₦airaland Forum

Long ago in Ukwa Eburutu, a village in Odukpani Local Government Area of Cross River State, Nigeria, people lived in perfect harmony. Sixty years back, everyone was like family. They farmed together, leaving their doors open because they trusted each other completely. Everything was shared; no one was left out because of who they were or what they had. If anyone disagreed, they talked it out, making sure everyone was happy with the solution.

This unity made them strong. When neighboring villages tried to take their land or start fights, the people of Ukwa Eburutu stood together. Their love for each other was like a shield, and they often found peace instead of war.

But then, things started to change. As people learned more about the world outside, got educated, and saw new ways of living, the old ways began to fade. Now, people locked their doors, not because of strangers, but because they didn't trust each other like before. The village wasn't as close as it used to be.

Today, even though we know so much more, it's hard to live like our grandparents did. But some young people in Ukwa Eburutu care deeply about their home. They're working hard to bring back that feeling of peace and togetherness.

Thanks to modern technology, people from Ukwa Eburutu, even those who live far away, can talk to each other easily. They use phones and the internet to check on each other, share stories, and help out when someone is in trouble. If someone from Ukwa needs help, there's always someone ready to lend a hand, just like in the old days.

It's not easy to go back to how things were, but with love, care, and the new tools we have, the youth of Ukwa Eburutu are trying their best to stitch their community back together, hoping to see a day when the village feels like one big, loving family again.

Ayaya Inuen Ayaya

In Cross River State, in a place called Odukpani, there's a village named Ukwa Eburutu. It has a lot of history and culture. But the stories told to kids today are not about how great it is. Instead, parents tell scary stories saying Ukwa Eburutu is full of bad people. This makes everyone feel divided and scared.

Think about kids learning that their home is a bad place. How can they grow up loving their village when they're taught to fear it? Parents should teach wisdom and happiness, but they're teaching fear. They tell everyone that all people from Ukwa Eburutu are bad, not caring about who they really are. This makes the village cold and unfriendly.

Why don't we talk about the good things? Ukwa Eburutu has stories of brave people, times when everyone helped each other, and fun celebrations. But we only hear about the bad stuff, making the good stories seem small.

This has caused problems. People in the village know each other, have eaten together, and danced together, but now they're suspicious. They pretend not to know their neighbors because of these scary stories. Love has turned cold, and trust is broken.

But some people still love and respect Ukwa Eburutu's culture. They're called "local champions," but they're really the keepers of our traditions. One of them is Okon Uyo from Ewen village. He shows everyone the true beauty of our culture. He's like a light showing what Ukwa Eburutu really is - not a bad place, but a lively, proud community.

It's time for a change. We need to start telling good stories about Ukwa Eburutu. Instead of looking at the dark, let's shine a light on the good. Let's tell our kids about how our ancestors built this place with love and strength. Let's share the joy of our festivals, dances, and songs.

Our kids should know the real Ukwa Eburutu, where people are known for being good, not bad. They should learn about respect, community, and kindness from our past, not about fear and lies.

By doing this, we can bring love back to our village. We'll see each other as friends and family, not as the bad stories say. We'll dream together and make Ukwa Eburutu a place where kids are proud to be from.

We shouldn't let lies divide us. Let's tell a new story about unity, where everyone feels part of Ukwa Eburutu. This change starts with us - parents, elders, and young people - telling the truth instead of the dark tales.

Imagine a Ukwa Eburutu where young people can't wait to learn about their culture, where they're proud to say they're from here. Imagine a place where visitors come because they're amazed by our stories of love, unity, and cultural richness.

Let’s make our village known for love and pride, not fear. "May Almighty God bless Okon Uyo from Ewen village" because he shows us what we can achieve by focusing on the positive in our culture.

This is our call to action, written by Ayaya Inuen Ayaya, to everyone in Ukwa Eburutu: Let's change our story into one of pride and joy, not fear. Let's make Ukwa Eburutu a village where love and unity live every day.

Kayi App to unveil era of banking without limits

Kayi App, a secure and innovative pan-African Digital Payment Platform, today announced it has obtained necessary regulatory approvals to launch in Nigeria to accelerate access to financial inclusion by individuals and businesses in the country and beyond through secure, seamless and hassle-free transactions.

