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[Awww.marriage of convenience.so sorry.she was never deeply truly crazy in love with you.love makes people go extra mile,make sacrifices.not even a gift on ur birthday...ure being used by ur wife.she is just manipulating and using you as a money bag,for all u do for can't reciprocate ur gestures.u really need some loving right now reach out to ur mother,u will get love
from her,then I think it's time to discuss this issue with ur wife family, parents,elders,ur own parents and elders too.call for an urgent family meeting.Things are serious and getting out of hand if Iur considering suicide
when u should be enjoying ur wife and babies and living happily.call for a family meeting with both sides present ASAP ...quoteorr=MeeztaFabulouz post=96831267]

I have never looked forward to her assisting me financially and I am not accusing her of extramarital affairs. I feel bad being so disrespectful and not being caring for our home. There are many things I am unable to write because its like writing a book. Maybe if you think of how it feels when you dedicate yourself to someone then do everything to make that person happy and that person does not care and is only self centred then you will understand how painful it feels.
Seven years I have done all a man needs to do to try and build a peaceful and decent home, there are good times when we just overlook things and be happy and then that attitude just comes alive again from no where and all I get is trouble upon trouble again. Some days I can hardly even eat at home and in seven years, I can only remember hearing "am sorry" just twice apart from when I try to just ignore certain things and she just give me all those sober reactions.
I really don't know how to explain but I believe some married men here will understand better because its like most comments I see are from people that are not married and don't understand what dedicating your life to someone you once loved so much means.[/quote]

[quote author=Righteousness89 righteousness wat do one do if the person who is the will of God for you left and married someone else.what fo u do?post=96827699]You shall Know the truth and the truth will set u Free..

The First truth you should know is that if you kill yourself in any way or Form, you will open your Eyes Live in Hell Fire! And it's forever and Ever.

Secondly, this is the reason I am an advocate that young men and Women seek the Face of God before saying I do. And until you are sure GOD has showed you your Spouse, do not Marry! Marriage is a life time Commitment. Going your way might look sweet at the start but it will always end in Pains!

Thirdly, you Have Married! You Have Married! You are her Husband and she is your wife.
There could be Solutions but you need to approach the originator of the institution of Marriage and take Matters to HIM on the basis of His Mercy.

As you Pray you reach out to Elders you know she could listen to.


For those who are about to Enter, Ensure you Hear Clearly about your Spouse. If you didn't Hear! Pls no matter how juicy its looks, do not Enter!

Do not Marry because of He/she has Cash
Do not Marry because she has Big behind/Big Before or because He has 12 packs
Do not Marry because He/ She is this or that!
Do not Marry for Sympathy or Pity!

The Only Reason to Marry Him/ Her should be Because you Have Sort the Face of GOD and HE has given you the Go ahead!

It is Better to Be Single than to Marry who is not the will of GOD for you!

It will always End in Tears!

They that Have Ears to Hear! Let them Hear![/quote]

[u still didn't enlighten more uote author=7BigSquids post=96828449]



Yes. It's coded and because it's highly coded people don't know it's attack[/quote]

[ u mean people do this.it may be a spiritual attack on him? Please tell me more.quote author=7BigSquids post=96537264]



We're you at any time very successful in your endeavor out of the midst of surrounding friends?


They may have " fired " you this particular condition without you knowing. There's just one clue whenever this happens and it's always a source I wish not to fully speak on publicly but is always projected at someone when they are succeeding in their endeavors


There's always the desire to sleep like if you wake you up from even 7 hours sleep, you feel like sleeping right away. If its this, then you need do legwork o[/quote]

U really need to see a doctor,u me get be Suffering from hypersomnia.u have tis since five years now.its been too long.stop trivializing such condition as this.uts been ongoing for five years now.what if u were driving and and u fall asleep at the wheel? Imagine the scenario.Try and see a doctor as fast as u can.its a bad condition.Sorry about this,I hope u get the medical assistance u require.

Irresponsible Dog.Now u're praising women,soon u will get vicious and start barking, biting and punching the women u're praising.If i were those women i would tell u to Bleep off.keep ur money while I keep my fine face and peace of mind. Mentally deranged man.

