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Fineman2:
My name is Dora.

I am 35 years old and everybody keeps reminding me that age is no longer on my side.

My fiance and I have been dating for more than one year and we are getting married soon.

My fiance is 40 years old and he has never been married.

The relationship was really good when we started but now that our wedding is in a few weeks time, he has shown how controlling he can be.

From the choice of the wedding dress, to the bridesmaids selection, to the colour of the day, he wants to be in charge.

He also wants his mum to buy the cloth for our engagement as well as buy our wedding ring.

He does whatever his family says without seeking my opinion and it almost seems as if I am not the one getting married.

I told my parents about how this makes me feel and they just asked me to endure because I am getting older but I really fear for what is going to happen after the wedding.

Are these not red flags I should run from?

I am confused, please advise me.

Yes, they are warning signs, with the exception of the guy in charge portion because men should always act like men, but why didn't you catch all of that throughout the year you were seeing him? Were you enamored with money or anything else? If not, you are not paying attention.

It's great that you're getting married, but if you've asked him about what you noticed, what was his response? If not, confront him with your concerns before we proceed, that is, if you truly adore him and are prepared to wed him. No matter how challenging a man may be, there is always a way to deal with them but only if you have the endurance. In case I forgot, is he a christian or a Muslim?

i remember way back then when i use to help the man carry bags for head

i am trying to locate tinubu in that video right from when that guy was pushed but i couldn't and some of those security agencies moved away like they are scared to die or something. is it that i am not looking well cuz after playing the video over and over again, i still can't see jagaban till after that particular scene

SuperOnyi:



The predator impersonated his favorite YouTuber (Moon) and asked him to invest in some Bitcoin shít.

The real Moon makes videos exposing governments and evil activities by big corporations... Dude trusted him and sent him thousands of euros... I don't know... This shít is crazy!

Dude doesn't understand how he got "stúpid" enough to trust him without making some research.

Anyway, he kept asking for more money before sending him an iPhone and blackmailing him to go get it... It's a long story, I'm unable to post photos on nairaland. I have his voice note, which I asked him to make, addressing the police..

if you know any superior in the banking sector or any well known big companies, inform the person cuz they always use the DSS to track scammers like that

dawnomike:
Accept the pregnancy and responsibility and proceed to marry the one you want.... Just be sure of what you're going for

You said it all

JasonScoolari:
It may seem as though Chelsea really wants to test the relegation waters....


How many times will Lampard prove himself to be a failure for Chelsea and the Overhyping British media to see?

His status as a Chelsea legend is okay, but he has no business being a Coach.

Gernot Rohr is more technically sound than Lampard.

it's an insult to rohr coaching career comparing him with lampard, lampard is more like most Nigerian coaches that no nothing

It's now clear that these new owners are confused set of people. They know nothing about football. They just keep moving backward. Employ Enrique and let him get to know the club and build the team for the rest of the season and give us what we want next season, simple. But I know d mumu people will still end up employing neglesman or what do they call him cuz they have no idea of football success. If you are not ready to employ Enrique now then leave the guy that coach the last game against Liverpool till end of season cuz I believe he's better than lampard

They should not sha sign rogers o

Good day everyone, please i need your assistance for my business to resume work. i left for cross river for personal reason and left my business shop with my workers, but i noticed things were not going normal and also noticed the account is not always balance anytime they are to make account. when i asked question, fingers are always pointed at the new boy i employed and i told my manager and my first employee to be careful and avoid leaving too much cash with the boy. To cut the long story short, i was latter told the girl who was my loyal staff and a senior staff in the shop left and i tried to find out why, they couldn't give me a reasonable answer and i couldn't reach the girl because her phone was stolen in the shop some months back.

well, i just told my manager to keep working and make sure everything is fine and always collect any available cash from the boy.

As it stand right now, the boy is no where to be found now that i am back in Lagos and my manager told me he asked him to go and get some of the debt he his owing us from his family that promised him so we can be able to buy fuel and some working materials and even load company account, but since then he did not return.

He stays in the shop and his aunt that brought him said she is yet to hear from him.

please, all i need now is 50k to resume work back at the shop after settling some of the debt because have been able to see the girl which happens to be a loyal staff but left the shop and she explained what really happened to her and i realized they frustrated her and tried to set her up all to get her off the shop.

