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cirmuell:
why evulz! .

Enjoy ur day.

LOL.
Thank you, I will. I have no choice.

Marvellous God. You had your wedding on Tuesday.
Are you on honeymoon tinz now?
May the joy and laughter you experienced on that day NEVER cease in your home.

Thevenine:
Good for you let the surprise packages reach my side too o

LOL.

cirmuell:
So u're Aprilborn? Happy birthday Evina, mail my cake asap please.

@thevenine HBD bro...

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yes I am. Thank you.
Sorry no cake cos I have embraced a healthy lifestyle.
I can mail you a drink of lemon n bitter leaf juice though.

Thevenine:
Thanks and same to you
Hope you're having fun

oh yes. Loads of fun surprise packages.

Thevenine:
April 8!! Happy birthday to my bday mates!!

Happy birthday to you.
Justjify, thank you.

Amen, madam Osisi.
Wishing everyone, the blessings of the season.

Wow. Thank God for you OP. May God keep increasing and sustaining you.

thorpido:
LOL.Some people just like to match-make themselves online.

Well, like Bukatyne pointed, he may mean that he has a wife that makes him feel blessed. Although, his response has no correlation with your post. LOL.

bukatyne:
He doesn't mean harm na

More like my mother is the best cook kind of thingy

LOL.

thorpido:
Opiosko and Evina?
I wish u guys the best.

Not at all sir

babyosisi:
You are getting married n a few days?
How nice
Please send us some pictures
Even if na just the venue pics

LOL.

thorpido:
He must be joking then.

I didn't quite get the message in his post. LOL.

MarvellousGod:
Uw.....
Easter Tuesday

Awwww. Just three days away. God be with you and cause you to experience ALL the blessings associated with marriage.

bukatyne:
I am thinking he meant his wife is better than Evina

How are you and family?

Why the comparison? Especially with someone unknown.

Opiosko:
Very true... But i am more blessed sha.

LOL.

MarvellousGod:
Evina, I really can't stop liking your posts. .. was smiling while reading... You gat brain babes... A lovely family awaits ya

Amen and thank you sis.
When is your trad again?

Herzumpther:
Lol.

Thank you for inviting me to this thread. obviously, there's plenty to learn. I want to go for a run, my body is craving it.

Herzumpther:
No o lol.

@Evina come and learn how to reduce more so your size 6 gown will fit you well next month.

Babe, hmmmm. I am such a foodie I do intense cardiovascular based workout then find myself eating all them high calorie food. the thing dey tire me. Lol.

Herzumpther:
Evina you should be here.

I'm here.

babyosisi:
Now you are talking
I was about to ask if he showed no signs at all
Please forget this man
My cousin is married to a girl that has polio on one leg and they live happily[b]
If he couldn't look beyond a scar on your leg then he is very shallow[/b]

True talk.
@ladynice. The ONLY thing I took from your post was your statement about having peace. Peace is the pointer that you are on the right track. It is the proof that you are in alignment with God's will.

Yes you may feel quite hurt or some shame, but please know this. If you are a Christian, Gods word says, "for your shame, I will give you a twofold recompense". So be strong because you will be overcompensated.

Get into prayers and ask for strength. The rest will be easy.
Cheer up gurl.

Xone3:
@
I really appreciate your words of advice, it was timely and well spoken. Your words kept me thinking on what I really appreciate in him. Also, Considering the fact that there are still other things left unsaid I have to think about why am with him. Make adjustments and take Evina's advice to strive to get something tangible doing. Thanks a lot

All the best
Let God guide you.

geekybabe:
@Evina. wow. thanks so much. You have really inspired me. just yesterday I was still talking to my mum and she was saying maybe I shouldn't be too hard on him and not give up easily. i like him, he respects me a lot and loves me even with the little he has. i will put more effort into motivating him and helping him out too. just that we are miles apart but ill do all i can to see him get better.
I'm so touched at your story. You put in a lot of work, he's so lucky to have you. I wish you guys d best in your marriage.

yes. I did put in a lot of effort. He also did rub off on me, as is the case when two people who care about each other decide to work as a team.

