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Easyluv2live:
That's just my life story up there now am almost homeless and she has left me...

Sorry about your experience. You'll bounce back. Wishing you all the best.

flexyrule:
Unrelated to this GEN Z thread...

I kicked off my career in one of the top financial institutions. We resumed at 7:20am sharp, and you don’t close until the vault balances - technically, there was no closing time. You fit enter branch by 8pm, all man go dey face computer like the day just started.

Dress code? Non-negotiable. Strictly blue or grey suits, paired with white or blue shirts, with black shoes. Two Saturdays every month were always taken from you either for one training, Monthly Review or ATM monitoring.

The environment? Fast-paced, unpredictable, and unforgiving. One minute you’re in operations, the next you’re shipped to another department—no notice, no excuses. And you’re expected to perform like a pro in weeks.

Targets were wild: ATM cards, Internet Banking, account reactivations, deposit mobilisation, and even shares. Imagine being in operations and still having a deposit target! 😅

Truth is, I hated that job. The atmosphere was always “hot,” even with the AC blasting. But looking back, it shaped me. It was a battlefield that drilled you, stretched you, and squeezed out your best.

If you could survive there, you could survive anywhere.
If you could make it there, you could make it anywhere.

That place was tough… but it made me tougher.

I always stood out among my peers in all the other organisations that I joined afterwards. My commitment to work, passion for getting things done, dedication, dressing, my carriage, customer service skills, email/telephone etiquette, etc.

Sometimes.. It's good to start your career like a soldier!

Awoooooooooooooooooooooo!

Warrior with a blue blood spotted

Awwwnn. So amazing.
Congrats to the family. I pray that the son is safe from plane accidents throughout his career.

As much as you want to teach him a lesson, don't spend more than you lost when you know you won't recoup the money.
In summary, let go but you can call him out so that people will beware of him. I don't know if FIJ offers free services.

spencekat:
Traditional stools in Nigeria have outlived their usefulness,bro.

Maybe since they drafted into the payroll of the government.

He couldn't use his office to ask for a better process for his subjects.

Congrats to Falz. I wish them marital bliss.
Won't we still have her face on the D-Day, abi na to create suspense.....

It's quite unfortunate.

What kind of relationship did the deceased have with Mr Lecturer?

Beyond the phone call the father received, was he aware of the activities of his son?

The neighbors that heard cries every night without doing anything......they may have saved him.
I don't know why there aren't street associations anymore. It could have been escalated to the chairman of the street....

Why aren't they tracking his sponsors? Who sent him?

They gift was presented in a ceremony that costs more than the gift itself

folake4u:
The equation even balance for here as both are single parents.

Okay. They're doing well.

Karleb:
The Dubai princess is worth a million women that are not single mothers.

No be una again
Double standards

Those ones that opens a thread saying men should avoid single mothers, what do you have to say.

ednut1:
its happening on dating apps. My female friend showed me two examples of men in their 40s claiming 30s on dating app. Dey play

Does it have to do with increasing their chances in the dating pool? I'm surprised as I grew learning that men never age in the dating scene and have the upper hand therefore set the rules most times.

It's just so unfortunate and Universities have been given a deadline for admission process.

The highly desired gender lower their age for who....
Abi Agba wants an engagement on X

There's no empirical evidence to back up your claim.

He wanted to unleash his anger by flogging her and he succeeded and now a widower.
Alpha meils that say a man must CONTROL his wife to exert his authority of his home, I hope this is commendable to you.

If he were to be an employer of labor, he would have been a bad boss.
I feel for the children she left behind.

Openair:
Upon delivery ke..what if the child isn't his, who'll refund ??

He's the one doubting the paternity of the child so he has to spend to clear his doubt.

Xso666:
I really didn’t prepare for something like this and that’s why I am pained honestly

You're thinking the worst and that's the only advice I can give as your mind is fixed.

Xso666:
I never said I didn’t trust my wife if it was her previous act that brought about all of this if you check my previous post you will see what I caught her doing and that’s what prompted all of this

Save up for a paternity test upon delivery. Congratulations in advance.

Xso666:
Thanks for your contribution but I was adviced on this forum not to involve our parents here and I followed that and now this is happening and I am lost and don’t know what to do at this point

Did you ask an experienced person to help you calculate before making these assumptions?
You didn't say if the messages you saw on her phone showed evidences of her cheating. She only disobeyed you and was still chatting with the person.
The foundation of marriage is trust and if it's not there, it can rarely stand firm and even if it does it's because one party is still tolerating the other person till they've had enough to leave.

correctyourself:
That lady has been hobnobbing with that guy according to the husband, and lying to her husband, let him involve their parents and the question you raised here would be asked and they know what to do, he can;t handle the matter alone, it started like play, but look at what the man is saying today because somethings ways over-looked.

I agree that he complained about her but then let him calm down and calculate correctly, work back to their last encounter....before making assumptions that may destroy the marriage.

Did you calculate well as pregnancy is calculated based on Last Menstrual Period (LMP)?
Please calm down and ensure that you're calculating well before accusing her of infidelity.

femi4:
You have to be gifted like Mr eazi or brilliant like Wole Soyinka to stand a chance

Mr Eazi's isn't from a poor background. His father is a big shot in the Aviation industry. Is schooling in Ghana for the poor?

May God comfort her family.

I opened a thread lamenting about th3 poor emergency response in Lagos as anyone can be a victim.

The marine police ought to have divers in their team or on contract basis.

For the people that always come out to demean women at every slight opportunity, I hope you see that she was a budding entrepreneur who died in the line of duty. May her gentle soul rest in peace.

I hope the passengers are safe before kidnapped would strike.

It's the lack of emotional intelligence when some people comment on social media for me.

Child rape.

I always ask what the man thinks when he touches a girl child and she's screaming....the conception of the thought of deriving sexual satisfaction is what I can't wrap my head around.

Are the enablers of Omo oniles not the Baale?
There have to be someone with power that embolden them.

My people still believe in this and when my mom starts, the way I shut the conversation down ehn.....they tell me I should better take precaution...

We lost a relative son to kidney disease and the mum thought it's from witchcraft and spent huge sums on abia ibok as it is called instead of seeking the standard medical care.