₦airaland Forum

Mavor:
You sound razz!!! What planet are you on? You 9ja girls think way too highly of yourselves.

You type like a high school dropout. You don't have to be miserable about your condition.

I will send you the link to which you can apply for the annual scholarships I give, to adults who need a second chance at receiving quality education.

ChurchillStorm:
you are quite the MILF oh

Do you even know the meaning of MILF?
It's quite pathetic how you just use a word you heard without bothering to check the meaning.

Nche95

Come on! Quit the victim mentality

It is no mistake you were born in this country. No one gets to choose the family through which he/she would be ushered into this world.

God looked into your future and decided that this country is the best place for you to begin life. So dude, make the most of it

Sure, you have had many or maybe even mostly horrible experiences, well, so have I and many others around you. But, that is not enough to throw in the towel and give up on yourself and your country

Start looking out for the good in the bad and the good will start coming to you

One love.

rosemary1500:
i disagree.
see, am hot! very hot and men like that. but ladies alwys know their aim.
they play along trying to see if there's more to get out of a guy and that's about this generation.

but talking from experience, you can't eat your cake and have it.
you follow a guy cuz he has money? Jeez! how cheap is that it means you are either so lazy or so insecure abt ur future and ur planning to be a puppet wife unknowingly. God forbid!
learn to understand how to make money, then find a balance with a man that is intelligent, manages money well, successful in his "small" or "big" business, loves GOd and wait for it...HONEST!!! in his dealings. if not, one morning all that shopping spree will be greeted with police and EFCC or if u find cops chasing like in new york, then that marriage was over long before you knew it.

**my two cents^^

Rosemary1500

Weytin you dey talk

What has your "hotness" or the lack of it got to do with my post or even the topic?

How does my post support lazyness from a woman or following a guy cos he's got money?

Gurl, why don't you take your time to read and clearly understand my post before "disagreeing" and stating your opinion?

lilmax:
you know you are wrong

You know I'm right

What is unrealistic about it? I saw a groom with two brides. Muslims.

AgapeCharis:
I beg to differ ma'am
We knw very well d difference b/w "friendliness" & "greenlight" but that ladies seem not to understand dx tin at all. They see any guy dt tries to b friendly with dem as a toaster or potential toaster

The only place I am really friendly with a guy is online. Because in real life, they always misconstrue the most genuine intentions. They always want to push for something further.

DieeDiee:
You are starting to contradict yourself...

Okay, I am known to never give up, but this is where I say au revoir

One last word, you really need to learn the art of seeking to understand

DieeDiee:
No babe, please reread I even made bold I kept saying ACCORDING TO YOU

Reread what?

You are the one that needs to re read.
OR
Refer to my last post before this one you quoted. That post is my final attempt at clarifying all misconceptions and if you still don't get it, then...

DieeDiee:
Your words below:

exactly what I thought.

So to be a subordinate means you are submissive right?

Okay, I rest my case. Hahahahaa.

To further prove how much you DieeDiee and Vicky have twisted and deliberately misinterpreted my views.

I never stated that to be a subordinate at work means you have to be a subordinate at home That is simply nonsensical.

What I stated was if a woman can submit to a class of men e.g their male superior, then why is it hard to submit to their man.

You gals have taken submission to be the same as subordinate.

I hope you know that not all subordinates are submissive to their superiors in the work place? I hope you also know that many bosses are sometimes submissive to their subordinates?

Please don't be overly concerned with shoving your opinion down peoples throats, so much so that you choose to not understand their perspective.

DieeDiee:
I only repeated what you said and applied it in reverse. It's called testing the hypothesis.

Not at all. You stated what you interpreted from what I attempted to communicate. And I repeat, your interpretation is wrong.

DieeDiee:
If I may interject babe? What Vickky is trying to say is:

1) You are comparing apples to oranges as a romantic relationship and a professional relationship are two different kinds of relationship with different dynamics therefore it is faulty to attempt to compare them, but

2) Using your reasoning, you still fall short because according to you if one can be subordinate to their boss they should be subordinate to their partner. Therefore Vickky is asking you does that mean MEN who have WOMEN as bosses should be subordinate to their wives at home because according to you again if you can be subordinate at work you should be subordinate at home with the one you love - this means [b]using your reasoning[/b]men with female bosses should be submissive to their wives.

You and Vicky should quit quoting me out of context.

Your interpretation of my post is devoid of sensible reasoning. My point is clear. Don't assume what I haven't stated.

Besides, is your argument based on men submitting to women if they expect submission from women? OR is it based on women not submitting to a man at all?

