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Brandstudio01:
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BeerParlour:
I don't need Jesus in my life

What is your reason for saying you don't need Jesus in your life? Doesn't the scripture John:3:16 mean anything to you?

In a time like this when the whole world has being kept on a standstill; great fear & panic has encapsulated the hearts of humanity due to a virus (Covid-19) that came from the pit of hell just to hamper the health & wellbeing of humanity. What we all need now is the consciousness of God's word.

The Bible says the entrance of God's word giveth light (Psalms:119:130).
Greater is he that is in us than he that is in the world (1John:4:4); Our body is the temple of God, and God spirit dwells in us(1Cor:3:16).

Now ask yourself how can God be in you and you'll also be infected by Coronavirus? Can any sickness or disease live in thesame body with God? The Spirit of God that is in us serves as a supernatural defense or divine immunity against any form of sickness and diseases.

He said in his word; that there shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy dwelling(Psalms: 91:10), He that dwelleth in the secrete place of the most high shall abide under the shadow of the almighty (Psalms: 91:1), Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I'll fear no evil, for thou art with me, thy rod and thy staff they comfort me (Psalms: 23:4).

So why are u scared? Why are u afraid? All you have to do is to have faith and believe in God's word. And take your mind or confidence from all these polluted facemask, hand-gloves and other kits that are even aiding the spread of this virus the more.

God is not a man that he should lie, neither the son of man that he should repent (Num:23:29). He has said it, and he's very much able and capable to perfect that which he has said.

And to you that has already being infected with this virus (Covid-19), you don't need to fear or depend on the medication you are currently receiving. All you need to do now is to confess your sins before God and accept Jesus as your Lord and savior (2Chro: 7:14). Jack up your faith, get a bread that signifies the flesh of Jesus, and a soft drink that signifies the blood of Jesus. read these scriptures; John:6:53-54, Isaiah: 53:5. Pray into it with believe in your heart, and administer it into your body. And i promise you, you'll be made whole.

For the word of God to be effective in our lives, we must live a life of purity and holiness unto God.

#CoronavirusIsDeadOnArrival� #BelieveInTheWordOfGod #HaveFaith #StayHoly #StayPure #TheWordOfGodIsPower� #GodBlessAndProtectYouAlways��

Thanks Op. God bless you for sharing! I'm lifted �

Blakewilli:
As we go about our daily prayers and church services, there are those verses from the bible which when incorporated in our prayers, stirs God and the host of Heaven into coming to our aide.
Some examples are:
Romans 8:38,For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, 39 Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Mattew 28:20,Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world. Amen.
Nehemia 8:10 Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.

Psalm 34:10b Those who seek the Lord lack no good thing.

Exodus 33:14 My presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.

Deuteronomy 31:8 It is the Lord who goes before you. He will be with you; he will not fail you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed.

John 14:27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

2 Timothy 1:7 For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline.
2 Corinthians 12:9 My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness
Hebrews 4:16 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who in every respect has been tested as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore approach the throne of grace with boldness, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.

Isaiah 43:1-3 Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you. For I am the Lord you God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior.
Etc.
A lesson i learned quite recently is never to fear or worry because God hath said it and i should believe his word.
We should pray lest we be tempted. The joy of the lord is our strength.Somebody scream halleluyahhh....
Hallelujah!!

And u seriously think you've said something meaningful? You've made no iota of sense

healthserve:
Deal with the reality in front of you.

If you continue to struggle and fight the truth that confronts you presently, you'll have a mental brealdown and it'll sap your energy.

Do the needful, which is live your life " Live Your Life "

ote author=TonyeBarcanista post=86748954]By TonyeBarcanista

One of the major problems bedevilling the society is the collapse of relationships, courtships, marriages and family system. Although people in these failed relationships do credit their partners as those responsible for the collapse, but I believe that most marital relationship collapse due to the failure of men to be men! Being a man comes with some burden of responsibilities that nature in her wisdom has placed on male folks. The way and manner men, as family heads, realise and discharge these responsibilities will ultimately determine the fate of the relationship/marriage, and the beginning of this start at the foundation of the relationship. To have successful relationship, men should note the following;
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Starting A Relationship:
Before starting a relationship, it is expected of the man to determine his life's vision, as well as and his expectations from himself first and his would-be partner. He has to also determines physical and non physical features of his would-be partner in terms of beauty, physique, character, medical, ethnicity, faith, age, education, ideology, etc. Every man must determine his according to his heart desire and must not be coerced or bullied by societal or peers narratives to accept any standard other than his.

