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CrimeRe: Missing Girl In Port Harcourt, Rivers State Have Been Found by Essien45: 12:51pm On Jan 21, 2023
obrian888:
this girl 9yrs - 10? this can't be true, i have a two daughters of 11 - 12 in April and 9 - 10 in Feb, so this cannot be, i am not trying to be a pervert here, try and zoom the picture where she is standing with the jeans jacket, look at her face and what is inside her chest in between the jacket you will decide for yourself. there is no point lying wit her age to gain sympathy from the public, if she will be seen she will be seen and thank God she has been found alive in good health. just like the 10 year old girl from the Chrisland school, that girl can never be 10, if she is ten, then the government and parents need to do over time on our kids in this present time.
I have of daughter of 11 years also and she looks like a 18 year old lady. Children of nowadays grow faster than their she mind you.
CrimeRe: Missing Girl In Port Harcourt, Rivers State Have Been Found by Essien45: 12:48pm On Jan 21, 2023
kestolove95:
Una never tell us wia dix 9 yrs with breast go...
See pedophile dey ask?
CrimeRe: Missing Girl In Port Harcourt, Rivers State Have Been Found by Essien45: 12:16pm On Jan 21, 2023
DaddyCK:
Praise who?. So u sopot 10 year old olosho....corrřrrect? Shame on u sir!!(no oofencsse) angry
Na your kidnap case go be the next!!!
CrimeRe: Missing Girl In Port Harcourt, Rivers State Have Been Found by Essien45: 12:15pm On Jan 21, 2023
DaddyCK:
seee the steeeewpid 10 year old olosho lookin like 28 year old midget woman....she aint even lightskin. wot a disgrase!!(no oofencsse) angry
See senseless comment sha! E be like say an animal born you?
CrimeRe: Missing Girl In Port Harcourt, Rivers State Have Been Found by Essien45: 12:11pm On Jan 21, 2023
tonye33:
What do you expect from kids with low or no parental training undecided
So every kid kidnapped is as a result of low or no self parental training? Just hear yourself!
CrimeRe: Lady Shares Her Story After She Was Kidnapped By One Chance In Rivers State by Essien45: 8:25am On Jan 19, 2023
Etche generally in Rivers State is the hotbed for armed robbery, kidnapping, cultism, occultism and other negative societal vices.
Most of their young men are very lazy and don't want to work but want money even with oil companies line Shell in that axis.
When job opportunities come from Shell, they sell their slots. They don't like development as if you go there no good roads because any attempt to build one they tell you they prefer the money than the road.

Just forget Etche no be am.
CrimeRe: "New Generational" Aye Cult Member Addresses His Colleagues In A Viral Video by Essien45: 11:11am On Jan 12, 2023
He's making sense here and if you think he's not, you're on your own.
TravelRe: Did You Ever Regretted leaving Lagos For Another State In Nigeria? by Essien45: 9:59am On Dec 30, 2022
I was born and raised in Lagos for 30 years and I can tell you that relocating to another location was one of the greatest decision I have ever made in my life. I pray nothing will ever take me back to leave in Lagos.

If you want to live long don't leave in Lagos.
Nairaland GeneralBishop David Oyedepo Sacks Non-tenured Staff After Shiloh by Essien45(op): 2:47pm On Dec 23, 2022
Bishop David Oyedepo has sacked all the Non-Tenured staffs of it's organization the day Shiloh 2022 ended.
In a memo from the Mandate Secretary made available it states that they were released due to strategic reorganization and restructuring.

The memo reads thus;

MEMO

From: Mandate Secretary
To: State Pastors
Subject: NOTICE OF RELEASE OF NON-TENURED STAFF
Date: December 10, 2022

More than Conqueror greeting in Jesus’ name!

In view of the need for strategic re-organization and re-structuring, be informed that the services of the following categories of staff will no longer be required.

Admin Assistants.
DBS Assistants.
Cleaners.
Receptionist.
Drivers.