As an innovative fintech product, Kayi App was born out of a vision to revolutionise the financial services landscape in Africa to fulfil the need for accessible, secure and customer-centred financial services that cater to the unique needs of Nigerians and Africans at large.

“We are excited to introduce our innovative fintech product, Kayi App, to the Nigerian market. With our dedicated and young team of innovative and creative Nigerians drawn from across the world, we have worked tirelessly to develop a suite of fintech solutions that will make financial transactions simpler, faster, secure and more convenient for everyone,” Says Alhaji Saadina Dantata


L-R: Promoter of KayiApp, Alh. Saadina Dantata; Managing Director, KMC MFB, Alh. Yunusa Muhammad; Minister of Communications, Innovation and Digital Economy, Dr. Bosun Tijani and Director-General, National Information Technology Development Agency, Kashifu Abdullah, during the unveiling of KayiApp, a new digital platform for secure financial transactions, at the Transcorp Hilton Hotel, Abuja on Thursday (September 28, 2023)
Dantata said “The Kayi App aims to empower Africans with the tools and knowledge to take control of their financial future. He also expressed gratitude to the Honorable ministers and Director Generals present at the Kayi App launch. “I envision a continent where every individual and business can thrive financially, regardless of their location or income level.” as he closed off.

Speaking on market opportunity that informed Kayi Apps introduction, its Product lead, Abdulganiyu Rufa’i said the African fintech market is brimming with opportunities and that Kayi App is poised to make a significant impact.

“With vast majority of Africans unbanked and underbanked, we are confident in our ability to meet the growing demand for digital financial services across Africa. Having recognised unmet needs in the country’s payment digital industry, therefore, Kayi App is poised to showcase strength in delivering core services and solutions such as instant digital payments for individuals and businesses; financial inclusion and social banking for people in rural and semi-urban areas; blockchain-backed cross- border trade for exporters and importers across Africa; and remittances and investments for Nigerians and Africans in Diaspora,” says Rufa’i.

Speaking on the key factors that stand Kayi App out in the mobile payments sector, the technology team of the Kayi App headed by Chukwunonimem Ike, said, “What truly distinguishes the Kayi App is our unwavering commitment to relentless innovation and a customer-centric approach that places YOU at the forefront. We recognize the distinctive challenges faced by individuals across Africa, and it’s precisely these challenges that have inspired us to craft solutions that confront them head- on.

“Our user-friendly super app, cutting-edge security features, field support staff in every ward in Nigeria and 24/7 customer support are just a few examples of how we’re putting our customers first,” Ike said. “Even when there is a need for customers to communicate with the Kayi team, all you need is to dial our toll-free number 0800-000-KAYI, which is 0800-000-5294, and our customer satisfaction team will answer instantly, in your preferred language.”

Kayi App will be officially launched soon to provide secure and innovative payments services to individuals and businesses in the African market. The launch event is being designed to be a celebration of innovation and unveiling of the era of banking without limits.

Stay tuned for more details in the coming days by visiting www.kayi.ng or our social media handles on Facebook, Instagram, X and YouTube on @mykayiapp while Linkedin is at linkedin.com/company/mykayiapp.

*BREAKING NEWS*

The new ‘Strategic Agenda for the Naira’ was announced by the Central Bank of Nigeria, generating a healthy national debate. Before we undertake a nationwide enlightenment program (beginning November 2) to educate the public on the new policy, it is important to clarify some of the issues/questions that are emerging.

