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NwaNimo1:
Wifey material.....

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See accounting......but why the speaker/memory card

& pepper accessories?

Marry her now, God just showed you ur prudent life partner ooo.. Lol

Elnon:
Same here.....I'M DEEPLY ENCHANTED BY THE BEAUTY OF SA!

So am not alone.. Haha.

Optimistdude:
Give me an estimated amount of what the drivers in Benin make daily.
Thanks

sorry i can't, am not in d business, but they make use of their service very well there.
Remember hotels is one of the industries in benin city. So u know what that means.

tmac4eva:
Please I need your advice, I have a car available for bolt but am yet to decide the location. Which location would be more profitable?

NON.
BENIN CITY.

CSoul:
(Created this new account to post for a sister)



Please help advice a sister in confusion.....


Background:


"I reconnected with my old school toaster who always spoke marriage and love.
Got serious in 5 months.
I've met a lot of people from his end within this period.
He shows me off.
Introduction was done and wedding date fixed."

Issues:
Traditional is barely a week away; yet she's bleeding and scared of the future because of her discoveries:

1. The husband to be has anger issues. Ok, he's all nice and good when in good mood. But once something triggers him, all hell is let loose. The trigger can be a simple missing his call(while at work/meeting). No amount of sweet talk or explanations calms him down.

2. The shocker is that he cheats/has a fuckmate living nearby. She discovered this with evidence from their chats and hasn't been herself. The chat is detailed description of their exploits right up to the present and future plans how they'll continue after he's married. (From same chat, the other lady is aware he's getting married.
He tried denying it; when it didn't work he started making excuses/begging he'll change.

3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.

She's scared of the future and yet feels stuck as court marriage is done already, most preparations have been done(publicity and most of other physical arrangements), both for the traditional and wedding.


Kindly give your mature advice; she'll be reading every bit of it.
(Admin kindly push to front page)

A BROKEN TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE IS BETTER THAN DEATH(physical or emmotional death)

ABORT MISSION NOW WE DON'T WANT TO HEAR BAD NEWS LATER.

Thanks for the tips, make sure you finish this thread otherwise i will arrest you..hahaha.lol

Anytime i see pictures from south Africa something is stirred in me, i don't know why i love the country. (maybe because of my humble and beautiful wife to be is from there)

I have not but i will advise you don't try it. If u can't afford flight ticket please don't travel.

Carry my chair and popcorn
This is gone be an interesting ride.. Lol

DEBJOCH1:
GUY YOUR WIFE IS NOT AN AGBANJE, RATHER YOU ARE THE EMERE YOUR SELF, I FACE YOU ARE NOT DIFFERENT FROM ME. SINCE I KEPT NOTICING THAT THERE IS ALWAYS A FAILURE EACH TIME I TAKE UP ANY DECISION WITHOUT CARRYING MY WIFE ALONG, I MEAN I USUALLY ENCOUNTER SERIOUS LOSS, SINCE THEN I STARTED UPENNING UP FOR HER, SOME TIME I WILL TELL HER THIS IS WHAT I HAVE, WE BOTH WILL SIT, SHE WILL ADVISE ME HOW WILL SHOULD GO ABOUT IT SPEND OR INVEST IT, SHE MAY EVEN DECIDE TO CONTRIBUTE HER OWN INSIGNIFICANT CONTRIBUTION TO IT. SINCE THEN I DISCOVERED THERE HAS BEEN GREAT IMPROVEMENT IN MY LIFE, A MAN WHO EARN N60K IN LAGOS OWN HIS OWN HOUSE AND STILL HAS LAND I. JUST A NEIGBHOURING STATE. YOUR WIFE IS NOT AN OGBANJE AT ALL, RATHER SHE IS A GOOD WIFE, WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN IS THIS, THEY ARE VERY GREAT MANAGERS, THEY ARE NOT LIKE MEN, WOMEN SEE THE FUTURE BETTER THAN MEN, WHAT A GOOD WIFE CAN SEE SEATING DOWN, THE HUSBAND CANR SEE THAT STANDING UP. SO MY ADVISE FOR YOU IS TO STOP CALLING YOUR WIFE AN OGBANJE.

