Romance › Re: Marriage Is A Scam! by Esthered: 8:11pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
paragon10: even if he has sisters and aunts, should that in anyway stop him from saying the truth. Men are now facing reality... You women should bring value. It's no longer business as usual Wait for the value. They're bringing it. |
Pets › Re: 71-year-old Black Woman Tragically Killed By Dogs While Walking To Work by Esthered: 7:58pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
Figurine007: This comment is so much irrelevant and out of point (OTP). There's no correlation with the facts in question. Just because a 71-year-old person may not work in Nigeria, does that stop a 71-year-old Nigerian from taking a walk? It's not always necessary to comment; sometimes it's perfectly fine to just read and move on. Oga, she wasn't taking a walk. She was enroute work. I'm not saying we're lazy here but 71 years old are never employees here. |
Pets › Re: 71-year-old Black Woman Tragically Killed By Dogs While Walking To Work by Esthered: 7:57pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
frankson1: If life was that easy in the "saner clime", at 71, she should have retired and stayed home to enjoy her old age. That's what I was trying to imply in my post. |
Pets › Re: 71-year-old Black Woman Tragically Killed By Dogs While Walking To Work by Esthered: 7:20pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
Stayingalive: What are you smoking actually? Or where you trying to mention another country? Inasmuch as you don't agree with my comment, you should display maturity by engaging civilly here. If you don't understand my context, you can ask me to explain as though you were a toddler to enable you understand. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Couple Rocks 'Ghana Must Go' Bag To Mark Wedding Anniversary by Esthered: 7:16pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
Congrats to them. |
Autos › Re: ML350 For Sale 4.7m Negotiable by Esthered: 7:13pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
247VAWULENCE: Where did you steal the car from Aakandhdjjdkdkdkfjfn He said the gear is faulty which may be the reason for the low price. |
Education › Re: Secondary School Girl Goes Viral After Winning Best In Nearly All Subjects by Esthered: 7:07pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
GloriousGbola: How do you conquer the circumstanecs?
my daughter had a mock chemistry exam today. she was up till two am reading. there has been no light for over two weeks but the gen was running. everytime i called her to do a chore she reminded me she had an exam the next day.
she is doing ssce this year and i just paid for our last borns school lunch, which she normally has to prepare every morning [ this will ensure she has as few distractions as possible.
only the EXTREMELY BRILLIANT can make it if they are not in a supportive environment
my sis had two friends when she was in med school. one had a mother who was a widow. the next thing we heard was how the mother kept on harassing the girl - you must marry you must marry you must marry
after all the gra gra teh girl got married. left med school for a year or so. none of us were particularly impressed with the guy she married. on the rachet side. anyway, today my sis and her other friend are both in the US and KILLING it. the lady is a doctor is in ilorin and i guess doing okay. but i am sure if her mother had not harassed her into marrying early, she may have done so much better. I now understand your view and I can't help but agree. All the best to your daughter sir. |
Romance › Re: Marriage Is A Scam! by Esthered: 6:19pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
Do you have sisters, aunt's, does your assertion apply to them? |
Travel › Re: Lady Laments As Port Harcourt–aba Train Breaks Down In The Bush (Photos/Video) by Esthered: 6:16pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
I hope NRC is on theclist of the 91 government entities to be privatized. They can outsource the rail operations to LAMATA that handles Blue rail in Lagos as they've been effective since they started. |
Education › Re: Secondary School Girl Goes Viral After Winning Best In Nearly All Subjects by Esthered: 5:58pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
pocohantas: I think it is both. Genetics and hardwork. Tbh, female kids start off good if you take stats from primary and secondary school. It is when they start seeking man they lose focus. Mostly from/after university. You came to expose us oooo 🤣🤣🤣 I used to win awards from primary to secondary school and post university until marriage and motherhood happened and I declined and not at that level I was in the past. 😪 |
Education › Re: Secondary School Girl Goes Viral After Winning Best In Nearly All Subjects by Esthered: 5:56pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
GloriousGbola: Nature AND nurture
if you are in a society or environment or family where there is too much struggle, or too much conservatism, or too much chauvinism etc your intelligence will just die What if the person regardless of the above tries to conquer those circumstances, will the intelligence stand a chance? |
Fashion › Re: Giorgio Armani Dies At 91 by Esthered: 4:11pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
What a loss to the global fashion industry. Rest in peace titan. |
Pets › Re: 71-year-old Black Woman Tragically Killed By Dogs While Walking To Work by Esthered: 4:06pm On Sep 04, 2025 |
71 years old in Nigeria don't work. Even when they own businesses, they're asked to take the back seat and rest. |
Career › Re: I Need Career Advice by Esthered: 7:21am On Sep 04, 2025 |
portable106: I need some advice. I’m currently working with a tier 1 mfb in Nigeria, earning 210k monthly with no targets. I’ve just received an offer from a commercial bank for the position of Relationship Manager (Marketing) with a salary of 480k. I’m not sure whether to remain in my current role or accept the new offer. Sales experience in commercial banks is said to be valuable. Is it a Tier 1 or Tier 2 bank? If it's a bank that allows you move, you can explore other units after some years of marketing. An opportunity to double my income would drive me to meet those targets and get rewarded for it in bonus...... The fear of targets is your concern but it starts with the mind Start believing you can meet any target givenp to you. I was checking on my mentee who's in sales last night and her performance score for July improved significantly over 75 compared to the 50s she was at around 2nd quarter (this is someone I begged not to resign till she's confirmed). |
Education › Re: Secondary School Girl Goes Viral After Winning Best In Nearly All Subjects by Esthered: 7:07am On Sep 04, 2025 |
Uncle Acid said intelligence is more of gene than hardwork. Ediko, this is what you should be promoting. Congrats to her. |
Crime › Re: Lagos State Police Command Beefs Up Security In Lekki And Environs by Esthered: 2:40pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
How did the big man area allow cultists to infiltrate the place? |
Family › Re: My Wife Took My Child Away by Esthered: 5:46am On Sep 03, 2025 |
This post will now vindicate the Ediko guy.
