₦airaland Forum

Vyvyanvyvy:
Hello guys, I am a 36 years old single mother of four. My son will be 15 in August, first daughter 10 in october, my third 5 and youngest 3 by june.

I have separated from my husband because he didn't want my son to come and live with us, I have been taking care of them singlehandedly for 3 years.

I have been friend with this man, a widower who is 57 years and a father of 2 children. He is asking for my hand in marriage. To be honest, I don't want to be married again, all I want is to focus on raising my kids because I have been through a lot in my previous marriage and I don't want another marriage wahala.

He asked for my hand in marriage, I rejected him and I had explained to him why I don't want to marry again. I told him what my ex did, he said he is a mature man he will love me and my children and he will never hate them or ask them to leave his house. I told him I have to think about it and I will get back to him ASAP. But I am still scared to accept his proposal because I don't want history to repeat itself and he is still on my neck. He wants me to accept his proposal. I am confused.

Please advice me. Is it a wise choice for me to get married again after everything I have been through in the past?

Sleekfingers:
That one na your problem. Go and meet Buhari and emefiele in Abuja.....yeye

Sleekfingers:
Oga, go and sit down..... Who is suffering between you and me? Na that suffering go kill you and your families......
For your information, I dey get spending cash on a daily. Even before this naira scarcity, anything that is above 5,000 naira, I don't pay with cash......
Una never see anything.....

Dshocker:
Rest in Jesus name...

Come lets talk, when you've acquired knowledge.

Myself2:
This should be as a result of the utterancesn of the governor there. Wike has been particularly vocal against the naira redesign policy which is aimed at breaking the back bone of those that had stolen and stashed away tens of billions of naira in their private homes. I wonder why it is paining Wike as e dey sweet us, Wike you're supposed to be dancing and rejoicing that this policy will spoil the plans of the corrupt governors ,other politicians, and criminals that had stolen and hiddend our billions in their private houses

Sleekfingers:
The naira scarcity is really affecting only Tinubu

Stupid people burning banks , who will suffer the most ? For their information, banks are insured. ....

Dshocker:
Arrest Wike

For those vagabonds quoting me are part of the problems Nigeria is facing.

The naira redesign and hoarding has more economical benefits than its disadvantage if you weigh both option.

Wike is against it because he and Tinubu wanted to capitalize on physical cash to help them rig this election.

Now they are politically sponsoring arson and protest to make the federal government look bad and terrible with their economical policies.

I for one is also feeling the pains of no cash, but i have to endure until after election, provided it helps us get or vote in a good leader, thank you

NB: I for one is voting for Peter Gregory Obi, the most qualified amongst the top 3 contestants.

Urheadmaster:
In that case kudos to buhari

PointZerom:


El-Rufai and Ganduje will cry to death because the old naira notes they stole will be useless in their hands.

Buhari knows that Tinubu is a criminal, a man that never believe in the unity of NIGERIA cannot rule NIGERIA.

Urheadmaster:


Reno Omokri is now reasoning like a normal person.

El Rufia is a terrorist in disguise

ecolime:
Buhari is doing everything in his capacity to give us a free and fair elections devoid of money politics.

He has been incompetent for 8 years but if he gets this one thing right, he will retire a HERO.

Infact, Nigerians will forgive and forget his past mistakes and accord him automatical role of an elder stateman.

A Peter Obi presidency could be that parting gift. As Buhari is playing his part, lets also play our part next week.

SaintNegro77:
Same way your father's head has been reformatted. You know he has been a fool letting an idiot support a peeing machine.

Blake755:
If e play I go do giveaway I don carry odd

SaintNegro77:
He has already override supreme Court judgement. Don't play with a general in the army. Tinubu should go and hug transformer.

Ogonimilitant:
23.​I urge every citizen therefore, to go out to vote for their candidates of choice without fear, because security shall be provided and your vote shall count.


Buhari just dey follow Tinubu to campaign, just to fulfill all righteousness.

Tinubu Na Mugu. Any urchin or agbero that tries to do rubbish in Lagos would be neutralized.
Urchins be warned

Buhari has exonerated Emefiele. So If this APC criminals have balls, the should call out Buhari

Ibechris2:
I really don't get u.
Especially when u generalised the way u are doing.
Pls,take it easy on Nigerian men.

Don't u have a father,brother and uncles?

Supreme145:
A job that I percievd as a miracle job is turning out to be a nightmare. I got a job in Lagos last December as a web designer for the firm with a pay of 150k. The job was supposed to be hybrid but since I couldn't afford relocation we agreed I work remotely pending when I will be able to relocate.

This is the end of fabuary and I haven't received a dime, the man has simply refused to pay me and from his body language he's not going to pay. I contacted the HR and she told me the man isn't responding to her messsages or calls about the payment matter.

He has stopped viewing my messages on WhatsApp or taking my calls too. The guys that referred me mentioned something about him treating the predecessor same way and adviced I take it as employment fraud and walk away from the job.

The issue is I've put efforts and resources into the job and I cant just let go of 300K like that.
I've been borrowing to fuel my gen everyday to work and other expenses. My rent is expired and landlord had been on my neck to pay up. A lot of stuff is hinged on that money.
It's been from one flimsy excuse to the other.

Please I need suggestions on how I can get my money from this man, I have my appointment letter and he's a lawyer.

Mods please help me push to front page so I can get wider contributions

God1000:
I disagree, I will give the credit to Fashola and Ambode

And don't forget that Lagos was once Nigeria's capital.

emmanuelbrown26:
Afonjas like petty petty thieving. Very lazy set of people

LesbianBoy:
First I want to say congratulations to Argentina but....

Why was Messi given the best player of the tournament instead of Mbappe? Even if it was given to Messi I think it should have been shared with Mbappe! That is 2 best players of the tournament!

Someone said because Messi won the world cup.

Let me remind you all that in 2014 Germany won the world cup yet Messi who didn't win the cup still was given best player of the tournament that year.

This is the reason many people still prefer CR7 because he is not pampered like this. And all his achievements were done with so much hate from even people around.

bakobenjamin198:
So, how then can you be in a genuine relationship with Christ without good works?

jesusjnr2020:
Let's hear from the Judge of all the Earth, Himself, what He has to say about this:

Matthew 16:27 (KJV)

For the Son of man shall come in the glory of his Father with his angels; and then he shall reward every man according to his works.

Matthew 25:34-40 (KJV)

Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world:
For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in:
Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me.
Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink?
When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee?
Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee?
And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

So if the Words of Jesus, the One who paid the price for man's sin was anything to go by, good works could indeed qualify one for heaven.

God bless.

Bola146:
Who are we to judge? God is just unquestionable! Just do your good deeds and follow His instructions in the Bible not men's instructions, then ask for mercy

Raxxye:
Pls where can I stream the match live?

Yampotatocarrot:
Abeg, who seized the domain of all the sites to watch ball... Which kind rubbish be this na