No amount is too small and i will appreciate it even if is to loan me the money and i will return it back in installment every week because as it stand right now, i don't even have any money to live and pay my kid school fees for her to resume class and the business is my only source of income for now.

0018059394 Tunde L. GTB

Account details of one of the superiors that will assist in getting the account ready back for business by clearing the debt.
Kindly revert if you have helped with anything (phone- 09159175391)
Thanks and God bless you all

Good day everyone, please i need your assistance for my business to resume work. i left for cross river for personal reason and left my business shop with my workers, but i noticed things were not going normal and also noticed the account is not always balance anytime they are to make account. when i asked question, fingers are always pointed at the new boy i employed and i told my manager and my first employee to be careful and avoid leaving too much cash with the boy. To cut the long story short, i was latter told the girl who was my loyal staff and a senior staff in the shop left and i tried to find out why, they couldn't give me a reasonable answer and i couldn't reach the girl because her phone was stolen in the shop some months back.

well, i just told my manager to keep working and make sure everything is fine and always collect any available cash from the boy.

As it stand right now, the boy is no where to be found now that i am back in Lagos and my manager told me he asked him to go and get some of the debt he his owing us from his family that promised him so we can be able to buy fuel and some working materials and even load company account, but since then he did not return.

He stays in the shop and his aunt that brought him said she is yet to hear from him.

please, all i need now is 50k to resume work back at the shop after settling some of the debt because have been able to see the girl which happens to be a loyal staff but left the shop and she explained what really happened to her and i realized they frustrated her and tried to set her up all to get her off the shop.

No amount is too small and i will appreciate it even if is to loan me the money and i will return it back in installment every week because as it stand right now, i don't even have any money to live and pay my kid school fees for her to resume class and the business is my only source of income for now.

0018059394 Tunde L. GTB

Account details of one of the superiors that will assist in getting the account ready back for business by clearing the debt.
Kindly revert if you have helped with anything (phone- 09159175391)

Thanks and God bless you all

bewla:
if you can pay salary of more then three people then you don't need to tell people to help you
Get a loan
Solve your issues privately don't mess your reputation

which reputation are you talking about? I should keep quiet when I'm in need? Which loan are you talking about self? Did you read my message at all? The business is just three month old and I got loans and sold my car to set it up just for one boy to run away with over 250k. So I should start begging my jobless staff for money or go back to people I'm owing which I'm yet to pay back for more loan. Like I said, if u are not ready to assist someone, just keep mute

bewla:
If you think it's eazy to move on
Na liar

is not everyone that create stories to convince people just to get money online

bewla:
guy this your story far you that have three or more staff you pay now need 50 k

Guy re set and re- arrange

But if you need advice get loan
After you go vote obi for village you won come tell we bat to help you

Re set I beg

if you are not ready to assist, is not necessary you talk. Is not everybody that lie to get money from people so if you don't believe me, then ignore and move on

Good day everyone, please i need your assistance for my business to resume work. i left for cross river for personal reason and left my business shop with my workers, but i noticed things were not going normal and also noticed the account is not always balance anytime they are to make account. when i asked question, fingers are always pointed at the new boy i employed and i told my manager and my first employee to be careful and avoid leaving too much cash with the boy. To cut the long story short, i was latter told the girl who was my loyal staff and a senior staff in the shop left and i tried to find out why, they couldn't give me a reasonable answer and i couldn't reach the girl because her phone was stolen in the shop some months back.

well, i just told my manager to keep working and make sure everything is fine and always collect any available cash from the boy.

As it stand right now, the boy is no where to be found now that i am back in Lagos and my manager told me he asked him to go and get some of the debt he his owing us from his family that promised him so we can be able to buy fuel and some working materials and even load company account, but since then he did not return.

He stays in the shop and his aunt that brought him said she is yet to hear from him.

please, all i need now is 50k to resume work back at the shop after settling some of the debt because have been able to see the girl which happens to be a loyal staff but left the shop and she explained what really happened to her and i realized they frustrated her and tried to set her up all to get her off the shop.

No amount is too small and i will appreciate it even if is to loan me the money and i will return it back in installment every week because as it stand right now, i don't even have any money to live and pay my kid school fees for her to resume class and the business is my only source of income for now.
All i am asking for is your assistance please.

0018059394 Tunde L. GTB

Account details of one of the superiors that will assist in getting the account ready back for business by clearing the debt.
Kindly revert if you have helped with anything (phone- 09159175391)
Thanks and God bless you all

Great100000:
God bless you for that question, Bayern vs PSG final is the most entertaining, interesting, awesome Champions League final.

