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Diamond098454:
hahaha hahaha essential

DD you know what I said is the truth. Right?

Statinonsense

Diamond098454:
capital YES

Ooops.

3 things make the world a sad place to live in.

Snobs, Loners, and Shy people.

Hamachi:
Even you, group you created tou left them alone. You gan na toxicity.

I am not toxicity ooo. I am back.

Diamond098454:
I don't have ex boyfriend

How true is this?

Diamond098454:
hahaha hahaha wow.... You really understand me perfectly well how come?

It's a good thing to understand you perfectly well. Hahahahha hahahhaha

stevenie:
Whitesoul Group.
That company will fraustate you. stress you life. make some unaccounted deductions on your salary with no explanation, even delay your salary. the most worst part of them, if they find out you are leaving the company or you tender your letter of resignation even if you like give them 2 weeks notice or 1 month notice, just forget your salary for that month.

From their name you would think their soul will be white. But it's opposite.

Diamond098454:
essential.......... It's normal. Anyone that comes close to me both online and offline end up with that words ( I like you) but if you see me in real life I don't talk, I will be smiling but I won't talk.

I know why. Online you relate to people based on their words. Offline you snob people based on their appearance.

Right?

Diamond098454:
smile you won't understand
essential you have finally make me popular in this forum hope you will rest now.

Thank God this is not WhatsApp group i would have been receiving calls here and there.

I am sorry if I did that. Didnt mean to rattle you. I just like you a lot and really like talking to you.

handsomebolanle:
Are you MH_ing?

With that plenty offer

No, I am not.

Also check on Neimeth Plc riding on Full Bid?

Bendeco02:
Yeah, you're not that fair, you're red

Stop saying rubbish online. Apply wisdom

"Do Most Girls Really Like Big Gbola?"

What was the final answer that you later got?

Personally, I do not have issues with people stating their preferences. We all cannot like the same thing. And while it may sound derogatory or demeaning, I actually do like it. It helps me to know where I stand and to know where you stand.

I repeat what I stand earlier. That is one of the major things I like about Diamond. Consistent and firm.


The major people I do not like are these 2 types of ladies:

1. The type that says you are not their spec, and tomorrow you see them dating another guy that is exactly like you. That is inconsistency.

2. The type that hides their feelings and preferences. So while you think she is into you, you don't even know that you are never her spec.

Please tell people what you prefer and what you don't like. Better to be hurt now, than to be dumped at the altar, when she sees your Bestman and he happens to be her spec.

Learn Africa Plc on Full Bid. What is driving the interest?

Diamond098454:
if you date such man as a young lady Hmmmm you won't mess around

Smiles.

Why would the lady not mess around if she dates such a guy?

YoungLionken:
E suppose click (except perhaps she's not feeling you) ..

But obob, see as you con calm bro ! Ha, surely to fear(avoid) woman go hard o . And no man woman nor fit tame; from baba to baby ...

Bros whenever a man meets a lady he likes, she brings out the best in him. And when a lady meets a guy she likes, he brings out the best part of her.

More reason I have often said that when partners or spouses have consistent issues. Check very very well. Either he does not really like her. Or she does not really like him. Or they do not both really like themselves.

Diamond098454:
you think so? Some men married the best , humble and sweet woman still they cheat

Yeah I think so. Ever heard the phrase a good mother can be a bad wife?

Diamond098454:
it's heartbreaking to find out your husband or wife is cheating. Dating a careless married man is very dangerous

I completely agree to this. But it happens and I often wonder why it happens. Let me State what I truly believe in. Once a partner is cheating, the cheater and his or her spouse have their share in the blame.

ositadima1:
I can tell you that this statement is flawed. There are people who genuinely add value here, and there are others who just monkey-hunt. If you’re the type who takes signals, your job is to filter what’s useful from what’s not. I can mention a few people who are consistently selfless in their contributions, Pa Emma is one of them.

How come you know another person who is selfless on the platform, but do not know if you yourself are selfless on the platform. Or are you not. If you are not, why naa? E good like that?

Diamond098454:
essential, I don't know.........................

Oh no. Ok tell me who would know if Diamond is.....

Diamond098454:
hey, you have really engaged me in this forum, ooooohhhhh....no oooo .....I have forgotten I'm in public Ariana

Good chatting with you.

I have enjoyed chatting with you too. Will still speak with you frequently.

