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DavidGodwin:
Well, I know it's not easy to move on. But trust me dear, the longer u remain there, the worse things would turn out to be. Kindly do yourself a favor and move on. Occupy your mind with novels etc. He's not worth it. Good thing is, you've not had sex with him. God site has a better person for you. Don't generalize, cos I AM CERTAIN that there are still good men out there.

Tnx for the advice I have long deleted him out of my life, it's been months now and no regret.

Puresolutions:
@Enahi the forum is flooded with this same issues over and over...Is it so difficult to leave a guy? is it this difficult ?

Yes it is if is a guy that we truly like or love.

DavidGodwin:
Hope you've not had sex with him before? Quote me

Lol guess you didn't read all my comments, no I never had sex with him.

obailala:
E dey pain me the way some people dey reason, I dont know any more if you are just pulling my legs with these your responses or if you are actually being serious.

Nah I am not serious I am just playing

Puresolutions:
REVERSE PSYCHE IS WHAT I WANT TO COMMIT HERE ....


I HAVE A QUESTION TO ASK DO WOMEN HAVE PROBLEMS ATALL BESIDES MEN PROBLEMS ? WHY DO ALL LADIES ONLY SEEM TO HAVE MAN PROBLEMS WHY ?

Sure we do 've other problems aside man problems

Godblessamaechi:
I would have seconded you but Arase to me operates like a coward and a slave in the way he managed issues that relate to the North. He has to wait for SLS to return and approve of him to go and rescue Ese.
He was very quick to order for the disarmament of Massob/Ipob but was very COWARD to dish the same oder to the Herdsmen who freely roam our Land with Ak47 destroying lives and properties with impunity. Let's put sentiment apart he laboured so hard to retain his job by being unprofessional and biased in other to curry favour or impress his pay Master with the manner he handled criminal cases in the North differently from the South. As for me his demerits outweighs his so called merits.
SOUTHERNERS WHEN ARE WE GOING TO FREE OURSELVES FROM THE CHAIN'S OF THE NORTH?

I have decided to turn a blind eye to that aspect because it hurts, I feel he would 've done better if he had a free will to but the powers that be that claim to be fighting corruption is the greatest enemy of this Country. I pray the Northerners don't rule this Country again.

obailala:
I showed you 2 examples of AMCON taking over businesses which default on loans above; I mentioned Sani Dangote and Jimoh Ibrahim. If you need more examples, you have examples like Wale Babalakin of Bi-courtney group, Aero Contractors, even Arik air at some point, Bacita Sugar, G. Cappa etc, AMCON bought over all these loans and many others when they bailed out several banks, AMCON is now in the business of recovering the loans. You are free to simply do a google search to educate yourself.

I will not bother responding to you further because it is obvious I am wasting my time forcing info into the head of someone who has intentionally blocked their comprehension abilities. Have a nice day!

Now you are taking this personal na fight.

obailala:
Why should they do same to a Dangote who is regularly servicing his loan?... Does what you have just said make any sense to you?

I repeat give me evidence that Dangote is servicing his loan, stop typing rubbish show me evidence.

obailala:
When you default on your loan from a bank, that is when AMCON comes in as a saviour and buys over your loan (this basically gives you more time to raise the money and also prevents the bank itself from failing).

A simple evidence that Aliko Dangote is servicing his loans is that AMCON has never bought any of his bad loans. Now in your wild imagination, can you point out where you got the pointless conjecture from that Dangote is not servicing his loan?

Oh please spare me all that bullcrap, where was Amcon or whatever they are called when various banks were listing companies that hasn't paid their loans through Newspapers. How many of the Companies has Amcon taken over?

2BB4CB3E:
His brothers aren't signing over his company to AMCON today are they?
Stop using your understanding of gossips to judge issues

Is that the evidence you have, shame on you I thought you had evidence from the banks stating that Dangote has been repaying his loans.

2BB4CB3E:
Let me ask you
You truly believe that dangote with 15bllion dollars doesn't service his loans, convert that to naira and look at how stupid ur childish opinions are

What evidence do you have to show me that Dangote is servicing his loan?

2BB4CB3E:
First of all don't "shhhh" next time
An average post of mine gets more likes than the number of guys that say hi to you in a week. I don't care who is walking free and who is not ben bruce had debts and he must be held accountable for it, dude preaches about common sense so much i was beginning to think that solomon blessed him or something
Moral of the story is, if you have debts go and paythe government is broke

Who cares how many numbers of likes you get in a post, we all know there are millions of dumb people on nairaland that will obviously like your post.

Fyi I am not against what Amcon did but truth is they should do same to Dangote that's the message the op is trying to pass across.

One of the best Nigeria has ever had, I hope the new guy will do his best too.