I wish you the best and hope you get the best results out of your efforts.

thorpido:
You've got a good head on your shoulders,Evina.Yours fiance is a blessed man.

thank you. I am blessed to have him too.

bejeria101:
Amazing! U wont belive the situation here in abuja,d fact that God stopped what they plan to do is still bothering them,why cant they be civil,human life means nothing to them,they burnt a church in kaduna n a pastors house,is that how they celebrate victory?

Please, what is the situation? I am currently in Abuja and it has been peaceful. Please is there something I don't know? Do share.

Halimi24:
I knew u would b a typical ngrian.Too freaking lazy 2 read.U saw d words&got scared abi?Ode.U want 2 argue an issue yet aren't capable.U take ur skinny backside&get out!!Intellectually lazy mofo.Whenever u c me on any thread make sure u shut up!Stupid_ dumb stammerer who thinks he has an opinion when he has none.Idiot_

Why are you so angry? Has Buhari not won?

prissyluv:
You are seeing so many wrongs/faults in this man,what is now the good left?
You alone knows what you want. Make your decision now before it is late.

Xone3 dear, please take the highlighted really seriously.

You know, to each his own. What one can cope with, another can't stand. So just be sure to be with that man who shares the same values as you.

Xone3:
Thanks a lot for the advice. according to him, he has savings, some assets but my main concern is the how he spends. some will say it is his money nd not myn. Wants the latest car, phone etc. I can't talk to him about it cos he will tell me it's because I don't have the money to spend. well, that's true because I'm still under my parents nd can't work till I finish serving. Do you think it will be wise to settle down if at all with him without a job. what's your say? I have handiwork sha o. I make bead and sew but not on a business level yet and am very good in trading.

It is shallow people who are not wise enough to build their home on the right foundation that make ignorant statements like, "you are not yet married to him, therefore you don't have a stake in his life".

If you and a man have decided to be man and wife, you enter into courtship. Courtship is the time you decide the kind of marriage you want and then proceed to lay the required foundation for that type of marriage. You do NOT wait to enter into marriage before you start putting the bricks that lays the foundation in place.

I decided from when I started earning a living that I WANTED to submit to a man wholly. With my finances too. I didn't want to be that woman that had a secret bank account or secret asset. The bible says, " a man shall leave his mum and dad and cleave to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.

Therefore, if the two of us have become one flesh, there should be no selfish agenda instigated by distrust. This understanding helped me choose a man that shared the same values. I couldn't trust the first guy with money. If I give him some money to keep for me, he would squander on frivolous things. He wasn't open about his finances.

My current and I are very open and transparent with our finances. I know every detail of his earnings, he knows about mine. We have one joint account for projects and individual accounts, to which we both have access to the ATM cards. It has been a very peaceful and mutually beneficial arrangement. The key to pulling such, is absolute trust. When each party trusts the other, transparency will come naturally.

If the man can trust that the woman is not out to take advantage of his financial status, but actually there to help and improve things, he will be open.

Also, I believe a godly woman MUST earn a living. It is ungodly to be slothful and you will be falling short as a woman, to not have your own earnings. The virtuous woman is a perfect guide.

So please, develop that skill to commercial level, strive to stay successful at it, you will see that he will respect you more.

All the best.

@deeptesting. Please we await the chronicles of Vera n Cooper together forever. LOL.

@all.
When I was younger, we had a number of dogs. My favourite was the pure breed rott. He was imported. Gosh. I loved the dog with my entire being. I taught the dog how to sit, hug, shake and kiss.

Captain was his name. The dog was absolutely loyal, brave, a true boss. But he died. That was the first and only heartbreak I ever experienced.

babyosisi:
Well thanks
I have my crazy side too
My husband says I have a seducing spirit
lol

Lol. Mammy water tinz.

EfemenaXY:
Cool.

What part of Isoko is he from?

Ozoro.

@ OnyeEgo1 LOL.

Honestly, madam BabyOsisi is really funny. That Chakam chakam stuff

Well, I will say to you. Please mind your business. Are you romantically involved with the girl? If she didnt seek your advice, what is the need to offer it. Please oh, focus on your own race. Let her not now discuss your advice with the lecturer and get you in trouble!

The bible says, " don't get involved in an argument that is none of your business". If you aren't comfortable with her, pull away. She knows what she is doing is wrong and doesn't need you to advise her, else she would have sought your opinion. Make lecturer no come get you for mind.