₦airaland Forum

These kind of stories keep cropping up.

People should stop investing in others at the expense of themselves. People change! If you want to invest in someone else, make sure you are also investing in yourself at the same time. There are no guarantees anywhere. Some people invested in others and it paid off; some did and it was the worst decision of their lives.

Don’t forget she said she has relocated… lol

She’s trying to protect herself. If she’s not careful, she will soon find herself with child #2 when she comes back. Get your finances together first; wedding doesn’t have to be expensive.

Hahaha… married women don suffer for Naija, make them no sleep again 😂. Let women breathe … lol

He should move out ASAP and speak to a good lawyer. We no wan hear of another stabbing incidence in Canada.

Safety and Sanity first! Life first! All other things can be sorted out with time.

You know what your wife is asking you to do isn’t right, yet you’re here still asking. You better send that girl back to her parents and be supporting her from afar, if you know you can’t do right by her.

So, if your wife asks you to harm her you’ll agree for peace to reign? Dey there dey deceive yourself.

It’s ok to shoot your shot as long as you manage your expectations, because he may just want to chop and clean mouth. As per your friend, na normal reaction be that, no surprises there.

It’s likely your friend knew you had a thing for the guy before she jumped into a relationship with him, girls do such. What will pain her most is if you guys go ahead and get married. Chaiii… e go pain am, she go forget say you introduced her to the guy in the first place….lol

Oyinbogyal:
I’m curious — have others experienced something similar in the diaspora? Or am I just being too harsh?

Oh no! You’re not being harsh @ all.

FYI, there are a lot of people on this table. It’s the modus operandi of the average Nigerian/African family called “Black tax” - you can Google search to read more about it.

Una don start😄… we no wan hear stories that touch the heart later o

Congratulations 🥳🤩🎊🎉🥂🍾
God bless and keep them. Cheers!

10 year old no fit wash plate or even dish her food herself? Maka why?

Why did he send the 5 kids out with their mother? Are they the ones that refused him or what is their offense? It seems the man has been looking for a way to avoid his responsibilities.

Hahaha…2baba don meet him match! The voice of 2face, the words of Natasha 😂🤣

Hahaha….2baba no even fit look camera with him full chest. Natasha you do this one oh! Annie go don laff tire😂🤣

linecrosser:
2025,still waiting patiently.

There are a lot more options for waiting mothers now. Try and explore those and also get your husband to run tests if he hasn’t done so. You can also look into adoption.

Why will you give it to her? It’s either she brings money for you to get her one or you direct her to where you got yours.

If you’re feeling generous, you can use your money to get her one but, with this option you are likely to start what you cannot finish.

eniorisha:
She first used dt word on me saying I am showing my true color dt I was never serious with her

Which word? Anyways, you can see red flags everywhere but it seems you still want to chook your head. So many things are not adding up - you know it but, you don’t want to follow your instincts and walk away.

Chaiii…why do people like to complicate their lives like this? Oga, is there no single lady without baggage for you to date and marry? After waiting this long to get married, you want to enter into a “situationship”.

The gymming couple 😁
Do me I do you, God no go vex😂

Interesting 😄

I hope the dancing governor can hear😁😄
I come in peace o ✌️

Never stop adding value to yourself as an individual!!!

She wouldn’t have thought that the man would be back one day to pay outstanding child support and even suggest doing a court wedding with her, but Real Value cannot be ignored. Na reality be that. Who knows what the man is going through now that makes him want to japa…lol

pansophist:
Close-minded people (actually stupid people) uses insult, shaming tactics, and manipulation trying to make sense, instead of drop their foolish opinion and go.

Why is his parent not with their own parents?

All the thing you mentioned that his parent did for him, he will do it for his own children, this is the natural dynamic. It doesnt mean he wont show care to his parent, but care doesnt mean living with them permanently.

So if he has to be a businessman that travels globally, he should saddle his parents and be flying everywhere with them? Do you think at all?

I take very good care of my parents, and we do not live together. Care can be shown without 24/7 physical presence. I have kids as well, so I have reached that age.

Judging from the time you opened your nairaland account, I would have expect a level of decorum and manners when you write, but you have proven that stupid people also grow old

God bless you for this your response. I couldn’t believe my eyes when I read that guy’s response to you.

Midlife crises? Maybe / Maybe not 🤔

When some men are experiencing midlife crises, they will think their wife is the cause and start looking for a younger woman to make them feel younger…lol

This seems to be the only kind of topics on Family section of recent. Wetin dey happen?

Wondering why someone would want to keep up with this kind of “drama”. What do you seek to gain? Na wa

Hahaha 😂
A good example of “talk is cheap” & “experience is the best teacher”.

lol 😂

Run ooo 🏃‍♀️

Toymax88:
Lol!! I didn't want to use BABIES MAMA

Oga, go and do right by that woman and her family! Call them and tell them you want to come pay her bride price and see if they won’t treat you differently.