chatinent:

Babe: a wife or girlfriend?


Yanga..


Yanga..pro max.

Well, let me ask sha.

Shey you know say she no dey eat spag before? Then why did you suddenly change.


This is toxic.


I see punters as being irresponsible. I totally apologize if it hurt you.


Babe is an alternative to boredom?

Remember you didn't accept her apology messages she sent earlier only to chat her up to replace your boredom.


I will not mince words with you; you are toxic.
If I send a message, and try to make things work out well again, and you don't respond, I let you be. I get self-respect too. I hardly send messages out of anger, by the way.

And the pride too.. lol. It's understandable tho.


Lol. She wants you to accept she is the “girl” here, hello? She is like “Iam the girl. I have to own it and you had to pet me, and stalk me and...” blablabla.

It is normal with girls.

When you don't give them attention, they will find it.

You both should learn to stop being toxic tho.


Lol.


You didn't say you also reported. How did mum know your part? Lol.


You certainly love her.
You are afraid of what may happen if you begin to show the love in the fullest...prolly thinking she will take you for granted later...so you had to act up and be the hard man.

Guess what?
It is working too. She is crazily in love with you.


I don't really mind all those self-respect games but I strongly advise you to stop being toxic.

You are welcome.

Lol...mum called me and asked me...nd exactly what I said , is what she told my mum..she did lie though...
As for punter side, though I don't bet regular...I only do that once awhile...as I bet nd it failed..I give myself 3_5weeks or even 2months sef before doing again.. this is because I do always do that with huge amount..
Thank you so much.

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yetunsbay:
Dear empire02 it's obvious you're yet to start proper documentation I implore you begin early. Meanwhile I'm not aware of any health insurance only lumpsum of group life.

I have done all necessary,
My late dad died in 2018, and every necessary document was done 3weeks after his death.
His a police officer and his death was classified as an accidental deaths..

Hence I received the following money so far,
Accidental death,
Co-operative fee(I processed this one 4months after his burial)
Then his health insurance fees..

Now according the officer in charge, he said it remaining his group life, pension and burial fees( he told me the burial level will take so much time) that the group life once I recieved it, the will then request for letter of administration...
My dad pfa is police pension funds administrator.

So tell me, how did I received it,I I'm complaining to know what other steps to follow because since that 2019 till now, the officer said I should keep expecting nd I'm getting tired..he said the should have paid last year but die to covid-19 and end sars...
It shakes fg and her bugdet.
What can you say to me?

yetunsbay:
lol...U had received it already naw. Group life assurance (insurance).

Nop the officer in charge told me insurance is different from group life.

The insurance I recieved was his health insurance the money is just 200k...
Whereas the group life insurance according to the officer in charge is above 2m...
My dad is a snr police officer...he died while in service.

The officer said I should expect it last year, then I didn't receive anything..now he said this Year , with reason that last year wasn't favourable to fg....
I'm just tired of thier story...

Least, he said after the group life payment, then the will be needing letter of administration administration from me.

Thefarmer3:


Oh, if you've collected the insurance then that's group life oo....

Group life insurance

Nop the officer in charge told me insurance is different from group life.

The insurance I recieved was his health insurance the money is just 200k...
Whereas the group life insurance according to the officer in charge is above 2m...
My dad is a snr police officer...he died while in service.

The officer said I should expect it last year, then I didn't receive anything..now he said this Year , with reason that last year wasn't favourable to fg....
I'm just tired of thier story...

Least, he said after the group life payment, then the will be needing letter of administration administration from me.

Thefarmer3:


Group life is entirely different, it is been handled by office of head of service of the federation. It's either they pay through insurance companies or they pay from the budget, last I heard they paid was in Dec 2020 when FG released 2.5B for group life backlogs but my family wasn't included for settlement, so we're looking forward to the next one.

It's entirely different from PENCOM death benefits

Yeah, they would still make payments into his RSA, they still owe his accrued rights cos he has been working for FG before 2004

My brother, how is the group life of a thing, I have been waiting since 2019...
How long does it take please?

Thefarmer3:


Well, payment depends on your batch. Have you been placed on a batch by PENCOM?
For the group life, please visit the pension desk office of your dad's workplace, they should put you through.

How long does this group life takes, NIGERIA POLICE DON PROMISE ME TIRE...

Any other alternative, it's been 2018, since I submitted every necessary document, I have recieved only his insurance money.

Sugardick:
Oga hustle and save your daughters from such situations

is not matter of hustling..the Heart of man is desperately wicked.

Sugardick:
After chyking for months unsuccessfully,her phone fell and screen broke she was desperate then I told her I will give her 4k to repair her phone screen after we fück,,, she came and after 2 rounds I opened the door and told her to walk out and never greet me if she sees me. She wan change am for me but when I carry extension wire nobody tell her to carry her 2 left leg Waka go

You're wicked nd someone will do same thing to your daughter using her situation.

