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Our parents in the early twenties and late twenties did not engaged in such activities. Marriage then was formal and sacred but in today's society the reverse is the case. Thus, my questions are:

What is the essence of pre-wedding photos? Is it a formality or what? Does it portray love (which I doubt)?

Yet there is cases of divorce everywhere...

Human are spiritual being. We are been clone by the physical being because we are living in the world. When a man dies, he becomes a spiritual being. A classic example is when we go to sleep at night, our spiritual body leaves our physical body and we wander in the spiritual world...

I got more confuse each time I think about the existence of man and how God came into existence. There are so many unanswered questions about : who we are? Where are will coming from? Where are we going through? What is our purpose on earth? Why are we created? ( **the catechism of the Catholic Church said...to know him, to serve him, to worship him etc) but I think it goes beyond that.. If those answers by the church is true, why is there sin? Are we to blame for the sins of the world? Who permitted those sins? There are so many philosophical questions that need answers and no one is yet to convince me.

I need someone to throw more insight to the aforementioned questions I raised above.

Op, you ain't got no business with your spouse family. I must say they are ingrate but that shouldn't bother you. At least you know the kind of person they are. All you need to do is to stop acting like a good man to them and focus on your spouse that you love and you said she loves you too. Do not quit the relationship because of her family attitude. Besides, she was had your son and that should give you more joy to be with her. All I can tell you is that you need to be very careful and act like a man... Always take decision that you think will favour you. You need to put yourself first before any other person except your own family who stood there by you when you were growing up as a child.

As for that prostitute that was departed from Dubai, I will advise you not to show any signs of help to her again and don't even allow her near your house. She can kill.. You are seeing all the signs before you and you are still acting like a good husband...

Lastly, your English get as e be o. Imagine my eyes just dey close anyhow after I read those long post. E clear say na f9 u get for school... U for just use pidgin but ur pidgin go worst.

Please just be yourself and be the man. Love your woman more. She needs you at this point in time.

Thuglife2020:
When she’s at my side, I sat and pretend like I was thinking about something, she asked what I was thinking and I told her I was thinking about her unfaithfulness, she bursted into tears .. I had to beg her.. another thing I notice about her, she never feel jealous of me talking to another girl over the phone

Your mumu too much... Don't allow her to deceive you with her tears. Women that cheat use this technique all the time.... I caught my ex gf with a married man on the bed. Though they must have finished fuccking when I came in but I discovered that the room was dark and the bed they sat on was scattered. I knew something had happened.. I immediately went back home without saying anything to my ex gf.. She called throughout that day and I didn't pick her calls. The next day she came to my house and as soon as she entered into my room she started crying that I didn't know what that old man came to do. She said the man came to help her out because her neighbor was fighting with her and I asked her.... Was that why you locked everywhere and the window?

See op, women are not to be trusted... They have different techniques to deceive man... One of the technique is by crying but don't give in... Let her go and if you want to play along with her, do not give her any dime ..... Fucckkk the hell out of her and move on...

I see no reason for girls who are not virgin come up with this no sex thing... They use this technique for guys they don't like

The truth is she will never change her ways. So, op leave her alone before she leaves you completely.. Wise up and be the man..

Mcslize:
You are right. Why it works for me very well is that it's not every time a man should ejaculate, and I can condition myself not to. Some persons say ejaculation is the real thing. But for me, even if I don't ejaculate I still feel OK at the end.

Yeah you are right.. The most important thing is to satisfy your woman before you think of ejaculating

Mcslize:
I wonder why people make love and feel so bold ejaculating in a girl without a thought of a pregnancy. They don't even care of making use of a condom. They like it raw, yet they can't pull out if the thing is coming out.

The thing feel too sweet for them to pull out.

To the OP, never ejaculate in a girl if you are not ready to father a child. Always pull out if you the type that is comfortable going raw. Pull out immediately you feel the thing coming out. That's the pull out method.

I told myself, no mistake if I am not ready for a child. If I need a child then I will ejaculate in a girl and I should be ready to be a father. Always use condom. But if u are sure of the status of the girl and like it raw, always make sure you pull out.

I never miss that.

The pull out /withdrawal method work fine.. I advise guys to adopt the method.. Though, you won't feel the sensation as compared to when you ejaculate inside. The sensation of the pull out method is just like when you are masturbating and the sensation is totally different when you ejaculate inside

Mustsucceed:
Over
flirting ? There's is more to this

1)either you are lying and did more than you are staTING
OR

2)she never loved you or found someone better and used this to end

I support your no 2 reason.. However, the girl may also have cheated behind op back but she is more smarter than op. If I were op, I will just lock up for now and let's see if she will come back. If she doesn't, then op should move on with his life.... It shows she never loved op... She is playing the undercard... I think her mum should tell her how many times her dad cheated behind her back yet she didn't leave her dad..

