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Romance › Re: Loving A Girl For 4 Years Without Letting The Person Know:isit Fear Or Stupidity by Evina(f): 11:46pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
It is a fear of stupidity.  I prefer to act and see the result of my actions, than not act and wonder what would have been. Guy better act before it's too late and you start singing, "coulda, woulda, shoulda". |
Family › Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage ? by Evina(f): 11:28pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
obowunmi: Lies. He probably wasn't attracted to his wife. How will he not know he's suppose to poke his wife. What do you mean by poke?  |
Family › Re: In Need Of An NGO!!! by Evina(f): 11:23pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Post the story on family section. Ensure to copy Aisha2. She has a wealth of experience in matters that affects women and requires the attention of an NGO. All the best.  |
Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 11:06pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
sexylogan: Amen again.  I know there are some good ones but they are hard to find. As expected of treasures.  |
Romance › Re: Has Any Of You Ladies Ever Wooed A Guy Before? by Evina(f): 10:58pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
AgapeCharis: and several girls have asked me out which I politely declined. Guess what! I'm still friends with all of dem. Like closer sef A.C  Even though you hardly hear from me, you are never forgotten. Thanks for all the shoutouts.  I love you bro.  |
Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 10:53pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
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Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 10:30pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
0b1nna: If I were in the lady's husband's shoes, and supposing I find out, I'll call my ex for sex. Think that balances the scale.  haba bros, marriage is not "do me I do you, God no go vex". LOL God go vex and before long, both parties will have to answer their surnames. |
Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 10:24pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
emsheddy: wish am ready for marriage. Wud hav av asked for ur hand in marriage. U r one of a kind. God bless u, ur family, ur street, ur community, ur husband n everything dat has to do with u.  thank you. A resounding amen to your declarations.  And may God bless you and cause you to be a blessing. |
Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 10:21pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
SHOCK7: I'm really loving 'ur comments,u d type of gal I should meet!  thank you. |
Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 10:19pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
DonaldGenes: Why wouldn't I like this Bae Cos you have no reason to.  Awwww, thanks.  |
Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 10:18pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
BuddhaPalm: Her husband could be irresponsible, for one. :oo Really? Whatever happened to "covering your spouse's unclothedness"? So because the husband is irresponsible, she has to be more irresponsible, by not only giving an ex the opportunity to make unwarranted demands but also revealing to the ex that she married an irresponsible man, and even empowering the ex to insult the husband? That is not at all wise sir. |
Family › Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage ? by Evina(f): 7:17pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Since you are both Christians, do it the Christian way. Go for counselling. It works. Don't feel your pastors have nothing to offer, they are humans, with loads of experience and spiritual maturity. A case study. A virgin couple went to see their pastor after 3 months in marriage. The pastor probed and found out they had not consummated their marriage. The groom said, they fast and pray often and sleep on the same bed. He thought sleeping on the same bed equals "sleeping with your spouse"  After counselling, they knew better.  |
Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 7:07pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
jmoore: If she never told her husband, then something is fishy. A man that will be okay with that gesture is a suspect! His manliness is questionable.  |
Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 7:05pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
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Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 7:04pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
sexylogan: You are a very sensible lady. May God bless you, your (future) husband, children for this statement. If you are yet to marry, God will give you a faithful loving man. Your type is very very rare in Naija.  Bros, thank you for these prophesies you just dey release unto me in this season of "yanfuyanfu" packages.  That is how you too, go dey collect your own "yanfuyanfu" packages.  As per the highlighted, come on nauw. Your expectations of Naija gals are really low.  |
Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 2:07pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
farano: I told her thesame thing but she said they settled well before her marriage. It is not a matter of settling well or not. Why do you think it is taken to the extreme when a woman cheats, in comparison to when a man does? Because of the male ego. When a woman turns to an ex for anything, even as little as an advice, it is perceived that her man is not man enough, to provide the satisfaction she needs. Money matters is even worse, because many people associate the weight of a man with his financial capabilities. Your friend is behaving like a foolish woman, excited to pull down her home. |
Romance › Re: She Is Married But She Called Her Ex For Christmas Gift by Evina(f): 12:23pm On Dec 24, 2014 |
Wow!
