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very funny...it can't happen in 9ja

firstking01:
LaiLai…once a cheat will always be a cheat....life has taught me too many lessons for me to continue to repeat some mistakes...if a dog bites you once, people will assume the dog was mad, but if the dog bites you twice, my brother, na you dey mad.

I get u bro..u r right..once u forgive her and she knows fully well u love her, she will cheat again because she knows u will still forgive her..which means u r d mad dog then because she will destroy ur emotion..any girl that cheat and didn't have that courage to tell u, shows she will still cheat again..if she didn't show sign of remorse even wen u break up with her, shows she doesn't give a damn about u..her thinking faculty will be...afyerall I have them plenty

Oliviaxx:
Lawd! When will the guy above me start having sense?
Probably Never

thank God he is above u

what of those that spend just to bleep u by all means?

SoftP:
Not even sexy' Aunty go and poo in toilet naaau

but she open give u, u go Bleep her and even suck her boobs

I wish i have what to say to op..seeing all these shits that
girls do makes me wonder where man can find a virtuous girl..I am trying to move on with my life after breaking up with my gf last two week...she did more than wot ur gf does...this is someone I love completely and made so much commitment...she didn't give a damn if i left because she has numerous guys and married men that she entertain..she is a LovePeddler...op just try to move on..I no its hard...wen u find love, don't fall completely so that u don't lose at d end of d day...all this girls who claim to be wise and do shit with der life will regret der action someday...wen dat time comes, it will be hard to pick up d broken glass

bolethings:
The issue for me wasn't her finding another man because I would never marry out of pity or agree to anyone who does.

My disappointment is the fact that even up until last week, she was telling me to get an apartment with just 2 rooms so that we wouldn't be having too many guests as I tend to keep people around me and as new couples, it won't he wise living the same life of a single man so she kicked against getting a 3 or 4 bedroom which was my preference, but rather we should do a 2 bedroom for now.

So there was no way I could have seen it coming and for her to just blank out in 24 hours makes everything funny to me. I'm surely over her right now and I just believe a long relationship isn't smart thing for those looking to get married.

For me classy or sexy isn't an attraction, rather someone who can communicate and who wouldn't nag. Of course well dressed and decent.

don't be decieve by well dress cos most of them are pretender..my ex is one of those that dress well and claim to be descent but what she did to me is worst than yours..imagine I went through her diary that i tag "her diary of sex"..what I saw in that diary broke my heart..the numerous guys she slept with in the past and even behind my back while we were dating and d lies she told especially sleeping with just one guy in the past...I was sulprise d first time I had sex with her, her pussy was wider than well...I fact two and half dick can penetrate into her at once....i told her dat two dick can enter her pussy at once..she never give a damn when I left because she has them plenty and even, carried men..so she thinks they are coming because of her pretence of being descent and good

Candy86:
I am an african american female I am a degree holder no kids I feel your pain I was hoping to get married to this nigerian I was dating almost two uears he kept promising me he would marry me he lied to me. I still wants to visit nigeria I suppose to came last february 2016 I went to get on plane did not have my visa. I did not know but I have one now. If any man or lady could by me a ticket to lagos nigeria.

the America dudes make dey dere no reach u abi..dey find who u won knak

Apina:
Northern gals when like fvck pass anything so, na u dey vouch for , You never see anything. I fit bet u say DAT guy don dey flog her back for the same 5 years. Money wen u don supposed take build house for ur mama na DAT babe take dey p.i.m.p her aboki up

I agreed with u..northern girls like Bleep die..my plateau ex babe dey Bleep me and other girls behind my back..she dey even mess around with married men...I broke up with her last week because she broke my heart with her lies, pretence I fact so many things she did..now I am finding it to move on because of d commitment I put in d relationship..wen a girl goes for service, there is 98% assurance that she must mess around..many of them tried to mess with me during my service year...even a girl who had just a month to her wedding was begging me to sex her and she was a corper. being too emotional makes one suffer for love and keeps one worry what your girlfriend might be doing when u r not with her...if someone can tell me how I can kill my emotion and worries, I will be appreciate...

