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When a person is jealous of someone, he always announces ,anytime he surpasses that person he is jealous of.

BRATISLAVA:
The forum is a place people expose their ugly secrets due to anonymity. But it happens too often that men are whiners for it to be anything but true. Even ones social media is filled with crying and shouting men.

Modern men need to get a grip.

What u don't seem to grasp is that it is alot of youngsters who r online , most of d time, many nairalanders r not above thirty, a proper research il prove me right, so many r not married yet, u can deduce from replies to posts, so how do u draw inference on men in marriage from such a group? Even u il know men who r married and ve experience from the tone of their replies, n I can bet u they r not up to 20% on this platform.

BRATISLAVA:
Because they prefer marrying women who are drastically younger than they are.

Plus if men don't cry and shout, explain why almost all threads on the forum are brought up by crying and shouting men. Explain why must comments are from fellow crying and shouting men. The myth that men go through a lot and keep quiet is a lie. They know that they are wrong most times in marriages.

Seh na Nairaland be where u dey collect data for that kind research or info? Lol!!!chai!!!

MummyD2020:
How can u say that when u are allowed to marry more than one wife? When the man dies, the woman killed him and is subjected to all manner of torture but when the woman dies, the man's babe will for the burial. Give him two months, the woman is replaced sharply Men cheat at will but some women cant do that esp in some cultures. Women are prone to lose more in event of a divorce. Women lose their beauty faster due to childbirth. Who takes the blame in a childless family even when its obvious that the man has 0 sperm count? Where can a woman go to in event of divorce? Men earn more at workplaces thereby making women vulnerable. How many stay at home men have u heard of as against stay at home moms? U know it makes the women lose career prospects, money and self esteem sef. Which men take kini to God? In churches esp Pentecostal, what is the ratio of men and women?I can go on and on joor.

When I mean go to Almighty God , I didn't mean going to church, women r more in churches cus they r prone to believe everything they hear, what I was talking about is death. N using marrying more than one wife as a yard stick , even makes me laugh, go find out men with many wives tend to die quicker sef, unless his is d type that don't care about his children and home, n mind u we ve women who also abandon their homes, so don't come with that.

Romanoff:
Yet, if you tell both male and female to stop fornicating, they will come for you.

Many are having premarital sex and children are one of the consequences of premarital sex.

You people frown at people doing abortions but won't marry a single mum or won't abstain from sex.

If your partner gets pregnant for you, na una go first say make she abort am, yet, some of you won't marry a woman who has done abortion before.

Una no see say this premarital sex thing no worth am las las?

MODFIED

Women, from the response my comment is getting, it's safe to say you're on the receiving end.

These guys won't marry you with a child, they won't marry you if they know you've had an abortion or abortions, they won't marry you if post pills mess with your fertility.

Is it not best to close your legs till you get married?

The posts about dating or marrying single mothers should be a deterrent, cause them plenty for Romance section. They will quote Okafor's law for you as a reason to not marry a single mother.

Ladies, close leg o.

I agree with you on that one o! Cus if as a woman,u r not good enough for him to marry, then e better make u close leg o! Cus me won't be happy if it happens to my sister or daughter.

This ur story reminds me of a friend , I saw in dat condition, he was d one dat even called me, but his dressing was not normal ,we talked, but I was still thinking, something is wrong somewhere, when I eventually left, I went to a stall in market where I normally see him hustling, n saw his brother, n he confirmed my fears, not seen him since then, I pray he is bn taken care of anytime I remember him.

MummyD2020:
U dey mind am. And to think that men suffer more is just abnormal but people can never admit it. Thats how crooked humans are. If u start asking everyone here who tolerates more in their family, they will tell u its their mums. But now, every body is pretending that the men take shit more. All na wash

See forget all these ur feminist views, men go through alot in marriage, but they don't cry n shout as often as d women do to let d whole world know what is happening. Y do u think d men often r d first to go to d Almighty God.

The funny thing is that our govt doesn't care, they r just there looking like clueless people, while our economy goes to blazes, e no go better for anyone wey follow vote these people into power, hunger in d land n our govt is dancing awilo upndan.

So them come mention names , not withheld, I thot only some certain people were into crimes disgracing 9ja.

Y is it that when a drug offence is committed abroad or in Nigeria , if it is an Igbo , u il see their names clearly written, but if it is another tribe especially those from the north u il see name withheld. This is how Yahoo boys caught in southern Nigeria ,face the camera when photographed but those up north r told to back d camera. Abeg why?

cococandy:
your type dey get 5 baby mamas including your wife

Even tuface dey learn for your hand

I don touch big cord o! U dey vex? But look at dat lady talk na! How can she say he knew she was pregnant but he thought it was his, "u know he thinks too much" . In essence she is saying nedu b ode weh think say na him get pregnancy, what do u expect a man u r married to , to think? if he knew d pregnancy was not his , il he still b married to her at that time? In short she thinks she is insulting d guy but on d flip side , she is telling people she is a loose woman, who il sees nothing wrong with being pregnant with another man's child in her husband's house. She is trying to sound smart , but she is really debasing herself. Shit for brains I will say.

cococandy:
. But if it’s the men they will line up to pat the culprit on the back because he’s a man.

Hypocrites

Ur type all ur children il not b ur husband's children, the way I dey look u eh!!!

Well from ur description , the person is a female, I m always weary when doing anything with a female, especially if she holds all d cards, n u r a male. U go hear am.

Ndi Igbo should wake up, Ipob or Esn might turn out to be dictators like d Taliban, I said this sometime ago somewhere, u don't use dictators method to win what ever freedom u r proposing.

