Romance › Re: Why Them? Why Not Me? by Emodeee(op): 8:09am On Jul 19, 2017 |
lalasticlala. |
Education › Re: FINALLY! FINALLY! Waec Portal Is Now Open by Emodeee: 9:15pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
anticipate 21-07-2017. my girl by veehigh.
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Politics › Re: What Exactly Have Nigeria Ever Invented by Emodeee: 7:17pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
they invented chache  . |
Education › Re: Lady Shares Before & After Photos With Her Dad After He Graduated With Masters by Emodeee: 12:16pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
sinaj: Wow! the man didn't evn change at all mayb because he is not an APC member  . |
Romance › Re: Am Fvcking Her And She Is Watching Tv.what An Insult! by Emodeee: 6:17am On Jul 17, 2017 |
mofeoluwadassah: thats your palava dey carry am upandan i just dey warn you make you nor dey deceive guys. now look at your boobs, is it attractive? some ladies can lie for africa. mofeholuwahadassah is their boss. |
Romance › Re: Am Fvcking Her And She Is Watching Tv.what An Insult! by Emodeee: 10:32pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
[quote author=mofeoluwadassah post=58520979][/quote]now that is the real you@your dp. not that boobs exposing, filtered picture you had then. |
Romance › Re: "Dating mentality of girls aged 18-25"; My Opinion by Emodeee: 10:19pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
skarlett: Lied as how My email is giving me issues, sorry  another lie from the mouth of a beautiful writer. should we start washing our clean linen outside here? it's clean already, let's take it inside. |
Romance › Re: "Dating mentality of girls aged 18-25"; My Opinion by Emodeee: 10:09pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
skarlett: I dunno what you're talking about oh  you lied to me. check your mail. |
Romance › Re: "Dating mentality of girls aged 18-25"; My Opinion by Emodeee: 9:45pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
skarlett: These group of women know you are doing them a favour by dating them
This is precisely where your article became trash. No matter how old I get, I can never feel gratitude to a man for being with me.
I'm in my house  i should come and beat you abi?  . yeah, you deserve to be beaten. you have been doing anyhow of recent. you know what i'm talking about. |
Romance › Re: "Dating mentality of girls aged 18-25"; My Opinion by Emodeee: 9:41pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
MzLarem: Shows how low your thinking level is if you don't know me and you can conclude I'm part of them. i know you. are you not mzlarem? same as the girls op is talking about. i know you like to flaunt your boyfriend on social media. hope you are still with him though? you are not different from them. if we are talking about people that are different, i know those nairaland ladies who deserve to be mentioned not you. |
Romance › Re: Things That Happen After You Meet Soulmate by Emodeee: 6:31pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
Omotayor123: Soulmate where are you biko m here buh you refused to give me your number. |
Music/Radio › Re: Who Is The Nigerian Artist With The Highest Number Of Tracks On Your Playlist by Emodeee: 6:03pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
he is the guy on my dp. they call him v.e.c. i like his rap. |
Romance › Re: "Dating mentality of girls aged 18-25"; My Opinion by Emodeee: 5:57pm On Jul 16, 2017 |
MzLarem: Makes me wonder the kind of ladies most guys on this thread follows or should I say, makes me wonder the kind of guys they are themselves. just keep quiet. like you are not among them. |
Romance › Re: Why Them? Why Not Me? by Emodeee(op): 7:53pm On Jul 15, 2017 |
lalastclala. |
Romance › Re: Guys,what Type Of Wedding Ceremony Would You Prefer In Terms Of Montery Budget ? by Emodeee: 4:47pm On Jul 15, 2017 |
you wan make front page abi? lalasticlala. |
Romance › Re: Why Them? Why Not Me? by Emodeee(op): 2:23pm On Jul 15, 2017 |
dominique, mynd44. |
Romance › Re: Before Sending Nudes, Ask Yourself by Emodeee: 9:36pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
mofeoluwadassah: why will you even send nude pictures 2 a guy ehn  can you tell me boldly that you have never sent your nudes to a guy? be sincere. |
Phones › Re: MY 4-DAY Experience With The Infinix Note 4: Camera,multitasking, Charging Tests by Emodeee: 7:45am On Jul 14, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Veehigh Is About To Release A New Single Titled My Girl by Emodeee(op): 12:04am On Jul 14, 2017 |
sexybbstar: He's not around jo awww. hug your pillow  .
btw, help me lure lalasticlala to push this thread to front page. |
Romance › Re: Veehigh Is About To Release A New Single Titled My Girl by Emodeee(op): 11:42pm On Jul 13, 2017 |
sexybbstar: It's cold! Weather for two  yeah right?  . the weather wanna make me have a girlfriend  . hope your boyfriend is around to make you feel warm?  . |
Romance › Re: Veehigh Is About To Release A New Single Titled My Girl by Emodeee(op): 11:41pm On Jul 13, 2017 |
sexybbstar: It's downloading Sha.
