[Those artwork...ive been looking to buy a couple.. wish i waz there would have bought those ones made by local Craftsman as a Souvenir...I miss lagos though.quote author=pocohantas post=96570821]8— People selling different things…

Finally bought one. The last picture is what I went for. They are cooking, so why not?
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[no that's not nice to say...take advantage of her? I loved her so much in BBN,I sent a text appreciating her for her pure heart and sincererity...but the only issues I have with her us that she's beautiful,nice,but not smart.I expected her to have been more calculating. She would have used her fame and beautiful face to get various endorsement here and there,fo us more on her dreams instead of always being seen with Kidd. quote author=NwaAmaikpe post=96570994]



The sooner Erica gets a life outside of KiddWaya; the better for her.

No matter how beautiful, great and perfect you are; you fall completely from grace once you become excessively clingy to a guy.
Nothing good will ever come out of this escort job she has employed herself as.

Women have made men believe that sex is a trophy....that's why after the cookie has been tasted a man looses drive and the tables become turned.
But because a woman's greatest fear is that you're walking away with her trophy...she holds on to you so she can sleep well at night that you were not just about the trophy or that she didn't lose you and her trophy.
It takes a wise lady to know when to count her losses and move on to other trophy hunters.

I can only imagine the level of debasement this girl will undergo and endure for Kidd's validation.
This is typical for girls who grew up without a father figure in their lives.

He should just take advantage of it to use her to live out all his sexual fantasies then kick her to the curb just like Big Brother did.[/quote]

So sorry u went through this bitter experience, If u truly you were not at fault on ur part,to make her behave that way. I understand u wanted a good home and didn't want ur children to experience what u did; a broken home.
Meanwhile I have some questions for you.

1.Did you pray and fast to God on your own not by a prophet or pastor telling you she is ur wife? Did you hear from God to know if she is the woman for you,ur destiny wife before u married her,did you ask your maker?U have been unequally yoked. Cos there is a perfect soulmate for everyone.

2.When u were dating her and u saw all this signs,did U ask urself if u can cope with her because people hardly change?

3.Why did u go ahead,give money and make traveling plans with her brother knowing fully well through experiences that he is not mostly a trustworthy man? You know once bitten,twice shy.

4.Did u tell ur wife and her family of ur family background,are they aware that u went through devastating family experiences when growing up and how ur father treated you all? And how you struggled to build a good life for yourself?

4.This is an important fact.There are some women who carry favor and good luck(fountain of water) and some women who carry badluck and misfortune.In occult mysteries they are known as (dry leaves of the desert) ur contact with such people (women)will leave u with misfortune and disaster.unfortunately ur wife is a dry leaf.
quoterfectsouth post=96430898]Cc royalroy

Well, I don't wNt my kids to go through what I went through so I forgave her.. God was answering my prayers and things started picking gradually.. I went to meet them, took them all out and did shopping for them..
I was planning on how to relocate them to where I was...
Now this is the revelation..
My wife has been used,thats the fact...
My photography business first collapsed.
I did about 5 businesses that just one of it can make me a millionaire, every business collapsed.. The more I sleep with her, the more things become worse for me...
All these revelation came after I was told to pray and fast..

When things started picking gradually for me this year, I payed for a shop 300k,it was almost my son's birthday. So I went to see them.. We slept together, I came back after the birthday.. Could you believe, I was chased away from that shop and till now, I was only able to recover just 50k from the money..
Before my mom's birthday again, I was doing some business and it started picking. Went for my mom's, she came for the birthday too, we slept together, and when I came back to my business, the war I fought was unfathomable.. It collapsed too..
I am a very prayerful person and believe me, in the 8yrs we've been together, I never slept with another woman. I sweared with everything they gave me cos they couldn't believe me..
Before my daughter's birthday, God was merciful to me and I started another business.. I was warned severely never to sleep with her again.. Till now, my business is gradually picking and am able to send them money for upkeep and my kids school fees....

Now this my wife have an immediate younger brother who is a travel agent, I remember last year I introduced a friend to him and even vouch and stood for him that nothing will go wrong.. Truly he did this guy's traveling to Dubai and the guy went.. But we didn't know what happened and this guy came back.. Maybe he was deported or not, nobody knows but this my friend came to arrest me and I was told to produce my Inlaw.. He came and we were both locked up for 3days..along the line, the matter got settled, I parted with some money after selling one of my equipment. And he too also raised some money.. So this year, when things were already picking up for me, he got into another problem and this time, they were gonna jail him, so I borrowed him 100k and he promised to pay them 50k monthly till he complete the payment.. It was a travel gone sour though I know some people he has done traveling for and they are doing fine in their respective country of choice.

