₦airaland Forum

longetivity:
most of our girls don dey taste cucumber once they reach 16yrs

nah normal thing around the world after all before this age people don marry at 16 even the whites no body sees it as a big deal anymore

uruba23:
You preach use protection ,yet you flog ,this is a complicated one.I believe once mensuration starts, condoms should be legal all this social media children are more aware than there parents thinks.The earlier you start educating them on morality purity the better but definitely not flogging.

Nigerians will not listen they will rather play saint than face the facts

talktrue1234:
All of you that doesn't know this guy should go and search for oyinborebel on tiktok

finally one sabi person Nah rebel leader all of them they talk like this.

meobizy:
It’s like English is hard to come by in the North. All his released videos and audio are in Hausa. I can’t tell if the subtitles are manipulated or real so I never bother to view nor hear them.

English is not hard to come by in the north, the man prefers to use Hausa to communicate.

uchaymart:
Go and stay with your patents then... You don't know how to play the game in the house.. Just leave..

Kiddwaya, Neo, Prince, Nengi, Vee... My real Hms

parents are late

PS573:
I'm in a relationship with a lady I love so much, she's so loving, caring and kind to me and after some months I asked her (Can you marry me?) She replied yes and she asked are you sure you can marry me? I replied YEs.

After Two weeks time she came to my house sadly, I asked what's wrong with her? She asked me again' are you sure you can marry me and I replied YES and YES, she said OK!

She opened up to me after some months, that she have "Tow kids from Two different men".... I felt so bad,speechless and confuse for a while, I just closed the conversation that day but till now I'm still confuse because I loved her before she opened up to me.

Please I need your advice what to do because I'm confuse and scared right now.

I appreciate all comments

see let's say the truth all the advice here does not matter, what matters is what you think not what people say or think last last decision is yours look at the situation and think hard and well about. after all nah you see her love her so no one can decide for you nah you go marry and you said you loved her before she opened up so those that means you love her less cause she decided to keep her babies no matter what society says my dear only few women will keep the child and even tell you about it.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

This is not good
Ooni is not supposed to do that shit..
Monarchy is now comedy

That is why oba of Benin is the most feared and respected

He won't do such shit
Not surprised though
Once a kid always a kid
He clear say na our pikin we send go that junction..Ile ife

check the video first in his part he talks about how respect is important to the Yoruba people nothing wrong in passing such messages, after all a monarch Is not God

Flee from any woman that request for Registry Marriage.

The issue of sharing of properties cannot come in except the wife claims that as a relief in her answer to the petition for dissolution of marriage.
The law assumes that settlement of property and maintenance is an ancillary relief which a man owes his wife if he files for divorce.


For example a man file for divorce after 20years of marriage to his wife.

The law assumes he's the one filling for divorce after she has given him 20 years of her life. She may even throw in how she supported him(even if it's not financial support) and performed wifely duties to him. The law assumes the man can't leave her with an uncertain financial future (I still don't know whether this implies if the woman is rich.. didn't see anything like that though) after she spent two decades building his.

If she claims for settlement of properties in the marriage, the judge usually would look at the circumstances of the case and facts supplied to reach a decision on what to give her.
Judges have a wide discretionary power to settle matrimonial properties as it deems just to do so.

The judge has a discretion to award reliefs sought by parties in a divorce proceeding, according to the facts and circumstances of the case at hand.
If she specifically ask that she shares in the matrimonial properties and the facts and circumstances makes it justifiable that she does deserve a share, the court will order that.

The law doesn't care about who owns what or what anyone brought into the marriage.

The court can order settlement I. e share any property belonging to any of the parties on the request of the woman.

Nigerian law considers marriage as a partnership.

The law assumes when the partnership finally end, nobody leaves empty handed except the woman didn't specifically ask for anything.

sorry oh but please how many property average Nigerian man get most of the wedding in registry is to secure the kids future,abi you have not seen what African families do once the husband dies. intact Nigerians should have a prenuptial agreement to make things better else the moment anything happens nothing will be left for the kids cause our African people are super greed for things they did not work for . I for one prefer a Court wedding everything on paper and everyone knows his or her right

Bsingle:
Rip romoke, a level mate in edu department.
a bad day for fuoyites tho because we loose 3 students within 2days.
may God console the family and we students at large.

I tell you really bad I just dey see sad news about students

DaddyRochie1642:
You Addressed Me With Respect, .. I'll Also Address You with Respect.

Believe Me When I Tell You This, Once You Enter Into The Deep World Of Psychology, and when I say Deep World Of Psychology, I Mean The Very Depth Of Psychology, Then You'll Truly Understand.


