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She may like you but she does not see you having sex with her. She enjoys how you make her feels when you touch her vital part but she does not see herself having sex with her. You are off her league in terms of sex. Such kind of girl is selfish because she is just after her sexual gratification and she does not give a damn if you cum or not.

All what you have written, has happened to me too. Though, I force myself having sex with her by all means even when she right her legs. After the sex, I told her how selfish she was.

I'm short of words. I like your braveness.

Mirian91:
I couldn't help but drop a comment about this topic. I'm a 28 year old circumcised bitch. : >Growing up I had sexual feelings but couldn't get penetration (my sexual urge was not upto doing that) I remember in my university days, I dated a guy I loved so much but he cheated on me with my uncircumcised ever-ready roommate. He was proud to tell me that he was tired of sexing someone lying like a log of wood.
Sex was painful. I have always known from day 1 that I was uncircumcised when I saw other girls Clit though the sight of their clit is disgusting with so much flesh.

Fast forward to 2018, I married the love of my life, an angel in human form who knows how to handle my body. Please note that I don't like that I am circumcised cos sometimes I dont enjoy sex. My husband practically woo me to have sex, atimes he will beg and beg. We have never had sex without him licking down there and I feel sad for him and more sad for myself.

On one occasion, I called my parents to yell at them at the reason they circumcised me. My father who is the masterminder said that it is to minimize promiscuity, and his biggest analogy is saying that my mother is circumcised too and that she's doing just fine. I told him well, I'm not doing fine cos my marriage is affected. I don't know how long my husband can endure this with me, he's a very patient man and understands my body. The first orgasm I reached in life was with him, and he makes sure I dont feel pain when we are doing the do. He would always ask if I feel pain and with a yes answer he leaves me and hug me closely. I help myself too in relaxing and be open minded. My husband has dated uncircumcised ladies that wanted to kill him with sex. Lol. He keep saying that he prefers to have a circumcised lady as a wife.

FGM is bad. Sex is sweet but that sweetness is what they dont want circumcised ladies to experience. A circumcised lady can not squirt.
Bottom line, if you are a guy and love a lady who is mutilated, the best you can do is to love her and understand what works for her. Sexual Communication is key, always remember that it's not her fault. If we had an option we want our clit back.

Hello Nairalanders,


A friend of mine who is 35 was circumcised when she was 8yr old. She narrated how she does not have sexual urge and I felt so bad for her. I went through her PC and I was surprise to see different porn movies on her PC. She told me she watch those porn just to see if she will have sexual urge but she doesn't.

Her boyfriend mess around with other girls and I believe he does that because he wasn't gaining any sexual satisfaction from her.

Though, she said she sometimes have sexual urge but not all the time. She wanted to mess around with me just to see if she will feel any urge but I couldn't do anything with her since she told me she was circumcised.

So, guys can you marry a woman who has been circumcise?

And for women who have been circumcised, how do you cope with your sexual urge?

Please this post should be at the front page

Op, take this advise...

chigoizie7
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Hmmmmm.

You do not have to cause any trouble. Be calm and patient. If your mother in law do not see it wise to send the money through your boy friend, then let it be.

When she comes. Tell her what you need.

If you like, go and be greedy in your demands simply because you have seen money. In a matter of years or time, your bf will be through with school and can then cater for your baby.


There is no room for trouble. If you must let your mother in law know what her daughter is doing. Let her know through his son, let his son be the one to tell the mom.

Op Listen carefully.

There are two things that may cause this..

1., She could either be pregnant

2. Her period may be delay due to stress or hormonal change.

Now, if no 1. is true, it means the pregnancy does not belong to you. She might have other fling elsewhere. Also, you said you used CD, there is no way the pregnancy is yours.

I remembered when my gf got pregnant for me, I was so confused because I asked myself how come. Me and my gf have been having raw sex for 2yr and she wasn't pregnant. Though, I used withdrawal method all the time and it worked for me.

I was surprise when she told me she was pregnant. I later realised that it might be that I may have cum inside her a little while I brought the rest cum out.

So, your case is different from mine because you used CD that did not break.

Ask her who is responsible for the pregnancy if truly she is pregnant.

For now, conduct a pregnancy test for her. The earlier the better.

Abortion is more safe in the first trimester... That's if conducted by a well specialise Doctor who can flush out the foetus with vacuum aspiration. I'm not advising you guys to do abortion. The choice is yours

StrikeBack:
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She thought the other dude was better than you. She realise you are far better than the dude she cheated with. Now, she feels remorse for her action.

Op, listen carefully, if she could cheat behind your back several times, she will do it again over and over different dudes. Once a cheat will always be a cheat.

My advise is that you leave her alone. Tell her you have forgiven her but you can't be together again. Then move on with your life

This is so true

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CHESTER48:
this guy needs to read ubunja miseducation. Some guys are so weak. A girl manipulating you and you even opened a thread for it. Weaklings.