Even the idea of a married woman calling another man for money is nauseating, how much more an ex. Some women are so stu.pid! I bet she did it behind her husband. Does she not know she has just rubbished her husband before that ex? |
Celebrities › Re: Checkout Yobo`s Adorable Family 2014 Christmas Card (pics) by Evina(f): 12:13am On Dec 24, 2014 |
One word for this...exotic! How come it hasn't hit front page? Oh yes, topic wasn't created by Lalasticlala  |
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Family › Re: Whats Your Take On Honeymoon by Evina(f): 4:44pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
It's just like asking what's the essence of a vacation or taking time off work to be with someone you love. |
Family › Re: Will You Be Happy About This As A Man. by Evina(f): 4:32pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Mondisweets: i can talk in any way i deem fit. now can you kindly f*ck off and look for someone else to bother thank you! LOL. Whatever rocks your sinking boat. |
Family › Re: Nairalanders Answer: How Would You React If Your Child Came Out As Gay by Evina(f): 4:30pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
mutter: When it comes to stealing etc. The cat turns into a tiger. I am a great believer in discipline and consequences.  LOL. Abi oh my sister.  |
Family › Re: Will You Be Happy About This As A Man. by Evina(f): 3:21pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Mondisweets: I really dont know what the f*ck your issue really is. Do yourself a favour anytime you see a mondisweets post, close your eyes and flick your screen upwards very fast. Its really not rocket science  You don't have to be rude nor behave uncivilised because an error you made was pointed to you. You can't tell me what post to read or ignore cos it is not your internet bandwidth, laptop/mobile device, fingers or mental capacity that is in use. Learn to read and comprehend simple English. It is not rocket science.  |
Family › Re: Nairalanders Answer: How Would You React If Your Child Came Out As Gay by Evina(f): 3:16pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
mutter: I think that was a wrong approach. It would have been better for her to let the child play those games and live out his fantasies while also trying to subtly interest him in other things. The problem with not living out your fantasies as a kid is that you take them to adulthood and then start doing it secretly because you have learnt to hide it. That is why most of them take time to out themselves. I had a child tat was doing it and I let him be , I even bought him dolls. I did not encourage him but I did not stop him, every one thought he would be gay but today he is still a teen and finds girls very attractive and relates to them very well. He is also very humane and I know his wife would be very lucky one day because he is not a Macho type. Maybe. But I certainly will not encourage what I see as awkward. If a child starts indulging in immorality because he watched adults who weren't discreet, or starts picking stuff not theirs, then I will assume it is a fantasy he has to live right? Don't be scared of instilling discipline in your children. They will be grateful to you later. |
Family › Re: Nairalanders Answer: How Would You React If Your Child Came Out As Gay by Evina(f): 3:11pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
masonkz: Funny. I'm assuming you actually know this guy's sexuality now? Or who he sleeps with?
Many gay people passed through same. Changed nothing. They ended up withdrawing every personal info relating to their sexual life from their parents. I know this is a very touchy subject for you. So I will be sensitive. My earlier opinion still stands. |
Family › Re: Will You Be Happy About This As A Man. by Evina(f): 3:09pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Mondisweets: I read this post i dont see why i should modify my post. The point im trying to put across is that it will start off of secondhand clothes, eventually her demands will start going higher. What exactly is your own?  Whose demands exactly? Nowhere in the post was it indicated that anyone made a demand. Go back read and modify your post. My own is that, you should read, comprehend and advice accordingly. Don't be hasty to offer advice. |
Family › Re: Attachment Parenting Anyone? by Evina(f): 11:36am On Dec 23, 2014 |
Attachment parenting ko, weave parenting Ni. Later now, when the child grows up to be a spoiled, whiny, self absorbed and needy adult, who blames you for nor being firm with him, you will blame your ancestors.
My dear, love builds up people. If you really love your child, you will determine to raise him well and raising well includes instilling discipline and stern correction. |
Family › Re: Nairalanders Answer: How Would You React If Your Child Came Out As Gay by Evina(f): 11:24am On Dec 23, 2014 |
The adult a child becomes is a function of the training/discipline received or the lack of it. That is why a wise saying goes, "train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it". Character is difficult to change and habits die hard.
If you are an observant parent, you will not be taken by surprise. Your child cannot just become something you don't understand. You must have noticed some subtle signals but out of ignorance, you let it slide.
My colleagues nephew, at the age of 3, started to prefer feminine things. He chose dresses and dolls. The mama beat the love for feminine things out of him and when we tell him that story today, we all just laugh about it.
Those lazy parents excuse their poor parenting skills with, "he has always being that way". If you correct him, he won't turn out that way. |
Family › Re: Sad Marital Tales From My Friend by Evina(f): 11:01am On Dec 23, 2014 |
What advice did her dad give her? You mentioned parents aren't aware.
What is she so scared of? What is crippling her from making the necessary move out of that doomed place? |
Family › Re: Will You Be Happy About This As A Man. by Evina(f): 10:46am On Dec 23, 2014 |
Mondisweets: My mum had a cousin who was fond of doing that too, my dad told her that when her demands become unbearable don't come and report her to me because i will ignore you.
My mum being a miss goody two shoes she kept helping her until she was even asking my mum to buy her plane tickets to go shopping and her daughter was even expecting allowance from my mum.
The day she was fed up with this woman's demands she called her and told her to grow the hell up and living like the world owes her hand-outs
If you keep treating a grown woman like a child she will keep acting like one. Its not a matter of wanting to give her stuff, but she needs to learn to have kids she can afford to take care of. Trust me the demands will keep going higher and higher as time goes by.
Some people need to be told where to get off the bus before they become a parasite. LOL This is the funniest comment I have read on this thread. Madam, please don't be hasty to give advice. Go back and read the original post, then come modify your post.  |
Romance › Re: Why Do Men Ignore Girls by Evina(f): 9:44am On Dec 23, 2014 |
iamord: thank you well I am only nice to people that I know deserve it.. You should know where u stand by now  |