GOD BLESS U SIR. U SPOKE MY MIND 100% no man can succeed 100% without the help of his wife.

CAN U FOR ONCE LISTEN TO UR WIFE? SHE IS A GIFT TO YOU,SHE SEE DANGER AHEAD AND TELLS U BUT U DONT LISTEN,FORMING I AM MAN YET ALL UR DECISION END IN DISASTER. LISTEN TO ME U CANT SUCCEED ALONE,PARTNER WITH UR WIFE AND LISTEN TO HER ADVICE.

IF U DONT,U WILL REGRET UR DECISION OF RUNING AWAY.

Neat cars... I love that first one,but my money never arrive.

Czzy:
Please teach me.
I am interested.
08037499797

I will get in touch with you.

TMKsouth:
I'm putting it out there to the universe. Fingers crossed

FaruqMadridCr7:
Good evening nairalanders,I saw this post on frontpage yesterday
httpss://www.nairaland.com/6500388/misconception-only-high-level-education and it really motivate me though I'm supposed to be in school by now but no money,so I've to hustle for myself.

I finished secondary school two years ago,and I did sales boy for 1 year and two months according to what he said hand skill,business and talent is the main thing to utilize in a country like Nigeria, now I'm currently learning graphics designing and printing because I also want to be skilled before going to school

In the post,he mentioned something that has got me thinking about it, which is starting a trade/business young.I've thought about it but never give it a chance,as I'm learning I also want side business with it and I don't know how to go it.

While working as a sales boy I was able to save #60,000 and I'm willing to put it on business I need an advice from you guys on which business is advisable to start with, I'll really appreciate your good advice.

Make it 70k and i will teach you a Business that will fetch you more than 100k every month.

TMKsouth:
Wouldn't mind staying here - right in the centre, looks cool

Hahaha..u love good stuff.. Right in d center.. Lol

Looks like Waterfront.

Please i know this is not d thread but i want to ask, anyone who have an idea of how much a bag of ogbono is sold? And where can i get it? Thanks.

Phic97:
Hi all! Please I need guidelines on how to invite a South African friend to Nigeria. I’d appreciate all contributions and swift response. Thanks

please people should throw more light on this, am in the same situation too thanks for your response.

myami:
you talk like sb born in january. Well, me too I don't fancy birthdays esp now that I've come of age. It makes me nervous. Sometimes I wish i never knew my DOB

haha..never be nervous bro. Death is inevitable,just live prepared,live in holiness without which no man shall see the Lord.
As for birthday,God forbid i will never ever like it again,not in this life. Even the bible says the day of death is better than the day of ones birth.
Lastly am feb. Born.
One love.

LikeAking:
If you are on NL and he is your FADA pls say Hi!

he is from my city so i say hello..haha.

Whether she would have died or not, the birthday celebration quickened it. I hate birthday with a passion, birthday and death are 5 and 6. Speaking from experience. Even in d bible two places birthday was mentioned, death followed.

Rip to the young promising girl.
#StopCelebratingBirthDay...

For those who shot d arrow of kidney problem to her in the first place. Well done, you too will also die. Her death was not ordinary i can tell you that.

Wow..JHB is not bad at all.. Will visit there also.

TMKsouth:
Yeah, the pace is definitely different. You make money in Jhb and retire in CT

you have said it all.. Thats the basic truth.

cucumbar:
you can say that again. Very beautiful country, with a lot of history. Visited in 2019/early 2020, was in jo’burg and capetown. Nigeria dey learn.

hahaha..Nigeria never even start primary school when u compare it with these cities you mentioned. Cant wait to live there totally with my wife to be there #smile#

TMKsouth:
What's was your coolest place in Joburg or why do you like the city (even though CT stole your heart )?

JHB i love it for his fast life... Similar to that of Lagos .

TMKsouth:
Lol , Jo'burg is far more soulful and historical, although it's far younger than the Cape (by 200 years). Give us a chance, man! Stay tuned.

hahaha..lol. i hear you bru. But in all i love south africa as a whole.

Nice and beautiful... But Capetown still remain number one in my heart anytime any day.

But cant give order to crush fulani herdsmen or fulani bandits nor boko haram. This man is an idiot.

Am not from the East,but when d wahala set,am gona join the igbos.