Because of ordinary master she has attain, she feels she is better than the guy. At first, I thought she has a job but I never knew she is hoping to be a lecturer soon "nearest future ". You still keep on hoping and before you know age will catch up on you. Instead of you to appreciate someone who has a job, you are there comparing him with your girlfriends boyfriends. Do you think it is easy to get a job in this country? Go to Lagos and other states in Nigeria and she millions of people who have masters and even doctorate degree but they don't have a job. Appreciate the one who has a job even if it is peanut he receives as salary. Instead of you to support him, you are criticizing him. It shows how poor you are..

You think your educational qualifications will make you a wealthy woman! Op you are wrong.. Ask professors and they will tell you the real answer.

Instead of you to empower yourself with skills before you get the lecturing job, you are there doing busy body..

It is girl like you that end up with the wrong man...

The op is right but I don't think money is everything. What matter most is inner peace of mind when you are with the right one. Though, money play a very vital role in every relationship or marriage but that doesn't mean money is everything.

I'm gonna use my self as an example. Though, I'm not married yet but I'm deeply in love with the woman I want to settle down with. Despite the fact that I have money ( which should have been part of my happiness in life), I still feel sad sometimes whenever me and my girlfriend have little understanding. At that particular time, my money and my achievements should have been my source of happiness but it is the other way around. I felt bad and I don't give a damn about the things I have achieved at that moment when I was sad because of the issues or misunderstanding I'm having with my girl.

Money cannot buy happiness but love can and that's when you are with the right one. Couples succeed even without having enough. But they are able to achieve success when the love, trust and understanding is there.

united442:
thanks alot...
but its not that easy bro..no matter how hard i try to overlook it and pretend i care less, the more it hurt me the most..

Then you are not ready to move on with your life.

the best thing to do at this stage is to walk away from her and never look back. don't allow your emotions eat you up. you already saw the signs that she no longer need you again but you are just trying to force yourself on her.

Op , let her go. She has too many baggages and she is seeing someone else. Besides, you are just an option, you are not her choice.

Try to look for another girl and when you do, don't tell her how scared you are of losing her. Be the man in the relationship and don't let any girl manipulate you neither play with your emotions.

So bro, man up and stop behaving like a child standing in the sun

My dear op, she is manipulating you. She is playing with your emotion. She has seen everything about you and most especially your worth. I must say you are not man enough. I know love can make us do stupid things.

My advice is that you let her be. She is no longer interested in you. She is just acting along the line. It's better you let her go before she finally dump you entirely. Once she does that, you will feel the heartbreak for a long time.

Angelparadise:
If Buhari can have followers after the yesterday Guinness book of disgrace interview I will strongly believe his supporters can fall for this ancient tricks where the poster will be using the technology their god Buhari will never care to know.

I thought I was the only one that watched the interview. I must admit that Buhari is a dunce. If we don't vote him out, then Nigeria is deep mess. Look at the kind of president we have. He is very primitive and was talking trash about grazing route in the 1960. Stupid Fulani... Shame to Tinubu and the entire Yoruba face for being tribal

You are having blue ball. The best thing is to sex or indulge in self gratification

leave both of them. you need to be happy with the one you feel something for and the one that feels about you.

This op is a dunce. He is trying to seek public spectacle

Op you are to blame. How could you put yourself in this mess at the first place? First thing first, you have to understand that she is married and she hasn't divorce her husband. So you don't have any right to date a married woman of such. It has consequences in the later future. It seems you are a low class dude with no definite taste. You said she has three children and you went ahead to date her...

The best thing is that if you want to live long and you don't want the juju in the man's village to follow you up this 2019, just leave the woman and never turn back.

You have to try all your possible best to kill the feelings and find another single lady you need to build your life with.

Also, since she is going to disturb and distract you, the best thing is to change your contact and leave the location where you reside.

In conclusion, you are a big fool for fucccking a married woman. How would you feel if your sister does what this woman is doing with some random guys?

Op receive sense before 2019 knock you down

Nice one

RobinWely:
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Heart Touching Love Messages For Boyfriend


They are:


Every time I look at you, I always smile to myself because I wouldn't have been better without you. You are precious and perfect in your ways. I love you Sweetheart

Each time I make a wish, you are always on top of my wish list. I wish that you will never leave me. I wish that we will be forever together. I pray that it will come through. Am afraid to lose you, Honey.