When a Female Tells you that She's been Raped Before,

Listen Closely To Me and Pay Attention Bro, .. The Females Mostly Tell You that as A MANIPULATION TECHNIQUE, .. She Told You That Because as a Man, she Knows that Once You've Heard that kind of thing from her, you'll begin to Feel For Her, and In the Process, You See Yourself Caring For Her More Than You Used to and also Having Strong Emotional Feelings For Her, Some Of You Call It "LOVE"... Now, she has achieved her goal by making you fall in love with her... That's a Smart Move.

The Mostly Apply This Rape "Manipulation Technique" to guys that Have "Resources" (Money and Connection), Men That have Something To Offer Her, Men That She Can Gain Something from... She Has no Feelings For Them, She Only Wants To Use Them To satisfy her Strong Materialistic Urge.

A Female Will Hardly Tell A Complete Broke Guy That She was Raped In Past... She Can't tell the Broke Guy that thing Because The Broke Guy has absolutely Nothing to Her and she has nothing to Gain From the Broke Guy.
-- She Can Only Tell The Broke Guy that She Was Raped Because she Doesn't want to Have Sex With The Broke Guy, because a Broke guy is Disgusting To A Female nowadays, ... She can also tell the Broke guy that she was Raped Because She Wants the Broke guy to Wipe That Thought Out Of His Brain to Ever Think about Having Sex with Ever, Because She Has Nothing to Gain from The Broke Guy.


I Believe You Have Some Knowledge In You Sir, Read this Write-Up Carefully Without Bias and With an Absolutely Clear Mind and You Will Realize That It's All a MANIPULATION TECHNIQUE.


Even If She Was Raped, I Prefer She Doesn't Tell Me At all... I Still Maintain My Stand.


#Salute

haha first of all its mama and second thinking the way you do sorry to say is very harmful to you and people around you just take note anyway you have a right to your opinion

DaddyRochie1642:
Okay, Whenever I Find Myself Dating a Lady and I Find Out That She Was Raped In The Past, ... That's the End, She'll Never Hear From Me Again

thats simply victimization. which is bad everyone has had something done to them or did something, men are also raped not only woman at least 50 percent of woman have gone through rape or almost raped many are sexual harassed on a daily basis so abeg victimization is almost worst than the rape which leads a lot of people to commit suicide or be come unable to socialize

Lol... You never know anything. Na persin wey him turn know how far, unfortunately many wont/dont know and will remain in ignorance till they hit 35 and start running helter skelter for answers, anyay, na daytime dem dey find black goat as one of my sisters here would say. Many people are unaware about their conditions until it's way too late.... You heard o...


D yorubas will say eni to ba kan lo mo..... meaning na persin wey the thing reach hin turn go understand

one thing I know for people to have all these issues a gate way was opened in their life either by their actions or parents so the best thing is new life and to repent of the things making the gate way open

Alero3Arubi:
I think it is a psychiatric case.
It takes a level of mental imbalance to derive pleasure from the hurt of others or other living things.
Just like we have masochist, there are sadists too.

and demonic it just ruin lives both the rapist and the raped

Davash222:
No stretchmark, No dirty clothes, No unnecessary big nyash with inadequate proportion.


Verdict;
Definitely not Afonja.

guy why so bitter by the way almost every woman on earth has speech marks not only Afonja.

FlordFlorez:
Very thoughtful! Almost 90% similar to my opinion. It just that i have no way to reach Ondo State governor with my opinion.

or write a letter

FlordFlorez:
Very thoughtful! Almost 90% similar to my opinion. It just that i have no way to reach Ondo State governor with my opinion.

go to twitter and find him

LikeAking:
I will marry only a woman that will make me spend,because it will make me to hustle and hustle more.

This is a trick must men don't know.

Don't run from the expenses.

If you don't have a need for money,you won't get it.

What makes a man rich is his big ego.eg Kanye west.You want to show off,oppress,etc.

have you heard of high blood pressure, nagging and getting tired because of constant I want this I need this and that , yes you can pamper a woman but guy if you should drop dead from trying to please a woman she will move on not that you should not spend but also make time for family cause study shows that men that are trying to hard to make more money tend to have strained relationship with wife and kids cause that same woman you dey claim you are hustling for will not stay if na only money you can give

LikeAking:
The lady will surfer in this marriage, because the man will have a lesser value for her.

He married her like a fowl and he will treat her like a fowl after marriage.

Ladies let the man spend,don't pity a man when it comes to marriage expenses,or any other exp.