Keep this girl please.

You sef fuckup, 2yrs haba..

To me, aan should just date a girl between a period of 3-8months... especially if you want to Marry her....if she still say No, to marriage... leave her..nah trap be thAt.

Tell that your Guy to ask his gf if she can allow him go on a date with opposite sex..

Then come back nd give her reply..
I will know what to advise you from there..thanks.

Bouz:
Alot of graduate on this forum, don't earn up to 40k per month, and your in final year already earning 240k that's good keep it up. When you are done with your nysc, you can get married, now is early

Thanks but is my mum , I can't have a reasonable discussion with my mum again, if I say I'm not of age, she will ask if I see my age before building a house, buying land...

That I should settle down nd start raising kids

Karleb:
Why exactly do young people rush into marriage?

You are setting up yourself for poverty. If you think 80k is big, think again!

I'm still confused, though I ve my own home(house) and some land properties too.

My mum won't let me be , always talking about marriage often, can't even have a meaningful discussion with her again.
Before was being into a relationship, now I'm in a relationship... She start moving it to marriage.

Bouz:
80k per week haba yes na. Which kind mumu question are you asking again na .

Just asking because I'm confused, I'm 24 going to 25, I'm still a student,in my final year,, but my mum keep advising me to get married, settle down and start raising kids.

Though I'm in a sweet relationship.

Good afternoon my fellow nairalannders!

Can a guy between age of 24_25yrs that earns @least 80k weekly get married?
I mean considering the present nigeria economy??

Interested

GIANTPLUSHUB:



Very well. You close a biz to open another one. Work on opening another betshop making three. All the very best!

Thanks though I'm currently working towards opening a phone accessories soon

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Good afternoon fellow lander's,

Please is my decision good?

I currently owe a POS center and a betshop . though I started off with POS before opening a betshop, then the POS was yielding a reasonable income per day... like 5_7k per day, it was from the POS I raised money nd open up the bet shop and equally start off my building.

Right now people are into the POS much hence I'm making little or no profits ..the POS barely make 1500_2k per day whereas the betshop gives me at worst 120k weekly.
Now I still pay the guy running that POS , Plus other expenses and risks of going to bank often...

I have decided to shut it down while I focus on my two betshop, please is the action a bold one??

yetunsbay:
To confirm whether your application has been successfully sent and received by Pencom.

1. Put a call forward to your PFA to confirm

2. Contact Pencom for batch you're being placed

How do I get their contact?

xProfx:


Kudos! You've spoken like a truly educated individual... Often times businesses fail because people skip the planning and market research stage, which is usually the most crucial. One wrong turn can amount to a total waste of startup capital.

@OP
Kindly research the area to know what sells. Do your SWOT analysis, or in simple terms, know what people want that are not there and how you can fill in the market gap. Don't just jump into a business without accurate research. Good luck.

My community is fast developing...
People are building House on daily basis... though we have about 3 cement dealer's too..

As for botique, nobody has ever open a botique business....and with the look of things our guy's are Beginning to put on fashion now...
But then I still don't know why everyone around is telling me cement business...

Secondly, considering the fact cement doesn't see much in rainy season... I'm having a second thought too.

I have done my study... Even my own cousin said I should ought for cement...since I'm well known.. that people will patronize me much.

Currentlygrown:


Good day, Thefarmer3. Honestly, I’ve had this same problem. There’s been no way to confirm if our application has been sent to Abuja. I’d appreciate if you can help me out, It would mean a lot to my family. Can I also text you on your number?

I'm interested to know too...

A business about to be set up in a developing community, between botique and Cement business which will give more profit I the space of 6months..

Advice needed please...

Wahala for me, I will 24 in June this yr but looks 29-30 hahahaha... funny be say older ladies above 25 keep crushing on me... it' really pis me off.. e come worst be say, despite my look I don't wear jeans @ll...only native and senator wears....
This one come make them the believe say I don reach 30....I will try learning how to wear jeans this year...

My advice@ O.p, hustle and forget look and those crushing on you...if possible relocate...nd dubble your hustle....

Oluwa de your back..

UNCLEOKORO:
Indicate interest today

Interested...ah need a side hustle bro..
09032393237

onyenekeempire@gmail.com

Ennyboy12:


Wow, Congratulations Bro!
Mehn...still looking for a mentor on this Amazon kdp of a thing, as i am not an author

I need to learn this...
Congratulations to you

Op come update us nah

Depends mostly in the ministry he served and the number of service year's..

Is she not a human being like other girls??
What if shix the girl God has destined you to marry ? Or are you trying to say that no white garment member will make heaven'

My advice, go ahead.