Needless to emphasize that to appreciate the full impact of the new policy on the Naira/national economy, we need to take the 4-point agenda as a package. As a package, the new agenda will:

better anchor inflation expectations,
strengthen public confidence in the Naira,
make for easier conversion to other major currencies,
reverse tendency for currency substitution,
eliminate higher denomination notes with lower purchasing power,
reduce the cost of production, distribution, and processing of currency,
promote the usage of coins and thus a more efficient pricing and payments system,
promote the availability of cleaner notes,
deepen the Forex market,
ensure more effective liquidity management and monetary policy,
convertibility of the Naira and hence greater confidence in the national economy and lead to greater inflow of foreign investment
position the Naira to become the ‘Reference currency’ in Africa.
However, most of the questions so far pertain to only one aspect of the agenda, i.e., currency Re-denomination. We have monitored the reactions so far, and note that the concerns/questions raised so far are similar to the ones raised in all the countries that have undertaken re-denomination, including Ghana that is still implementing it now. We clarify some of the concerns as follows:

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧?
Currency redenomination is the process where a new unit of money replaces the old unit with a certain ratio. It is achieved by removing zeros from a currency or moving some decimal points to the left, with the aim of correcting perceived misalignment in the currency and pricing structure, and enhancing the credibility of the local currency.

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐍𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐚 𝐛𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝?

It is by dropping two zeros from the currency or moving two decimal places to the left. The name of the national currency will still be the Naira. However, during the transition period, the existing Naira will be referred to as the “Old Naira”, and the new one to be called the “New Naira”. After the transition period, the word “New” may be dropped. For example, the following equivalents will obtain as we re-denominate:

𝐎𝐥𝐝 𝐍𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐚
(𝐢.𝐞, 𝐄𝐱𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐍𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐚 𝐚𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲)
𝐍𝐞𝐰 𝐍𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐚
(𝐚𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 ,𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐮𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟒 𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐲 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐜𝐛𝐧 )

50 kobo Half kobo**
N 1 = 1 kobo coin
N 2 = 2 kobo coin
N 5 = 5 kobo coin
N 10 = 10 kobo coin
N 20 = 20 kobo coin
N 50 = 50 kobo coin or note***
N 100 = N 1 note
N 200 N 2 note**
N 500 = N 5 note
N 1000 = N 10 note
N 2000* = N 20 note

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤?
The ‘new Naira’ coins and notes will be different from the existing ones i.e. in design, appearance, security features, etc.
All Naira assets and liabilities (including bank deposits), prices, fees, rents, and contracts (including salaries and wages) will be re-denominated by dropping two zeroes or moving two decimal points to the left.
During the ‘transition period’ prices will be quoted in both the ‘new Naira’ and the ‘Old Naira’ and everyone will choose whether to pay in the new or old Naira. These five months will be allowed so that everyone will get familiar with the conversion, and it will become self-evident to everyone why he/she would prefer to transact in the ‘new Naira’ rather than the ‘old Naira’. For example, if a bag of garri sells for N2,000 (old Naira), the price in ‘new Naira’ will automatically be N20. The customer will choose to pay either N2000 in old Naira or N20 in the ‘new Naira’. In the supermarkets and formal markets, prices will be displayed in both ‘old’ and ‘new’ Naira. In the informal markets where prices are negotiated, the negotiation could be done in the ‘old Naira’ as usual and converted into the ‘new Naira’ if the customer wishes to pay with the ‘new Naira’. This will ensure that prices do not rise due to rounding-up. The five months are also needed for everyone (formal and informal sectors) to become fully familiar with the conversion. It will become obvious to everyone that N50,000 of the ‘old Naira’ has the same purchasing power as N500 of the ‘new Naira’. The question then would be: why carry N50,000 of old Naira when N500 of the new Naira will buy you the same thing? Consequently, if you have N50,000 in your bank account, it will automatically become N500 in the ‘new Naira’ i.e. if you want to withdraw in the ‘new Naira’ or you can still withdraw N50,000 in ‘old Naira’ during the transition period (January 2024). Similarly, someone whose monthly salary is N50,000 can choose (during the transition period) whether to withdraw and spend the N50,000 in ‘old Naira’ or N500 in the ‘new Naira’. Both would buy him/her the same value of goods and services.
Examples of price equivalents in the new and old Naira could be:

𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐛𝐲 𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐮𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟒 𝐀𝐬 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐀𝐝𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐁𝐨𝐥𝐚 𝐀𝐡𝐦𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐢𝐧𝐮𝐛𝐮.