AMEN! Thanks

Good day everyone, please i need your assistance for my business to resume work. i left for cross river for personal reason and left my business shop with my workers, but i noticed things were not going normal and also noticed the account is not always balance anytime they are to make account. when i asked question, fingers are always pointed at the new boy i employed and i told my manager and my first employee to be careful and avoid leaving too much cash with the boy. To cut the long story short, i was latter told the girl who was my loyal staff and a senior staff in the shop left and i tried to find out why, they couldn't give me a reasonable answer and i couldn't reach the girl because her phone was stolen in the shop some months back.

well, i just told my manager to keep working and make sure everything is fine and always collect any available cash from the boy.

As it stand right now, the boy is no where to be found now that i am back in Lagos and my manager told me he asked him to go and get some of the debt he his owing us from his family that promised him so we can be able to buy fuel and some working materials and even load company account, but since then he did not return.

He stays in the shop and his aunt that brought him said she is yet to hear from him.

please, all i need now is 50k to resume work back at the shop after settling some of the debt because have been able to see the girl which happens to be a loyal staff but left the shop and she explained what really happened to her and i realized they frustrated her and tried to set her up all to get her off the shop.

No amount is too small and i will appreciate it even if is to loan me the money and i will return it back in installment every week because as it stand right now, i don't even have any money to live and pay my kid school fees for her to resume class and the business is my only source of income for now.

0018059394 Tunde L. GTB

Account details of one of the superiors that will assist in getting the account ready back for business by clearing the debt.
Kindly revert if you have helped with anything (phone- 09159175391)
Thanks and God bless you all

did you enjoy the bayern vs psg champions league final?

dustmalik:
Tuchel is not known to play the typical Bayern style of play, so does that mean they are ready to change their style of play?

Good day everyone, please i need your assistance for my business to resume work. i left for cross river for personal reason and left my business shop with my workers, but i noticed things were not going normal and also noticed the account is not always balance anytime they are to make account. when i asked question, fingers are always pointed at the new boy i employed and i told my manager and my first employee to be careful and avoid leaving too much cash with the boy. To cut the long story short, i was latter told the girl who was my loyal staff and a senior staff in the shop left and i tried to find out why, they couldn't give me a reasonable answer and i couldn't reach the girl because her phone was stolen in the shop some months back.

well, i just told my manager to keep working and make sure everything is fine and always collect any available cash from the boy.

As it stand right now, the boy is no where to be found now that i am back in Lagos and my manager told me he asked him to go and get some of the debt he his owing us from his family that promised him so we can be able to buy fuel and some working materials and even load company account, but since then he did not return.

He stays in the shop and his aunt that brought him said she is yet to hear from him.

please, all i need now is 50k to resume work back at the shop after settling some of the debt because have been able to see the girl which happens to be a loyal staff but left the shop and she explained what really happened to her and i realized they frustrated her and tried to set her up all to get her off the shop.

No amount is too small and i will appreciate it even if is to loan me the money and i will return it back in installment every week because as it stand right now, i don't even have any money to live and pay my kid school fees for her to resume class and the business is my only source of income for now.

0018059394 Tunde .L. GTB

Account details of one of the superiors that will assist in getting the account ready back for business by clearing the debt.
Kindly revert if you have helped with anything (phone- 09159175391)
Thanks and God bless you all

Good day everyone, please i need your assistance for my business to resume work. i left for cross river for personal reason and left my business shop with my workers, but i noticed things were not going normal and also noticed the account is not always balance anytime they are to make account. when i asked question, fingers are always pointed at the new boy i employed and i told my manager and my first employee to be careful and avoid leaving too much cash with the boy. To cut the long story short, i was latter told the girl who was my loyal staff and a senior staff in the shop left and i tried to find out why, they couldn't give me a reasonable answer and i couldn't reach the girl because her phone was stolen in the shop some months back.

well, i just told my manager to keep working and make sure everything is fine and always collect any available cash from the boy.

As it stand right now, the boy is no where to be found now that i am back in Lagos and my manager told me he asked him to go and get some of the debt he his owing us from his family that promised him so we can be able to buy fuel and some working materials and even load company account, but since then he did not return.

