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frozen70:
Any couple you find in this categories are actually living as flat mates and not husband and wife

Though men wants to taste what other women have out there and once they get it especially the ones that are ready to give him hot hot, the one at home becomes less relevant to him

While she is still faithful and looking forward to being with him and Stay close to him at home, he is busy avoiding her because he got a big fish outside

By the time she discovers that he is not giving her the attention she wants, she will face her directions towards the children who will never ignore her and find solace in them

By the time the man is getting old, he starts coming close to the wife, meanwhile she is already done with him but still living with him

That's when the man will become lonely while he is married to his wife

You can only harvest what you sow that's what this life will offer you

Hmmm... True!

Mindlog:
Then in their later years when their children are grown and left the house, those people outside are long gone, same men would accuse the wives they ignored in their youth of now ignoring them in their old age as their wives have divested emotionally.

Exactly. After succeeding in breaking that bond and the woman has gotten over them, they turn back and accuse her of neglect... Especially when she goes for omugwo and stays longer than necessary.

Sunmolar:
At what age does men loose appetite for their wives if true?

For some after 5 yrs but at the most, 10yrs they begin to act like she's a sibling.

Jman06:
Most women become unattractive once married. That's why married men cheat.

Imagine seeing one hippopotamus with oversized grandma panties everyday. The man is bound to lose interest in her. If not for children and what the society would say, most married men would chase their wives away after few years of marriage.

So what do you suggest the married woman do to get their husbands attention and fully attracted to them?

Practical tips o.
Types of outfits suitable for indoor parole and other tips on their looks.

Sunmolar:
In life, when something is scarce, it increases in value. You have to learn to be wanted by woman than to be around her most times

You're sure this is the reason? I doubt.

I think after a while, men lose their appetite for their wives and desire something fresh and new especially ones that seem hard to get. It's just a thing with the men. This is the reason I'm not ready to be tied to one man who will get tired and want to explore other options . Chai!

Jman06:
Because women go out of shape once married due to excessive eating and laziness that hinder them from exercising and keeping fit.

Before you know it they become potbellied, oversized and unattractive. So it is natural for the man to lose interest in her.

I want to believe this is the cause.

YinkaOlusesi16:
That's why couples need prayer

Prayers?

Na two by two the man need.

Sunmolar:
Most problems in marriage is money related.

This their case and most of the ones I've seen is not money. The men have clearly lost interest.
You'll see them sitting with other people outside gisting and laughing while their wives will be alone sitting all by herself. So sad.

I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

Insecurity is worrying the woman.

Having insecurity with a security personnel. No be juju be that?

ashewoboy:
Are you single?

I'm not interested in nairaland men.

ashewoboy:
EriMma1 how old are you? Shey you go like marry introvert?

Yes. Ill like an introvert like me. Men wey dey Waka Waka too dey cheat.

Karleb:
Dem get husband already.

All these Nigerian girls. For India na woman dey pay bride price and their marriage dey last well well.

Sidon there dey wait woman wen go come pay your groom price.

Karleb:
Go find husband and start a family with that money.

No be only.. .. if I hear?... money wen never reach me alone.

God forbid make i find husband. Na husband go find me. Normal.
Advise the females in your bloodline to go find husband with their money.

wittywriter:
Yes its enough to relocate to UK and some few countries in Europe countries.

Wittyness

Ok.
Thanks.

How to know a chronic harlot. They don't regard their bodies because different men have bastardized it so much. So it's nothing to them.

Tue!

Thank God I'm my own boss, so no room for unwanted chichat or intrusion into my space.

When I find myself around clients when I go to render my services, I try to keep the Convo minimal by suddenly jetting off to duty in the middle of a Convo cos some people will just like to engage you in unecessary discussions. So when I do that, they know duty calls and everyone goes back to their desk.

I did it last week to a woman who likes to talk too much and she became cold towards me. When I noticed it, I thanked my stars that I'll at least do my job in peace. Las las, she started again..huh.. me I kukuma still dash out on them.

Right now, mine has gotten worse that I hardly come out of my apartment and if I see someone I know on the way I'll so frown my face so the person can avoid me. Someone was even knocking on my door yesterday, hyping me, I didn't go and answer the person. Being around people now just irritates me because na so so rubbish dem dey like to yarn. So I like and enjoy my privacy with me, myself and I.

Abeg, Shey 3million reach a single lady japa?

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Good for the both of you. Dog jam bitch.

As these small children with their sick stories. Person dey think how this Tinubu regime wan be like this wey beginning don rough, una dey one side dey play.