So this year, someone decided to help me travel out, he gave me UNIVERSITY OF MANITOBA admission processing fees, it was 120cad, but I gave this my Inlaw 150$ believing that atleast, since I am his Inlaw and have done him alot of goods before nothing will go wrong..
That was in August..
Fast forward to 2days ago, I messaged University of Manitoba since I wasn't getting any update, and I was told my application was not submitted neither paid for, I almost collapsed... So what he did was doctored some documents and sent to me and I believed him..
Right now, I am in a fix..
About my wife's promiscuity, I have all evidence of their chat..
After forgiving her over that chat, when I went for my daughter's birthday, I wanted to go through her phone, she gave me a heavy fight that I can't go through her phone, the phone I bought for her with my money..
When she slept, I opened it with her Fingerprint.
The chats there are so damaging. Some have slept with her and still wanting to do more, some she is already negotiating with.
She works in a beer parlor now and she is already using waist beads, she knows I hate these things..

I can't tell it all but if you have a question to ask, or anything you think I missed, ask me and i will tell you the truth..
My Inlaw hasn't pick my call to tell me why that happened..

If you think this is a fabricated story,
I have all evidences.
If enough people ask for it, I will release it here..
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[Leave him alone,he isn't insulting anyone,unlike many posts i see here.he is one of the well -mannered,cultured,non-insultung person here.He is only passing a message.if u don't like his posts,Ignore him and keep reading others.Simple.author=Uyi168 post=96504394]..
Since jesus has refused to come, can't u die and go and meet him [/quote]

Dang!What's wrong with black people? Here even rats and cockroaches have value and are treated like humans.
Poor Bird..RIP.I love you.kiss.kiss.

My apologies please,this message it's someone else's message.Im only trying to quote the person,they are not my words,sorry... please stop usinf insulting words.learn to be civil.ok.quote author=tyup post=96419591]

Come on....will you get tf Away from here [/quote]

[Hahahaha..ure so bad@"porn playing on TV" .how would u punish ur guests that came to preach eternal life in paradise to you that way? I can imagine the erections and drippings as they struggle to focus in their message... please stop it's TV brutality! author=NwaAmaikpe post=96405359]


He should not incur the wrath of God by doing this; how can anyone say the sound of the gospel is noise to him?
Shebi, if God makes his next 4 generations to suffer from irreversible deafness they will say that God has started.

But the devil can sha give us ingenious ways of shutting out the word of God.
Back in the days when I was an unbeliever before I eventually gave my life to Christ and finally backslided, there was this Jehovah Witness couple that would never let me be.

Every Sunday they'd stroll into my parlor to share the goodnews. Out of civility, I'd listen to them and even offer them refreshments till the day one lady who had just been recently widowed finally agreed to visit me after 2months of non-stop follow-up. We were just about to start "egwu jigida" when my JW friends knocked.

I mumuishly opened the door and they ended up making my new convert their new convert.
That was the begining of my sworn enmity with the JW sect and till this day, whenever they come visiting, I ensure I have porn playing on the TV.

It hasn't always had the scarecrow effect on them because it has helped me convert at least eight JW ladies to my bedmates.

It was after tasting a Jehovah Witness woman that I understood why they say that paradise is here on earth.

You see eh, sometimes you just have to do what you have to do.[/quote]

[Yes .I would respond because he didnt insult u,no need being defensive.all he wanted was assurance...in business,u will meet different personalities,learn tolerance,learn patience.quote author=Sommydisaster post=96404177]

Good evening,I was gon' to respond to you earlier today...but I needed to chill before I drop my message clearly

You said he was only asking me questions,picture if I ad question you authoritatively when I barely know you..... would you respond?
Be honest with yourself

That am an online vendor doesn't means I should welcome all sort of attitude all because I want to sell my product,if he doesn't buy other sane persons has bought

As for your last question my AC are factory fitted unit that are strong enough to serve you better[/quote]

[U are a fine looking chocolate candy bar! Let me tell u a secret ,some men like them skinny cos every man has a Type! Plus when u start having babies u're going to fill out some more in the right places! So u don't have to feel bad.Continue to be black,skinny and proud.I love you.mmuaah...quote author=Blackpearlous post=96388149]
Black, skinny and proud

It took we a very long and rough ride through my teenage and adult years to come Into this conclusion.