It is well with you. |
Technology Market › Re: Hp 15-dw1001wm by Esthered: 4:59pm On Sep 02, 2025 |
PacNwa: Can you please remind what it was about as I can’t seem to remember Maybe it's an error from your end. |
Education › Re: 2025/2026 UNILAG Msc & Postgraduate Info Thread - All You Need To Know by Esthered: 7:34pm On Sep 01, 2025 |
NiceLegs: Postgraduate Diploma in Education (PGDE) *Partime*.
School Fees: 416,000 Naira
Masters program were more. Some paid around N500K and above. (over half a million).
Unilag Fees must be paid at once and there is always a deadline. Was the 416k for a semester or session? |
Agriculture › Re: My Journey Into Rice Farming – Lessons From My First Season �(pics And Vid) by Esthered: 4:46pm On Sep 01, 2025 |
Well done OP. Oya come and answer the plenty questions. |
Education › Re: Man Signs Out Of University Alongside His Daughter (Photos) by Esthered: 4:39pm On Sep 01, 2025 |
Savedday2: Of what use is the girl now that he has wasted his hard earn money?
Men are really going through a lot He shouldn't have trained her because she's a female. If you have a daughter, she wouldn't be educated? |
Politics › Re: 19-Year-Old Aaue Samuel Olubari Wins Councillor Seat In Rivers State (Photos) by Esthered: 1:44pm On Sep 01, 2025 |
What's her name?
Congrats to her. |
Romance › Re: My Virgin Wife Pregnant by Esthered: 4:28pm On Aug 31, 2025 |
kiddaz: What sort of crap is this? How dare you mention trust when the said woman is disobedient? So you expect a rational man to trust a disobedient wife? You're even still mentioning tolerance of who The way some of you reason is so appalling  Oga be calming down. Man of higher reasoning, happy Sunday. I have the right to air my view. State yours without talking down on me. |
Family › Re: Genuine Christian Couples Should Have A Joint Bank Account! by Esthered: 1:11pm On Aug 31, 2025 |
Not having a joint account makes them ingenuine? Joint account arr some couples undoing. Whatever works for each couple abeg. I no dey do joint account. |
NYSC › Re: Obiorah Uchenna Micheal - A Corps Member Serving In Lagos Currently Wanted by Esthered: 3:39am On Aug 31, 2025 |
Have you made a formal complaint to NYSC? He would go for monthly clearance at his LG.......you get the something. |
Politics › Re: Railway Boss Apologises To NUJ Over Alleged Intimidation Of NTA Reporter by Esthered: 3:27am On Aug 31, 2025*. Modified: 11:42am On Aug 31, 2025 |
He says he has apologized and people will say move on. Same with KWAM1, no consequence management. I can't help but think it stems from a bias of the opposite gender hence the occurrence. |
Romance › Re: She Refused His Proposal After 5 Years Together by Esthered: 7:53pm On Aug 30, 2025 |
As usual, she's the one that wasted his time as they were witnesses to the circumstances of why she said no. See as they perched like flies below the post |
Romance › Re: Practical Reasons You Shouldn't Marry an Older Lady of 35+ by Esthered: 7:48pm On Aug 30, 2025*. Modified: 3:29am On Aug 31, 2025 |
ediko5: Jeff Bezos married a licenced helicopter pilot and a seasoned journalist.
Not the ones who spend 15 years on the street doing nothing aside advertising Ankara, hand bags, wigs on social media pages deceiving themselves.
Or the ones that work in bars and hotel in order to sell her main market very well. You're saying unless she's successful, she shouldn't be considered by a man. What effort have you taken to encourage women to be successful in order to join hands in building a better society for both genders? It's none of your business right but you're willing to always denigrate the female gender at every slight opportunity. |
Education › Re: Did You Use This In Your Secondary School Days? Which Hymn Is Your Favorite? Pic by Esthered: 4:46pm On Aug 30, 2025 |
SOP Hymn 444 All things bright and beautiful |
Romance › Re: Practical Reasons You Shouldn't Marry an Older Lady of 35+ by Esthered: 2:49pm On Aug 30, 2025 |
Why didn't you tell Jeff Bezos that he made a GRAVE mistake? |
Travel › Re: Boat Tragedy Off Mauritania Claims 69 Lives, Mostly Gambians And Senegalese by Esthered: 1:59pm On Aug 30, 2025 |
May their souls rest in peace. It's quite unfortunate that they died in the pursuit of a better future. |
Crime › Re: Gentle Da Yahoo Threatens The Government, ESN And Security Agencies by Esthered: 10:54am On Aug 30, 2025 |
This is how BH and Banditry became ingrained in the North. Now the east is warming up to theirs. |