I might not been with you forever. It will not be possible to write your name on the sky. I might not been the perfect definition of the lover you want. But I will promise you one thing, as long as we sticky together. I owe you my love and will always remain truthful.





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asuustrike1:
Do you reside over there?

Yes poop.

PUSSYHOE:
No disrespect to delta not that it's a good thing, Lagos takes the lead considering the overpopulation.

Lagos dey learn from where Delta dey

Na delta o. Almost all the adolescent and youth and even papa and mama are into yahoo. Some of the deltans parents encourage their children to engage in yahoo. There is always ritual killings by the yahoo boys in delta..

Go-to..

Sapele
Warri
Abraka
Ughelli
Asaba etc.

And you will see how yahoo has taken all these vicinity

pocohantas:
How can a 21y/o guy have a serious relationship? The only serious thing you have, is an erectíon.

Truth is, you will most likely get heart-broken like 4 times before you marry. In fact, you will be a transitional boyfriend for like 7yrs or more. A 21yo guy is nowhere close in mental/emotional maturity to a 21yo girl. That is why a girl of that age can marry and adapt, but a guy can't try it.

Your wife is in SS2, one guy in Diamond bank will marry your babe. When you are ready to marry, another 400l guy will create this thread. Don't stress yourself over it, it is what it is...

Dude, you are very funny..

Op, I doubt if the pregnancy is yours. The fact that you caught cheating behind your back 4month ago simply means she might have cheated with some random guys as well within those month.

She knew the pregnancy wasn't yours, that was why she called for an abortion. She knows you will objected to that. This also means she is try to manipulate you and your emotion.

Op, once a cheater is always a cheat. The trust is dead and the memory of her cheating behind your back will keep on occurring.

Though, most people said you should conduct DNA test and this test is very expensive. Lemme ask you this question... What if after you have conducted the DNA test and the baby isn't yours?It also means you have wasted your money which you should have invested in your business (If you have one).

You should have broken up with her long time ago and not stick your dic**k into her PLC pu**sy.

My ex girlfriend manipulated me this same way. I caught her cheating behind my back with some random guys and married men. I broke up with her immediately but she got back my attention when she told me she was pregnant. Though, I doubted the pregnancy but she was claiming I was responsible. I gave her three conditions in order to be sure if the pregnancy was mine. She failed those conditions along the line and aborted the pregnancy. The conditions revealed I wasn't responsible.

Op, stop being childish and take your decision.

So

Biingoo:
Eeh you say? Whereas she's been sleeping with her ex that dumped her cranny ass? Moreover, you can still get dumped after engagement you know?

Tell her the truth because she is delusional and perhaps delirious in her reasoning

In summary, the op is just after marriage because she has worn out. She does not love the dude. She is just after her selfish interest. Besides, she does not see the guy as her choice but she sees him as her option.

I pity the guy because once he gets married to this op, the marriage will not last.

kunleweb:
Shows your I.Q level read what I types before now first. She should have seen the.future with the guy Ndidi not with the ex. She doesn't love him if she does she won't even create this thread. I hope you're educated.now. The purpose if this thread.serves the eccentric desire in someone who has limited available suitors. she doesn't live the guy, he's available thats all. She just wants to be married

I see no reason why you should keep on explaining things to someone that has low I.Q.

AryEmber:
You must have been there when she was sleeping with her ex.

Stop being bias and sentimental.

highqueen:
If he's serious with You, then fine but first of all, don't ever have sex with him till he does some marriage rights.


He should visit your parents first since he is all for marriage not friendship.

Another stupid comment I have read so far. She shouldn't sleep with him until he does some marriage rights but she slept with her ex boyfriend for good 5years. Please give yourself brain.

I supported what most nairalanders said...that the guy has low self esteem

AryEmber:
Go about it the right way. Date him, don't sleep with him till he put a finger on it.

Stupid advise I have read so far. She shouldn't sleep with him but she slept with her ex boyfriend for 5years. Rubbish....

The doc said you are fine. So, what kind of help do you need again? Abeg give ursef help brain

Bro, it's good to ask but I will advise you not to force yourself too much on her. Just be yourself and don't try to impress her. Whenever she ask you for money and you know you have the money, then give it to her.

If you force yourself too much on her and she starts asking you numerous money and her numerous need, my guy u go run poop...

My current babe didn't ask me for money when we started dating. I was always asking her if she needs anything and she said no. But when she started asking me eeee, I was complaining even though I give her want ever she needs. I gave her what ever she needs but I told her to be considerate and conservative.