Never let your man think you can economize,or you are cheap,else that will be your standard for live.

Remember:Na the good/timid/naive women dey suffer for marriage.

oh please not everyone believes in extravagant weddings and for crying out out its just one day what is important is they are married. what is wrong in economizing absolutely nothing not everyone is rich and have the mindset to waste money for one day and drink garri and by the way its their decision so people should respect it. a fowl you say I laugh my northern people get married the way they want not the way others want its not a must for you to be all dolled up and fake what you dont have

PrecioussB:
Why is it that older men love to pursue Young girls?

Especially old African men. It is disgusting how they are interested in girls that are old enough to be their daughter.

I have had a lot of old and successful guys ask me out but I always say no thanks.

It is scary, these perverts need to find women their own age. Has this happen to anyone?

for one we know they love it cause it makes them feel young, and some get the kind of attention they dont get at home,some are attracted to young ladies and some really do love the ladies

jawalis:
That’s funny. Don’t think absurd. Life happens but it’s rare to see such man.

well I do have one a wonderful one

jawalis:
I have no answer to your question. But fat ladies are NO NO for me.

oh okay well you could have just said so dont make we bug girls start thinking twice about our men

jawalis:
I have no answer to your question. But fat ladies are NO NO for me.

oh okay well you could have just said so dont make we bug girls start thinking twice about our men

jawalis:
Where are the bags of beans sorry plus sized women?
Unfortunately, no man in his right sense will love a plus sized woman if nothing is attached.

Modified: these ladies here are nothing but hippopotamuses. Gosh. Let them remove those tight cloths and you’ll see a nightmare. Bet me.

chia so you are saying men that are dating us have to get attached wow bros hope you know say everyone is not created the same way sha

bigiyaro:
this one na police? this one na guy man wey miss road enter police, the real police dey man road blocks in the night, chase kidnappers enter forest.

those ones are the police that will spend their life at road blocks this one's am sure want to police collage or have a degree you no see say this one is assigned to one big man or a govt house and the police that stand road block nA them the kidnappers dry chase after bush not the other say round plus you will never see any police man on a road block at night unless it's in front of Their barracks

EternalTruth:
even as at that it still means something.
Annaette right?
Anyway where are you from?
I'm from Calabar, Cross river state the slogan of our state is Paradise and that's why there's no recorded case of covid19

I'm from Tarawa state

EternalTruth:
then you should probably change your moniker cos it means something in calabar language and I thought you're one.

no thanks it's just my name spelt backward

EternalTruth:
OK odu ke mmong?

please English I don't understand what you write

EternalTruth:
abadie?

it can only be used for airtel tv

1blogger:
not working anymore

it is just got mine

myles16:
The Last person you blocked on social media committed what offence?

one human begin was nagging that why should u have only one boyfriend and spoiling men that men are cheat all the negative you could think of that a man will bad mouth his fellow men just to steal their girl

Elyse:
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I would spare you all details..

I have a 3yr old cousin. He's adorable and smart, but he has this annoying habit which he started ever since his mother gave birth to another baby. He enjoys pooping on the bed.

He is potty trained and goes to pee by himself, but when he wants to poo, he either sneaks into my room or his parents room and poops right in the middle of the bed( he's very specific about that).

His Mother has scolded and beaten him severally but he hasn't dropped the habit yet. And it's becoming worrisome.

I would love to think it's his own way of seeking attention from his mother but she doesn't neglect him in any way.

How can we get him to stop this habit Please?

the child is calling out for attention most children feel left out or abounded when another child is born so his acting out is a cry for attention beating him will only make h hardened and worst best thing is to get a child psychologist or give hi more attention so he knows the loves is shared not given to only the new born.

Nomanlike:
Good morning Nairalanders..

There's this gal I want to break up with. She has always been kind to me and we loved us. But the thing is I'm a graduate who's trying to put his life in order and I don't think I can afford anything called concrete relationship right now.

She's in 200 level and you all know how these students girlfriends can be especially when we are not assisting them financially.

At first I thought it was a fling until she got serious. I want to remain focused and not have any gal emotionally attached to me. I want to break up with her but the thing is she loves me so much (I know cos she let me read chats of niggas asking her out, picks every call if we are together and speaks with freedom and she tells niggas I'm the main guy)

She might not understand if I tell her the reason for break up is I want to stay fully focused and not think about my gal taking dick etc..
Brothers how best can I break this news to her ??!

not all girls need your or want your money this girl happens to love you deep and yet you want to do that just tell her direct dont give her attitude and make her feel something is wrong with her