House rent (e.g. a flat in some parts of Nigeria) N5000 per month N50 per month
Stock price of a company Assume it is, say:
N20 or N80
20 kobo or 80 kobo
Airline ticket for domestic flight N12,500 = N125
Fuel Price N500 = N5
Exchange rate: N to US$ Assume it is say:
N125
Or N130
Or N100 to US$1.
N1.25 = US$1
Or N1.30 = US$1
Or N1 = US$1

This decision has been taken by the cbn by the directive of President Bola Ahmed Tinubu to reduce the surfering of Nigerians and also slow down inflation. If you have the old Naira start getting ready to switch to the new Naira, this message is meant to prepare Nigeria for the changes ahead. It needs to be shared to ensure everyone is well prepared for the new Naira notes. Nigerians

As a public figure of several decades standing, my antecedents are widely known. Nevertheless, it has become necessary to restate who I am and correct some misleading information made about my person.
My name is Florence Mayen Ita-Giwa (Asibong Ita, was also my maiden native Efik name). I was born on the 19th of February 1946. Although I do not have a birth certificate, I have an age declaration document sworn to by my late Mother, which I have used all my life. My mother almost died of post-partum hemorrhage during my birth at the hospital; a situation which was made worse as the hospital did not have a blood bank. The story of the circumstances of my birth stuck in my memory, and because of it I donated a blood bank to the hospital, much later in life.
My late Father, Obong Ofiong Umoh Ita Ofiong, was a traditional Ruler in Atabong, Bakassi. He attended Methodist Boys’ High School, Oron (founded in 1905) back in the early 20th century. His parents’ choice to send him to school in Oron was influenced by the fact that Archibong Town, and then James Town, both in Bakassi, were the first ports of call of the Methodist Church Mission in Nigeria in 1893. And, when the Mission set up its first school in these parts, it was natural that my late Father would be educated there. My mother, the late Chief (Mrs.) Beatrice Bassey Ita, was at first a school teacher before venturing into journalism and becoming a renowned pioneering female journalist in South East of Nigeria. Her parents were from the Ekpo Abasi Royal House of Calabar, and their family house was No. 19 Boco Street at Bayside of Calabar South Local Government Area in Cross River State, where I grew up right from infancy until we moved to No. 55 Beecroft Street, also at Bayside in Calabar South. I vividly recall how my Mom used to entertain family and friends with tea in the afternoons; a veritable vestige of Calabar's affinity with the culture of the British colonialists.
I started my education as a girl-child at the renowned Duke Town Primary School, Calabar (with a history dating back to 1846) before attending The Edgerly Memorial Girls’ School, also in Calabar. I took up Nursing as a Profession and went for training in it at Aba in the present-day Abia State, although my dear Mother had wished that I went into journalism like her. If there is anything like re-incarnation, I will still choose to belong to the noble profession of Nursing.
​My late mother was an avowed Zikist, who worked as a correspondent for the Zik Group of Newspapers in Calabar. She eventually sought transfer to Aba in order to remain close and keep watch over me while I was undergoing my studies. The Nigerian civil war broke out while we were in Aba, and my mother and family chose to remain in the "Biafran" territory for the entire duration of the War until it ended in January 1970. I never set eyes on any federal troop or officer until when the war ended while we were at Ahiara, where we had fled to, having lost everything we owned in life. That is the closest exposure I had to fighting that raged between the armed forces during the Civil War. A Nigerian Military officer rescued us alongside other relatives and graciously arranged for our safe passage to Calabar. Sometime after we arrived in Calabar, I recall that my mother was briefly detained by the Federal authorities as was the late Margaret Ekpo. My mother was eventually employed by the Sketch Newspaper as the South Eastern State correspondent at the time, and Aremo Segun Osoba, who was its Managing Director. The photograph of myself, Ndidi Okereke Onyuike the former Director General of the Nigerian Stock Exchange, and the late Cecilia Ekpenyong, the former Deputy Governor of Cross River State, which appeared in a book written by Brigadier General Alabi Isama was taken at a party in Port Harcourt sometime in the middle of 1970, long after the Civil War had ended.
