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Emzyme:
Jeez I got her back, I have been having double mindset about her now... been having sex like mad
I dunno, but these thoughts keep running through my head ...
If I could really trust her again, I kinda of hate her now
I read the chats btw her nd d guy n question
See chats xrated stuffs ... d guy don even chop wella sef
Come leave chaff for me ...

this op must be very funny...op do make u engage her so that u go chop her well...or u don engage her b4?..

also, dis op and his babe must be from d north because dem like sex die

op, yo u are a confuse human

op u no complete all MD childhood game then..
#rolling Tyre on the street.. #playing slippo #throwing rubber

abeg d person below me should continue from where I stop

only those born in the cities...if u see d village ones, u will ask if they are from nigeria

eya...ur broda has been cage..tell ur family to watch out soon

firstking01:
Truth of the matter is, we must learn to live with them since we must marry, except you don't wanna marry...atimes you give them some benefits of doubt if you are lucky along the line she might challenge.

a cheat can never change...they only feel remorse when caught but after everything is settle, they do worse..

we just pray to marry the ideal one

firstking01:
Lol, but you don't have to refer to your ex like that na...women are meant to be managed and tolerated.

you said mange ad tolerated...then they will take your kindness for weakness and they will also get comfortable in disrespecting you because they no another chance will be given...they will feel no matter how bad they treat you, you can never walk away because you love them so passionately and tender..


pls just read my thread and you will see where I am coming from..

www.nairaland.com/3664859/despite-love-showed-girlfriend-broke

the best thing is for her to walk away for a better man..but some girls who are fools(like my ex gf) and who doesn't no what they want will still stick around just like my delirious ex gf who went back to meet her ex fiance who had engaged her for three years and didnt married her..she knew another woman has a child for him....

firstking01:
Every sane lady will quietly and regretably walk away

first king, I like reading your comment..

the best thing is for her to walk away for a better man..but some girls who are fools(like my ex gf) and who doesn't no what they want will still stick around just like my delirious ex gf who went back to meet her ex fiance who had engaged her for three years and didnt married her..she knew another woman has a child for him....

they need this post for church and mosque but not here...imagine dis op wants me to start stressing my eys reading this long post

2dice01:
math teacher tell the whole class say i no get head...luckily i jam the nigga for shoprite yesterday ...he no get bread

eriga

I love yourlast two paragraph..money is really ones comfort after being heart broken...I realised that wen one has no money, then he feels the heart break more...but once the money is there, its comfort you and u feel less heart break and u also move on quickly because of d money who happens to be your friend and comfort...

NA wen man no get money, e go dey think too much of d past

tobianthony:
Sold my ps4 and all my other game CDS to buy an engagement ring .

Sold my big ass screen TV to buy clothes for her for 30k, for introduction .

Broke the engagement via bbm after introduction .

I bought another TV and ps4 but I'm still mourning my stupidity .

But I forgive her ...all the best . I am doing extremely well.

" Money is cold comfort in the absence of love " - Trip Darling - Dirty ,sexy money .

We will look at all these things and just laugh jor

SorftWerk:
i am working towards that bro... Believe me, but I just hate to hurt her

then walk away

bro, my advise to you is to leave this girl and look for another better girl..your story is quite similar with mine but also different some how because I Bleep her countless time until she told me that I have slacken her vagina...break up with this girl before breaks up with you..also, try to Bleep her several time before you break up with her because she will never change...she will do more than that and you will continue to feel d heart break...if you don't take time, she will go back to her ex and some other new guys..

this girl don't worth your love, attention and care....kill your emotion for her..

SorftWerk:
currently I must tell u some shit I'm into, there is this girl I'm so much into, I have loved her to an extent that 90percent of my thoughts are of her, I see to her every need even though I don't have much yet, I write her poems, stay by her when she is ill, never had sex wit her, loved her unconditionally, but she flairs up when I complain of her attention cos she gives me non, hardly returns my calls, she kissed her ex who took her as trash when she was still with him, she didn't tell me what she did until she had something with another guy that was no where near my features.

I get attention from ladies, I get sexual advances that almost no guy would be able to resist but still I did for her sake, yet she had some nasty stuff with a guy and couldn't help it cos her conscience was killing her, then she told me about it and about her ex whom she kissed the previous day, I lost trust for her, still I loved her even more, I complain of her love, attention and commitment but she just flairs up when I do, but knowing she did what she did with another guy has left me with sleepless nights as I respected her and thought she could never do such with the amount of love I shower on her. It's a heart break for me, still I'm sticking around..

Princefrankie1:
Lmao. You see, I always tell people that someone who truly loves you, will stay despite your shortcomings.

Imagine, you were there for her Sexually, Fnancially and Emotionally, yet she cheated! She still fancied sex with another guy even though she gets her fill with you.

This should be a lesson to every man out there. Anything you do for the one you love, do it because you love them, and tell yourself that no matter what happens in the future, you will never regret what ever good you did! That's the way to go.

