₦airaland Forum

Blue3k2:
Source: https://m.guardian.ng/features/kano-government-unveils-n36-billion-ruga-settlement-project/amp/

yet Nigeria does not have funds to secure our health sector what a pity

tunjilana:
5 years is too long...the kids will not bond well and it will affect the way they relate in future...2 years is best

its not too much oh if there is age gap its good for development cause by the time the second one comes the first can also help the mom and not stress I have two brothers the age gap between I and the second is 10 years the one between I and the second is 15 years at this stage we all help around the house and mum and dad always resting and have enough time

funmisticqueen2:
do you know how traumatising childbearing is?

are you minding them most Africans men dont ever marry for love but for kids that's why any small thing they will suspect the women of nonsense that they will not accept if it is their own sister

Funkyswagzz:
Family planning after two yrs with a child... Did he tell u he is having financial issues.. how can a woman raise an issue of family planning at this point in time.. why would she go into marriage knowing fully well shes not ready to bear children.. the guy is simply sayin the woman is not ready to give birth and the man feels suspicious.. get some sense!! If u don't hav go borrow some.

a woman's job is not only to bear kids just the way the mans job is not only to provide people do family planning before kids some do it after one or two it takes too to tango if she does not want more now the marriage does not end unless he married her for only the kids,marriage is way bigger than just having kids its also about the two of the them.

Funkyswagzz:
Exactly.. hidden agendas bro.. she wants to play away march. Trust me ur wife have someone she loves more than u right now,, theres no two ways about that.. if uve notice any funny behaviour of recent just know Ur suspicion is right and u need to find out quick. Uve got to play dump and do some investigations bro. Wise up!

first of all not every woman is a cheat second do you know how stable they are, having kids on kids too early does not allow the ones that came first get enough attention and care which in turn affects them in the future not everything is about not loving her husband anymore please let's be guided before the man will start to suspect the innocent woman.

lilmax:
She's not in that position to make that decision

I can not not laugh so who is in the position is it the man abi na him won carry baby for 9 months and look after the kid every single day abeg let's be civil the woman has equal rights as the man she is only telling the man cause he is her partner its not easy poping out kids . it has its mental,physical and emotional effects

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OlawaleBammie:
but hers seems to be permanent even at 20s...now am confused

its not permanent she just need to check how healthy she is mentally and physical and may be doctors will put her on drugs since she wants to try for babies

OlawaleBammie:
I dont bliv this statement, menstrual irregularities at 20s??
and one quack doctor said its cus u re in ur late twenties!!


guy go better hospital for a reliable diagnosis jare, millions of girls are outside there even at the wrong side of thirties and their red visitors are stil regular on monthly basis.

at any age a lady can have irregular periods due to hormonal imbalance or stress and other factors

samdavjustin:
@Op you did well don’t mind those scammers up there insulting you. Next time don’t buy the phone but promise to buy it after you chop am wella. If she needs phone badly she can ask her papa,

oh how nice you self if you me sex ask your family

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The funny things about cases like this is how quickly you will judge the woman. Who ever took the video should be sued to court cause its very wrong, so what if it's an affair did she force the man,no so why disgrace her its not like she was caught killing someone. If the woman knew what's right she will get a good lawyer and sue that person that video her and most of the affairs happing are none of there business if the wife finds out she has a choice to leave the man or stay with him. People need to stop recordings of such people affair or not

cr7lomo:
It's s crime against the wife

if they are legally married she should take the husband to court its not the girl committing a crime it is the man

This one uncle Ned is always carrying Regina around is he scared she will run away

Snipper007:
In other words the little baby arouses her
Wired people everywhere, she needs to be arrested for sexualizing an infant.

well the body has stimuli so its a must to get aroused during breast feeding it's highly common

Hope there were arrested for endangering public health

[quote author=evil1 post=86999653]This same dhit happened to me this month. Met the girl within a week we had protected sex on two occasions the next one which was the third she told me she has a Feeling that she's pregnant. U know what I did I bought postinor 2 and the useless girl wanted to still go ahead with the story of been pregnant until I pressured her, then she opened up to me last Sunday that she has started seen her period.

