting.

Hahaha... Don't let me steal your thunder. Besides most are quite... personal.