Therefore, you are by this memo directed to give the concerned staff two (2) months' salary in lieu of notice for their exit on Friday, 16th December 2022. All exit protocols shall be duly observed.

Finally, find attached the list of affected staff in your State.

Please be guided by the above directives while you may seek further clarification where the necessary need arises.


Remain Blessed.

Adebisi O. Aboluwade
Cc: FVP, VPCNW, VPFM, MS, DFB, CIA, HPS, Chairman (CB, LCC & FMC)

Alot of questions are begging for answers because from past experience with this organization they are the number one abusers of labour law in this country compared to other countries. Even in Benin Republic here you can't hire and fire with you paying just two months salary to those affected? Where is it done even in Africa talkless if abroad?
Living Faith Church Worldwide is chewing more they can bite and they need to be called to order.
More than 3000+ staffs are already affected by this wickedness where a security personnel still collects minimum 14k per month. Haba!
The pastors welfare is next to zero, ears would not like to hear what happens what they do when a Pastoral or admin staffs dies talkless of the set of people being released. Is it when the staffs are retired? They are really taking advantage of the high level of unemployment in the country.

Some years ago he claimed they planted thousands of churches but recent events have shown many of those churches are not viable and some of those pastors were released for non-performance while the truth is you employ graduates throw them to the villages and expect them to grow churches like they are in the city with little or no resources.
Many of them fell victim to sickness and disease, many died, many have resigned because when they have issues that would require the attention of those in charge they ignore them and they just wake up one morning because those churches are not performing up to expectation they sack the pastor.

I know of a few of them who resigned because when they were in need they were neglected.

Someone should advise Bishop David Oyedepo that this is not a competition.
If he can't be employing people and be sacking at will.

The relevant labour laws that relates to things like this should be adhered to.

Enough of this irresponsibility under the guise of church planting and growth.

If you want to see the highest abuse of labour law come to the church where everyone is taken advantage of because of God.
CultureRe: The Highest And Most Polished Culture On Earth Is Yoruba Culture - Reno Omokri by Essien45: 10:59am On Dec 12, 2022
On this one I totally agree. Igbos are the worst.
CelebritiesRe: Davido: The Adeleke Generational Curse By Kemi Olunloyo by Essien45: 4:04pm On Nov 04, 2022
God will shut your mouth by bringing ifeanyi back to life.
CrimeRe: Four Men Gang-rape Co-tenant's 13-year-old Daughter In Anambra by Essien45: 1:19pm On Nov 03, 2022
So because they had a disagreement with the girl's father they now raped her?

The papa no try at all because they are still alive till now!
CelebritiesRe: This PM News Headline About Davido's Son's Death Is Mindboggling by Essien45: 1:36pm On Nov 02, 2022
Ekundayo7574:
That young man Bleep himself up, how will you go and be aligning with the eastern people when you have responsible ladies in west this stuff really baffle me indeed
Go teach am how to live him life na!!!
Wetin concern pikin wey die with aligning himself with eastern people?
Retarded people like you don't go far in life.
RomanceRe: He Found Out His Wife Was A Former Runs Girl by Essien45: 2:01am On Oct 25, 2022
NoApology:
Source: https://twitter.com/makavelli275/status/1584452742935851008?s=21[/quote]Once and again intending couples have been told to open up to themselves on any information that will affect their homes negatively later but them no go hear.
There's is the one that had 4 children yet she didn't tell her fiance
Another was HIV positive but connived with the nurse to change the result to negative, the same nurse exposed her.
Be truthful to yourself please to avoid stories that touch.
FamilyRe: How Do I Forgive Him? by Essien45: 1:43am On Oct 25, 2022
Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.
.

I have learnt the hard way that any issue involving marriage don't judge based on the account of one of the parties involved.
Nairaland is not the best place to seek counsel over your issue because some of them here are young folks who have no experience about marriage as you can see from their comments like if it's a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. We have been in it for years and what you're saying is not new in many homes.