I proceeded to the Kilburn Polytechnic London to train as a Medical Secretary. At the end of my studies, after my field work experience at the cancer follow-up department and periodontal department of the university college Hospital Gower Street, London, on the strict insistence of my mother, I returned to Nigeria and was immediately employed by Beecham Laboratories as a Medical Representative. After receiving some training in Pharmaceutical Detailing, I was then posted to be in charge of the company’s Northern Nigeria operations. After doing a good job at Beecham, I got head-hunted by Sandoz Pharmaceuticals and was appointed the Medical Representative in charge of Lagos State. I thereafter left paid employment to found Flobett Pharmacy and Med-Equip Limited, with branches at No. 1 Norman Williams Street, Ikoyi, and No. 1 Kofo Abayomi Street, Apapa – both in Lagos. Med-Equip Limited was an accredited agent of AJ Seward Medical Equipment UK and won a contract to fully equip seven 30-bed military hospitals (MRS) in different parts of Nigeria, including Zuru in Bornu State, Owode in Ogun State and Ibawa in Akwa Ibom State. To this day, I am still able to conceptualize and set up a hospital from the reception to the morbid section.
I joined politics, contested elections and won four very difficult contests starting from 1991, each time on “opposition party” platforms. I voluntarily opted out of seeking elective office to allow space for the next generation to express themselves in Nigerian politics, after my outing as Senator of the Federal Republic of Nigeria in 2003. As a law maker, I attended a course on Legislative Management at the Thames Valley University, London. I am currently working on a book on “Legislative Management and Parliamentary Lobbying” with the objective of sharing knowledge with the next generation of politicians, public office holders and the general public.
Apart from my daughter, I have 15 other lovely children that I brought out from the Creeks of Bakassi and single-handedly weaned, nurtured and groomed into responsible and promising persons; to the glory of God Almighty. The youngest of them is now nine years old. She was rescued from the creeks of Bakassi at just four months old. Today, she attends one of the best private schools in Calabar. I also have a pair of 14-year-old twin boys whose parents were killed right in their presence at the age of four. They both attend what is considered one of the best high schools in Calabar, Access School. Most of my other children have graduated from the best private universities in Nigeria and Ghana as Petroleum Engineers, Electrical Engineers, Computer Engineers and so on. In my family there are no titles or divisions, because I believe that a child is a child, no matter how he or she came into this world. All these children are mine, given to me by God. And, I am committed to training them into good and worthy citizens of Nigeria, complete with strong family values, love, respect and compassion for their fellow human beings.
It is common knowledge that a typical Calabar lady’s physiological issue cannot be “aesthetic augmentation”, but ‘reduction’. Besides, aesthetic procedures are not normally done under general anesthesia. So, a third-party or next-of-kin is not usually needed, unless there are underlying conditions which may be considered threats to the procedure, thereby warranting the assurance of a relative as surety. It is a fact that, 18 years ago I underwent liposuction (fat reduction) around my hips; a feature I obviously inherited from my late Mother. This was public knowledge, as I had informed the media. I do not do things and hide in the shadows, or are ashamed of. Nobody leaked any secret, as that procedure was public knowledge. I have consistently counselled younger women not to be scared of ageing, as it is an inevitable phase of life, but rather they should embrace the prospect of ageing gracefully and beautifully in good health, by embracing a healthy lifestyle and seeking any wholesome and safe medical intervention needed.
On a final note, I have always advised career women and female politicians to stay strong and courageous, and not to ever cave into the threats or bullying or blackmail of chauvinists and other predators, irrespective of their gender.
This is who I am. It is well. God bless you all.