I couldn't read it..I just scroll down and read people comments..op is sick

Martinez19:
OP, we're you addicted to anything in past? Or is there anything you are addicted to? Something like pornography, drugs, alcohol, pain killers e.t.c

I like d question but pls can u give answer to that...

richommie:
You really need weed den.


Thank me later


#YOLO

U won kill am despite him condition...u bad o..cnt stop laffing

ForeverYoung197:
So deep. I still have that break up letter my ex left me. I won't add more pain on this thread.


Men are just so wicked.

sorry to say...you are delirious..I will advise you to read this book "the great female con" and u will see how selfish girls are...you girls always put the blame on guys

LePrezident:
Guy I've experienced heart break before to the extent of the girl fuuucking another niggga and that helped me mature through life. And I have realised that I won't burn unnecessary emotions on people who are not worth it. No matter how much you stress yourself about a girl's past she will cheat if she wants to and she won't cheat if she doesn't want to. There are lot of important things in life to do rather than spending precious time policing a girls past, present and future, I'll spend that limited time on my "slefish" self.

you are right...my gf did d same shit with different guys and even entertain married men...they don't worth it..

LePrezident:
The guy is emotionally immature, end the relationship asap.

u don't no what it takes to pass through emotion...there is nothing like emotionally immature...I guess you are yet to be a victim of heartbreak

I wish I have d right word to say...d guy is battling with is emotion because he thinks she is yet to change....the married man and other guys kept coming to you..how do u expect him to feel?it is as if u r bringing wot u did in the past back to d relationship...u never wanted the guy to no your past because he wanted to commit himself to you not until he force you to speak...i must say u breaking d guy heart...I have been through this with my manipulatife, decieve, lied girlfriend who mess around with married men and different guys behind my back...she claimed to have slept with just one guy but was surprise when I flipped through her diary of sex seeing d numerous guys she slept with in d past and even behind my back....she never wanted to speak not until I force her...she is yet to change....i broke up with her..so ur guy too thought u r yet to change because he is not seeing any sign of change in you...he wants you to proof to him if you are for him, then u must show it other than saying it with mouth alone...d trust is dead...u brought dis upon urself..u never tot of ur future and u want to use your wrong doing to affect someone else...we need to stop blaming d guy because girls are not always satisfy...if dey want to cheat, they don't look back but guys have conscience wen it comes to cheating and they felt like telling der gf but girls we never have that courage to let d guy no not until he use force...must we always use force for girls to speak?no...to be sincere, op will never change...a bitch will always be a bitch..they are chronic liar just like my gf...majority of girls feel less concern wen it comes to serious relationship...they are selfish and feel less sympathy unlike guys...

if only I could stop being too emotional, then I will be very happy

firstking01:
You be monitoring spirit?...

u no serious

firstking01:
Me, i'm not an advocate of divorce but in this your case; hmmmn, i just dunno what to advice...just go for the counselling, it might help you to fix your family well

nowhere they won't find u...u r always everywhere

marshalcarter:
as in never see job nko/+(??

when he is yet to get a job, he has no option but to stay with his family...putting so much pressure on him will only make him do the kind of job that won't give him satisfaction...getting a job in Nigeria is very difficult

i am trying to come out from a relationship with my girlfriend whom i love so much but i discovered that things are not meant to be and i broke it up with her...i tried to pleased her while i displeased myself...i saw all her wrong doing but i thought she would change but she didnt because she got dark secret, not open minded, tell so many lies etc., doesnt give a damn if i want to leave or not because she got many guys as friends and even married men coming to visit her..i sat down and i discovered that my relationship fail for the following reasons:

