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Passpands:
Hello, sorry for my grammatical errors. I just discovered I have the virus and it’s really taking a toll on me. I’ve started my medications but don’t feel any changes yet. Please if there’s any expert out there or any support group

The irony of it is that you might not have the virus.

Denoh68:
BOKO HARAM

This Bingo has been mistakenly released from its cage again.

Denoh68:
SCENERIO WHICH PROMOTES AND PRESENTS YOUR AS A SUPERIOR TRIBE TO OHTERS RIGHT.GO HAVE YOUR BRAIN CHECKED SIR.

Miscreant.

OfficialAPCNig:
I don't have time for miscreants.

You need brain scanning.

OfficialAPCNig:
So you still patronize brothels after claiming to be a married man.

Wonderful

Anyway, the problem with most Yorubas is that they don't travel, so they think most people from SS are Igbos.

SS and SE dominates brothels in SW while North, SS and SW dominate brothels in SE. In the core North, you'll mostly see NC, SS, SW and SE.

Most Yoruba sex workers offer their trade outside SW. Most prostitute go to places they are not known.

Agbo sellers in the SE, SS and North are low-key prostitutes

FACT

Brothels, hotesl, etc are located even very close to the churches and mosques in Lagos, not to talk of residential places.

Kido! You can't know this because you are still living in your gully-erosion affected hamlet.

caracas:
See poverty mentality
No wonder the ordinary yorubas struggle with marriage n livelihood. The igbos encourage enterprise in so many ways n marriage is one of them.
In other words if you are not capable you cannot marry my daughter…
Afonjas should go n hussle n stop complaining up n down cos of poooverty….

Next time, please ensure that you quote the right person.

OfficialAPCNig:
2 out of 1,000,000 is not the same as 900,000 in every 1,000,000

We know what is obtainable in every brothel here in Lagos bro. Stop defending the obvious.

Denoh68:
THE WAY YOU YORUBAS PRESENT YOURSELVES EHN, YOU WANT OTHERS TO BELIEVE YOU ARE BETTER THAN THEM,WHEN ARGUMENT DOESN'T FAVOR YOU PEOPLE IT WILL AUTOMATICALLY BECOME INVALID.YOU GUYS SHOULD RESPECT OTHER PEOPLE'S WAY OF LIFE.

I gave you a scenario with no comparism and you are here spewing your inordinate belief.

Your last statement is meant for you I think.

OfficialAPCNig:
You are right

Yoruba wedding is the cheapest while Igbos are expensive. But with an Igbo woman you are sure she won't just wake up and leave your house for another man without going through traditional rite of annulment.

Most of the Yoruba women I know don born for 3 men. Very shameful

Two igbos women living in my compound have the same characteristics. To God who made me, I know more than three men with 'Mama Cho Cho' living in my compound and she has been married to two husband so far.

Do I need to mention 'Chi chi' an igbo woman whose only job is to sleep with different number of men in her own apartment? Go to any hotel in Lagos and shout Chiamaka or Chidinma to see the number of halourts that will answer you.

This is not in any way to demean any tribe, but to tell you that your generalization does not seem logical.

OfficialAPCNig:
You didn't donate

Yoruba culture requires cow for a lady that has not given birth before, unless you can't afford it.

But the list op posted here is for a lady that has born for one man. It will go further down if she gave birth for more than two men.

Some men don't give pay shishi. They just impregnant the girl and wife don dey down be that

I choose the word 'donate' deliberately because no one a.sked or mandated me to do so. They were even ready to bear everything; so stop behaving like ignoramus. I met my wife when in final year and we got married two years after she served her fathers' land.

Introduction and wedding among Yorubas are mostly dependent on what the to be husband and wife could afford and decided upon. Get it right.

Denoh68:
THE WAY MY ONLY BROTHER PICKED A YORUBA GIRL FROM OYO,HE HAS NOT EVEN PAID SHISHI AND THE GIRL HAS 3 CHILDREN ALREADY,TUFIAKWA

You think Yorubas would force you to do anything about marriage as far as you can take care of their daughter? Even if your brother is ready, the wife of your said brother would still be the one to dictate what they could afford as family.

No wise man would miscontrue tolerance, consideration and simplicity as foolishness. Now, it is left to your brother to do what is expected as what goes around comes around.

OfficialAPCNig:
Check very well that's the list for a girl that has given birth before

My own list was not even up to that, despite the fact that they know I can afford the expenses. The family took care of the the entire bill during introduction.