Actually, it is the other way round.

When a girl is friendly with a guy, he begins to have the erroneous idea that she is an easy lay.

AgapeCharis:
Observing comments

Evina swirrie
Na ur mama born u

Lol, I dey go enter that post wey you share some mins back.

chibwike:
What are they submiting...is it assignment or classwork.

Lol,

VickyyB:
You are funny. You said i'm being submissive to my male boss.

But when i mentioned about men who have female boss, you diverted. Smh
BYE!!!

You are funnier. In fact, so funny it is amazing.

When did I mention that you are submissive to your boss? Do I know you? Do I know if you have a boss?

And please if you cannot argue constructively without throwing in subtle insults like "smh" then put yourself in observation mode.

I am really amazed at how you find it hard comprehending someone's post, consistently misunderstanding their view and creating imaginary misconceptions. It makes me wonder...

VickyyB:
Lol. You're diverting. If you say those men are acting as subordinate, that means i'm also acting as subordinate to my boss.

Are you saying Okonjo Iweala doesn't have men in her organisation. What of liberian female president that has men in her cabinet?

Ok..I know a woman who's bank manager and she has many male and female as a worker. What you say?

Acting as subordinates? How can they act as subordinates when in reality they are? You don't know the meaning of subordinates.

A subordinate is someone who holds a junior rank or position in a corporate environment.

And your subsequent paragraphs

Honestly girl, I am finding it really cumbersome understanding your views. I don't understand how you arrive at conclusions I never insinuated. I really don't know what basis your argument is framed upon

VickyyB:
I can't see any double standard but what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

Ngozi Okonjo Iweala and some powerful women, control men at work.
Does that mean those men should be a submissive husband

Control? Do you mean to say lead? As in have men as subordinates?

Besides, you should get your facts right. Don't go about saying things you aren't sure of about people you don't know.

VickyyB:
I'm submissive to my boss.
He's submissive to his own boss.

Why can't we both reciprocate it. I can't be the slave one, you know?

If you can submit to your boss, why can't you submit to your man?

If you claim submission is not for you, then don't submit to anyone.

What you have unwittingly told me about yourself is that there are men that you can submit to and if that "kind" of man is in a relationship with you, you would submit.

VickyyB:
I'm interested in getting your point. Work place and family thing is entirely two different thing and shouldn't be compared.

Are you insinuating a man being controlled by Okonjo Iweala is submissive man or rather, doing his work?.

I really do not get what you are driving at

I also marvel at how have chosen to understand my post Especially the insinuations you perceive I have made.

Please rephrase your questions in simpler terms.

While you do that, in reference to your point that family and work shouldn't be compared, I totally disagree. I mean, if you as a woman can show respect and honor and can yield to the will of your male superior in the office even when you detest him, why can't you do same for a man you claim to love?

I mean, if you misinterprete submission for control and claim you are miss independent and will not be controlled by any man, then you have double standards if you let a man at the office "control" you. Your so called free will shouldn't have boundaries.

VickyyB:
I'm interested in getting your point. Work place and family thing is entirely two different thing and shouldn't be compared.

Are you insinuating a man being controlled by Okonjo Iweala is submissive man or rather, doing his work?.

Double post.

VickyyB:
You don't have a point here.
If a woman is my boss, I would still be her floor mat.
Are you saying a woman can't be a man boss in work place?

Learn the art of comprehension before rudely stating someone doesn't have a point.

You mentioned I don't have a point, yet proceeded to ask me a question based on your inability to deduce my point. Are you interested in getting my point or just focused on forcing your opinion on others?

LewisO:
That questioner that ask that question if he/she is twice as smarter than they were now he/she did be absolutely silly! what a senseless and tirade question, even a 6yrs old kid can't ask that stupid question...

Huh, I beg your pardon.

That story was also on Stella Dimorkorkus' blog(SDK) and some others. Why is Linda the only one being blasted? Oh I know, she is the most successful.

laykorn:
Too much filtering oga mi. Hian! You fine small sha. Na the girls go fit tell you truth pass.
Ayamlaykorn

I never knew you were such a liar.

Very well stated, Zeemoor.

Physical pain cannot be compared to emotional pain. Emotional pain can lead to depression, deterioration of mental health and even suicide.

Physical pain is mostly short lived, unlike emotional pain which could even last more than half of one's life time.

crackhaus:
Lmao...

This one is guilty!

Crackhaus

phantonce:
So when am I resuming to my new post as the managing director of ur establishment.