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Chai! My wonderful country people. Crossriverian who reside in the state, all have an answer to question 47.

DamnnNiggarr:
do you know its food?

Yes. Get a corn grate it just a little and give it once a day also get a fresh cassava small grate and give to it (small quantity). But please give it glucose the fifty Naira sachet just one tea spoon. If you can take care of it, you will love it and at the same time it will attract it kind to be coming to where you kept it.

It an African dove. I love this bird

I fall for them by wasting my my money in calling them. It was when they demand for me to send them money to buy black and red candle turtle dove, then my eye clear

ezenwaez:
Exercise Patience

That has been done. Check your darsh board

ibechris:
The best bank in Nigeria is standard chartered and zenith Bank but funny enough,I don't use standard chartered bank but Zenith.

Thanks

chatinent:
Who Should We Blame: Chrisland, The Parents, The Girl Or Society?


Who should we blame?

Before una blame, ask yourself, is there any content maker or skit maker in Nigeria, so- called comedians, that you can feel relaxed watching their content with your kids? Mr Marcaroni? Sydney? NastyBlaq? Even BrainJotter has given kids new slangs: “you no get yansh.”

They all promote sex! It's always been sex! Sex! Sex! And guess what? We find nothing wrong with it!

And so?
That's why children are experimenting! They watch everything you watch! In Nollywood, if it's not teaching the use of cult language, it's getting rich quickly, or sex! In music, it's sex and leaked tapes! They have all these at their disposal in a smartphone.

^{There's one movie..I think Selina Tested blabla...what's the usefulness of that movie in society? And to say it has millions watching it baffles me! The movie clearly promotes cultism!}

Both in Hollywood, it's either magic, being possessed by a superhero witchy trait, having a bad side, living a double life, shooting, or sex! And many children have watched some movies before you!

What else?!

Talking about Chrisland, let's not pretend we don't know these are happening around us. In many schools, porn and leaked tapes are in gigabytes on their phones. Our music is rotten. Celebrities with a loose sense of fashion. The world is breeding a new era of what you parents failed to prevent! And that's why when you talk of a girls-only school in Nigeria, you think of lesbianism. Because it's true! They do it at whim! A girls-only school in Nigeria has male staff members and some of them use them! You see lots of abortion pills and all that from secondarians! Secondarians!

Children are having sex even under your roof! Don't scream God forbid! It is! Some are part-time prostitutes! Yes, some are!

Back to Chrisland...
Just like every other schools in Nigeria, their best is not enough! The I-dont-care life of teachers is becoming unbecoming and that's why these events occur at whim! Stricter measures must be taken and members of the opposite sex should never be allowed in private areas! Even in public areas, there must be in groups!


Should Chrisland be locked down?

Why?

Inasmuch as Chrisland should be very careful while mixing both genders and putting more measures, it's also the responsibility of parents to train a child properly and guide what they consume morally.

Was it really coverup? Even if it was, Child porn should never be a breaking news! Chrisland took action by suspending the culprits! I understand Chrisland has been in some old mess of late but, haba, judge cases individually. Chrisland is sb’s business and schools have ethics. You wanted them to publish the news? News of child porn?

To stain the image of the school?
The parents?
The girl?

They tried to leverage those!
They tried to die the matter even though it was a serious one!

They tried to allow the matter die in the school!

Do you know the reputation of the little girl in the video now, and in the future after you folks linked and shared the video!
That's what Chrisland were protecting!

Do you know?

Omotola’s daughter is a product of Chrisland. Of course, we saw her wearing panties and bras recently. She's a role model. Tueh! What are the adults teaching the children? That big bombom is an asset! That breast is a green card! That sex is the redpill!

There are few reasonable people in the entertainment industry! Others promote sex!
But don't they say majority wins the vote?
Nude has been given a new name: Bikini. Posting adult content and rubbish is now called “cruise.” Walking naked is now called sexy.

The internet is saturated with diff formats of pornographers. If it's not useless Ruger singing “i want to fxxck your pu pu na,” it's that old layer Tiwa exposing her nude, or that agbero is jeans Oxlade.

But they'll come out and be shouting “lockdown Chrisland, lockdown Chrisland.”

Hanty, before they lockdown Chrisland, y'all should learn to put your panties inside clothes! Na y'all idiots dey spoil pikin.