LOGICALKEN:
Would you rather I buy it on the wedding day?I am not a salary earner. I was just making payments for some of the things i would need and who said I brought the cow to my house? I left it with the aboki
Anyways thanks for your comment. I will be fine

So u r saying this ur story is true. Wow! Well my little advice il b to forget her n move on, n next time don't ve a long distance relationship with someone who u intend to marry, it is possible while u were in Lagos another guy in Benin was helping u fry ur fish and u didn't know. The guy must ve convinced her dat she should leave u , n dat he was going to marry her. At least now u know who she chose.

This one na fake story, who buys a cow 4months ahead of wedding day, na u go dey feed am? Abegi vamoss.

blamingthedevil:
Yam le
gger girls from rising sun are promiscuous....chai


Avoid them

E be like say one of those yam leggers no gree date u, u come dey dis them for Nairaland, no vex too much on top d rejection.lol!!!!!

OceanEye:
I think little ones has to be the first priority in any given situation. He is expected to just be silent, then karma takes over

U r right, but she started playing dirty, she should have tot about the child too, but cus of her selfish self she wanted to play dirty, the guy only gave her, her own pill to swallow.

Michelle55:
Why does marriage looks scary these days or am I the only one scared of this institution called marriage?

Scary? There is no marriage without it's ups n downs, It is a journey that two people ve agreed to come together and take as one, it is how u manage it that il determine it's success. So don't b scared, it is these celebrities that decide to wash their dirty linen in public that u should be scared of.

OceanEye:
My main concern is the first born child involved. He shouldn't have broadcast this, the said child is vulnerable to future mental issues

He just had to shut her up, u don't expect him to pay the expenses for a child that is not his, that il eventually go look for his father in the future, leaving him looking like a fool? N she is still saying they ve 3kids, na only two children b d guy get for there .

Nedu give her uppercut shut up. Chai! Wo--man , na GOD go save men from this women.

Faber:
Since 2017 they divorced, different men have been sampling her pussy and paying her bills.
Jumping from one car to another.

Now e don go round the town say her pussy don wọr wọr finish.Men no dey patronize her as before. She now wake up one morning to remember Edu Wazobia

Madam go where you take bath go collect your clothes. This same thing go soon happen to all these slay queens jumping up and down highest I give una 5 yrs una so called pussy power will fall like Zimbabwe dollars.

word! Let them kwauntinu , their body go tell them last last.

Tonto always brings her private love life to social media, to create content. But it eventually creates more content for her, the type that bites her in d ass, n eventually she dey take her privacy dey entertain social media users

This one na deep empty vessel u wan go carry o!

Hand work of Hope.

One suspect was arrested, what is d name of the suspect na? Abi d suspect no get name?

samonak:
It's like you've been tested, tried and found wanting. She perceives you to be a SIMP. Women are very intriguing creatures, They are constantly probing, evaluating and psyching up men at every turn. They try your patience, Anger , endurance threshold and ur ability to stand your ground as a "MAN" perhaps during courtship you were the Mr "nice guy" always looking to please her or accept her every request without any hesitance. The Truth is most women don't respect men that they can "manipulate" or control, that's why most times dem need to the see your "red eye" once in a while ( I don't mean domestic violence) assert your authority or dominance, show her who "wears the pant".

Guy one chilllllllled bo for u jare! Op dey there dey do Mr nice guy, na one day she il lock u out of ur house, cus she is inside with her boyfriend, na dat day u go sit up. Better resounding slap , just to rest her brain o! No domestic violence o! Just a brain resting , nothing more. U go see sey she go change.

What surprises me is how this govt continues to lie to Nigerians in d face of all d suffering, high cost of "food items" , insecurities, worst economy , worst inflation index,since 1983-1984. Business r either running away, suffering or closing down. N they keep telling us lies to our face Nigerians deserve this.

This man is either seriously foolish n insane. Is it d fault of d chily dat her mum messed up? R u even sure d girl is his child? Even at that how can he kill an innocent child?

Jerryherd:




Sentiments apart on what grounds were they going to dismiss him over?

You don't just hand people sack letter without going through due process


If a Civil Servants commit an infraction appropriate punishment is stated in the Civil Service act

If a Police officer commits an infraction appropriate sanction and punishment is stated in the police service act

In the case of Abba Kyari his only probable infraction is unlawful detention of Vincent for more than 48 hours without a court order

You can't hold him on bribery allegations when non of his BVN Account was used to receive suspicious fund or any cash traced directly to him

to the sentimental people I took the liberty to get you the link of the police act, you can read police service commission act too , this are what would guide the panel not FBI or US federal laws

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://placbillstrack.org/upload/Police%2520Act,%25202020.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwjPk7y2nNPyAhWsEWMBHQhrBwcQFnoECAMQBg&usg=AOvVaw3W748ORWLgNlvvKDP4Sjdj




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Yeah! But a true investigation il Trace d owners of those accounts that received those funds n , investigate what, n how d funds were spent, did some or all of those funds come back to him in cash or otherwise. Don't be sentimental in ur statements, what is good for the goose should be good for the gander.

Na Dem, always painting Nigeria as d fraud capital of d world.

daddytime:
Thank God say all my shidren carry my signature forehead luckily for me. DNA na just extra to fulfil all righteousness.


This guy think say God dey craze to give we humans some special and outstanding physical features.

These special features aren't for decorative purposes but to serve as our autographs/trademarks.

God and nature bless you with this kind kpomo lip. Woman come tell you say him born pikin for you. As a sharp man, your first assignment na to begin investigate whether the pikin upper/lower lip carry your signature.

Some might think this funny or senseless, but it's a simple fact.

Snake must give birth to long thing.

Guy one cold bo for u jare! Na so , u ve to dey watch ur pikin seriously, face , hands, leg, toes. Snake must born long things o! If e no long , kurukere don dey there.