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Juliaann:
Cuties

fine girl, hw var?

Juliaann:
Cuties

fine girl, hw var?

toyosimi:
Why are ladies these stewpid...... Bt why was the married man involved in a relationship wif her in the first place??...above all,repent cos Jesus is coming soon

u forgot to add "some" to ur assertion abt ladies.

Abi u sef stewwpeed?

Really! Na wa oh.

lalasticlala, let's go there.

Adultery used to be a taboo. Something to hide and be ashamed about. It used to be about Older men probably having a mid-life crisis and women who had some sort of marital dissatisfaction.

These days, Adultery has gone on rampage and young marriages seem to be the worst-hit. there’s a lot of issues to address and talk about here but i am most concerned about the horde of young married men in their 30’s to Mid 40’s who prey on single women.

They are the smooth and smart talking, suave dressing, professional looking, ‘beard-ganging’ (or not) men who are fun, friendly, easy to talk to and hang out with, but will neglect to mention that they are married. (sometimes with kids!)
Another common line is to say they are unhappy in their marriage or in the middle of a divorce or they
are separated.

Dear young ladies, don’t let yourself be deceived. God loves you, understands you and know what is best for you. He sees your desire to love and be loved and in his own time, he will give you your own man.

Don’t be drooling over a toyota camry while God is busy planning to give you a Porshe.

FOCUS is also key here! for some weeks now, God has been speaking to me about FOCUS and how shifting my gaze and attention from him and his purpose drives me towards unproductive and dangerous pursuits.

Where is your focus? what attracts your attention? what occupies your thoughts? what drives you?
Matthew 6:33 (MSG)
30-33 “If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers—most of which are never even seen—don’t you think he’ll attend to you, take pride in you, do his best for you? What I’m trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to
God’s giving. People who don’t know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both God and how he works. Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don’t worry about missing out. You’ll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.

When you worry so much aboutneeding, andwantingandgetting, you will leave yourself vulnerable to the devil who will bring distractions your way to trip you up and take you away from your purpose.

Step into God’s word and actually live your life like you believe what it says. It starts from the determination of a willing and ready heart. The Holy Spirit is given to us to help us in times like this you know. he’s right there, willing and available if only you will listen to him and not your emotions and the temporary cravings of your body.

Guess what? this married man predator syndrome is not just out there in the world. It’s in the church too! sadly.

So, you have to be vigilant. Do not be carried away by smooth, bible-quoting, cleverly disguised lies. Pray for a spirit of discernment and learn to pray about every friendship.

One regular prayer point of mine is for “God to end every friendship that is not built on a righteous foundation”. I also pray for my heart. I ask God to get rid of any affection i might have developed for someone who is not approved of God in my life.

When you pray such prayers, you have to mean it. Read, Study and Pray with Psalm 119. (Yes it’s ve-r-y long) Tell God continually how much you desire him and you’ll see that desire grow. and you’ll see your focus begin to shift from earth to divine.


Source: http://www.4lah.com/2015/10/02/stepping-away-from-the-lure-of-adultery/


Cc: lalasticlala

Lalasticlala, oya nw.

If e nor be real life, e nor fit be like real life.

Social media is like operating in a fictional world.

Sheee u fit squeeze boobz for social media? E nor fit work joorh.

long distance relationship is not advisable

Ebayray:
Dats if I have ur time

U know say those girls wey dey gv u power no dey here now. I have ur time, u should also have my time.


Oya straight to pm.

Ebayray:
Lol, see dis one.
Afternoon ke?! Me dat loosed ma hair!!!!
I don't do night calls, sorry.
Night night

Really!

Sha pm me whether u do night calls or not.

Ebayray:
Lol!!!!!

Ma e-mail is active to receive it atm.

Sheee u sleep for afternoon? mayb we go fit do night call. No be say na free call I wn do, na my money I go take call u. M rich like dat #smiles.

Oyind17:
I listened to your song, keep it up

It's not ma song bt tnt artistes song.


Thank u for downloading.

foladaraawe:
u sef dey do am
Buh no be me o

Dis one wey u dey emphasize say no be u, it's becoming more glaring dat it's u.

foladaraawe:
mogbe,no be me nawww

Who u wan dey deceive? Na so una dey do. U will come in the name of ur friend or u cook up a name.


I don gv u ma advice, take it.

@op, Is ur pastor single?
If he is, den ur crushing is legal.
Gbe sunmo pastor kejo lepo bi bread ati butter.

Ebayray:
Lol, I hail you oh

i hail u sef. Fine girl wey no wan gv me her number.

Let's stop deceiving ourselves. Kitty cat is the main reason why guys go into relationship.
You cannot just walk up to a lady and say "hae baby, i wanna have sex with u" she will gv u a life changing, dirty slap, u ll come back to ur senses.
What do u have to do to get in dere? U must follow a polite procedure so u can get what u want. Tell her what she wants to hear. "i luv u" that's the number one. Dn't forget, u can not just walk up to a stranger and tell her "i luv u" create a friendly rapport b4 u proceed to luv matters.

Tabelachizza:
If only you can stay for 3 to 6 months without asking for sex,,,,,,DEFINITELY WE WILL...

is sex the only thing you have to offer in a relationship?

You are making it seem like pre-marital sex is the right thing to do.

Is there any thriving relationship without sex these days?

Even the lady will be the one to complain if u r bent on relationship without sex.

because both of u r MINORS.

Ebayray:
Smh. Y would I be, when I'm angry naw

wetin dey mk u angry? Abi no be u one guy dey hail say u sabi book? U reply am say na una gene book dey for ur family. With all those accolades, u suppose happy nw.

RobinHez:
I no copy am jhor
I get more than enough

na pukka number i want sef.
I no like am when all these girls dey form "hard to get"
cn u believe? None of them gree gv me their number.

She hs nvr tasted alcohol in real life. People be forming what they r nt online.

Ebayray is feeling like the only girl in the world.

Otibho80:
am just tired of dis life

Hmmmm, dat sounds like sm1 who is abt to commit .............
Why r u tired?

itfreda:
fine..you?

m good. Did u visit any exciting place today?

Otibho80:
am just dere,u?

hmmm. I cn perceive dat u r DOWN like....... What's the matter?

Itfreda, hw do u do?

Ebayray:
Abeg ee, u won't get it. Don't bother asking. Thanks, anyways

i no ask u for the number, na congratulations i tell u.

Otibho80, hw var?

RobinHez:
I just hope Emodeee saw it

gv me ebayray's number.
I trust u. As a technology guy, u go done copy the number for one place.

Ebayray, congratulations.

na wa oh. Why una no wan download the song?

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