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AgapeCharis:
love is wide. Its wide enough to share

1one:
What I'm about to say may reek of impulsive optimism or maybe even make me come across as proud.. But honestly there's nothing that would make me cheat on my spouse...least of them all sex.. you know how some men fall for all those chewing girls that have bouncy butts and boobies, and consequently use these assets to lure married men away... By the grace of God I'm not one of such men.. Ofcourse I'm attracted to those things especially boobies but it won't b enough reason to cheat on my wife either physically or even emotionally

I see marriage first of all as a "service" to God... So my decision not to cheat on my wife is not even necessarily because she's a good wife or because I love her, but primarily because I revere God. If a man is faithful to his wife because she ticks all the good boxes what then happens when she slips and/or does something silly.

AgapeCharis:
k. Its nt an English word I guess

I mean the two persons involved could be me n u

AgapeCharis:

Chisos!


*pulls her back
**pats her butt
I dont like u walking away on me oo

AgapeCharis:

BTW wat do u mean by detalia?

AgapeCharis:
I don't knw. U'v never mentioned it

Very soon, u'll have a 10 star rating

AgapeCharis:
@topic
This could be me n u u

Lordabas:
Manage it. No yoghurt over here in Cotonou

kenex4ever:
U just said it d way it is

tosyne2much:
I'm the person ** covers face **

Lordabas:
one bottle for you

1one:
Lol.. Thanks for the props though.

If I say I've not masturba:ted, it's as good as saying it snows in lagos...and if I say I still masturba:te it would mean Obama is a Nigerian.

In my early/mid 20s I used to masturba:te and alternatively watch por:n, but even at that it was not a habit, maybe like twice in six months... But it got to a point I got fed up because the guilt that washes all over my body is always always more intense than the "horniness" I had before that prompted me to do it... So I was like what the heck... No point... So in summary I don't do por:n nor masturba:te anymore.

However I don't quite agree that late male virgins experience psychological problems or maybe I just think it's too far a fact to relate with since personally I'm not dealing with any psychological issues... But I may reason it out with the view that a man who has become overly used to masturba:ting may find it difficult to relate to real women in the real world since he is used to ventilating his sexual tension primarily through self stimulation instead of externally fed social stimulation /interaction

laykorn:

VickyyB:
Lol. Attention as in? Girls goes around wooing him. Hehee.

You can succumb for any guy if you're in a relationship?

AgapeCharis:
hahahahahahahaaaahaaa
*ROTFL
LWKM4H

U don't want to reply my pm abi?

VickyyB:
How?

AgapeCharis:
let's leave dox for d ones dt have dem

clevvermind:
i have to end it soon.

AgapeCharis:
4star na high rank o
It means u'r someone I respect, there's something abt ur posts dt kinda pulls me tew u, u'r intelligent,,,,,e.t.c. dt 4star carries enough weight actually

AgapeCharis:
mtcheeew!
Get a life pls

AgapeCharis:
@Bolded
Nt all V guys tho

1one:
My knowledge of celibacy is a bit toned towards abstinence from sex but since the OP has broadened it, then for me-

Relationship Celibacy - 5years

Sexually celibacy - 28years.

The sexual celibacy for me is like a sugar plated blade... On one end I feel really healthy and sane and "fly" knowing that nobody has seen that side of my existence or personality, on the flip side atimes, the sexual drive "peaks" so much that I virtually become red-faced .

I think what helps me to especially maintain my sexual celibacy is the thought of getting down with any random girl, I'm a very finicky person and so even if I wanted to have one night stands or cheap brothel sex, I still wouldn't be able to because I'd want the experience to be sincere and worth the time, not just with anybody but someone I have true feelings for.

Aside from all that English above though... I'm a Christian and pre-marital sex is not even the faintest, slightest option for me... Not even if a gun were pointed to my fore head.

As for relationship celibacy.... I've still not found the lady I have that "click" with...

Searching continues... Vision 2020

AgapeCharis:
didn't gt it o

baLLoTBOxX:
am not playing games with you. Check out my post and your reaction, even after I hoped you won't take it wrongly.

baLLoTBOxX:
and this is how you treat an honest mind baring an opinion you asked for?

baLLoTBOxX:
to be completely honest with, your posture in your profile picture attracts me sexually making me wish I could hug you from behind and whisper words into your ears. Hope you won't take my honesty wrongly.

baLLoTBOxX:
so where do u live?

baLLoTBOxX:
cos I won't have to wait till u come online b4 chatting wit u

baLLoTBOxX:
it's good enough but not the best. Can we exchange pins?

baLLoTBOxX:
do u mind us chatting on bbm