Let me ride you through the beginning of time( not really just when my dad met my mum). My dad saw a very light skinned godess in Lagos and was bent on getting married to her, majorly because of her skin. He carries a distinct shade of black on every part of his body, even till now snapchat can't edit it away, so getting her was a do and die affair. Ofcourse he got her, if not there would be no one behind the phone typing now.

I was manufactured, if all of my remaining 6 siblings were manufactured in the same color, I think the world would have been a better place, Adolf Hitler would have been nicer and there would be no corruption in Nigeria. Nigeria's never ending corruption is the prove we were manufactured in different shades and sizes.
#Hint: To stop corruption in Nigeria you have to go back in time and make sure we were born with the same skin color.

The competition was mad, from my own side mostly. I wasn't only dark skinned not like my father though but I was skinny, I have two big sis lighter than and I and figure 8, cars stopped for them, I always kept trekking, no attention, no free things, I tire, even at home my mum talked about her Glory days as a young woman but I had no story. Depressing.

I blamed all of my short comings always on the color of my skin and my weight. I was in Africa and I felt left out constantly. Especially when I was left out from an ushering job because my skin wasn't that attractive and I didn't have curves and my sisters were chosen, oh what a night!

I WASNT BEAUTIFUL my conclusion. So I wanted to feel beautiful. Smart me concluded that changing my skin would get me all the attention I wanted, I just wanted to be fine and big so I used as many lighting cream available and took to drugs to gain weight and curves.

Boom I was on my way to being perfect. On the look out for knuckle creams and was eating like "you know who" at a time. Every night my solace was the advances I got to reject, people could see me or guys could see me and they loved me, I was accepted because I wasn't dark anymore and I was curvy(or round, better than being skinny). I was always jealous of skinny, dark and confident girls, mtcheew what made them glow. Any body cream that makes me dark, I will say " this is not my color, this cream is not bringing out my color", I also deleted black pictures of myself online, but some of my friends were the pain in my ass, kept theirs.

Then I developed digestive issues, and my skin was super sensitive I could almost not put my feet on the ground when it's wet, yea that sensitive. These and low esteem was my price, because some days my skin was perfect some days i Iooked like the sun and my make up wasn't blending some days.

Sat on my bed one day( actually many days and nights) and I realized that I need to start Loving me and taking care of me, wasn't easy, I started looking dark again I was losing weight, the tongues were rolling again, I was hiding till I took all the strength I had and Introduced myself as the dark, skinny girl.

Started using, natural products, moisturizers, products that promises to maintain and started gaining weight at my own pace and was walking like I owned the whole world and I worked on my short comings as an individual, it was like a rebirth I attracted more reasonable people to myself, lived healthy, killed the invisible competition even got to know my sisters beyond their skin and curves, took rejection as casual as I could then I finally got to this point of being black, skinny and proud.[color=#990000][/color][/quote]

[Hes only asking a question,given how Nigerians behave especially during business..im also concerned if it works perfectly.quote author=Sommydisaster post=90066409]

Is this a joke or what??

Don't try writing shits like this on my page

If you feel you do soldier thangs, you don't know what the other person operates...... Please this should be the last time you'd do something like this

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I see u have no sense
.[U think I'm like u chasing clout?.come this kid,ur crap is too much,I have tolerated enough from u.I'm warning u for the last time,stay off my mention! quoteor=tyup post=96351393]

You chased clout by flooding the Forum with ur tears of ur unimagined archaic help n yeah I dared you, so get ur ass up to the task Bitch and just drop ur running name already and wait for it [/quote]

[Seeking for my attention.useless post which i wont dignify by replying you.goodbye.cursed child.quote author=tyup post=96351209]

You said you wanna contest under some unimaginable party Ight? if e sure for you or u got balls just like u said drop off ur running name and see if I'll not drop ur matter to em Northern wigs n frustrate ur clan and make em deny ya every opportunity. you'll only win ur House election

shey u think you know people and have connection I dare you on a fast track and if you really ain't going to, Bleep off and go let ya Problems Group Intimacy you raw [/quote]

Hahahaha...u are part of Nigerian problem.The evil and wickedness in ur heart will make it explode into tiny pieces.Little boy seeking for my attention..I won't dignify ur post by replying u.