[No shes not! Erica is a natural beauty.Ericas face prettier than hers.Nengi has a round face with bold teeth,and botoxed lips,Erica has a long face,beautiful bow shaped lips,and dark skin.Erica is a true african beauty! If she goes for surgery to enhance her butts and hips and like Nengi she will be on fire like Kim K.Nengi is using her half caste white skin to
shine.EVEN THE BBNAIJA GUYS,NEO,PRINCE,PRAISE,TRICKYTEE,... DURING THEIR STAY IN THE HOUSE CONFESSED ERICA WAS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN THE HOUSE.uotehorBishop post=96682988]And beautiful, way better looking than that Wh0re Erica[/quote]

[U DO REALLY KILL BROKE HOES !quote author=Ikillbrokehoes post=96670551]You are obviously still a little girl, when the opportunity comes u will change ur mind, you are saying this because u are not matured enough to reason.

I'm sure with this stupid mindset of yours, no man will look ur way or have anything to do with you unless you marry your ancestors (likes of Ned nwoko)
Me and my woman share bills of everything, she made that decision herself, does that make her less of a woman? no! she's a real woman because she don't depend on me and our relationship isn't about money but love, real love at that unlike you, grow up girl.[/quote]

Ah! the age-long dilemma.Mother-inlaw and daughter inlaw,a wife! Motherhood is a never ending role,a mothers duties are never finished until death.Mothers are to be honored,valued,cherished and respected.U can never compete with a mans mother.she gave him life,carried him for 9months,nurtured him to adulthood.She has made sacrifices no wife can match.A wise woman gets on the side of her mother inlaw.Its only a wicked girl that will be enraged or furious her husband bought his mom a car.A goodhearted woman will even remind him that its not good his mom is trekking,she will even contribute her own money to buy the car.because she takes the mother inlaw as her other mother.

On the mans part,those neglecting their mothers are under very grievous sins.if that woman ever opens her mouth to curse you,gosh..the effect is terrible.Curses from mothers are very devastating.As a truly wise man and head of ur home u must find that balance,making ur mom happy ,while not neglecting ur wife.there is enough space in my heart for both of u.my wife must understand that if she doesnt worship my mom,she will be quickly replaced ASAP.On her part,she must take my mom as her mom.And my mom must take her as her own daughter.I will involve my mom in the affairs of our family,ask for her advice and input if need be.I wont abandon her because im married man now.doing such will create bitterness in my moms heart and she will see my wife as d enemy who stole her son care and affection away from her!now age long mother-daughter inlaw war starts.

Now as a mother inlaw,i will understand that my son is grown up and no more that baby in pampers who shit in his pants,piss on hiz face and sucked my breasts.He is a Man now with his own family.I would not be nosy and overbearing and interfere wen im not required.I will give him his space to handle issues knowing and trusting I did an excellent job raising him well.I will respect boundaries and get a life,focus on my love my husband,another project,a business,adopt another baby to throw my attention and love on,who even needs it more...

Finally, as a wife, my mother inlaw is my mother too.she is not my enemy.she produced and trained that son I loved so much and married.How would i feel if it was my own mother trekking under the scorching sun while im cruising all over town in my AC Benz? Automatic curses befalls those who place no value on their parents,especially mothers!When my husband is suffering it will also affect me and the kids.A wise woman ensures she keeps doing wat she does to keep the open doors open and blessings flowing.
Those who fight against their mother inlaw especially if ure lucky to have a good mom inlaw, are writing an Invitation letter to curses and sorrow.

Those men neglecting their moms and lavishing money and attention on women because of pussy while their mothers soak garri are digging their graves! U will one day become a mother inlaw and father inlaw,Karma is waiting for u,its just a matter of time!