The next stage is to approach/woo only ladies that appeals to them and also pass character test according to their expectations. The character of a would-be partner is the very key as it determines the happiness or otherwise of the budding relationship/marriage/family. This is one step that no man can afford to gamble with. The ideological, faith, medical, and others must not be gambled with. The truth about relationship is that good character is not enough qualification for a man to decide to settle with a woman. A woman's ideology, perspective towards life, family, genotype, faith, culture, tradition, family, sex and other sociocultural issues goes a long way to determine her compatibility or otherwise with the man. For instance, a man that believes in the traditional hierarchial headship of a husband has no business getting married to a woman that doesn't hold such ideology sacred. Partners with fundamental ideologies different from each other have no business marrying each other. Doing so will only be laying foundation for an inevitable doom era. May I emphasize that NO MAN should relegate his ideology in order to accommodate any woman for any reason.

Set Ground Rules And Stick To It
Every man should lay basic ground rule governing the relationship from the onset and ensure strict compliance. One important area that should not be overlooked is the subject of privacy. There is no privacy between a pair as long as relationship is concerned. Each should have unrestricted access to the other, including knowing passwords of phones; it is not a sign of insecurity contrary to what society would want to make one belief, it is simply a testament of oneness. As a man, any woman that doesn't believe in "No Privacy" relationship is most likely hiding something from you and should be a no-no.

Post-Proposal/Marriage Stage
With all the aforesaid in check and confirmed, men in relationship should proceed to take only women that match their criteria and meet their respective physical, character, ideological and other fundamental requirements to the "village" and altar, and do the needful. The purpose of courtship is not just for "free sex", it is a platform for would-be couple to confirm compatibility.

Once married, men should be prepared for greater task as family head, and ensure he leads by example, while their partner (and kids) also live by the family standard. Men shouldn't be slow to assert authority, appropriate sanctions and discipline on whoever that derails from the path, including himself.

Some Key Responsibilities And Expectations For Men
Having established the above, a man must recognise that as the hierarchical head and burden bearer of the relationship and marriage, he is saddled with greater responsibilities and expectations than his partner and/or any other member of the household.
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Some key responsibilities/Expectations include;

Fairness: Being head of family doesn't mean the man is a higher human to the wife or the children. It only put him at the top of authority within the family. He must be fair in his dealings with his wife at all times, knowing that he is accountable to God and nature. In fact, a man that isn't fair in his dealings will never know peace in the home.

Leadership: As a man, you can't flout rules and regulations and expect the woman to abide by it. It doesn't work that way! Leadership is by example, and men who aren't living exemplary lose every moral justification to address err by his woman or even his children.

Independent Mind: A man should have an independent mind that is not influenced by peers or societal narratives. He must realise that issues that concern relationship and home affairs are unique and he doesn't need popular opinion of relatives and strangers (on and off social media) before taking decision.

Openness To Ideas; Although a man is expected to possess independent mind, he is bound to open his mind to opinion and ideas of his woman on virtually all issues without having an impressionist mind. Though a man is the head and final authority, he is not omniscient. He may not even be the most knowledgeable between the pair. Even if he is the most knowledgeable, he may not be the most knowledgeable on the issue in question. Also, there is a wise saying that no idea is a waste, this applies to relationship. His final decision must be in the overall interest of the union irrespective of whether it comes from him or his wife.

NB: Without prejudice, a man must insist on decisions and actions that he is of a strong conviction that is of the benefit of the union/family even if his partner insists otherwise. But he should be prepared for the consequences should the action/decision yield unfavourable outcome.

Responsibility: A man must be first be responsible to himself and the woman in his life. A responsible man is one that knows his onion and live a life worthy of emulation. An irresponsible man cannot lead a woman not to talk of family.

Accountable: Although his woman is accountable to him in all things, the man is expected to first account to himself and the woman in his life. That way he shows a pathway for the woman to follow.

NB: A woman that is not prepared to be accountable to the man is a no-no irrespective of other factors.

Financial Stability: While no one expect a man to be very wealthy or live in affluence before meeting a woman, it is expected that he should at least have source of livelihood that to be able to cater for his needs and that of his partner/family. Any man that is yet to have good source of livelihood should suspend the idea of marriage altogether until he is ready. It is not a crime to be broke, but it is a sin for a grownup man without anything doing to be talking of relationship and marriage. The reason is simple, the woman is not meant to take care of financial any burden! It is the man's responsibility to cater for the woman and the home while the woman gives helping hand. I repeat, the woman is meant to give helping/supporting hand and not to inherit the main burden.