This issue of money and trust has been one of the issues affecting many homes and it has led many married folks to take decisions hastily without thinking of the ripple effects.
It's quite unfortunate what your husband did but forgiving him would have averted all this stories that touch. In marriage both parties have their weakness but it is their ability to forgive themselves, work on themselves and forge ahead that matters.

From your narrative I can point out that you felt really betrayed that your husband broke your trust for him over money but many are facing much worst things but they never left their homes why? Because there is a wisdom to it.
Trust broken can be earned again and it starts with forgiveness.
Imagine if God refuses to forgive you all your trespasses?

Family sometimes can be overprotective but you are not in your home and they are in theirs but hope they are equally telling you the real issues they are facing in their homes?
A home is not only built on love, trust, sacrifice etc. It is equally built on forgiveness, patience, tolerance, long suffering etc

I pray God heals your hurt and grant both you and your hubby the wisdom to make amends, forgive each other, trust each other and forge ahead together because you're both young in marriage and it's unfortunate you both were not guided properly. It wouldn't have gotten to this.

You're still young to put yourself through all of this. Haba!

Marriage sweet o! But na wisdom you go need.
PoliticsRe: Asari Dokubo Carries AK47, Blasts Obidients For 'Lying About 2 Million March' by Essien45: 11:29am On Oct 04, 2022
Some people behave like them no go die one day.
PoliticsRe: "Watch Your Utterances" - DSS Warns Shiekh Gumi, Others Over Mamu's Arrest by Essien45: 10:04pm On Sep 11, 2022
yomi961:
Dss can only bark, make them touch gumi make the whole north scatter.
No matter what the truth will not be silenced.
Me
Says who? grin grin grin
Gumi will be arrested soon and nothing will happen.
PoliticsRe: Atiku Campaigned For Buhari To Defeat Jonathan In 2015 (Throwback Video) by Essien45: 6:05pm On Sep 07, 2022
The elections in 2023 is going to be pay back time for some people who thought they were smart in previous elections.
PoliticsRe: Yul Edochie Tackles Nigerians Mocking Tinubu by Essien45: 2:05am On Aug 10, 2022
beerfraud:
they are many here that will die before Tinubu especially those IPOB terrorists
I can see you have taken the place of God, but mind you person wey dey predict death for others no suppose forget say imself go die.
The reason why people die untimely is what you just did. You are as guilty as those wishing Tinubu the same.
Nothing should ever make you wish evil on behalf of someone.
Leave the people wishing Tinubu death to face the consequences as God does not need your intervention. Abeg receive sense!
PoliticsRe: Bishop Kayode Williams Disagrees With CAN, Supports Tinubu by Essien45: 8:11pm On Aug 05, 2022
As far as as Christianity is concerned there are Men of God who speak and we listen.
Abeg, who is this so called 'bishop'?
What is his antecedent?
Who know am?
What is the strength of his congregation?

Please, media houses should not be bringing nobodies to talk on issues that has to do with Christianity or CAN.
PoliticsRe: Fact Check: Are Bishops, Pastors Who Attended Shettima's Unveiling Fake? by Essien45: 9:44am On Jul 22, 2022
You manage to identify 44 out of 30 as purported by Shettima. If you score 4 out of 30 what is that?
You're really clumsy and you call this fact check?
Abeg gerrout of here!
PoliticsRe: Your Incompetence Is Nauseating: Fani-Kayode Replies DHQ by Essien45: 11:19pm On Jul 18, 2022
JBriel:
I've heard your chants. What useful things did he say plz
Read it yourself.
CrimeRe: Thugs Destroy Igbo Traders' Shops In Osogbo After PDP Was Declared Winner by Essien45: 11:13pm On Jul 18, 2022
After the cowards in Kano stoned and burnt Deborah who was not igbo by tribe they set out to destroy the businesses of igbo people in Kano.
Now APC lost woefully to PDP in Osun state election and the businesses of igbos were attacked again and some people here are saying they should stop crying victimisation?

If we want them to go tell them.
They didn't attack the businesses of the Hausas, Fulanis or Yorubas, why the igbos?