The parents?
Make una train una children properly! You allow them consume enough pornography! Music, movies in the right proportion and content is good. Music and movies with any sexual activity is bad for them!

The parents of the girl should stop forcing the rape allegations, my opinion tho. The video clearly showed a girl and some group of boys having consensual carnal knowledge. I know it's a big shame to them but white should never be painted black! Your daughter is a mess.

Most parents don't even know their tech devices have parental control. Yes, you can control their phones, the satellite and everything! Some countries force parental control policies. YouTube has YouTube for kids. DSTV and other satellites have parental control measures. Even an android phone! What excuse do you have now! You exposed them!

PS: I don't share child porn and I will never share any video so don't bother sending the mails. Thanks.

Small pikin of 10 years wey get android cannot learn anything from Naija celebrities. Just take a look at the body of a ten year old! How on earth does a ten year old have breasts! That means no bi today she start. Ten years old with experience! She should be flogged mercilessly! Shame on her!

The kids?
Shame on those kids!
Most kids too are too corrupt to be corrected!


Tbh, y'all—the parents, the kids, society—failed in making society conducive!

And to all those people here playing police against those who want to watch the Chrisland video and saying they are reporting them, if dem no watch am, how dem wan take judge? You watch your own come dey yarn okoto. Instead of being overly protective—typical of Nigerians only when a bad omen occues, kindly warn against sharing it since it's Child Porn! The video is everywhere!

Tackle the mosquito not always the malaria!

I will not totally agree with the op because this activities is carried out daily in different schools. It easily and commonly take place in within the school environ. Because there the children do what they like; in my state one among the best school with superp and eye cashing school bus encourage corruption and children in that school ara always with hard drinks both boys and girls.
Now recently before the closure of schools I came across a case where two primary 4 children age 10/11 in a private school who have been having s*x for a year without the teachers knowledge in the school toilet.
The duo when question said they learn from their friends at home who thought them how to carry out the act.
Let me stop here it hurt.

Please house, which bank is the best in terms of opening a corporate account?

Bros I don laugh tire. You are desperate yet your mouth and thought no show say you are desperate.
You know why? Because you get family support.

Every day

membranus:
The Interview

By Bayo Adeyinka

March 15, 2022

Each time I conduct interviews, I usually end up shaking my head and lamenting about the state of education in Nigeria. Our tertiary institutions are churning out graduates who are mainly unemployable. Earlier today, I interviewed almost 50 candidates and by the end of the whole session, the only conclusion I could arrive at was that we have a BIG problem.

In one particular instance, I was alarmed when I read the CV of a particular female graduate of one of the Universities in the South West. It was full of outlandish errors and so I asked her to spell a few words. She spelt the word 'redeemed' wrongly four times before she got it right the fifth time. On her CV, she described herself as one of the officials of the church fellowship when she was an undergraduate but she wrote the name of the church wrongly. She couldn't spell the word 'corper' despite trying more than five times. Yet, during her national service, she taught pupils at a school. I underlined about 10 grammatical errors on her CV and showed them to her. She couldn't even determine where to use apostrophe s.

A particular candidate couldn't speak a whole sentence without committing serious blunders. Even when I repeated those errors while thinking he would correct himself, he repeated the blunders again. Another candidate found it difficult explaining what he studied in school. Some have not developed themselves in any way since they graduated. I had to spend some time to talk to a lady who had her Ordinary National Diploma fifteen years ago but had not done anything to improve herself since then. When she mentioned the issue of paucity of funds, I pointed at her designer bag and her well braided hair as evidence that fund was not the problem.

I asked a female candidate what her aspirations were if money was not a restraining factor. Her answer left all of us on the interview panel with mouths wide open. "I want to live large and live big", she told us. One of the candidates told us he studied 'BSc Economics'. He made the mistake thrice until I corrected him that he studied Economics and not BSc Economics. A fellow was asked to introduce himself and he started with 'My names are...'. I asked him how many people he's introducing. Even when I tried to correct him, he insisted he was correct so I gave up on him.

On one occasion, I asked a female candidate what her husband does. She replied, 'I'm sorry but he's a driver'. I asked her why she was sorry about the legitimate job that her husband does. I told her that the job of her husband does not define who he is. His job is simply a job. I told her I also drove a cab before. I spent the longest time with her as I wanted her mind to be disinfected of the low self-esteem she seemed to carry. I played the video of Femi Ogedengbe, the Nollywood actor turned security guard in the United States and encouraged her to be proud of her husband. Interestingly, the husband is a graduate and I've asked her to give me her husband's CV. She almost broke down in tears when I told her I'd rather hire her husband than her. She knelt and apologized before she left my office.

