₦airaland Forum

Demmzy15:
Which guys?! You spoke about Ziyarah as if you had enough evidence, but when truth is glaring to your face you find an escape route by bringing the Sauds into it. The sauds are humans and they make mistakes, the scholars of the land speak against whatever evil going on in the land. So don't bring in that hypocritical attitude of yours into this kabaan

Demmzy15:
^^^Are you going to dispute the evidence given to you @Emp.iree?

Rashduct4luv:
I know you can lecture for 9ja. And you'll never submit to the truth even if its evident. Iru iro ni'borun!

Ahmad, Al Bukhari, Muslim and others reported from Abu Huraira that the Prophet. "Do not set out on a journey except for three mosques: Al Masjid Al Haram, my Mosque (at Medinah) and the Mosque of Al-Aqsa (Mosque of Jerusalem)".
So, it is unlawful to travel from one place to another to visit a mosque for any purpose whatsoever except if that mosque is one of the three mentioned in the Hadith.
It is reported in a narration that Abu Huraira once went to Al Tour Mount to stand where Prophet Moses stood seeking blessing (Baraka) when he came back his companion Abu Basrata Al Ghifari said to him: "Had I met you before you left I wouldn't have let you go". Abu Huraira agreed upon that. So, it is unlawful to travel to any place in the world to seek blessing (Baraka) or pray or do any other acts of worship except the three mentioned mosques.
We conclude by saying "it is unlawful to travel in order to visit any mosque on earth except the three mosques. But it is lawful to travel to visit scholars and pious people or to seek knowledge or to trade… etc".

Shaykhul-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah may Allaah have mercy upon him wrote about the difference of opinion among scholars regarding undertaking a journey:

“Regarding the hadeeth that reads, ‘One should not undertake a journey to visit mosques except to three...,’ some scholars said that it does not indicate prohibition but that it means that it is not legislated, neither obligatory nor recommended; rather, it is permissible, just like traveling for trade and other purposes. It is said to them: such journeys (for trade or other purposes) are not intended as a form of worship; rather, they are intended for some worldly benefit, whereas traveling to visit graves is intended as a form of worship, and worship should be performed only with obligatory or recommended actions. Therefore, if a scholarly consensus is reached that traveling to graves is neither obligatory nor recommended, then when one does it as an act of worship, it is considered a religious innovation opposing the consensus, and performing a religious innovation for the purpose of worship is not lawful...”
Allah knows best.

Rashduct4luv:
This is what happens when we refuse to follow the teachings of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa salam.

Visiting the grave to offer prayers for the dead Muslims is permitted. But offering acts of worship at the grave of a dead Imam, praying to the dead Imam and Traveling to visit graves are forbidden in Islam.

But I guess I will be stoned soon cos truth is bitter!

tHANKS SIS,HAVE YOU FINALLY START YOURS,?COS I DNT END UP DOING IT,I WAS DISCOURAGED THAT PEOPLE ARE NOT HONEST ENOUGH TO DO BUSINESS WITH IN NAIJA.

amodu:
Sometime in 2011, a few months after I got my first employment, I visited an Ẹ̀gbọ́n (of late memory) to discuss a farm business prospect on which I wish we could partner with him supplying the funds while I do the field work. After our discussion, he asked me, Prof., when are you getting married to your famous "two-at-once wives?" (back in the days I used to boast about marrying 2 wives at a time.)

Me: Next year, in shaa Allaah. First, I want to gather some money so I can be able to cater for my family

Him: Tor, may Allaah make it easy.

Me: So, ẹgbọ́n when are you adding a second?

At that point, the wife who had been calm all day flared up. AuudhubiLlaah! She exclaimed.

Ẹ̀gbọ́n: I'm not thinking about it now or any time soon.

Me: Ẹ̀gbọ́n, you need to start thinking about it fa. After 12 years of marriage you still are not give mathnaaism a thought?

Ummu Fulaanah: You should start going now. I fear that you will corrupt my husband.

Me: Cortupt bí tí báwo? Sunnah Annabi Muhammad ní fà.

Ummu Fulaanah: Hùn-ùn wọn tún tí dé. Sunnah eyokan tí á má ń rí wọn sì náà nù.