Oh my God this is heartbreaking, you know what to do but you just don't want to.
Try the following methods;

Delete his number, pictures and text messages from your phone.
Change your phone number, u can keep ur present SIM aside pending when u are sure u have gotten over him.

Stop him from visiting your house, tell your parents you 've broken up with and that they shouldn't answer his calls in case he trys to call them to beg.

Travel to another State or Country, if you are working you can ask for your annual leave from your company to keep away from him.

Destroy everything that reminds you about him e.g. gifts and any other thing he might 've given you in d past.

Then prayer against his stronghold on you, don't be surprised he might be using charms on you that's why u haven't been able to let go.

This is not d best time to get into a relationship but I will advice you to date someone right now to divert your attention from him.

Goodlick!

Mine is between wide load and heart, trust me you don't wanna see it!

2BB4CB3E:
Dangota I see lol
So we should leave ben Bruce or what's ur point exactly
Don't know which hole ure sitting down in thinking this rubbish sha
You said so much trash eh
I worry for your mental condition
But even if no one reasonable educates you let me help
I don't care if mr B is owing 500billion
We have to start from somewhere and if its ben Bruce so be it
Put ur childish sentiments aside and think about your OWN life

Shush shush the op means there is no justice in Nigeria, if an Almajiri could be walking free despite owing billions of naira why shouldn't Ben B be free?

I was expecting to see the President of the US of A, Great Britian, France, China and Russia. These countries are the decision makers in the world.

And op you need to go back to school seems you don't know the difference between world leader and Ambassador

tayexz:
See how they are shouting its edo not igbo as if OP has commited a sin by calling that igbo attire.
there are three major tribes in nigeria which are igbo, hausa and yoruba according to social studies, u gatz to put urself under one of the umbrellas. period!!

Like seriously so make other tribes no exist again because of three major tribes, una go wait tire.

Igbo attire ko igbo attire ni who dash una. Igbos be claiming everything not theirs.

Awwwww....... so sad I really do feel for them
The Bruce family will rise again, they are hundred times better than the illiterate Northerners that got their wealth through politics and Niger Delta oil.

tbaba1234:
His first daughter is dead... The second, third, fourth and fifth daughters are not called Aisha

He has a daughter called Aisha yes or no?

Silvofitz:
The problem here is that, only a small percentage, say 30%, could actually process the analysis given in this report.
So, don't judge those calling for the president's wife head, even without any evidence.
That's what ignorance can cause.

There is absolutely no analysis given here, Saraharepoters did a poor job of recycling same story that's in the internet. They haven't been able to unravel anything so tell me what they wrote about that we don't already know.

tbaba1234:
This woman is older than all Buhari's children. She can not be his daughter.

If Buhari married his first wife in 1971 are you trying to tell me that he can't have a daughter up to that age?

tbaba1234:
This woman is older than all Buhari's children. She can not be his daughter.

You believe that passport is real right, the passport is 100 percent fake.

tbaba1234:
The woman is simply a fraudster with a history of crime... She is not related to the Buharis... Ribadu and Lamorde has confirmed it, they were the ones that investigated the case... Buhari himself has said he has no daughter named Aisha in the US.

It is obvious that there is no relationship.

He has a daughter named Aisha Google it.

tbaba1234:
The problem is that this Aisha on the passport can not be Buhari's child.. She is older than all of Buhari's children..

That's the part that got me cconfused too, 1975 same date of birth with the first lady. Something is definitely wrong somewhere, that passport is 100 percent fake.

tbaba1234:
"'I don’t have any relationship with that Aisha Buhari,' Mr. Buhari said. 'I don’t have any daughter called Aisha Buhari living outside this country. She is not my daughter.'

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/04/29/business/yourmoney/29lobby.html?_r=1

Why won't he deny her, She is the only one her pictures aren't online yet he has a daughter called Aisha.

My conclusion the crime was committed by a relative of Buhari not Aisha his wife but perhaps Aisha his daughter, have searched for pictures of Buhari's daughter named Aisha online but haven't been able to lay my hands on any of her pictures yet. Buhari has a daughter called Aisha. Buhari's family are guilty of the crime.

Saharareporters and lies, they couldn't even show d face of the woman entering the car. Poor investigative skills, President Buhari actually has a daughter called Aisha can someone please upload the picture of Aisha Buhari for the world to see.

Smellymouth:
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Gosh you again, u dey find trouble abi. Allow her to express herselfherself

Adesiji77:
I can guess but can't say it here

Hehehehe me sef no wan chop ban, these mods no like me at all!

M400:
Don't think this move is wise ooooooo,make person no go die or fall inside lagoon............

Sad that I know the two leaving who knows Seun might give the two of them an opportunity to prove themselves again. One of them didnt do her homework well and I didn't know on time I would 've played a part in supporting her.