When you now make the money and no girl around to offer you real love, cos they are all for the money, you will be shouting that girls love money. You guys don't appreciate good women atall.

K

Tell her youre impotent

Offpoint:
By "Social Distancing"

Op there’s wisdom in this few words..

I'm into dame case here, but we are both graduate,,, what can I do too

Broke ass nigger

Check her phone,you'll see something to rant on, if she is the nagging type, then provoke her to talk back at you you'll achieve your breakup plan

Nomanlike:
Good morning Nairalanders..

There's this gal I want to break up with. She has always been kind to me and we loved us. But the thing is I'm a graduate who's trying to put his life in order and I don't think I can afford anything called concrete relationship right now.

She's in 200 level and you all know how these students girlfriends can be especially when we are not assisting them financially.

At first I thought it was a fling until she got serious. I want to remain focused and not have any gal emotionally attached to me. I want to break up with her but the thing is she loves me so much (I know cos she let me read chats of niggas asking her out, picks every call if we are together and speaks with freedom and she tells niggas I'm the main guy)

She might not understand if I tell her the reason for break up is I want to stay fully focused and not think about my gal taking dick etc..
Brothers how best can I break this news to her ??!

......be more concerned about how to stop the spread of the covid -19 brother .....tgere will be plenty of time afterwards for topics like this......

Just tell say u get coronal virus and come back and thank me later

Brunosamel:
You don't need to breakup with her for you to stay focus all you have to do is to talk to her about your priorities and tell how difficult and hard it's gonna be for you, she won't be getting any of your attention as she use to cuz you need to set your life straight... if she loves you enough she will stick around and support you....

advise of life

Tell her there was a suspected case of Covid-19 in ur area....

Nomanlike:
Good morning Nairalanders..

There's this gal I want to break up with. She has always been kind to me and we loved us. But the thing is I'm a graduate who's trying to put his life in order and I don't think I can afford anything called concrete relationship right now.

She's in 200 level and you all know how these students girlfriends can be especially when we are not assisting them financially.

At first I thought it was a fling until she got serious. I want to remain focused and not have any gal emotionally attached to me. I want to break up with her but the thing is she loves me so much (I know cos she let me read chats of niggas asking her out, picks every call if we are together and speaks with freedom and she tells niggas I'm the main guy)

She might not understand if I tell her the reason for break up is I want to stay fully focused and not think about my gal taking dick etc..
Brothers how best can I break this news to her ??!

Smh, simple thing, just tell her you don catch coronavirus, na she go run by herself , free you straight to japaaaaa

I am just coming out from this same situation. We have been friends for 6yrs years and I was there when she entered year one till her NYSC. She love's me very much but at later on, I could not find what made me to love her in the first place. It was not easy for me. I break up and still come back because I felt I can't see any other girl like her. But recently I have to take a bold step and I told that I am not sure we can go on. Her response was that I have wasted 6yrs years of her life. Which I told her I didn't. She now asked me to block her number and also on social media. But my response to her was, do it yourself. Since then we haven't chatted or called. Seriously my conscience do pick up on me. But I don't want to marry a girl out of a pity. Is not an easy task but I have to face the reality and move on. It's just the choice I have made. She told me that her parents warned her about me that I am a heart breaker but I don't want to let that talk get the best of me. She is the only girl that has ever send me love messages. I miss her but I can't marry her and she is a virgin. I become whatever I think. Sometimes the way life presents itself can't be explained.

Do not break up with dat girl if she's really good as u said.
We dnt av many of dem in dis country.
Sit her down and tell her ur priorities, i'm sure she will understand and stay around for support.
I repeat, 'do not break up with her'

Avoid dating students girlfriends. They'll drain you financially and the moment you stop giving them money, they'll start giving you attitude.

If u have done the thing be4 e go hard,but I see no harm in continuing the relationship, I have seen people date 4 5 to 10 yrs and end up married.Even if u are a player, don't go about breaking girls heart.

This happened when relationship is based on lies and fake emotions...I DISLIKE relationships/marriage that can't be frantically confronted for issues...if the girl understands what TRUE LOVE is, (if it existed anyways) she won't cheat or disturb you, until you find your true bearing and both of you will get married. But now days all guys already believe no money, no girls will show true love and commitment which is true, because of the materialistic mindset of the recent generation.

Tell her you have coronavirus

Let me learn...
Junior get me my seat.

i blame the mods for pushing these...
Just imagine your problem inside everything wey dey happen na woman be your problem.bros.

People still doing boyfriend and girlfriend in this Corona times Incredible

I don't break hearts anymore, I brake their spinal cord.

Offpoint:
By "Social Distancing"

After Corona you are the second problem of Nigeria

Brunosamel:
You don't need to breakup with her for you to stay focus all you have to do is to talk to her about your priorities and tell how difficult and hard it's gonna be for you, she won't be getting any of your attention as she use to cuz you need to set your life straight... if she loves you enough she will stick around and support you....

OP take this advice and thank me later. That girl may end up being your wife if you follow this advice and she acts accordingly.

How do you kill a snake without killing a the snake?

Nomanlike:
Good morning Nairalanders..

There's this gal I want to break up with. She has always been kind to me and we loved us. But the thing is I'm a graduate who's trying to put his life in order and I don't think I can afford anything called concrete relationship right now.

She's in 200 level and you all know how these students girlfriends can be especially when we are not assisting them financially.

At first I thought it was a fling until she got serious. I want to remain focused and not have any gal emotionally attached to me. I want to break up with her but the thing is she loves me so much (I know cos she let me read chats of niggas asking her out, picks every call if we are together and speaks with freedom and she tells niggas I'm the main guy)

She might not understand if I tell her the reason for break up is I want to stay fully focused and not think about my gal taking dick etc..
Brothers how best can I break this news to her ??!

not all girls need your or want your money this girl happens to love you deep and yet you want to do that just tell her direct dont give her attitude and make her feel something is wrong with her

I will help you out. Text me her digit.

Just tell her the truth.. you can kill two birds with one stone

dipopooo:
Tell her u have covid-19 virus... Some people are not serious. The whole world is about to collapse and u are talking about girlfriend

and so. Make people no live dia life? [s][/s]u only die once but u live every other day

post=87698871:
To start with, you never told us that she did anything wrong, even the financial aspect you briefed on, you never said she is disturbing or as ever disturbed you for money.

All you let us know about her is how good and faithful she has been to you since day one.

Well, no one can hold you down in a relationship you don't want, but our advice to you is that, sit her down and explain to her all you explained above that you are a fresh graduate, you really have good plans to make her happy, but because you don't have a job presently and you are not financially stable, you aren't happy with things.... for now.

And whatever her response to you is, act on it.
If she respect your decision, good for both of you.
If the tells you she is not after your money and that is why she never bother you financially and she is ready to stick with you...then do the right thing.

That is the only thing we can tell you right now..But if your mind is totally made up.... kindly ignore this message

A great guy will definitely come her way at the right time.
This is one of the ways guys forfeit a good girl with a good heart.
We hope you don't come up few years from now and create a thread starting with 'Had i know bla bla bla.........'!

Goodluck!

Op, heed to this piece of advice.

You really don't have to break up with her.
Have a deep convo with her first, before making any decision.
Communication is key!
That is all for now!

[quote author=Paxie55 post=87698991]When you now make the money and no girl around to offer you real love, cos they are all for the money, you will be shouting that girls love money. You guys don't appreciate good women atall.[/quotew]which good woman....woman will never tell you how to grow ur money,only how to spend it they are all after!