Diamond098454:
essential

And good morning to you too Diamond.

Diamonds are rare to find, expensive to acquire, and treasurable to keep. Is that you?

Certain things should not be done publicly.

End of discussion.

Ndipe:
Private elementary schools?

Yes. Why not?

Those one are nothing to write home about.

Diamond098454:
my spec is not fine boy ooo.....

There are so many handsome men out there not fine boys

There's different between a fine boy and a handsome intelligent man . Men that talk with their eyes not with their mouth

Hmmm. So deep. Men that talk with their eyes, not mouth. Meaning you must be a very intelligent lady who understands unspoken words and react or respond to it rightly.

Diamond098454:
I can't cheat on my husband.
My fair comes from my mum's linage. I don't use cream I use Egyptian oil and coconut oil thou my mum get my skin care for me

I don't talk about other ladies out there because so many of them are natural fair but use the type of skin cares that work for you.

For the fair guys they are not for me

I am not fair complexioned. But I understand you though I have rarely seen a lady saying she does not like fair complexioned guys. It is mostly guys that tend to get attracted to fair complexioned ladies. But all in all, I love consistency and firmness. And it's one of the things I have come to like in you.

Diamond098454:
life? What can of life? My eyes will always eat first. Those physical structures must be there. Hahaha hahaha hahaha. Someone men fine oooo

But this one your spec is fine boy, who will now date and marry the Ned Nwokos that are ugly but wealthy?

Diamond098454:
forget that. What if at the end of the day the one that is not the guy's spec get pregnant what will be the faith of the young man?

Hmmmmmm. What you said now is the shocking realities that we see always. It leads to either Baby mama situation, single motherhood, serial abortionist murderer, or to a loveless and unhappy marriage.

YoungLionken:
Forgiven ..

If it clicks, you both should invite me as a priest to bless the union ...

surely if it clicks, you will be the officiating priest. You are so hilarious.

Diamond098454:
me insecure? Am fair already so can't date a fair guy.Hmmmm I don't feel anything for them. Whenever I sit close to them it looks as if I'm sitting with my gender

Talking about DP
Why will i use someone's pic on my profile? It's not done I can't

The DP is me.

Oh that's beautiful to know its you on your DP. You are pretty. But maybe not as fair as you imagine you are. Fair complexioned ladies plenty in Nigeria ooo. But that's beside the point.

But about fair complexioned guys, I do not think they are all looking effeminate. Some look really manly and we'll built. Perhaps it depends on those you have been really close to.

Now here is a twist.

Imagine you now that does not like a fair complexioned guy, and most likely will not want to marry one. Then after marriage, you begin to have a side affair with a fair complexioned guy. That is the whole point of this thread. I fault all Inconsistencies in choice. Assuming I have let's say 2 or 3 girlfriends, my dear, if you look them closely, you must see a lot of similarities between them. Same it should be for everyone. That similarities that they all have is what we can use to define your Spec. Not orobo today. Lekpa tomorrow. Fair guy today. Dark guy tomorrow. Poor guy today. Rich guy tomorrow. No focus. Just dating anyhow anyhow.

Diamond098454:
talking about flaunting the affair on your wife or husband
Let use men as example

At times goes on, the man will not be able to hid his total feelings again and because of that his wife will start having the feelings that her husband is cheating and if the man is careless with his phone , his wife is gonna find out every thing. Married men should try and stay faithful to their Wife

Well, some persons are careless about it and some are not. In all, one must respect their Spouses. But never deny yourself whatever makes you happy, while you are still alive. Because when you die, even that spouse will move on fast...

Diamond098454:
smile smile smile I rather date a married poor guy that is physically 90 percent attractive and most be dark in completion than to date a rich man that look like slowpoke or fair in completion man.

No no no it can't work because the feelings won't be there

Wait, smile smile smile. What do you have against fair complexioned guys? Their attitude or your insecurities around them?

Meanwhile, if that is actually you on your DP, then you are beautiful.

But tell me

Whats up with fair complexioned guys?

Diamond098454:
you lie
Men don't even know what is spec
Everything under skirt roses them.
Maybe to you women doesn't have spec fine and good but I personally I have and that's why I don't have a bf
I can't eat anything food just because I'm hungry. If a guy doesn't know himself I can't approach me well, they won't even see me

I really do respect the fact that you have and maintain your ideal spec. Perhaps because as some ladies will say, Life never happen to you yet.