A few guys had the labels of their suit on their sleeves- at least three of them that I recall. When I asked why the labels were not removed, they grinned sheepishly. One of them told me that is the current trend. When that same guy sat down, I observed that he wore ankle socks with a significant part of his legs showing bare skin. One candidate was particularly striking for his naivety. He came in shaking and stammered while introducing himself. He could barely string a sentence together. When I tried to make him comfortable by asking him to take a deep breath, he answered by saying, "I don't know why I'm like this today. This is actually my first interview". He just finished his national service and anxiety was written all over him.

I made two major observations during the interview session today:

1. Candidates who engaged in extracurricular activities while in school turned out better. There was a lady who was a member of SIFE- Students In Free Enterprise- while she was on campus and she was one of the bright spots. There was another fellow that represented his University at a competition outside Nigeria. He was also outstanding. Likewise, a lady who was Vice President of her Students Union while she was an undergraduate. She demonstrated so much confidence during the interview.

2. Candidates that went to private universities performed better generally. There must be something the private universities are getting right as their graduates communicated better. They demonstrated a far more superior level of intelligence. I was disappointed by the performance of most graduates of mainstream universities and polytechnics. One could almost guess whether a candidate attended a private university just by listening to them.

If you're preparing for an interview, it's in your best interest to do some research about the company you want to work with if you know the company. Google is your friend. Work on your communication skills. You should be able to talk about yourself very clearly and also describe what you have done before-if you're an experienced hire. Your body language is critical- no fidgeting and no show of anxiety. All of us have butterflies in our stomach when we face strange people on an interview panel but with a smile on your face, no one will ever know. A lady cracked her knuckles throughout the interview today. It's very irritating but also shows she was nervous. Your posture is important. Dont slouch on the chair. Sit straight with your back on the chair and your legs together.

Mind your language while being interviewed. It's better to be brief than to be unnecessarily verbose. By talking too much at times, you demonstrate that you know so little. Pronounce words well. It can take some practice but stand in front of a mirror and rehearse until you get better. Be ready to defend your certificate. Demonstrate that you actually earned your degree. Maintain eye contacts. That shows your level of confidence. Good grooming is key to your success. No matter the current fad, it's safer to be conservative in your dressing. Dark coloured suits are best for interviews. Stay with white or blue shirts for men. You can never go wrong with them. You must have a great sense of colour to want to try very bright colours. It's either it turns out so good or you turn out like a magician's apprentice. Ladies have the latitude to try out more colours but the simpler, the better. Pay attention to your hair and hand bag. Synchronize your colours properly. Avoid loud jewelleries. Look your best as the book is often judged by the cover during interviews. Your appearance is what we see first before we hear what you have to say.

We need to declare a state of emergency in our education sector and even start to teach intending graduates certain life skills. Nigerian graduates will not be able to compete with their African counterparts in a few years at this rate.

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From my experience it not about school that any person attended; it all about "individual". self development plays a major role.
Imagine someone will tell you i have spend four, five, and eight years in school, why do i have to attend any other advance modern course.
Our youth want to follow the trend but in the aspect of intellectual development they are far away.

Good morning!

1. Governor Nasir El-Rufai of Kaduna State has said President Muhammadu Buhari instructed Governor Abubakar Bello of Niger State to take over the leadership of the All Progressives Congress, APC. In an interview yesterday, El-Rufai said, Governor Mai Mala Buni of Yobe State cannot return as the Chairman of the Caretaker Committee of the Party.

2. The Senate, on Wednesday, rejected a bill by President Muhammadu Buhari, seeking the amendment of Section 84 (12) of the Electoral Act. Section 84 (12), which prevents political office holders from contesting for election from the party primary level without resigning.

3. Some soldiers have lost their lives in a gun duel with bandits in Zuru emirate of Kebbi State. The Kebbi State Government revealed this when the Minister of Foreign Affairs, Geoffrey Onyeama, visited Birnin Kebbi, the State capital, on Wednesday.