Girls shaa...once dem see man small success they would want to hook d nigga down[/quote ]my brother girls now can be desperate and do anything

Comedian2019:
Story doesn't add up.

very true one week later is too early na like what Bleep where she dey rush go babe fit won put belly for your head tell her okay and take her to a lab yourself

Hisincrease:
May your days be long on Earth.
Some of these ladies have absolute nothing to offer except their smelly pvssy.
They are quick to assert that it is modern life. Look at where modernity has brought marriages to.
Every day in court, you will count cases of divorce. Just because some women refused to act as one and some idiotic men think its modernity.

men like you are the ones that use there hands to end their marriage see how you talk about a woman like she is a lesser creature than you. You yourselve what do you have to offer if you dont know most of this women are the ones to help you in life and uplift you and support you in every single fucking thing.I just hope your own marriage will last with the nonsense you speak and yet you are educated what a world of fools feeling like gods when they are just boys running from life

CrazyMan:
If I may ask whats your job as a wife?

Most conflicts in marriages today arise because most of you dumb females don't even know your role as a wife. You just want a husband that's all and have nothing to offer to him aside from spreading your legs for sex and popping out babies.

When a man spends 30days struggling to earn a living in order to give you a better life, you see it as his responsibility. He leaves the home very early and ensures that enough finance is made available for the home.

Then comes back exhausted and finishes his food and you expect him to clear the plates. If you can't keep him company while he eats and prefer to play the role of a restaurant waiter then you must play it to the fullest by clearing the table when he's done. That's your own responsibility.

abeg hold it there women are not just for chores they are made for much more and who says only the man provide. See women do a lot or even more than what you think most men don't just admit it so that boys like you dont see them as less a man

MoonandStar:
She's preggy. Don't ask me how I know. Congratulations girl

Wow I'm the ftc. I'm dedicating this to my hubby (a nairalander too) May God bless us with a twin this year.

no be only me see the belly

[quote author=Onyekachi419 post=86628734][/quote]that is a very stupid thing to say. Do you know the kind of trauma the woman will go through from the rape, its not like its her fault they came for the man and then rapes the woman and the man does such nonsense that he did please you can never know the trauma a woman goes through if you have nothing to say shut up abi the husband has not been tasting other women did she leave

Airforce1:
From every girls dream to every girls nightmare

It is well

the boy became a man

grandiose4ever:
http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2020/01/let-amotekun-embrace-all.html?m=1

this man has loss guard finish Chai waste of brain

NwaAmaikpe:




I just wish he had a son elsewhere since his wife wouldn't give him one.
This is the saddest part of his death.

or he could not give his wife one. Na what you put you get

NwaAmaikpe:




What happened to wives being submissive and the man being the head of the home?
Today's wife now wants to compete with the man.

She is a foolish woman who does not want peace in her home.
She knows what the problem is yet doesn't want to solve it and is out on radio seeking answers.
How much more confused can she get?

As long as that man paid her brideprice, everything she owns first belong to him and as long as her establishment did not dictate that the car is strictly for her use.
She should overlook his past wrongs and let her husband use it.

Because if she won't give it to him.
There are many other single but aged women willing to give him better cars in exchange for his surname.

She should choose between peace in her home or her car crushing her home to pieces .

One fact must remain awake even in the subconscious thoughts of a woman who is in coma and it is that,
Husbands are scarce, hold your own tight.

haba if na you it happened to will you give the car see my sister hold your car if he likes he should go and die what greed he should go and be driving his two cars and take his eyes off your own after all na official car before you know it he will spoil it or be carrying girls up and down

Hamachi:
If u are earning 160k as salary, pls don't marry. Let's Break it down,
1. you transport to work to and fro.
2. You eat lunch at work.
3. You are to pay house rent, Nepa bills, security and water bills.
4. Food for you and your wife.
5. Laundry and other stuff.
6. airtime , MB and DSTV subscription.
7. Fuel for generator.
8. General house maintenance, buy clothes and undies.
9. You are expected to buy body cream, good relaxer, roll on and other deodorants for your wife.
10. At least 2 dresses per month for her.
11. If she is ILL, hospital bills.
12. Church women association dues and dress.
13. You are expected to render financial obligations to her family and your family.
Yet, You want to marry with 160k? I hope you won't impregnate your wife! May God help us all.

excuse me is the wife jobless or where is it stated that the man has to do every damn thing for her abeg marry woman that can share responsibility if not what is her use

stupidity:
Something must kill a man.

he has done too much heart could not take it anymore and boom cardiac arrest very simple the woman no kill him man must have lived very unhealthy life style case closed next

My taraba sister

Ekiti to abuja just come back self