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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Shalom Street by Evina(f): 10:35pm On Dec 26, 2014

AgapeCharis:
bae dx is meant for me nt for a (f)

I prefer the tenderness of a female lipsrsealed

No be me type am oh. embarassed

Family › Re: Why Is 26th Of December Referred To As "Boxing Day". by Evina(f): 10:26pm On Dec 26, 2014

Big Lie!

It is a day people converge to box out all the hardships, dissappointments and failures of the current year.

You are meant to select a partner and both of you box it out.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Shalom Street by Evina(f): 10:22pm On Dec 26, 2014

Natasha2:
awwwww, *returns the bear hug with a bear kiss lol*

Guys for this thread go soon begin dey spark. tongue

Family › Re: What Do You Understand By The Word "HELP MATE"? by Evina(f): 10:20pm On Dec 26, 2014

Help Mate: A mate that helps. grin

But I thought it was Help Meet? huh

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Shalom Street by Evina(f): 10:05pm On Dec 26, 2014

AgapeCharis:
na my ____
Biko Natasha come complete am

LOL.

I see whacha doing. wink

Sharp guy.
Please Natasha, no falling of hends. Hehehehe

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Shalom Street by Evina(f): 10:03pm On Dec 26, 2014

Natasha2:
*runs to hide*

LOL

*runs after her and gives her a bear hug*.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Shalom Street by Evina(f): 9:56pm On Dec 26, 2014

Na who be dis Natasha2 wey dey show herself around Agape since? angry

Family › Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Evina(f): 2:09pm On Dec 26, 2014

Herzumpther:
Yes I'm for real.
You continue to reach out, you did that to me and I'm happy I stumbled on this thread.
Thanks and God bless .

I most certainly will, by Gods grace.
Thank you.

Family › Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Evina(f): 1:57pm On Dec 26, 2014

Herzumpther:
Yes I know and I'm praying for a better 2015.

Yesterday I didn't go out and for sometime I've been thinking.....2014 is almost over and I'm not where I've always imagined I will be but after I saw your post, I decided to go out for a cup of ice cream. Tomorrow will surly be better.

Awwwwww.
Are you for real? Wow! And you also just inspired me with this post. You have inspired me to never hold back, always share the good I have, even if I think it may be insignificant because there will always be someone who will find it beneficial.

Thank you.

And keep believing, expecting and reaching out.

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Family › Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Evina(f): 1:47pm On Dec 26, 2014

Herzumpther:
And this post just gave me hope. Thank you very much.

glory to God.

It can only get better, you know. wink

TV/Movies › Re: House Of DVF by Evina(f): 11:28am On Dec 26, 2014

ratatis:
@ firstEVA, slyowokoya, & Evina,
Season's greetings!
Wishing you all, joyous & prosperous new year!

Awwww

So nice of you.
Thanks.
Wish you same. wink

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Romance › Re: My Heart Is Abt To Be Broken,help! by Evina(f): 11:21pm On Dec 25, 2014

Youngpo413.
Why are you digging all of this op's threads? Can't you see the dates they were created? Abi are you the op? huh

Romance › Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Evina(f): 11:08pm On Dec 25, 2014

Mynd44:
And a guy that knows he is not sincere about a girl but keeps giving her hope so he can sleep with her is a what?

That is not gold digging, it is called being manipulative

I didn't see this before posting earlier.
All I would have done was quote and post your first paragraph. cool

Romance › Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Evina(f): 11:05pm On Dec 25, 2014

tosyne2much:
forget about taste here.. Gold digging is gold digging (simple)

It's not only when a lady scam you that she's being referred to as a gold digger

Any lady who knows she will not date you and keeps fooling you just for her own selfish interest is a gold digger

What about a guy who knows he will not marry you but keeps stringing you along for his own selfish interest?

What Mynd44,shared is the absolute truth.

Guys wey get am por money don't kia ip you chop their money.

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Family › Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Evina(f): 11:01pm On Dec 25, 2014

guardian09:
One of the most mature minds on this forum...keep it up dear.

Wow,

So kind of you.
Thanks.

Family › Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Evina(f): 10:22pm On Dec 25, 2014

The other day, I mentioned, ". 2015 will make it exactly 10 years I obtained my first degree, what exactly have I accomplished"? And he responded, " come on! Don't be ungrateful", then he proceeded to list a few of my accomplishments which made me quickly realise how ungrateful I sounded.

Thank God for the wonderful people He blesses us with to help point us in the right direction.

Please try taking stock of the experiences you've had and you will see that you may not be where you proposed to be at this time, but certainly, you are not where you used to be.

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Nairaland General › Re: 8 Things Nairalanders Should Start Doing by Evina(f): 10:05pm On Dec 25, 2014

Wonderful post.

In addendum:

Respond to posts and not monikers: some people are just too immature to be allowed access to a social forum. You see a post you disagree with, instead of stating your disagreement logically, they attack the poster, store the moniker behind that post, hold a grudge and stalk the moniker. LOL.

You know them, when they suddenly attack you when you make a contribution in any thread. They will not contribute to the thread but make you their contribution. LOL.

Family › Re: My Little Dilemma by Evina(f): 9:39pm On Dec 25, 2014

Elantracey:
I just love you

*No homo*

I love you back

Family › Re: My Little Dilemma by Evina(f): 8:34pm On Dec 25, 2014

cococandy:
Another one is feeling important.

Pls concentrate on the thread as it is not about you either.
If you don't want people with different opinions, then don't comment on threads because there will always be ppl who don't agree with you.