Chief Planner: The man in the relationship is chiefly responsible for making short and long term plans to ensure that his relationship and home doesn't suffer; and ensure that he sticks to it. This is very important as those who fail to plan end up losing it. Although a woman is expected to partner her man, it is still the man's responsibility to ensure things work as the Planner in Chief.

Physical/Mental/Emotional
/Sexual Fitness: Every man should always take priority of physical, mental and sexual fitness. A man who is weak physically, mentally, emotionally and sexually is not appealing to a woman. In fact, no woman wants, deserves nor desires one who is physically weak, emotional wimp, mental retard and one who cannot perform sexually (not saying men should start using drugs). Men that fall short in these areas will have serious problem in their relationship/family. It is the duty of the man to work on his weaknesses!

Discipline: A man should discipline himself as by doing this he creates precedent for his partner and children to follow. No man should tolerate or forgive indiscipline in his home, not from himself, his woman/wife/girlfriend or children. Discipline is one of the way of expressing love.

Godfearing And Godly: All said, this is the most important. Any man that fears God will love and honor His Words, and will want to live godly life; and thereby be the best man any family would have. By this I don't mean outward religiosity (like many) or mere churchgoer, but for one to have reverence towards God Almighty and to follow His word.

Finally, marriage is not a bed of roses but it is a union ordained by God meant for human pleasure and not for humans to endure. But it is the duty of the man to seek and insist on woman that meets his desires and matches his expectations to have his dream home.

May God Bless Us All...[/quote]God bless u a million times for this mind-blowing, expository & touching article of yours. This has really imparted a lot in me. God bless you richly, and more grease to your elbow

Ajibade123:
my piece of advice is that marriage isn't what someone should jump to...use your head

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Wow! What a fantastic, unique, edifying and mind blowing piece of advice. Thumbs up ops

[quote author=zinachidi post=54222752][/quote]you are talking rubbish. It is your type that encourages marriage breakups. You speak without even considering the enormity of her keeping such a secrete from her husband, until he got to know about it himself. How on earth do u want dat man to ever trust her again? May be to u marriage is not worth sacrificing that's why you are giving her that crapy advice. because if it does, I'm very sure you won't. Big up

Hahahahahahaha u mean 9ja is now known to be an evil forest? Just can't stop lafn. That's hilarious

Aviero:
Negative mindsets shouldn't deter us from showing good affection to the people in our lives. Abi?

I've learnt the hard way. These days, it's all about reciprocality. If I show bae adequate affection, and she doesn't reciprocate well, I begin to have second thoughts. I slow down on whatever it is I am doing.

You can't tell me to keep doing good to bae, when I know that bae is taking the good for granted and giving the goods to someone else.

I can't risk it all for any bae that's not going to risk it all for me.

So, OP, being careful matters alot.

I can't just be doing mumu all the time, and in the end, get heartbroken. I need to be careful this time around.

Gbam Gbam Gbam. i totally concur with you. do 4 me, i do 4 u. some people are just so devilish and heartless. as 4 me, my love has okpolor eyes 2 discern wen a woman's heart is with me or not. and by d time i figure dat out. hmmm obiarije, una oooo

Gpopsicle:
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last year, I sent ma CV to a recruitment agency which claims to have dia base in abuja, and dey sent me an employee form to fill,scan and send back to dem.

dia address was so obscure,it wasnt even clear at all kos all efforts made to know if d address existed all proved negative. albeit,I still played along.

The said recruitment agency later introduced me to dia 'barrister' who dey say s soliciting on ma behalf.according to dem,all ma credentials (of which I didn't submit) were sent to him to help me process ma employment in ' DANGOTE GROUP OF COMPANIES'.

Anyways, I was happy and thought d whole process wud b worth it if dey don't request money from me. later d barrister kalled me and told me dt d sed company (Dangote) couldn't conduct any job interview kos of d festive period and decided to randomly select applicants and it happened to b DAT I was lucky to b selected.

to cut d whole long story short,i ws given a form dt included my supposed staff and reg num& he sed I was to pay d sum of #5500 for ma training materials and what have u.he only disclosed when d training will start and didn't give any valid information about d venue and time.when asked, he gave flimsy and 'good for nothing' excuses. I laughed so hard kos i now knew dey were unscrupulous entities trying to fleece me.

pls even in our desperation,let's not fall prey to ds kind of schemes and tricks dis guys re pulling.BEWARE!!!!!!;

Lol. yea u are very correct. thanks boss

ykolajide:
cheap scam

ok. thumbs up

walescounis:
Scam Scamo Scammest

Lol ok. i sensed it myself too. tkx

azelab:
genue scam message, dont border

Thanks bro. i thought as much too

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yorex2011:
Anyone interested in a bbm group where we can share ideas, tips, info and connect.
Please indicate interest
Haven't created it yet tho.
Need to know if anyone is willing to participate.