The truth is, no matter the pains of betrayal, we can't just stop helping the ones we truly love.

One more thing guys, never take sex enhancing drugs to please a woman, believe me, no matter how big your d..ck is, no matter how long you stay before ejaculation, no matter your skills and styles, if she is the type that cheats, she will.

I love your last paragraph..no matter how you satisfy her,, she will still cheat behind your back with different guys..girls like this are never satisfy and they don't no what they want

Bigsteveg:
Your last paragraph nailed it. Three gbosa for u. Nma27.....thats d fact, 99% girls ain't loyal. I paid my own babe school fees, project and just because I didn't buy clothes, she said I didn't do anything. Am I her father? Funniest thing is that her dad isn't. paying the school fees. Girls don't know what they want. Certificate or clothes?


No girl is worth it. Am not even married to u yet.

The best thing a man can do for himself is to focus on his career, that pays. Pussyy ain't gold, 2 minutes enjoyment

bro, I love ur last paragraph "pussy ain't gold..just 2 min enjoyment"..one career is more important b4 considering dis pussy ass bitch

samuel051:
That experience made me to call of two relationships, because from my experience and that of others I know and heard about,I noticed that most girls from d age of 25yrs and below are confused,they don't know what they want in a relationship, older girls tend to be more sensible and experienced as they know what they want and how to handle relationship issues.(my own personal opinion).

I support your opinion..most girl within that age range don't no what they want..they are confuse and not always satisfy with the good caring guy they have until they lose it..they hardly show any sign of remorse for their doing because life has not taught them a lesson...they only realise their mistake in years time (when they are at d age of 28 to 38).also, this type of girls are the ones that thinks they are players but they do not no they are destroying their life and also being damage...I fact, they are the real definition of loose bitch who don't no what they want

dejavubobo1:
As long has U had sex with a Nigerian lady. she feels all debts are been repaid without recourse to whatever has transpired btw u guys in the past

you are right

emmachukwu99:
So who lost? She realised her mistakes and apologised, willing to make it up to you but you called it off. Probably she's with another guy who will enjoy ur labour on her. Pray you don't meet the ones who don't even feel guilt when they are wrong, then you will understand my point.

you are wrong..he didn't lose..she didn't fit into the kind of woman he was looking for..for her making that statement shows she is ungrateful and she will even repeat same statement over and over again..my ex girlfriend kept repeating such statement..so for d girl to have said that shows she was only there with him because of d things she benefits...I bet she was seeing some other guys behind his back who were only decieveing her for her to have made that statement.

austinereds:
OP don't worry. it's just time! it will pass. A new chapter is coming your way. forget her Quickly before she realise her mistake. pls be strong.

thanks..I am trying to forget her

Olubee22:
that's messed up but sorry about that . Cheer up and move on with your life o jae .

its very painful but I will..I can't beginning to dwell in the past even though I am finding it hard

Nma27:
Next time don't be too nice cos lady's will take that for weakness. You need to be in charge and be emotionally strong to avoid being taken for a ride. Never wash a lady's clothes please.

you are right..she took my kindness for weakness..I can't stop blaming myself for being weak for love and for being too emotional

I wish i never loved her because she just broke up with me yesterday..I gave her my love, time, attention,make sure she was happy, wash her cloths, go to any length for her, gave her my ATM pin..I pleased her while trying to displeased myself even when i knew she slept behind my back with different guys, entertained married men as friend, kept in touch with her fiance who engaged her for three yrs that didn't married her, evn when she knew her fiance has a child...I did and print her project work for her..I gave gave and sent her money..I was blinded by love or should I say I was a fool for love because this girl don't worth everything I did for her..she manipulated, decievd, lied, played with emotion and pretend to be a good girl when she is not...I forgave her countless times even when she broke my heart and she got so comfortable in my forgiveness..she went home to returned her engagement ring to her fiance so she could be with me but was sulprise when sent me a break up text that she is sorry for all d pain she caused me and she can't continue d relationship with me because she has gone to where her heart is free with and love...i remembered each time we had little miss understanding, she will tell me that what have done for her..that I have never done anything for her

FuckTheM0ds:
seriously the guy try

yea...we don't have to waste our time for some girls who don't worth the time, attention and love

Hotfreeze:
Congrats bro.

You escaped marrying someone who didn't love you and she missed marrying someone who truly loved her.

Ladies at her age choose swag over class. In a decade, she would see you and be hiding in shame.

My ex left me for a guy in Zenith cos I was a student back then. When I got to my final year on school, he lost his job and couldn't get others so quickly. Then, I was preparing to go to Law School.

When I started working, she started calling me and all. She was crying, begging me to forgive her. This was someone who had already done introduction with the other guy. I told her I accepted, we hung out, had sex a couple of times (na my pension) before I told her off.

Now, I show love to my parents and my siblings' kids and I'm so happy. I remember when I called my mom and told her 'Mommy, I love you', she was crying. She thought I was going to die.