#modified
Wow! The song is dope... I love it. oh, thanks, dear. anticipate 21-07-2017. |
Romance › Re: Veehigh Is About To Release A New Single Titled My Girl by Emodeee(op): 11:37pm On Jul 13, 2017 |
sexybbstar: I'm fine jare. oh, you are a darling. thanks for downloading.
hope the weather is not too cold over there? |
Romance › Re: Veehigh Is About To Release A New Single Titled My Girl by Emodeee(op): 11:34pm On Jul 13, 2017 |
medunah, share your thoughts. 21-07-2017. save the date. |
Romance › Re: Veehigh Is About To Release A New Single Titled My Girl by Emodeee(op): 11:20pm On Jul 13, 2017 |
sexybbstar: Where have you been? i have been around though. just that i don't comment. support my friend's music. download his previously released singles and be convinced that he is dope. how have you been? |
Romance › Re: Veehigh Is About To Release A New Single Titled My Girl by Emodeee(op): 11:05pm On Jul 13, 2017 |
ginaz, lalasticlala, sexybbstar. download and share your thoughts. |
Romance › Veehigh Is About To Release A New Single Titled My Girl by Emodeee(op): 10:37pm On Jul 13, 2017*. Modified: 11:18pm On Jul 13, 2017 |
you remember him? The redeemer's university graduate is about to release a new single. the song is titled "my girl". It's a dope track, you are gonna like it. release date: 21-07-2017. save the date. Before then, download his previously released singles "dreams" and 'i no mind.' i'm sure you are going to enjoy it. Download and share with family and friends. Dreams by veehigh Link: http://xchanger.mobi/v2/file.php?fid=511196i no mind by veehigh Link: http://xchanger.mobi/v2/file.php?fid=519610Don't forget to share your thoughts. btw, he newly joined nairaland. you can follow him. link: http://nairaland.com/veehighlalasticlala.
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Romance › Re: Why Them? Why Not Me? by Emodeee(op): 6:27pm On Jul 13, 2017 |
lalasticlala, let's go there. |
Music Business › Re: Veehigh Is About To Release A New Single. by Emodeee(op): 4:06pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
will this thread ever get to frontpage? lalasticlala. |
Romance › Re: 4lah Folayan: "Women, About Us And Our Nudes." by Emodeee(op): 4:01pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
happney65: Fola..I know her very well..I know the Ex she might be referring to..Fola worked with UI Radio then..together with Traq..They where both fuckkin themselves then..
Fola is doing well,I don't know about Traq sha.. hmmmm. adonbilivit. |
Romance › Re: Why Them? Why Not Me? by Emodeee(op): 3:44pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
it's not a lie that lalasticlala like boobs. i created two threads, na the thread wey get boobs matter e first carry go front page  . lalasticlala, let's do it again. |
Romance › 4lah Folayan: "Women, About Us And Our Nudes." by Emodeee(op): 12:33pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
"Why send nudes? While I have asked this question some time ago, I haven’t pondered so much on it like I have these past few days.
It’s very easy to hear ‘nude pictures’ and our minds quickly go to slut shaming the woman involved. I believe it’s time we ask WHY? Why do females send photos of themselves unclothed to their boyfriends, boyfriend hopefuls or even husbands? (Yes! Husbands get nudes from their wives too!
Every woman wants to feel desired. As a woman I must admit that there’s a certain heady feeling that comes from the knowledge that your man finds you sexually attractive.
The height of sexual confidence for today’s woman is being able to acknowledge her sexuality and take pride in her body. Contrary to popular opinion, men are not the only ones who enjoy receiving nudes. The women who send them, enjoy sending them too.
Women are just as sexual as men and we are advancing more in more into a society that encourages a woman to be more comfortable in her skin. As a result, women are doing just that.
Pop culture has also made nudes quite the norm if not universally acceptable. ‘tasteful nude portraits’ by celebrities on the front cover of magazines, and maternity nudes have done an interesting job of numbing public sensitivities to images of unclad women.
Unfortunately, the sexual revolution or liberation of women in a society that is largely cultural, patriarchal, quick to slut-shame and body shame, sending nudes is not a very great idea.
As a Christian woman, I am expected to rant and rave about how immoral or ungodly this is and quote scriptures but I have decided not to. Why? Because your pastor’s wife is already doing a good job of that; Thank you very much.
However, I will say that I do not believe that taking and sending a nude photo is the only way to own your sexuality or even promising your man a treat (if that is what you’re going for). There are so many good reasons not to send sexually explicit photos. Blackmail, Social Media, Longevity are some pretty solid reasons not to. I know as women, too many times than its good for us, we get carried away by our feelings and emotions and it can be quite difficult to override common sense. But we need to calmly think this through. Most relationships end on a sour note. How many Exes will you leave your nudes with? How many can you really trust not to be vindictive or just downright creepy?
I have an Ex who tells anybody who cares to listen about how he used to be my boyfriend. One random day (5 years after we dated) he sent me a picture of myself in the studio during NYSC! It gave me the creeps. (Imagine if…..!)
Have I ever been asked to send a nude? Yes. (By one idiot Nigerian singer I was friends with). Did I? Hell No! I am honestly not going to tell you what to do or not do with your photos. But i’m going to say this quite clearly; if you’re going to send your man a nude, please be aware that the society we live in has no sympathy for us and the earlier we realize that the better.
You don’t need to be sending unsolicited nudes either. Love your body and respect it enough not to peddle it through cheap cellphone selfies.
Honestly, I do not think being in love is good enough reason to ask for your nude photo. But for whatever reason if you do share private photos, be aware of the risks and be prepared for eventualities. And then question the motives and question your willingness to take responsibility for the consequences.
You don’t need to send anyone your nudes to prove anything. You’re a queen." source: http://www.4lah.com/women-about-us-and-our-nudes/
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