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lalasticlala, mynd44, dominique.

hey guys, don't derail the thread. let your comment be meaningful and let it pertain to the topic of the thread.

mhizesther:
Ride on man of God

i know say you nor dey go church. buh the message is for everyone.

Oyindidi:
Pastor Emodeee

that's me though. i found the message inspiring, so i had to share.

Social Media is the place to stumble on good news. Good news that doesn’t seem to have anything to do with you. Or worse, good news that make you sometimes feel like nothing good is happening to you.


Engagement announcements, new baby bump show-offs, graduation ceremonies, exotic holidays, career upgrades or just plain “look-at-me-i’m-so-happy” posts can make you want to ask
“What are these people doing that i’m not doing?”
“Why do they have everything i want?”
“Why do they have it so easy?”
“Why them and not me”?


All these questions and others along the same lines, will eventually lead you to despondency and resentment. Trust me when i tell you this because I’ve been there. It will lead you to bitterness and jealousy too because a person who is not happy with himself/herself cannot be happy for other people.
Comparing your life with other people and trying to find your self-esteem from what you have, what you do and what people think about you, is a sure recipe for a life of unhappiness and discontent. You cannot go through life like that because that is not God’s will for you. A life like that takes away the spirit of gratitude and joy and replaces them with something dark and brooding. The Holy spirit cannot thrive in such a heart.
2 Corinthians 10:12
“We don’t dare put ourselves in the same class with those who think they are so important. We don’t compare ourselves to them. They use themselves to measure themselves, and they judge themselves by what they themselves are. This shows that they know nothing.”


Comparing yourself to others never ends well. It can either make you prideful (thinking you are better than others) or it can kill your self-worth and make you resentful (thinking you are not as blessed or gifted as you should be).


Know this, we are all where we are by the special grace of God and according to his plan. We are not always privy to those plans and that is a good thing because if God told us all he has in store for us, we will not be able to handle it. So he feeds us in little doses and we are to trust him and have faith because he has assured us that he is working for our good.
(Romans 8:28)
God will do what he wants to do, when he wants to do it and how he wants to do it. So, keep your spirit pure and free from unnecessary anxiety, competition, and resentment.


Be happy and be grateful for where you are and what you have RIGHT NOW.



source:http://www.4lah.com/2017/05/15/why-them-why-not-me/


lalasticlala, mynd44, dominique. farano.

Eniqurl:
Am fine, you?

i'm good. just wanted to say hi.

enjoy your day.

Eniqurl:
anyboy.

how you dey?

Eniqurl:
Here to read comments

anygirl.

lalasticlala..... who are all these ladies derailing this thread gan? una nor dey hear word? discussing frivolities upandan.

tahrah and that dude, you both should stop derailing the thread.

DAVE5:
This is the koko of being introvert, talking gets very tiring so I just purposely don't create avenues to talk to people at all...

Even if they do create avenues to talk, my mind has been rewired to kill the process b4 it starts...


Worst part is when people around me have been taking for too long and the talk no even concern me ohh but as per say I near dem I com dey hear them, I get frustrated and resort to wearing my headphones and playing the music so loud that I dnt hear anything anymore

No wonder introverts love music so much... I cld be wrong

really! sometimes i wish i was an extrovert. they get a lot of pvssies. the worst part is an extrovert stealing your crush just because you don't have the boldness to approach her. the life of an introvert is tiring. yeah, i love music. i love rap music.

lalasticlala, let's go there.

it will look as if i am forcing myself.

ladies, let's go there.




lalasticlala.

she as an unattractive bweast like a female nairalander whose name is?

rubbish. na book you wan sell.

HausaOverlord:
bro I dey tell u, b4 u know u go dey imagine some kind positions and bros Dickson no get chill oh him go wake up won spoil the paro, to be man no easy sef.

they know these that's why they dress seductively. you go siddon beside girl wey wear mini skirt with her fresh laps showing, na that time she go dey try cover her laps because you wey be guy dey siddon beside her. she nor know when she wear mini skirt for house abi? hypocrisy.

HausaOverlord:
bro if to say I dey tell some girls the thing wey dey my mind hmm, make him just calm and follow naija process initiate friendship first.

them nor know na. the kind dress wey some girls go wear ehn, you go start to dey imagine things..

hanassholesolo:
She's a good girl man, this is my one and only shot to get her. The thing is when i got her number, there were some bad guys also trying to snipe her but i got there quick. i don't know what happened after i left. (this is probably not helping my case

na wetin i dey tell you be that, be quick about it. tell her anything that comes to your mind.

Juliette05:
OP,when you put up a product for sale, you should expect buyers,if you don't like the attention, quit, stop blaming the clients

you are not even in the slaying industry. abi your picture dey deceive me ni?

looking at that picture, many things running through my mind. can you take a guess?

tell her to send her account number.



na bad thing to dey shy mehn. i can relate. na your friend go parole her behind your back if you waste time. just tell her anything as it comes to your mind. if she likes you, she go accept. no rule to toasting a girl.

ugo 1st like bus@op.

quin22 check your mail.

Ebayray:
I know I'm weird. I love it .
No, I don't have a boyfriend in school.

really! out of the numerous guys asking you out on a daily? hmmm. you don't fancy any of them or you just don't want distraction?

Ebayray:
Uhm, I just like them as friends. OK yes, ladies, we all love attention.
I really hate sugar coated guys.

you are weird. wetin you con like?

btw, do you now have a boyfriend in school?

Ebayray:
Lol nah. I have so many guys who love me and I really hate the attention they're giving me. It irks me a lot.


But yes, I want a guy that loves me and I want to love him the way he loves me.
Unrequited love is more painful when the man loves his woman but she doesn't love him back.

nor be say you nor go love am back, buh your own love will be minute. out of all the guys giving you attention, do you wanna say you don't love anyone of them? the attention they are giving you will make you have a minute love for one of them. it is close bond that brings about love. ladies love attention. if you see a guy that is giving you required attention, you will gradually begin to fall in love with him.


mayb those guys that irk you are not telling you what you wanna hear.

Ebayray:
The one that I love.

you are still inexperienced. when the time comes, you will know you are to choose the guy that loves.



you better marry the guy that loves you. when a guy loves a lady, mehn the love will not be here. he will cherish the lady like fvck.