1. i was scared of starting all over again which made me scared of losing her.
2. i didnt take my decision serious because she knew i would always forgiver her.
3. i was too emotional
4. i didnt hangout with other girls because i thought i got her.
5. i fail to learn from my past relationship
6. i over showed love to her when she dont deserve it.
7. i was too caring
8. i made her belief i cant do without her.
9. i cried before her and she took advantage of my tears.
10. i was too committed in the relationship
11. i was too free with her.
12. i gave her too much attention.
13. i was always bother and worried about her.
14. i didnt allow her to express her love because my lovely attitude covers her.
15. i gave her so much hope
i guess she saw all these as my weak point and took advantage of me. i broke up with her because of the follwoing :

1. she lied ( i said 'lied' because i dont no if she was preg) about her being pregnant for me. i took her back because i wanted the baby. i doubted the pregnancy because she recently told me she had miscarriage whichh made me broke up with her. i told her after i forgave her that if i discovered you are not preg, u did aborted the baby, and if u later tell me u had miscarriage, then its over.
2.she pretend
3. she tells lies too much (though i tell lies too but unlike her).
4. she sex diffrent guys behind my back and its mind blowing.
5. she is not open.
6. she i not sincere
7. she keeps keeping in touch and seeing her ex fiance whom they are yet to break up.
8. she is not caring,
9. she is manipulative
10. she is not serious
11.she entertain married men and guys coming in and out of her house.
12. she is decieving.
13. she was not into me completely.
14. she claimed to be right
15. she is proud, not committed, not trust worthy
16. i dont understand her.

though i am not perfect and i no i have my own flaws but seeing all her doing is actually blowing me off..i really want to take things beyond where we are not but she is not ready.i broke up with her because this is not what i want. i am trying to move on but its hard for me and i want to prove to myself that i can move on without her even though i am finding it difficult.i guess she gladly accepted the break up cos she stop showing sign of wanting to come back.pls am i doing the right thing?i am the one who feels the pain more because i love her.

if she is a good girl and has good character, then tell her but don't let her put pressure in u

so wen girls fat now, e show say she get shape

ITEKEM:
Get a life

I already have a life dumb ass...someone like u shud have been flush out through abortion...idiot...if u no u don't have better thing to post, just sleep

Wow..tnkGod u said 90percent not 100percent. Am 22 and ave neva been pregnant. And den if I shuld eva get pregnant b4 25 aw abort! Yes I said it. Plus pls don't blame those ladies, they didn't impregnate demselves. Plus y bring a child into dis world to suffer when u cannot even cater for him or takia of him. Its advisable to abort wen dey r not yet formed asin btwn d first few months

if dem say make i slap u for d nonsense u write dem go say I do bad.....for ur mind u don make point

if u want to act porn, u shud just apply...your post is meaningless...

Ngokafor:
.... ..see talk...I wonder what happened to 'team foreign women'

why don't u answer that question yourself?you dey find word to talk

its very pathetic..I feel pity for d guy..this is a lesson to all guys...be productive, stop being dependent...making ur money and ur woman will be loyal to u...d white woman showed no remorse and her perfidious attitude also apply to the way Nigerian ladies behave

obinna58:
First ur a baadboy
Second ur guy belong to a kind of group
Thirdly their are parts u skipped

Now what's the purpose of showing her that u are caring apart from advise u should have given her, girls love guys they believe in u showed it to her, where do u think it leading to.

I gat no advice for this story

Hit like if u stand with me

where will the ''like'' take you to?

jonaifame22:
well, idon't see the need for calling him and telling him that I wanna take his girl out, at least they're not married and she came to report his fvck up to me and she was crying so I felt a change of environment will be better

Thanks anyways

you didn't answer is questions very well...u r rude in ur response..he ask u a simple question ''y didn't you call your guy before taking her out'' which is d first thing u wud ve done...I guess you are trying to play smart

your gender is showing female..NA u be middle man..abeg cut any association with d guy and his girlfriend..when he was fucking her, where u there..so leave them to settle their problem..you have got no advise for d girl..is she blind?