See your mumu self trying to guilt OP into thinking his not spending his money on already wealthy pastor is a crime.

how deluded can one get?

You have been jumping on my posts, looking for what I don't know nor care to know. I gave you the benefit of the doubt. But the hallucinations spewed on this post of yours has revealed the issues you have with yourself.

Madam Coco, I don notice you, I hope you can sleep happy now. grin

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Family › Re: My Little Dilemma by Evina(f): 8:06pm On Dec 25, 2014

cococandy:
mmm. Do you think your contribution is informed?

Actually, you are not in a position to ask such a question, as this thread is not about you.

One more thing, I don't have whatever it is you have been frantically searching for. So quit your attempts at derailing threads with my posts. cool

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Family › Re: My Little Dilemma by Evina(f): 6:53pm On Dec 25, 2014

MarvellousGod:
Exactly what I wanted to ask? so 10% of your salary can offset your debts, buy baby stuffs ??

Just as you said, you have to cut expenses, live within your means.. doing this, you will make enough savings. . You can't be in debt and be living an extravagant life, then blame your indebtedness on tithe paying. .

really it is funny how tron23 is referring to tithing as extravagant lifestyle. cheesy

how much is the tithe? Infact, if you van discipline yourself to tithe, it shows you can discipline yourself to manage your finances properly.

But hey, it is his choice and decision to make. I just wonder why he claimed to need advice in the first instance when it was actually encouragement to do what he already proposed to do.

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Family › Re: My Little Dilemma by Evina(f): 6:39pm On Dec 25, 2014

cococandy:
This good wife should get a job and help pay the tithe.
How can only one person be doing everything and she's expecting more or doesn't she know the coming baby is another responsibility too?

You don't know why she isn't working. Why not ask the OP so you can make an informed contribution rather than speculate?

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Family › Re: My Little Dilemma by Evina(f): 6:02pm On Dec 25, 2014

One more thing,

I am quite sure that before you married your wife, you made her believe you both were on the same page, as to spiritual matters.

You let her know tithing is non negotiable. Now the storms of life have come raging, you are looking at the wind instead of staying steadfast.

I am glad she is a good woman, who inspite of the challenges, refuses to compromise. Listen to your wife and the voice of reasoning within you. Remember, he that faints in the day of adversity has little strength. Ask for grace. This one too shall pass.

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Family › Re: My Little Dilemma by Evina(f): 6:02pm On Dec 25, 2014

Family › Re: My Little Dilemma by Evina(f): 5:55pm On Dec 25, 2014

tron23:
The thing is this, I have done my calculations and if I follow them from this month, by early March, 2015 I will be be done and even have some extra cash.
But it will be easier to stop all spending including tithe (God please forgive me).
Am just looking for matured responses, thanks in advance.

No you are not.
If you are truthful to yourself, you will admit that you are just looking for encouragement to do what you know is not right. You are looking for endorsements for your error.

You should know better than to seek answers to spiritual things from sources whose spirituality you ain't sure of. You have Gods word, you have the Holy Spirit, you have pastors, you have a wife who seems to have some level of spiritual understanding. Yet, you choose a secular forum for answers.

No brother, you really don't need "mature advice".

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Family › Re: My Little Dilemma by Evina(f): 5:47pm On Dec 25, 2014

zeb04:
so true

Merry Christmas.

Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 5:43pm On Dec 25, 2014

StoneColdBiceps:
In as much as dis is a public forum to learn, i think there should bé a slot dat request for age of OP and d age of d person d story is involved. This will let people to know wat to comment and ignore. Op u have brain and ur friend too, use it!

But why insult the op nauw? She mentioned she doesn't support the actions of her friend. Besides, people have different orientations and how they perceive things.

If you observed other posts before mine, even those made by guys, they did not see anything wrong with the actions of the lady.

Romance › Re: How Much Is Too Much? by Evina(op): 5:02pm On Dec 25, 2014

AgapeCharis:
and hw about he got to knw through some means. Dt wouldn't be nice.

I go with 100% transparency tho. So she can knw the person she's down with and see if she really loves me. Love is choosing to stay with someone irrespective of whatever he/she has done in d past

Buh u gat work on ur maturity tho. Sometimes, people lie to us nt because dey want to or because dey've got some hidden agenda. They do cos they are afraid u wouldn't be able to handle the truth.

Exactly.

Truth is, if you want to know it all, be sure you can handle it all. I mean why can't we just be like Christ and adopt the new creation approach? grin

"If any man be in love with me, old things have passed away, behold! All things have become new". wink

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Romance › Re: How Much Is Too Much? by Evina(op): 4:56pm On Dec 25, 2014

jmoore:
If you are married, nothing is too much.

Huh? It was actually the marital relationship I had in mind when I opened this thread.

I once heard that a pastor adviced that, if you make a mistake like cheating, genuinely repent and confide in someone you can trust (not your spouse) to relieve yourself of the guilt.

According to him, telling your spouse can cause serious issues you both may not be able to handle. lipsrsealed

Romance › Re: How Much Is Too Much? by Evina(op): 4:52pm On Dec 25, 2014

Elantracey:
Though I believe that what is past is past but that's all the same reason I'll prefer 100% transparency , if he can't accept me and whatsoever has happened in the last then so be it . Anything that you won't be able to tell your spouse is definitely something that could rise up tomorrow.

At the highlighted, of course there is that risk. But, how many people can really handle the dark truths?

Romance › Re: How Much Is Too Much? by Evina(op): 4:50pm On Dec 25, 2014

kristina1:
I dnt agree with 100% transparency with ur partner,some things are better left unsaid.....

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