Thereafter, I personally donated a cow during the wedding ceremony and a lap was given to my Dad. As for the food and drinks presented on the D-day, I have no idea of where they came from till date.

Hizzy:
My Uncle Married from Ondo State and he never for once have any issues with her she's always submissive and Obident the list was not that much but the only wahala he have with his inlaws is that once there's occasion or celebration he must contribute heavy

You will understand when it is your turn to celebrate.

In the eyes of the people, na you dey spend, but na everybody go contribute and celebrate. However, if yours portion is 20k, you are good to go with 10-15k in your hand.

That is the spirit.

OloYeOfEgbE:
50 yams...?

wow

Give them 30 good yam and demonstrative humility while presenting it bro.

You are good to go.

KingOfAmebo:
You just proved you have zero sense...coming to conclusions on assumptions is unwise.

My explanation is not for the slowpoke either. Ode!

KingOfAmebo:
Did he tell you he picked up the letter during his visit to the school or it was sent to him after his visit? Reno didn't clearify both assumption so what made you arrive at your judgment?

Did he tell you that he didn't? With common sense, one would have arrived at that conclusion.

treesun:
Court sacked LG, even before Adeleke resumed!

You are blind to see this statement below may be.

"Owoeye said a notice of appeal against Friday’s Federal High Court judgment was served on the 7th Assembly on the issue of local government administration."

KEVIND:
Reno lies bursted again
Reno claims he visited Chicago state University on the 19th of September, and the document he presented is dated 27th of June.Can he kindly explain further?

So, the date in which my transcript was printed by the school management and the date I picked it up from school should be the same.

Your brain needs proper scanning and lamination, walahi!

BATified2023:
Social media have made people believe they are anonymous n can do anything anytime they like


I wish all those ipob miscreants whose main job is defamation,blackmail,character assasination could b picked up to defend all their madness

The guy should b dealt with so as to send a strong signal to all those miscreants that they aren’t as anonymous as they think

Defamation as proclaimed by the competent court or Aisha's court? I think you have failed to understand what is at stake here.

Even if the said student is to be punished, let him be tried and held liable after being tried.

Simple!

franchasng:
God Himself said in the Holy Bible that:


"I will bless whom I will bless" , which means that your life is predestined, whatever you will be you will be...even your foolishness will contribute to your destination in life.


Humans only have choice in one thing; where to spend their eternity after their journey on earth, aside this, every other thing about you has been predestined, you can only plead for mercy and if there is slot for that then you can obtain mercy to alter your role in the script of life.



Even your laziness will help you to get to your destination...so success in life is not just a factor of hardwork or wisdom or intelligence but hugely dependent on your destiny.



Your destiny decides how far you will go in life, when you will die and how you will die and you cannot do anything about it just as Jesus Christ couldn't stop his own death even though He knew it was going to be painful, He wished it could pass away but then, He knew that was his destiny and his role in the script of life to fulfill God's will.

Jesus Christ was predestined to die, but he got the glorification through hardwork, and not by luck. All He suffered before/on the cross is what could be termed 'hardwork' if critically examined.

Your epistle has little meaning to me.

tasalanoni:
This man has a lot of questions to answer about his wealth.
The time he spends on the social media and personality cult doesn't speak well of a genuine businessman. Personal image and clout chasing seem more important to him than his businesses

Even in this era of digitalization where meetings and communications are held virtually? However, his investment has reached a stage where he earns money even while sleeping I think.

Take note bro.

ok.

naijapips04:
Ronaldo abandoned an offer from League champions city to come play for struggling united and this is how they treat him?

Guardiola will sign 38 years old player to play his pressing game upfront in your mind.

Continue falling for media propaganda.

Enacto:
Entitlement kwa! If I'm not feeling entitled to my parents money my school fee who else's money should I feel entitled to?

I agree with you. But some parents are not performing their duties like her father, and heaven has not fallen. A man who has been performing his responsibilities cannot just stop without a cause as indicated in her write up.

She rejected 50k, but thankfully she has now realized how difficult it is to get 1k per day.

zed7:
The average time for sex is 3 mins to 7 mins. Most people exaggerate the time they spend in actual penetration. Even with 7 minutes, it will seem like 30 mins.

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/how-long-should-sex-last

7 minutes?

Haha! God I thank you oooo.

usah4:
All this people taunting you have never been in such a situation and they'll not know how it feels.
We all embrace Africanism forgetting that even our parents are wrong some times.
But forgive him and wait on him to claim his forgiveness.