Senator (Princess) Dame Dr. Florence Ita-Giwa, OON, KSW
Eka Iban Esien Efik Duop-iba (Mother of the female folk of the Efik Eburutu Kingdom & Member of the Royal Palace of the Obong of Calabar)
Sunday, 17th September, 2023

To me is a routine, i Carry out this activities daily

My daughter is now 3 years with an amazing character. When ever i or my wife is cooking it is a must for her to pound although we have two blenders. She started that right from when she was 2years she really enjoyed the sound of the small morter. This afternoon i have a meeting with a client coincidentally my wife also have to visit a friend who have just put to birth, while i assisted my wife in the kitchen so we could finished up on time; our daughter also was busy moving up and down in there kitchen. My wife rush to freshen up while i went to picked call, just to return and met 15 sachets cubes of maggi because she saw her mum putting the cubes in the food. I already brought the pot down before going to pick call and she also follow me, unknown to me that the time i spent to answer calls she has returned to add more cubes with the help of a stool.
When i saw the cubes sachet i asked her gently where did you keep the Maggi, she said she added it to the food and i ask how she managed to reach the pot she said she pull the stool and climb on it. When I opened the pot i was so devastated I just have to calm; i was very hungry when the mum dress all and came to kitchen to dish the food for us to eat I showed her the Maggi sachet and explained what our daughter did. She almost injured her, the way she scream at our daughter make her to cry and run away. I have to calm her down while I took our daughter with me. The food was mainly for this evening and tomorrow and she was to dish it also to her friend who just put to birth.

Please sir, women are usually emotional when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex. They easily get jealous.

Please it's not good for a man to live with his parents after marriage. Because he and the wife cannot plan neither take decision by themselves, without his parents intruding in their matter.
Please even though it a room he can rent and start life from there. When i got married and live in my own house in my dad compound the disrespect and insult i received both from my parents and siblings it was terrible, not to talk of people coming to visit me they will be snooping to check who the person is. I later park and live in a distance not far away from where my parents live; just 50 naira from where i live to my parents place. For one year i don't call any of them either my siblings. After one year I call them to know how they are doing they way they all talk to me in a very respectful and honor way even both my parents and siblings calling me sir. After two years i went physically to visit them it was as if president have arrived. I told my wife any time any of my siblings come to our house make sure they eat before leaving.

Yes thank you Ian aware of the postponment

garfield1:
They have finally postponed

𝐎𝐝𝐮𝐤𝐩𝐚𝐧𝐢

garfield1:
Which lga

I called the contact person in my LGA today i was told no accreditation that the training have been suspended. C. R. S

Please use white potash, limes and native black soap mixed together and grind, rub vigorously on his head. Thank me later

See what my people are going through. God please raise our young ones to stand on their feet to build this village.

God save your life for a purpose

ezenwaez:
Yes

Thank you but I have not received mine. So what should i do? Batch C1

Please I want know if NPOWER have paid October stipend

Please I want to know if NPOW

My brother you took a good decision. who ever that underated you will be left with a surprise

Please focus in your secondary school first before going into relationship.
Thank you

Greed and lack of contentment

Bros why complaining, it has not seen the right choice. Please calm down HE is trying to save you not to go a wrong way.

Thank you sir

Please help her anonymously, don't look at her present situation but look at it as an reciprocal obligation. For you to be aware of their preswnt predicaments there must be a reason. Thank you

Ganjafama:
An innocent girl having sex at the age of sixteen! The girl was obviously over pampered. If she was made to dress dirty, work like crazy and made to dorn a "gorimakpa" hairstyle she would have been as wise as anything.

You thought is totally different

I really felt for the innocent girl. In fact I am confuse. Please help her with anyway you can.

Your husband is a good man go back to him. You really need to work on yourself, emotions, attitude and thought. No body is perfect. You are exposing your children to what you will not be able to explain to them, when they will start asking you a rhetorical question between you and their father.

My brother is not easy at this period of time where daily living is at a critical peak. Try to manage your emotion first. For now wake go to kitchen prepare for the kids including her own but don't have time for her for now. Do it with joy. Watch out for her change

They are all waiting till December, just watch.

HappyRabbi:
I have observed with keen interest the recent waves of defections and cross carpeting from APC TO PDP and vice Versa, even in some states like Oyo and Osun states, Bigwig politicians are defecting to parties like Accord and ADC,

However, with the way Peter Obis Obidient movement is sweeping across the board, taking over mainstream social media space, nobody, not even a lightweight politician has dumped his party for Labor Party, even in the southeast where he came from. Could this mean the Obidients still have a lot of homework to do? Just want to know as a political observer

Alfred Noble (the founder of Noble Price) never attended formal education but yet through what he learnt at home from his home tutor; he was able to invent dynamic and synthetic. Today some schools' are no more interested in teaching a child but to uplift the school status in order to make money