4. Some Nigerian students in Russia have lamented the effect of sanctions imposed by Russia. Following the invasion of Ukraine on the orders of President Valdimir Putin, many Western nations slammed sanctions on Russia. In an interview yesterday, Yahya Usman YZ, president of Nigerian students in Russia, said the sanctions have started taking toll on them.

5. The Federal Executive Council (FEC) has approved a memo banning foreigners or their agents from purchasing agricultural commodities at farm gates across the country. Minister of Industry, Trade and Investment, Niyi Adebayo stated this when he briefed State House correspondents on the outcome of the Council meeting, presided over by Vice-President Yemi Osinbajo, on Wednesday.

6. India has surpassed Nigeria as the nation with the highest number of extremely poor people. The World Poverty Clock, WPC, said this in its recent update, considering the COVID-19 pandemic economic effect.

7. The Nigeria Customs Service (NCS), Kebbi State Area Command, has impounded an articulated vehicle (trailer) loaded with donkey skin worth more than N42 million. Addressing newsmen on Wednesday at the headquarters of the command in Birnin Kebbi, the Command’s Comptroller, Mr Joseph Attah, described the act as illegal.

8. The Inspector-General of Police, IGP Usman Alkali Baba, with other members of the Force Management Team, on Wednesday, March 9, 2022, paid a condolence visit to the widow and family of the late DIG Joseph Obiajulu Egbunike, at their Abuja residence.

9. Taraba State police command has confirmed the death of one person after hoodlums clashed with operatives of the National Drugs Law Enforcement Agency, NDLEA, in Taraba State. Spokesman of the State Police command, DSP Abdullahi Usman, spoke to Vanguard via telephone.

10. A retired Deputy Inspector General of Police, Parry Osayande, has faulted the approval of hijab for female police officers by the Inspector General of Police, Usman Baba. Osayende, at a press conference in Benin, Edo State on Wednesday, described the newly-approved dress code for female police officers in the country as illegal and unconstitutional


Have a blessed day and a fruitful Lent

madridguy:
If not the wicked and heartless leaders we have, I don't see any reason married women should be working.
Women are home maker, they are to be at home looking after the kids.

Women are no longer staying at home again due to the harsh economy and the results is what we are seeing in our society of today.

If the unfortunate events happen and the man could not help the family again na?

madridguy:
If not the wicked and heartless leaders we have, I don't see any reason married women should be working.
Women are home maker, they are to be at home looking after the kids.

Women are no longer staying at home again due to the harsh economy and the results is what we are seeing in our society of today.

If the unfortunate events happen and the man could not help the family again na?

It's a big lie. It does not work

Good afternoon! Here is today’s summary from Nigerian Newspapers:

1. The Nigeria Football Federation, NFF, on Monday, announced the appointment of coaches for the senior national team. The national football administrative body retained Austin Eguavoen as the coach of the Super Eagles.

2. At least 44 persons have been killed by gunmen suspected to be Boko Haram in parts of Shiroro and Munya LG Areas of Niger State in renewed attacks on the areas. In an attack on Galadinma Kolgo, Erena, Chukuba, and Allawa in Shiroro LGA on Saturday, the gunmen allegedly killed 27 persons, mostly women and children and also kidnapped 31 persons.

3. The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) in Zamfara State has endorsed the presidential ambition of Sokoto State Governor, Aminu Tambuwal. The exco led by Col. Bala Mande (rtd.), noted that since “Sokoto PDP and Zamfara PDP are one”, Tambuwal is their preference.

4. Despite the rumoured presidential ambition of Bauchi State Governor, Bala Abdulkadir Mohammed, about 500 Muslim clerics drawn from the 20 local government areas of the State have chosen to pray for Kogi State Governor, Yahaya Bello’s ambition.

5. Vice President Yemi Osinbajo has debunked news of his purported plan to announce his presidential bid ahead of the 2023 elections after the All Progressives Congress, APC, convention. Osinbajo through his spokesman, Laolu Akande, clarified via his Twitter handle that the report making the rounds that the VP would declare soon is false and speculative snippets.

6. The police in Lagos, on Friday, arraigned a 25-year old man, Haruna Jimoh, for allegedly abducting a 12-year-old girl and turning her into a sex slave. The accused is currently standing trial at the Ogba Chief Magistrates’ Court, Lagos, charged with abduction and rape.