Readers know this and know peace, giving birth to children is not an achievement but making sure that they're well trained and become successful people in the society is.

Your son will punch you when you grow up and you will learn in hard way. So, are you telling me that a father who has been responsible so far will just stop overnight without a cause?

She feels comfortable beating a three year old kid, but has the gut to raise her hand against her father when corrected. Yet, you are here spewing rubbish.

Her relationship with her father got severed due to the hatred and complaints handed over to her by her mother. Imagine, she even have a right to reject 50,000, but she is finding it difficult to realize 1,000 per day as a grown up adult.

Tukor1759:
first,go and ask your dad for forgiveness, do it in a way of family meeting, invite a person that your dad so much respect if possible.secondly,stop doing what others does,be your self, cause am seeing that you are looking at what he your father is doing for your brother,be unique.third, you suppose to be your dad favorite,he loves you but you are seeing it the other way,any child that was over pampered 87% always goes astray,last last find a mentor, you own done too much

She is seeing her father in the way he was painted by her mother, and this has lead to unconscious disposition of hatred towards her father. A father who has been responsible so far can't just stop to doing so overnight; something might have caused it.

You can also see that her entitlement mentality is second to none and she need to work on this.

toobusy:
At 24,you should be thinking of how to become less of a burden to your Dad, meanwhile,I feel there are
some important details about your relationship and issues with your father that you didn't enlist in your write-up.

She has been brainwashed by her Mum into believing that her Dad womanizes and spent all his income on concubines. So, there is nothing her father gives that she will appreciate. She has also been told some cock and bull stories by her never satisfied mother.

Due to the above, she unconsciously started developing hatred towards her father to the extent of challenging her father's authority as the Head of the House.

Mide70:
calling her morning and evening of everyday? Don't you people know the meaning of marriage ?

What is the meaning of marriage please? How is the calls impacting your marriage negatively as it seems that you are just creating issue out of no issue.

Unlike before, My Dad call me almost everyday nowadays despite being a man. As you are growing older, you will soon realize that what matters most is not only money but effective communication with your children.

stanliwise:
Okada ke!!
Maybe you actually needed the fund truely aside your parent doing funding.

Well sha it worked for you.

Moving away from your parent I see is a gradual process. There should be a foundation and if I will say it should be a skill and or education.

Going off too early without any skill or any fundamental education can be detrimental and even at some time totally a bad decision to make. Not everyone would survive that terrain you took

Op simply need a plan of a house and a small business or a job. He can borrow money if necessary or discuss with a friend or family member(base on track record sha)

You are surprised that I rode Okada. You see, that is the kind of the sacrifices one need to make as a man.

However, I was so young but determined then. And to be sincere, that was where I majorly got the money to pay my school fees and feed myself throughout my undergraduate days. I was on my way to NYSC before I informed my Dad that I have graduated, he insisted that I return to meet him and prayed his heart out on me on that day.

Going our at the age of 40 is not too early bro and what has op been doing before reaching that stage? So, if his parent have died at the younger age, will he still be sitting down under their roof?

After graduation, I remember coming to stay in Lagos for one or two months in Lagos searching for job before settling down. Even when the going was tough to the extent that I have nothing to feed, I refused to budge in my decision to ask anything from my parents.

Hold on to this - what you earnestly believe in will work for you.

stanliwise:
After getting admission. What was your source of income while being a student Abi na yahoo you dey do?
Or na part-time and work ?

I got the contact of my secondary school friend in Lagos and I started riding Okada around Egbeda, EJigbo, Ikotun, etc. They were six in a room when I joined them.

So, before I wrote my last paper in any semester, I have already packed my belongings because that would be the day when I would get to Lagos. Besides, there would be no food to eat if I decide to stay longer.

Upon every resumption, I will work for additional one week before I would join my mates in school. I remember December 31st 2017-January 2nd 2018, I worked non-stop and I celebrated it while transporting passengers.

You see, moving away from you parent terrain will give you much sense of responsibility and you will be more inclined to break even.

YourBestWriter:
Guys good morrow to you all.

So it's going to be my 39th birthday next year and I still don't have one Kobo in my bank account. Still under my parents roof and no job. In a scale of 1 to 10, what are my chances of making it in life?

You are the one narrowing down your chances in life. For goodness sake, how can you be under your parent at that age and how are you coping with the happenings over there? Telling my parents to hold on to their money upon getting admission into university is one of the best decisions i have never regretted till date.

Even after graduation when all was lost after two years, I held on tenaciously to my decision and the rest is history today by God's grace.

Move bro.