He stays in the shop and his aunt that brought him said she is yet to hear from him.

please, all i need now is 50k to resume work back at the shop after settling some of the debt because have been able to see the girl which happens to be a loyal staff but left the shop and she explained what really happened to her and i realized they frustrated her and tried to set her up all to get her off the shop.

No amount is too small and i will appreciate it even if is to loan me the money and i will return it back in installment every week because as it stand right now, i don't even have any money to live and pay my kid school fees for her to resume class and the business is my only source of income for now.

0018059394 Tunde L. GTB

Account details of one of the superiors that will assist in getting the account ready back for business by clearing the debt.
Kindly revert if you have helped with anything (phone- 09159175391)
Thanks and God bless you all

Good day everyone, please i need your assistance for my business to resume work. i left for cross river for personal reason and left my business shop with my workers, but i noticed things were not going normal and also noticed the account is not always balance anytime they are to make account. when i asked question, fingers are always pointed at the new boy i employed and i told my manager and my first employee to be careful and avoid leaving too much cash with the boy. To cut the long story short, i was latter told the girl who was my loyal staff and a senior staff in the shop left and i tried to find out why, they couldn't give me a reasonable answer and i couldn't reach the girl because her phone was stolen in the shop some months back.

well, i just told my manager to keep working and make sure everything is fine and always collect any available cash from the boy.

As it stand right now, the boy is no where to be found now that i am back in Lagos and my manager told me he asked him to go and get some of the debt he his owing us from his family that promised him so we can be able to buy fuel and some working materials and even load company account, but since then he did not return.

He stays in the shop and his aunt that brought him said she is yet to hear from him.

please, all i need now is 50k to resume work back at the shop after settling some of the debt because have been able to see the girl which happens to be a loyal staff but left the shop and she explained what really happened to her and i realized they frustrated her and tried to set her up all to get her off the shop.

No amount is too small and i will appreciate it even if is to loan me the money and i will return it back in installment every week because as it stand right now, i don't even have any money to live and pay my kid school fees for her to resume class and the business is my only source of income for now.

0018059394 Tunde L. GTB

Account details of one of the superiors that will assist in getting the account ready back for business by clearing the debt.
Kindly revert if you have helped with anything (phone- 09159175391)
Thanks and God bless you all

bro4u:
Ok,, so op what do you want us to do with this news now?

lol

Pierced:
People in my area sell theirs to post guys.

10k old notes to be credited 9k.

For if u want to buy something from a trader......u will pay double the price before if u are paying with old notes.

I was lucky to deposit 71500 at access bank yesterday.

was the 71500 what you filled in the form? Or you did not even fill the form online at all?

opalu:
Big brother collected money to host the show to derail the young voters but they have failed.

all this rubbish talk should stop. Did they make a law that force every young persons in Nigeria to watch big brother? Is the young people that don't know what they really want because they never stopped you from going out on election date to vote your choice

sapele914:
Yep, mine is back, Internet even faster than before.

same with mine

Dyke15:
I think the NIGERIAN AIRFORCE is the only arm of our military that is yet to be fully bastardized.
The NIGERIAN ARMY has been reduced down to nothing with their nepotism and tribalism.
They now mount roadblocks and collect bribes just like our foolish NIGERIAN POLICE
With the way NIGERIAN ARMY is going, they will soon become common like the POLICE.
KUDOS TO NIGERIAN AIRFORCE FOR STILL MAINTAINING DAT MILITARY STANDARD

that's because no road blocks in the air nau. But to be sincere, I love the air force,so discipline

afribookorg:
Penaldo fans right now

lol

Massiveglory:
HBD to Mr. President
If Pmb is 80yrs old , calculate emilokan real age ?
Vote wisely to avoid bulababoo

lol

When mbape, gerioud, dembele and touchu still dey

SMARTMOTORS:
Please someone should help me out with any job at all.... Really need a job, any type

location?

Kasssandra:
Good, but charging points are not easily available...plus we are not generating enough electricity to even sustain large numbers of electric cars.

(UK is promoting electiric cars...and at the same time building a large nuclear powered electric plant that would generate more power ).

which means nothing is working fine in Nigeria. God help us but we must also help ourselves

DaddyCK:
really?..u beg for NGN5,000 (5k)......ok I will double it to NGN9.000 naira (9k) cash if u let me nak u twice again.. ...deal??

oga, 9k is not a double of 5k, so you are scamming the babe