7. Governor Nyesom Wike of Rivers State has said the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) must take over power because Nigeria is bleeding. Wike, who spoke in Kaduna when he visited former Chairman of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), Senator Ahmed Mohammed Makarfi, called on members of the party to unite ahead of 2023.

8. A magistrate’s court sitting at Mallam Aminu Kano International Airport in Kano has sentenced Kannywood actress, Sadiya Haruna, to six months in prison without an option of fine. She was arraigned before the court on charges of defaming her ex-boyfriend and singer, Isa A. Isa.

9. The Academic Staff Union of Universities, ASUU, has said its members in universities across the country will embark on another strike soon if the Federal Government fails to implement the Memorandum of Action it signed with the union last year. The union urged the general public to hold the government responsible if the public universities are shut down.

10. The Parish Priest of Holy Trinity Catholic Church, Ewu-Owa Gberigbe in Ikorodu, Lagos, Rev. Fr. James Anelu, has been “suspended” for banning Igbo songs and choruses in his parish. The Catholic Archdiocese of Lagos, Alfred Martins, in a “disclaimer”, directed the priest to proceed on “an indefinite leave of absence”.


Have a wonderful day

Focus on the attitude, character and attribute of the lady and not on Religious organization painting the picture of the organization is uncalled-for. We talk about Hausa, Yoruba, Igbo, Efik etc; we are all one but our behavior make's us a different being.

Good Day! Here is today’s summary from Nigerian Newspapers:

1. Nigerians have been urged to take President Muhammadu Buhari’s pledge to hand over a diversified, home grown economy, and a revamped Armed Forces to the next administration as an article of faith. According to the Buhari Media Organisation, in a statement signed by its Chairman Niyi Akinsiju and the Secretary, Cassidy Madueke, there are already signs that the Buhari administration would leave the country better than it met it.

2. A leader of the Civilian Joint Task Force (CJTF) in Borno State has died from an explosion suspected to have been triggered by mines planted by Boko Haram insurgents. Five other persons sustained injuries in the incident which happened in Biu Local Government Area of Borno.

3. Three suspected kidnappers have been shot dead by security operatives comprising the police, military and vigilantes at Okwo road, Ehor community, in the Uhunmwode Local Government Area of Edo State.

4. The Federal Government is currently making efforts to obtain loans from Europe following the delay being experienced in China. Loans from China have been deployed in the rail infrastructure, regarded as one of the major achievements of the current administration.

5. Governor Dapo Abiodun of Ogun State, on Wednesday, said criminals have threatened to go after him, following the anti-crime battle of his government. The governor, while speaking yesterday, in Abeokuta, hinted that the hoodlums are feeling the heat of the newly relaunched security outfit.

6. Senate President Ahmad Lawan has charged the military to “wake up” and protect Nigerians. He gave the charge after one of his colleagues raised a motion on the urgent need for drastic actions to bring to an end banditry and kidnapping.

7. The Deputy National Publicity Secretary of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), Ibrahim Abdullahi has said the six geo-political zones of the country will be given equal opportunity to seek the party’s ticket for the 2023 Presidential election.

8. Nigeria’s four major aviation unions, on Wednesday, vowed to ground activities in the sector from Tuesday, February 8, 2022, over the failure of the Federal Government to release the negotiated conditions of service of aviation agencies since 2013 and the non-implementation of the National Minimum Wage/consequential adjustment since 2019.

9. Hoodlums have beheaded a retired policeman in Ages, Oguta Local Government Area of Imo State, Chris Kpatuma. It was gathered that the retired cop was killed on Tuesday. While the reason for his murder had not been ascertained, fear has gripped the residents of the area.

10. A fire, which spread from a burning bush, has consumed six rooms in a storey-building at Olagunju Estate, Offa in Offa Local Government Area of Kwara State. The incident, according to the State Fire Service, occurred on Monday night when an undergrowth fire from a nearby bush spread to the abandoned building which was formerly used as railway quarters in the estate.



Have a blessed day!

*INEC RELEASES CALENDAR FOR CAMPAIGNS OVER 2023 PRESIDENTIAL AND GUBERNITORIAL ELECTIONS*

The National Independent Electoral Commission, INEC – have released calendar and political itinerary in 2022 in Nigeria.

The calendar is consists of political activities bordering the 2023 presidential and gubernatorial elections in the country.