Laughter errupts

Me: But on a serious note, what if Aboo Faulaanah decides to marry a small wife who will help you with house chores?

Ummu Faulaanah: Did I complain to you that I'm overwhelmed? He can't even contemplate it let alone do it.

Aboo Fulaanah: Don't say that ooooo. I may do it if I find one Hajia that pleases me fa.

Ummu Fulaanah: "Your carpenter no fit use teeth remove nail." You know I love you and I cannot share you with anyone. I will resist every move to bring in another wife.

Aboo Fulaanah: "I don't even have life for wàhálà. Multiple wives, multiple predicaments."

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In 2012 barely a year later, Aboo Fulaanah had an accident and died on the spot.

This afternoon, I was at Mandate market to buy meat when a woman buying beverages from a nearby stall called my name. I turned and saw Ummu Fulaanah. We exchanged pleasantries and the following conversation ensued:

Ummu Fulaanah: Haaa Aboo, "this is your face?!" You didn't even ask after us since your friend died.

Me: No vex please. "It's the mountain here that has blurred our sight from seeing the mountain there." How have you been and how are the kids?

Ummu Fulaanah: AlhamduliLlaah! "The situation hasn't passed ìfaradà".

As I was about leave, she said, "Aboo, please, remember us in your prayers. I've not been engaged to anyone since your friend died."

Me: Is it that no one has approached you, or that you haven't found your preferred choice of spouse yet?

She: All of those that have approached me are married and some are afraid of affording my responsibilities (3 kids), some categorically told me that I cannot take in my kids with me. There are some whose wives even called to threaten me to leave their husbands alone or else I will regret my life.

Me: What about single brothers?

Ummu Fulaanah: Aboo, which single brother will marry a widow with 3 kids? And even if he decides to marry me, his family members will discourage him. You know the kind of cultural shenanigans that our people are subscribed to nah.

Me: Toh, may Allaah grant your heart desire soon.

Ummu Fulaanah: Aaameen. Please, in case you have any responsible brother who would not mind....

Me: (in my mind) Experience is the best teacher. Now, if every woman have your kind of 'entitlement' and 'not sharing my husband' mentality, who will allow their husbands marry the widowed and divorces.

Lesson: Always remember that circumstances of death or divorce may force you into being in need of another marriage. If you 'styliahly' or openly hate Mathnaalogy now, what will become of you then?

Sirnucy Lafiagi

tintingz:
Lol see calculation, I don't have idea of the child tax in U.S but omoh, that woman na business woman, this will not favour women in Nigeria except she's into rich men.

Women in U.S are more inform/enlighten than women in Nigeria (Fact).

tintingz:
The reason I said women in U.S are more enlighten than women in Nigeria is because, women in U.S know their right, you can't just mess with them and get away with it(although some have misused it), but hear in Nigeria many women don't even know their right, a man can do bad to them and get away with it, take a look at divorce case in Nigeria, it favor men than women except the woman knows her right or has connection.

tintingz:
Lol see calculation, I don't have idea of the child tax in U.S but omoh, that woman na business woman, this will not favour women in Nigeria except she's into rich men.

Women in U.S are more inform/enlighten than women in Nigeria (Fact).

tintingz:
Lol you no serious o , na business oo my brother, do you know how much she get from the babydaddies for child support for each children? And some guys don't want to marry while some for citizenship purpose they just did relationship contract.

Fundamentalist:
I expected less when albaqir became your reference point. At that point I understood you need psychiatric diagnosis

Fundamentalist:
You're insults does no harm to me , I'm more concerned about the poison you are pitting in peoples hearts in the name of knowledge , just say it openly that you are not interested in what the messenger brought and stop blabbing

Raintaker:
He is one of those Benin republic Yorubas.
I think Anago or something like that.

Sissie:
Yes oh. Resurfaced.

Carrot seed oil is one of my personal favorite oils. Carrot oil is great

DexterOlumoroti:
His name is Olalade
And the song title is Ola
This is the link to the video on youtube

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hotecZZ-hAU

Fundamentalist:
Just tell us you have something better than that of the messenger (salallahu alaihim wa sallam ) , instead of going around circles

Demmzy15:
I think it should be the other way round, you're the insecure one here. Anyways, if you decide to join the "League of Extraordinary Chestbeaters" feel free to tell us.