Yes you are right. He is a weak guy

Your gf was trying to be smart by manipulating you with stinginess. She used that up against you so you won't suspect her cheating attitude. Please let her go. She doesn't worth it. She has no worth

mezarddinny:
[s]what you don't know is that when you catch a lady cheating and she apologises and begs you to accept her back, she will forever be loyal to you[/s]



so to your question, you should have more trust in her and put her name on everything you have, make her your next of kin, beneficiary to all your money if anything happens to you and also buy something very expensive for her.

That's not true. She will always go back to the same dude she cheat with when everything has been settled. I have a girl then who had a bf but she was messing with me. The guy found out and was mad at her. She cried so much to the extent that she doesn't want to see me and blame me for everything. She went back to her guy and pleaded for forgiveness and the guy forgave her. After a week that she settled with her guy, she came back to me for sex again. So, women that cheat do not change.

Op, your gf will never change and you can never trust her again

I will advise you to live the woman immediately. She is not a good woman. She will turn you to trash if you continue with her. The best thing like everyone one has said above me is to move on with your life. I will also advise you to take custody of your daughter(s) so as to look after her (them). Your children don't need to be influence by your ex wife attitude. Let your ex wife be and move on with your life. This is part of life and you are not the first to go through this challenges. She is ungrateful and trying to manipulate you with your past.

Useless boy. He is promoting gay

I won't be happy with you if u don't collect d iPhone from d bitchhh. Please, once u collect ur phone from her just move on with your life and never go back to her. She doesn't worth your love. Collect your phone asap

Dis op English bad die. I just dey read d post like say I dey stamara. Op, I hail thee

Hmm.

See as d man and woman pee for der body

Preciousgirl:
Hm, I know how my husband loves sex with me
Him being gay will be Incredible

Maybe he is bisexual.... Just watch him closely..

Your husband is a gay.. You don't need anyone to tell you that unless you are daft... Why would a man keep deleting and changing another man name.? The handwriting is on the wall.

I would suggest you conduct anal test for your husband

op... Please just move on and forget about her. But before you do, have a discussion with her. Tell her about your findings and that you can't continue to be in this kind of relationship. Thus, you are ending the relationship. Please don't accept her back and don't let her get dependent on your forgiveness

youngfocus:
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Scam lover

Op is a cheat. She never love her first boyfriend. If she loves him, she wouldn't be committed to the second guy. You don't deserve your first boyfriend. Let the poor boy go but I bet you...you will regret your action with the second guy as time goes on...

IamPlato:
What You Believe Is What Works For You. If You Believe You Will Give Birth To Ss then You Will... When God Created Man He Never Told Us Look Out for Genotypes...


We Advanced And We Are Being To Cautious Of Nothing... Anyway Do Whatever You Like

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goodman556:
Mr Man people like you don't need to comment on post like this, this is for matured and experienced minds ok.

Who is this fool that has nothing better to say.. Please sod off

Vikki77:
I told him I had sex with someone else but some months ago. I always wanted to tell him but I didn't know how. I know I have done the unspeakable but I'm begging for a second chance. He too has wronged me and even cheated on me but I forgave him. I'm not trying to justify what I did but I just need help. Anything that will make me get my man back cos I can't live without him.

Stop justifying yourself because he once cheated behind your back. This shouldn't give you any reason to cheat at him. You already had the intention of cheating and stop saying he cheated too. Besides, you are a woman. It is better for a man to cheat than a woman to cheat. African tradition and societal view see women who cheat as being unfaithful. The reverse is the case when it comes to man. He will always be a man..

Celestial777:
Finish the story ...
You later masturbate with the remaining detergent in the House

I swear na ur comment funny pass

Safitu:
When most of you shame single mothers, why wouldn’t she lie to you?

If she told you she had two kids would you have thought of marrying her? Go and sit down please. If you think you are going to find someone better, remember that you are still broke at your old age, reality will hit you soon. You think it’s easy to find a good woman in your wretched state? This woman loves you and all you can think about is the additional child that she has. You never jam correct babe, babe that will lie to you about her whoollleee identity, her past generation and generations to come. Shioorrr

Wretched man thinking he can have high standards, I don’t blame you, it’s society that gives you people liver na. But sooner or later, loneliness will humble you.

Better go back to this woman and keep shut.

You are a big fool. If you don't have better advice to give then stop typing rubbish as if you are better of than the op.

U are too young to have sex with your bad English

I remembered how my heart was broken by the one I love most but she saw me as her option but not her choice. It was hard for me to move on but I had to because I knew the future is bright. Today, I feel so happy she left and the door of prosperity open for me.

Op, I know how you feel. Love can make us act stupid. All you need to do at this stage is to pick up the broken pieces and move on with your life without looking back.

You need to understand that once it is over, it's over. You can't go back.

So, move on.... Your life is not created for her. Channel all your emotions towards yourself by trying to achieve it in life. Never compete with anyone and don't try to impress anyone except your family who stood there for you.