How many percent of igbos are in Osun state to determine who wins an election?

The Yorubas are bigger than this.

Enough of all this nonsense abeg!
Christianity EtcRe: Winners Chapel Refuses To Wed Couple In Akwa Ibom Over Lateness by Essien45: 2:48pm On Jul 17, 2022
I am surprised at some people's response here. Time is time.
I remember I went for a wedding in Taraba in a Living Faith Church the couple the bride who happens to be a friend came in 1 hour 35 minutes beyond schedule.
Choir sang for almost 45 minutes waiting for her then the pastor started the wedding proceeding without the bride and it was when it got to the part where they are to sign the register the bride was now rushed in.
Honestly, I just take vex travel dey go back to base. It was later I discovered it was because of a flemsy excuse that's why she came late and I overheard one of the elders complaining that they told them not to come late.

My generation should learn to keep to time.
RomanceRe: Married Women Don't Care About Condoms When They Cheat by Essien45: 12:02pm On Jul 12, 2022
Let's change the narrative;
Married man equally don't care about condoms when they cheat. After them do am raw finish, they will go still go bleep their wife not caring the veneral disease wey them carry give the innocent woman.
Heartless men!
PoliticsRe: CAN Fumes Over Tinubu’s Choice Of Running Mate by Essien45: 7:09am On Jul 11, 2022
Cyberterror:
CAN should go and sit down. Hypocrites involving themselves in politics and bitterness like pagans. If truly they are Christians, they will obey the teachings of Christ who commanded his followers to love their enemies and pray for those who persecute them. God works in mysterious ways. This Muslim Muslim ticket could very well end up favouring Christians more than people would imagine.
So MURIC too fits the same profile like CAN?
Stop pushing your luck too far!
PoliticsRe: Your Incompetence Is Nauseating: Fani-Kayode Replies DHQ by Essien45: 4:20pm On Jul 10, 2022
JBriel:
I know FFK would fire back. Although FFK spoke alot, he said absolutely nothing. Fading power
.

You said he said nothing? Hmm!
People like you are not known and your comment means nothing as far as this discuss is concerned.
Imagine FFK spoke and a whole DHQ replied him, do you know what that means?
There are people when they speak authorities listen and respond. Respect such people FFK no your mate in all ramifications.
Deal with that!!!!
Christianity EtcRe: A Church Inside An Hotel!!! by Essien45: 4:31am On Jun 27, 2022
That is the best place for it to be. In their midst not away from them.
BusinessRe: My Four Bank Accounts Restricted/frozen by Essien45: 5:53pm On May 28, 2022
Something is wrong somewhere of which the bank wants you to come to the bank then the police or EFCC will apprehend you.

And since you're sure you're not involved in any illegal activity then the police or EFCC wants to use you to apprehend someone you did transaction with.

It happened to one of my workers, so I am drawing from his experience.

So my advice is get a lawyer when going to the bank.
PoliticsRe: Philip Okwuada Slumps After Losing Primary Election In Delta by Essien45: 11:26pm On May 24, 2022
Malory:
grin grin. Imagine slumping because the people you claim you want to serve rejected you and instead choosed another person to serve them. Oga slumper, abi na by force to serve people or you slumped because of the loot you will miss? grin
Chai! You no go understand.
PoliticsRe: Deborah Samuel: Oby Ezekwesili Withdraws From NBA Event In Sokoto by Essien45: 4:37pm On May 13, 2022
Most Muslims are guilty of blasphemy in Christianity. Now let's twist some of what they have blasphemed Christianity back to Islam.

They say Jesus isn't the son of God. That's blasphemy in Christianity.
Now if we say Mohammed is not a true prophet of God, all hell will let loose.

They say the modern Bible is a corruption of the original one.
That's blasphemy in Christianity.
Now if we say the Quran is a corruption of the original one, all hell will let loose.

So if the Muslims are threatening every other religion to respect their beliefs, they too should respect the beliefs of others.

No religion is superior to the other.

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