[Sentiments is not even allowed even if it's ur blood or relationship.what is required is someone who will deliver,someone* who is qualified for the duties!quoteor=DonHummer post=96641810]Peter obi is one person that will put this country back on the path of progress but Nigerians will rather vote someone with no viable experience and knowledge on how to run the country just because he is from my place/tribe/ religion, as if that will spare you from difficulties when things get bad. As a country man, you are one billion times likely to benefit from government policies from a good leader than just the mere fact that he is from my place. sentiments is allowed in voting if a particular politician is directly related to you by blood/relationship. if this is not the case, do the right thing.[/quote]

U're just a wicked girl.What u did that day is the real you.U will know people true nature by how they treat those In lesser positions in life,those who are under them, who are less fortunate,who can't pay them back.d reason u're apologise is because people called u out,and u have lost some connections ,not that ure truly sorry.I watched the video and heard ur wicked laugh as u drove off with the little girl watching u helplessly.I asked myself whats so funny.Are U laughing at the child that she is a beggar or laughing at ur stupidity?

She is a lucky woman God gave weapon of intelligence to survive in the world[. I'm a very lucky girl given many weapons by God too.I sabi book con fine on top.thank u Godquote author=NwaAmaikpe post=96630239]



A big congrats to her.
Though ugly but smart, it is such a deserved win for her.
Because she is one who makes even successful men look like dwarfs.

I guess Forbes heard about her role in the tussle for the Obahai throne in Ogwashi-Uku before giving her this award.[/quote]

Maybe she doesn't want marriage.leave her alone

NwaAmaikpe:




2020 is almost over.
Hanty when will you marry?

The sad reality of knowing she doesn't have a man to her name depsite her fame and wealth has pushed her to leading a sad life of vanity.

Knowing she has 2300 pairs of shoes, 800 bags and 7 automobiles may make her sleep better at night.
But the truth is that, every morning she wakes up realizing that she needs more than Range Rover; she needs a new last name.

Please people help.the videos I watch on nairaland have no audio.they all play
but don't speak out.i can't hear a thing even though the mute button is not on

This Abike Dabiri u no dey tire? Nigeria are very talented and hard-working people,wherever they go they dominate and Shine.there are many young,rising talented citizens like this,how many can afford the fees of aviation school?Even our aviation schools here in Nigeria are substandard.madam u and ur Ogas should fix Nigeria.this pilot got her training in white man's land,now u're celebrating her success.

[Its only the chat that is there, nothing else..
quote author=Emeraldgreene post=96599436][I didn't type any number.thete not urbank account details!quote author=elExtrano post=96598561]
Ok ma. You'll go to where you mentioned my quote. Click modify. Then you'll delete the number or everything you typed and press submit. That's how we modify posts. Thanks once again ma[/quote]

[I didn't type any number.thete not urbank account details!quote author=elExtrano post=96598561]
Ok ma. You'll go to where you mentioned my quote. Click modify. Then you'll delete the number or everything you typed and press submit. That's how we modify posts. Thanks once again ma[/quote]

[Really?men love easily?marry who they don't love.Why do u say so? quote author=sammirano post=96591199]

Tales by moonlight. In you own best interest forget about that woman. If someone can leave you at any point due to one thing or the other, then they will leave you when such happens in future its all about time.

The problem is men love easily but to find a woman that loves you is hard. That's why I said men should try and marry the person they don't love.[/quote]

[u have go do three crucial things.1. Pray to your creator for your destiny partner,bone if ur bone,he alone knows who and where she is.2.pray for patience.3.U must develop the qualities of a good man.u must make urself her dream man.ask urself Would u want to marry u if u were a woman? There are too many animals in human flesh out there.quote author=Funkyswagzz post=96574980]This is roughly a year and four months I have decided to find someone to marry. It's been so dramatic all along and I'm getting tried already. I want a woman who I am compatible with. I don't need anyone that is hot tempered or stubborn. I want a woman that is hard workin who loves me the way i am. Is it so difficult to find? I came out from a crazy relationship and I don't want to experience something like that anymore. I don't want issues all the time.

The funny thing happening at the moment is that am "tryin to"(still at the process) date my ex's high school mate. The way our part crossed again was just ironic. Sometimes I feel stupid for tryin to date her tho she's not the reason why we broke up. Salute to those that got married. Abeg how una take do am..[/quote]

A bag which cost over 8 million naira... looking at I was expecting to see diamond encrusted and precious stones on it,but nothing special! 99% Naija actresses and big daddies.Big daddies like so are the reason pussy bussiness pays well.