Note: it wud be strictly professional.. Not a flirting or crap talk group.

Also anyone who is willing to help others can join..
Pls indicate interest by commenting.
God bless you all

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WAVEACADEMY:
this a job board for people between the age of 18-35, who are looking for jobs in the lekki axis of lagos.
especially hotel, restaurants and supermarket jobs. if you fall into this category,drop your name and number so employers with vacancies can reach you. pls only name and number.

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Makuos:
Help Me Thank God O. I Have Finally Gotten A Better And Permanent Job.

I want to use this medium to help me thank God becos my continuous search for a better and a permanent job has finally come to an end. I just received an offer of employment from the company that I attended interview a week ago with a big salary plus other benefits/incentives for a start. Infact, it was just the Favour of God together with someone that I know that works in the company.
Using my self as a point of contact, I want to use this opportunity to encourage as many that are still looking for a job/better job not to loose hope because your miracle job is already around the corner. Thanks

Congrats bro, I'm next in line

GlassDoc:
This is a platform to make money or more money irrespective of your discipline; academic qualification or inclination. You don't need to pay a kobo to subscribe to this platform. It's a lucrative and rewarding platform if you choose to explore it.

CAUTION: This is not GNLD !!! As a one time victim of gnld, i know very well that it's pure nonsense ! They brainwash people and tell them about an OPPORTUNITY that does not exist!

For this job; You may not leave your house; your office; or your street to make money. You need a camera phone with an internet connection to send a picture through whatsapp. Moreover, if you can't afford to snap or/and an internet connection you can still participate and make money for yourself. All you need to do is make a call or send a text.
NB: Only those within Lagos and around its axes can benefit monetarily.

To avoid violation of nairaland rules i would stop here. Just drop your number and i will add you up to the whatsapp group where the details will be rolled out. Are you skeptical about this and need more info or you don't like the idea of dropping your number here? check my signature and get in touch for further clarification.

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2dice:
If your Tori is True
Then you need Help spiritually and Medically
Just Go to any white Garment church.. When Dem use coconut tree branches PanalBeat your bae
All Dem Evil spirit Go Run pass Usain Bolt
no go all doss church wey Pastor dey use laptop dey Gooogle Prayer ooo...
BUT IF NA LIE BE THIS YOUR TORI MAY THUNDER FAYA youR left BALLS

Hahahahhaahahahah dis Op u won kill me with laf ooo. Chai u funny die I swear down. So na better advice u gve dat dude so

mikesleek:
It's known fact that the world is now technologically driven. As my contribution to the development of capacity in young people, i intend to start an online training web page where i can teach and mentor people who are interested in in learning Networking, Windows operating system and windows server. I'll give you links to download demo versions of softwares and give you a walk through installing and configuring.
start date is Monday 11th January 2016.
Indicate interest by replying to this thread with your email address.

emmanueldbest@yahoo.com. I'm very very interested

axortedbabe:
So asa wore this same dress to genevieve's movie premier and to this place too...

Hmmmm I tire 4 d babe ooo, with all her plenty moni she still dey jones

jaykaylegend:
Fine place

Meanwhile;

American Relationship. 1st day=Date
2nd day=hug
3rd day=hug again
4th day=kiss
5th day=long kiss
6th day=sex
Nigerians Relationship.
1st day=Toast
2nd day=Toast
3rd day=Toast again
4th day=Agree
5th day=Date
6th day=Tried to hug but failed.....
7th day=hug
8th day=Tried to kiss but failed....
9th day=kiss
10th day=long kiss
11th day=tried to have sex but failed
12th day=tried to have sex but failed...
13th day=tried to have sex but failed again
14th day=RAPE!!!!!!

Hahahahahahaa mogbe ooo

changeagent:
Taraba State Tribunal sacks Gov. Darius Ishaku of PDP and declared Aisha Jummai Alhassan of APC (Maman Taraba) lawful winner of April 11 Governorship Election 2015 in Taraba.

Hmmm 1st of its kind in 9ja. APC @ it again

festyese:
Ftc. I will comment later

So wat av u just done now