tyup:


there's every iota of Home training in me and ya should rather guess who you are? you're a nobody but a bleeping Monstrously noise making incompetent plebeians and I can smell a daint of a Town crier in ur primordial kindling, n the truth is I'm not awed to see same taking a dawn on ya

it's funny how you swiped the challenge Ina snap and here talking bout Body guards. I dare you to bring em blighted Syphilitic body guards to confront me at Gwadabawa and take a look if I'll not give y'all new lives

y'all wasted generation of Igbos with Unconscionably maniacal peons that can't rise to every level of sanity. ur so bleeped up Bitch

U're insulting ur mother not me.the womb who bore u should be pitied.U
lack home training.U can never in ur wildest dreams say such to me if u meet me in person.my body guards will beat culture and respect into you.Your evil words,hatred and vitriol are for u and ur generations.Now get off my mentions.ure not the only young man on this forum.ANUOFIA

tyup:


Who the bleep cares bout all the lives you've changed?? why the tears on it?? why do ya have to announce it to the world to noticed ur Bitchy Re-tarded moves

The fact that ur sibling and ur relatives to ur other generations are really so poor to afford data don't speak same for a nigga like me. I'll keep ur finances in shackles Bitch, so don't even dare trying to play the Dumbo crestfallen card. and if ur up for a challenge let's get at it loosed asshole Bitch

A message to ur Eternal Brain dead generation is that they should thrash ur Gene inherited stupidity and avoid unnecessary aggrandizement to balance their daintiness of them douce mien. Slowpoke pukes

Tell that to your mother.Who are this little boys born yesterday with no respect for elder come online with 5 naira data? the lives I have changed ur generation can never achieve it.Anuofia!quoteor=tyup post=96348919]

Get the fvck outta here [/quote]

Absolutely.U can imagine!in my own little world,in my pain and suffering ,I'm still changing lives.even as I'm not counting millions.please Vote for me wen I join the new youth democratic party.I need a platform.

Michaeltreasure:
Yet some people will say youths are the saviors of this country. Imagine this lady becoming a senator or first lady of a state or the country, imagine what she would do.
In reality, the upcoming generation of leaders, if care isn't taken, will be worse than the present ones.
Take my word for it!

WICKED GIRL! I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE MOCK THE LESS-PRIVILEDGED.because OF ME A LITTLE POOR BOY HAWKING ON THE STREET GOT A SCHOLARSHIP. LEARN FROM ME.! LATER U SPEAK AGAINST THE WICKEDNESS OF YOUR LEADERS,BUT U WILL DO WORSE IF UR TYPE EVER BECOME FIRST LADY! SEE HOW SHE LOOKS LIKE A MOSQUITOE! THIS IS THE REAL HER.SHE HAS BEEN PRETENDING ALL THIS WHILE.ITS MY FIRST TIME HEARING OF YOU.DONT EVEN KNOW WHO SHE IS.ANUOFIA.

Look at such fearless man...ohh.I wish I had a Man like this who will come swiftly to rescue me like this whenever I need help.Eyaah.

[No one is talking of not valuing marriage here! Its not an issue of not valuing marriage..its about making marriage a do or die affair! Marriage at all cost! I know first hand 3 women who lost their lives in marriage.I also know one babe who snatched other woman husband,the wife came to fight her,an older woman, so in d course of fighting the babe,the woman slumped and Died.her husband continued with d babe enjoying his life! It's women who suffers most in marriage.ipost=96314238]

Is life itself an Oscar, Grammy Award or Guinness book of record? If you don't value marriage then good for you. Are you not a product of marriage? [/quote]

[Hahaha...then don't get married..Marriage is not for everybody...keep ur freedom and continue fucking ur bitches,do ur baby mama shit..noone is forcing u to be married.its ur call!uote author=slawormiir post=96308001]Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright...

Isoright..how niggarrrrs are bold to get married baffles me...
A real niggarrr will now be in the same roof with one particular pussy for God knows how long
The thought of that shit scares the hell out of me
Coupled with the fact that she won't be allowing me to live my life on the fast lane anymore...she won't allow me smoke my weed, bang other pussy, drink enough bottles
Not to talk of the fact that my dickkk won't be getting excited for her anymore because my dickkk is used to her already...the love will no longer be there...but we will continue to be pretending that we still love each other probably because of our kids and what society will say

Oh...lord...help a real niggarr...because with the way he is thinking now..he be like say na baby mama sure me die
Damnnn.......mmmmm...he who finds a wife..finds real dope problem and wahalar [/quote]

Sorry...then use ur aunties.theres one u're closest to or the father figure in ur life.

StagethemTVee:
Mum died January 2017.