According to the calendar released by the INEC, starting from March 2022 the commission will give guidelines to the respective parties to conduct primary election that will birth flag bearers.

The calendar made it clear that by April 2022, campaign for presidential and gubernatorial elections will kick off, whereby, May 2022, there will be party Congresses across Nigeria.

Fast forward to February 2023, when the presidential election will officially be conducted.

Check out the calendar below

1. Consultation continues January: 1-31

2. Intensive consultation continues February: 1-28

3. March: INEC gives guideline for aspirants, candidates, parties in respect of congress, primary election and campaign.

4. April: Campaign for Presidential and Gubernatorial elections.

5. May: Party Congresses.

6. June: Party Primary Elections.

7. July: Petitions on Primary elections.

8. August: Court of Appeal hearing on Primary elections conducted.

9. September: Supreme Court verdict on all Primary elections. Candidates & winners for Presidential & Gubernatorial flag bearer of Parties contesting.

10. October: Aggressive campaign by candidates/Parties across the federation.

11. November: Campaign continues.

12. December: Peace Accord signed by all presidential and Gubernatorial candidates.

13. February 2023: Presidential and National Assembly elections

14. March 2023: Gubernatorial and State Assembly elections.

15. Plan your Calendar for 2022 with this on your mind. Cheers.

Yam is not that expensive it may be because of your location in Benue 13 tuber of yam goes 3k while in C.R.S specifically Ogoja a large yam goes for 500

Iam very sure you sip garri with ogogoro, before you could do this!

TRAGEDY struck again at the Cross River Police Command, when the riffle of a policeman, Sergeant Ubi Arikpo, accidentally went off and killed his colleague, Sergeant Francis Agube

A police source at the Atakpa Police Station in Calabar South narrated that the incident took place in front of the station, while the pick-up van carrying the team of policemen on patrol was passing through the gate of the station.
On the accidental discahrge, the source said: “The team was from the State CID unit at the Police headquarters on Diamond Hill.
“They were on patrol duty and they were passing through this road (Calabar Road, Watt Market).

“They were driving from Effigy Roundabout, towards the station. When they got in front of the station Sergeant Ubi wanted to adjust his gun.
“It discharged accidentally and shot Sergeant Agube, who was sitting directly opposite him,” he narrated.

The shot
According to our source, the shot hit Agube right on his neck shattering his gullet and face, killing him on the spot.
“That spot where they covered with sand on the road in front of the station was where Agube was pulled to the ground from the van by the impact of the shot,” he added.

Another source at the Command headquarters said Agube was from Abi Local Government Area, while Arikpo who shot him is from Yakkur Local Government Area.
“Both of them are from Cross River State. Arikpo has been arrested and is on detention here at the headquarters, while Agube’s body is in the mortuary,” he added.

Ms Irene Ugbo, the Cross River Police Command spokesman, when contacted did not provide much information other than.

“The tragedy is being investigated to unravel the cause,” Ugbo said.

Police will collect money from you without doing anything. There is no such act in police law. I will advice you not to hasten to the new guy but be subtle and mild with the guy you took the covenant with. Play the role of Delilah in the story of Sampson till you can easily get attention to resolve it. Thank you

Uncle your marriage is at the edge of crashing with suspicion. Becareful so you will not hook up with regret.
And he said, “‘This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.’ 6 Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.” Mathew 19:5,6. NLT please ponder over this. Thank you

ezenwaez:
The
Payment is still ongoing, November and December stipend will be paid subsequently, on or before the second week.

Good morning Mazi Eze, please second week of WHAT?

The truth of the matter is it's from your upbringing and the environment you were brought up from.

Chai

DenreleDave:
Previous thread

https://www.nairaland.com/6919425/wife-poisoned-mother-salt


Update on January 2

My brother it's so sympathetic, please be strong and allow God to be your refuge

Osiki18:
Good evening guys please I need your advice. He called me last night to say he is no longer interested and that he doesn't want tie me down plus he is being considerate about the future. I have strong feelings for him and I have not felt this way towards any man. Please I need advice because I am finding it difficult to just let him go.

Please i have a questions for you:
1. I hope you are not doing anything, trying to show an indication of marriage when he is not yet ready?
2. How do you treat him, do you show concern for what he place his priorities on.
3. In what little effort and kindness do you support in any of his goals.
Thank you meditate on this first.