U NO DEY TIRE?

Macsjebs:
Ecclesiastes 10:19 - A feast is made for laughter, wine makes life merry, and money is the answer for everything.

...Lagos traffic lately is indeed worrisome and as if that isn't enough stress already, a lady in the car today shocked me when she engaged me in an argument over how I smelled

And I was like, Ma'am pls calm down and give me a minute to explain. It was no small drama as she went on and on, saying, I am a guy and not a lady, I shouldn't 'bath' myself with perfumes

Eventually, I explained to her that less is more with our mind blowing fragrances, It was indeed a happy ending after she got from me for trials and confirmed saying 'never in my over three decade on earth have I used such a potent and astounding fragrance'

This isn't made up and even reviews from Nairalanders on the thread on my signature corroborates it.

[Amenquote author=ProfessorBerlin post=96594297]















Unmerited favour is ur portion. shine on.[/quote]

[Ok how do I do thatquote author=elExtrano post=96594629]
Yes ma. God bless you. This is more than I expected. Everything you lost during the pandemic will be replenished. Thanks ma. Ma pls can you unquote my details you my mentioned. Im really grateful. Thank you.[/quote]

Have u seen alert?

elExtrano:
God bless you ma. Gtb OI765-56777. Thank you

[Ok oh...this year have been extremely terrible,the pandemic was devastating.jes manage the tiny one i send u to feed.send ur account number..not quote author=elExtrano post=96593608]
I use it ma because I'm an introvert and people in real life call me weird or mysterious because I don't talk much or do things that most people do. I like to keep to myself mostly. I'm no hacker ma. Nothing to be afraid of. If I could hack like anonymous my life would have been a lot better. This little fly can't do anything to you ma.[/quote]

[Thank God I had little to share with u. pray to God to open my way...more blessings for u. quote author=ProfessorBerlin post=96593877]






















God bless u plenty. more blessings. I don't even know how to show my appreciation. thank u very much. pls drop ur number let me call u[/quote]

This one ur moniker is the strange one,I'm afraid.why did u use it.it reminds me of anonymous hackers

elExtrano:
Ma I'm very very sorry for quoting you here, I know I'll be insulted for this but pls I beg you pls bless me with anything to help me out. I have asked people around to help me even with a loan but I'm mostly ignored or being told God would provide. I'm really sorry for disgracing myself but pls ma save me, the poverty in the land has choked we daily workers, pls ma I'll in your power rather be told no than ignored. Thanks and God bless you even if you don't answer me.

[Hav u seen alert?quote author=ProfessorBerlin post=96590309]













6027557356, keystone bank[/quote]

[Oya send ur account numberquote author=ProfessorBerlin post=96566402]I no even get anybody i fit call to send me even 1k.














I celebrate with the people that are blessed[/quote]

[U need a woman like Blackpearlous,a nairalander member.shes just ur type.she posted something on this forum not quite long ago..quote author=slawormiir post=96565483]Damnnn niggarrrr
Whaaat daaaa fuckkkkkkkkkk
To all my real niggarrrrs....lets bow our head and pray for God to give us a woman whose thigh is slim enough not to choke her vaginal thereby preventing vaginal odour
A woman that is portable and mobile
Can be carried from the kitchen or sitting room to da oza room


What has been seen cannot be unseen
The only thing you can do now is to order for some weed or enough bottles to dirty the eye[/quote]

[Hahaha...u need to get in touch with Blackpearlous,a nairalander chick whos just ur type.she posted something on this forum some days back. U will like her.quote author=slawormiir post=96565483]Damnnn niggarrrr
Whaaat daaaa fuckkkkkkkkkk
To all my real niggarrrrs....lets bow our head and pray for God to give us a woman whose thigh is slim enough not to choke her vaginal thereby preventing vaginal odour
A woman that is portable and mobile
Can be carried from the kitchen or sitting room to da oza room


What has been seen cannot be unseen
The only thing you can do now is to order for some weed or enough bottles to dirty the eye[/quote]