My brother, leave those girls o. In 5 years time, she'll know the difference between swag and class.

bro, I love your comment..its just so funny..I wish I could type mine

pcguru1:
Hey bro i can never fault any man with good intentions it's not your fault, in an ideal world you're supposed to love your babe and expect the same, but we live in a mad world, however i do find it odd you were willing to still continue despite being pregnant with another man's child, that to me is where you made yourself a foot-stool. we've all been in love and heart-broken so there's no shame let no man deceive you a good number of us have endured silly stuff in the name of love and even cried. But it is what it is, next time don't set your standards low. relax have a bottle of beer if you stay in lagos, then maybe we should have drink, Alcohol and weed is on me if that's your thing.

" however i do find it odd you were willing to still continue despite being pregnant with another man's child, that to me is where you made yourself a foot-stool".


she wasn't pregnant for her fiance.though she had done abortion for him b4 I met her....another woman has a child for her fiance which she knows about...she was pregnant for me and had miscarriage..[b]

pcguru1:
Hey bro i can never fault any man with good intentions it's not your fault, in an ideal world you're supposed to love your babe and expect the same, but we live in a mad world, however i do find it odd you were willing to still continue despite being pregnant with another man's child, that to me is where you made yourself a foot-stool. we've all been in love and heart-broken so there's no shame let no man deceive you a good number of us have endured silly stuff in the name of love and even cried. But it is what it is, next time don't set your standards low. relax have a bottle of beer if you stay in lagos, then maybe we should have drink, Alcohol and weed is on me if that's your thing.

" however i do find it odd you were willing to still continue despite being pregnant with another man's child, that to me is where you made yourself a foot-stool".


she wasn't pregnant for her fiance.though she had done abortion for him b4 I met her....another woman has a child for her fiance which she knows about...she was pregnant for me and had miscarriage..[/b]

pcguru1:
Hey bro i can never fault any man with good intentions it's not your fault, in an ideal world you're supposed to love your babe and expect the same, but we live in a mad world, however i do find it odd you were willing to still continue despite being pregnant with another man's child, that to me is where you made yourself a foot-stool. we've all been in love and heart-broken so there's no shame let no man deceive you a good number of us have endured silly stuff in the name of love and even cried. But it is what it is, next time don't set your standards low. relax have a bottle of beer if you stay in lagos, then maybe we should have drink, Alcohol and weed is on me if that's your thing.

" however i do find it odd you were willing to still continue despite being pregnant with another man's child, that to me is where you made yourself a foot-stool".


she wasn't pregnant for her fiance.though she had done abortion for him b4 I met her....another woman has a child for her fiance which she knows about...she was pregnant for me and had miscarriage..

this is a girl that I love so much. I gave her my time and attention. I was there for her, care so much for her and also go any length just to make her comfortable and happy. I forgave her countless time when she broke my heart because I love her unconditionally. even when she slept behind my back with different guys and even entertained married men as friends, I still forgive her. I love her so much and I was blind "fool" to see the lies she told especially when she claimed to have slept with just her ex finance who had engaged her for 3yrs and didn't married her but was surprised when I flipped through her "diary of sex" and I saw that she had slept with almost 10 different guys in d past

she saw me as her option but not her choice because she was still keeping in touch with her fiance who maltreat her, mess around and another woman has a child for him. when I complained about her keeping in touch with her fiance, she told me "lied" he only wanted to collect his engagement ring that she is yet to return to him. this girl deceived me, manipulate me, played with my emotion and feelings because I was a fool for love and perhaps, i was naive of losing her to another man.

long story short, she told me she was pregnant for me and wanted to abort d baby which I told her not to because I was making plan for her and the baby.though, I doubted the pregnancy because of her lies but I had no option but to believed her since she kept claiming she was pregnant.

three month later, she told me she had miscarried and my world was shattered. for now, we are separated by distance and she traveled home to see her parents and also returned her engagement ring to her fiance who lives in the same environment with her. I was silprise when she told me two days ago not to call her, texts her and neither reply her chat on Facebook because her account has been hacked and our pregnancy conversation has been seen and its causing problem. she said she would call me when everything is calm.

I was shocked by her text because I knew she had gone back to meet. she promised me that she was going to return the ring but it was the other way round.

this morning she sent me this break up text " I am sorry for all I caused you but its high time i say my mind to you. with all seriousness, I don't want to continue with this relationship. I just have to go to where my heart is free and love".

I didn't reply her text back. I no I am stupid and foolish for allowing myself to be hurt by her even when she doesn't worth the love, the attention and time. maybe because I am too emotional and I love completely. I kept making the same mistake even when my heart was once broken by the first girl I love then before meeting this other one. despite the fact that I have so many side chicks, I don't feel anything for them and I told them to go instead of wasting their time because my conscience judge me.

pls u guys should advise me and also insult is allow because I am a fool for love who fail to learn