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Timbuktou:
We are often told that broke niggahs should not pursue women as it distracts them from achieving their goals and dreams. In other words, men should only date when they have arrived or become successful as this places them on better footing financially and emotionally. While I see the logic in this view, I find it defeatist. Life is such that as humans, we can develop in multiple areas at once. Below, I will provide reasons why my broke/poor brothers must date before they hit it big.

1. Know Thyself.
You need to find your bearing in a relationship setting. What are you like around women, around pretty women. Can you do better with yourself? What things do you need to improve on? What habits should you pick up, what hobbies should you develop? Etc.

2. Know Thy Adversary.
You need to understand women. How they think. How they behave. Their motivations, fears, strenghs, weaknesses. You don't want to be a rich 40year old and not understand the import of "I'm fine".

3. Know The Game.
Yes, dating is a game. There are rules you must abide by if you are to win in the world of relationships. The winners of any game are those who understand the rules and play skillfully and better than the rest. Women don't think like men. You will lose if you expect your wife to see things like a man. You will lose.

4. Lose The Fantasy.
Yeah, we've heard how love conquers all. Well, no, actually, it doesn't. Lack of money is the leading cause of divorces, break-ups and cheating wives and girlfriends. Looking for love in your poverty will be a harsh wake-up call. What this also means is that women don't love you because of who you are or how you treat them. They love you for how you make them feel. That puppy-eye look she gives you when you take her shopping and dine her proper will disappear if the money disappears. Don't get it twisted, lose the fantasy. Love is a mirage.

5. Motivation.
There'll be times when you want to date pretty babes and they'll blow you off harder than Boko Haram ever dreamed. Take these situations and let them spur you to improvement and development. Don't take them personally, that is nature, and as they say, "you cannot cheat nature." Instead, let the wind of life power your sails. Plus, there ain't no better revenge than success.

6. You'll Learn To Appreciate Value.
Considering all the disappointments you'll encounter as a result of limited finances, you should better understand the concept of value. Relationships are transactionary. The more you're worth, the higher the value of woman you can pull.

There are many more reasons why you should enter the world of dating, too many to mention. But you can start with these. Remember you're never too broke to date. There's someone for everyone.

missbronze:
yes.

Society turned us into that.

haryana:
hi guys.so i met this guy online abt a month ago and one thing lead to the other and we are in love. Although never seen each other physically except the fact that we chat online and talk on phone alot. We are already talking about marriage. i have done some digging on him and found him to be what he said he is plus he is crazy in love and willing to marry me even if he finds me to be crippled. i love him too very much but keep wondering what type of strong feelings it is that developed into this... what do you think?

missbronze:
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Sorry dear, Typing under the influence of Orijin.

Dont worry, Serious people will soon come and drop meaningful comments.

Am just having my 5mins madness.

Enjoyment1:
I am a working class Christian lady looking for a serious guy beween the age of 35 and 38 for a serious relationship that would lead to marriage. I want to beg, I am ready for marriage, so any play boy should look elsewhere. I have my own work, and not going to be a liability to any man. All I want is a serious man, who have the fear of GOD ALMIGHTY.
If interested, please call 08177584697.

ritababe:
i put the 5 shirt in my bag, when i enter he took my bag and ask me "where is my rice" he took the shirt out himself.

ritababe:
if na ur plan e no work, HOLY GHOST FIRE.

sarahGIII:
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"true love" indeed. If you want to see her unclad, go her house make she strip for you

echobee:
See them . Una go see natural ikebe's like us,una no go gree look us . Since una love fake things,make una buy am for dem
#Team chubby any time any day#

clevvermind:
Why are many ladies so dumb? Why send a guy your n'ude pictures?

justi4jesu:
lol...see your life

kristina1:
Seriously?

kristina1:
Nt true.....i disagree

The best thing that can happen to a man is a woman

dayveed1:
and more romantic

mizzkeji44:
Yea but i can run and jump with it smartly.
let her try it,the bosoms will be one running instead.

seunrebirth:
Wanna to Know the naija babe with the biggest grapes? This one is massive! All those big things are real my broda. She is really endowed naturally... What do you guys tink about this cos it still seem as if am dreaming? My mouth is watery already.

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I bet you wont want to stop steering at those mouth watering boobs

wakacome:
change your username to ene(satan)...that enegod no fit you at all...

Kenzico:
Useless thread! Nairalanders everytym with ladies n ar.ses!