Wait untill she carry belle, na there you go know wetin life mean. Tkor!

Save up and build your finances for like three years first before talking about marriage.

A woman needs to be well cared for and you need to be financially stable to be able to do that. So build first.

Forget all these advice telling you to continue giving her solids. She's still to Young to switch completely to adult food. It will make her malnourished and look like one akpruka baby.

Go and get Gerber's cereal and their yogurt.
Also buy Aptamil formula milk.

After making the Gerber cereal, add one cup of yogurt and mix, Hm if your baby taste it, she'll not want to eat any adult food again and it will give her that ajebutter look

.Make banana smoothie and add the Aptamil formula to it. She'll like it

The only adult food you can be giving her is, mashed potatoes ( Irish) mixed with fattening butter. Look for a good tasting foreign butter. Then little Amala with ewedu or okra packed with Titus fish Just little once in a while.

Lastly go and get her children chewable vitamins if she can chew o.

Take a before and after pics, you would be amazed at her skin color and overall looks.

1st pics is the yogurt. One cup to a bowl of her cereal. They have the straw berry and other flavors but banana is my favorite. Tastes so sweet.

2nd pics is the cereal. This the rice. They have the flavored fruits ones too.

3rd pics Aptamil.

All men do this but they will come here now and be forming macho man.

Argue with your keypads.

Irresponsible men will kick against this meanwhile this is the universal truth and nothing but the truth from time immemorial.

"I too Sabi" women don change the whole thing of which most of them ended/end up getting their fingers burnt cos as you're using your money to feed the men, they are using theirs to Chase and spend on side chicks. Una m.umu never do.

Make i see that man that will ask me what Ill bring to the table, ka ihu ma ya na ajaocha.

This one dey find who go train am for school e come be a35yr old na him you choose. You're not even smart.

Mum.u. Wetin concern you with him again? Some women can annoy someone?.... Nothing concern you with his loveless marriage. In fact, if the other woman likes, let her tear him into pieces, it's non of your business. He dumped you to be with her, mind your business and move on!

If he cared this much about you, he'd still be with you and not the other woman and here you are caring about whats happening to him when you should be popping champagne.

You better stay where you are and start up your business. If you are not from akwaibom, don't go there especially if you don't know the place very well before you land yourself in danger.

Living on your own is not rice and stew oo.. since you still have the opportunity to live with your parents, I'll advise you remain there until you have a solid financial stability.

Adulthood na scam. Don't say you were not warned.

No be small thing o. 👀👀.

According to one Yoruba skit I watched. He didn't turn off location on his phone 😂😂😂.

HeartlessMan:
Mynd44 tilo

LoL... You ehn?

davillian:
Guys don show her pepper
She want revenge in her next life

Hers is not a case of vengeance because she didn't say she was going to deal with the men but planning to deal with her fellow women. So it's a case of desiring a freedom she believes one can only enjoy as a man.

So ridiculous of her to think that way.

Shes probably missing the fact that she can not live in a "man's world" according to society standard where she can cheat with multiple partners and not be frowned at as is the case with the female folks. She's really missing that freedom that comes with being a man. I pity her.

I think you should let her know the downsides of being a man and the consequences of living such reckless life and how it has destroyed the lives of many great men.

All this chicken brains wen una dey carry these days whos reasonings are one way travigated. Always looking only at the pros and not the cons of life's options.

"@she will deal with women", She has a corrupt mind and trust me you don't wanna be with such a girl who thinks dirty to that extent. She can be easily swayed into doing dangerous things if situation becomes overwhelming.

Look before you leap

wIlly0097:
200ish …

It's ok. At least it manageable as 20 to 30k can cover transportation cost and you'll still be left with 170k.

Take it!

I don't pity you woman because if they are telling you people to look before you leap, you'll turn deaf ears and be forming "the girl is understanding and not materialistic" bullcrap.

I'm sure one or two people must have advised you against marrying a struggling guy but you turned deaf ears thinking the person doesn't want your progress. Now e don happen, you're crying foul.

Go and read most of my posts, I keep advising Young ladies not to enter into marriage with an average man in this country Nigeria, na suffer head mission be that but many will always come for me and call me names.

I'm not married, not because I don't get suitors, but I don't want to suffer! I can't suffer with a man. Period!

If I don't find me a rich man, let marriage dey hin dey. I'm comfortable as a single lady and not ready to come and be using my resources to take care of one struggling man with his kids. Ta!