Lucky to be married?! marriage is a golden Oscar award,a grammy or Guinness book Of records?Na wah for Nigeria.only wen I return I see how marriage means success.in Africa. Only those who are married understand the travails of marriage.it ain't sugar and spice..SMH...Na wah oh

Ghostmode2two:
Well my advice to ladies who are lucky to be married is to love and respect their men.

[Sorry..so painful...if u still have ur mom with you,take care of here and be there for her.Be a husband and perfect Son to her... enjoy her while she's still with you,do all u can for her,and her heart will always bless u.quote author=StagethemTVee post=96253819]So sad. I lost my dad on Sunday and have been so crushed[/quote]

[I meant that nature and nurture in child upbringing,is powerful,with NURTURE* being more powerful. U can't really blame the OP.His first Influence as a child was his sisters who modeled authoritative behavior to him..so his childhood influences and his formative years,those pattern were modeled to him.And he views the world and interactions through that lens...remember the adage c.train up a child in the way he should go and he will never depart from it.So he is neither crazy nor foolish,it's just unfortunate his first examples were his sisters.quoteLENTandSMART2 post=96224551]



Aunty what did you meant by typing dat ?


Shit happens [/quote]

Hmm.kids of today.God help Parents.The mom is right in spanking her ,she only overreacted.Such news makes me remember my teenage years, growing up as a young girl, my parents are so blessed to have me as their daughter.. never in their lives have they heard from neighbors or caught me with a boy inspite of my being physically attractive.but they will always catch and punish my other siblings and cousins living with us.I remember how my mom caught my cousin having sex with a boy in a building yet to be completed and flogged the hell out of my cousin,put pepper in her eyes and vagina.. since then she stopped...On the other hand I was the perfect child who make good grades in school,do my house chores, obedient, respectful and reserved.I hardly got any beating because I was very well behaved.I still remain the perfect no more a child but woman.

[Please is there a way to get in touch with his widow,or kids, family, brother or Sister...lets help and assist financially and make this news trend
. please reply me ASAP.thanksquote author=Dpharisee post=96229640]Please stop hailing politicians for handouts, now see what getting close to the Speakers car to do ranka Dede has caused him in the hands of an overzealous police idiot who is not even sure of getting his contributory pension on retirement.
I see that vendor guy daily at that federal secretariat junction hustling by selling newspapers and books, he walks up to my car window to show the headlines to make ends meet daily under the scorching sun and now the police fool who thinks he wants to impress Gbaja has shot him [/quote]

[This is Avery ignorant reponsequote author=SILENTandSMART2 post=96168435]How does this concern us bayi o ?



Even if you found werey attractive , nah your problem be dat,



We're not ready to answer any werey questions,



Misplaced priority everywhere


You go dey alright lasss lasss [/quote]

[I would also like to be an intelligence agent.its what I would like to do this coming yearquotet=96195284]

I don't think so aside from Mossad, its allies (CSIS, CIA, Mi6, DGSE, and so on) don't kill other Assets from rival intelligence agencies instead they give them a chance to defect and offer them protection. The FSB, MSS, and Irans VEVAK will kill you once they know you are an Asset of another country after interrogation and torture.[/quote]

[U pray??that's how he will search for the names and bodies of his own.quote author=DoubleEngine007 post=96191545] The major question you should have asked ,is why Lagos state Governor lied about inviting the military? And why the military lied about shooting at first.. Leaders dey lie lie.. Na names you sit down dey find.. Keep searching and asking for the names and I pray you don't become their next victim.. Shalom![/quote]

@OP...I ain't trying2 discourage u but you have to learn to look beyond what you see.I understand love can be of the soul, unconditional.Since u want something serious with her which might probably lead to marriage,are u comfortable with a Church whose leader refer to himself as god,kings of kings and lord of lords,creator of the Universe and who perform various questionable rituals carried out at rivers? If u were a member it's a different issue cos u're both In the same boat. Spirituality and similar beliefs is the one of the most important core of any marriage.It will be difficult for her to change her church because she was brought up there.its her family church.she is a woman,she will have a very powerful influence over you and ur kids.Are u ready to take ur kids down that path?you have to be careful u don't begin ur life with this woman on a shaky foundation.you really have to pray to ur Creator and ask him for guidance,and then speak to the lady and ask if she will be willing to change church in future.For those who say BCC members are nice,there are nice people in every church,and there are also bad people in every church,and everywhere u go all over the world.if ur spirit is not comfortable with her place of worship,I suggest u find someone else.There is always another soulmate for you down the road.