₦airaland Forum

austin2all:
And the FG/northerners doesn't want to ban the damn hijab, who has it helped? Stupid people.
https://www.sherv.net/cm/emo/smoke/smileys-passing-joint.gif

Lets keep smoking my bro...never mind them.

Laveda:
Please what?

Pls be my Valentine.

Vavana:
Good day all,

Kindly share your view or trow more light.

Is it right for a lady to tell her boy friend no to sex before marriage notwithstanding she's no longer a virgin.

Thanks.

Yes it is very right and OK. My kind of girl and relationship. Its not a must to fvk.

Laveda:
Thanks

Laveda ....Pls

This may not be the right room but this is however the only room I am active. So please no bashing.

So, if you had a chance to go back in time and re-live part of your life with the knowledge you have now. When will it be and why that time?

Enjoy...Laveda...I'll like to know your view.

EggovinMma:
That's what happens when randy men can't keep their spitting diccks on check. Person wey die don die! RIP to the dead.



As for yewande, your own dey for front.

Eggovin...its way beyond being randy.nothing in the story said he was unfaithful to his wife.pls,dont be rash in ur judgement.yes,he has a baby mama but that was way b4 he married Yewande. he wants to c his child.na crime or sin?anyway...the case deep pass deeperlife.if we start to talk,na morning reach nite and morning again.

figur8:
i don't know if they get paid for watching football or something else.i have been so unlucky having relationships with guys that loves futbal so much they forget you ever existed when they are glue to the tv screen watching football match.same thing happened yesterday evening and i told him "it over" not even minding val is just some days from now.is there still guys that don't care about football?

Here for u figur8. dont even know wot guys see in futball. come lets watch telemundo or movie channels. cuddle up with ice cream.

Jadekitana:
I have gone through some sections as a new comer and I keep seeing statements like:

1)lalasticlala come and see something

2)lalasticlala have you seen this?

3)Someone should invite lalasticlala to see this

4)lalasticlala do the needful

5)lalasticlala close this thread,he stole my update.

6) cc lalasticlala

7)lalasticlala goodmorning etc

But I have never seen a reply from the said person, is he the owner of the forum? Or people just like looking for his trouble or attention? No insults please, i'm just asking

Been meaning to ask this kwesion...but i just manage accept he is the moderator. Just like when Seun is mentioned. But make Seun or lalasticlala say something. And for mentioning lalasticlala...i am presenting a chicken for sacrifice.

kokoA:
Hmm.. Dis one look like arrangee something o

No be small....

Another publicity stunt.

Your siblings are very wonderful and loving but I know they don't approve of our relationship. Your parents too. I know they just like me. Maybe we should keep our relationship a secret until things blow over. We can still see each other and do the things we do. Next thing I know she has moved out of town and hardly takes my calls, replies my BBMs, emails and facebook chats

At least...no curse or abuse on me

Daddy GO Prophesied this. End Time Virus...

Guys and Gals....abstinence oooohh...pls.

No be effytin way pass 4 trouser or skirt u must fvk.
Women make una no dey make man swear for una say he must chop because of ur excess demand

Men leave babes alone...its not a must u go count census. Some of these babes na 'mami water' oh.

globalruns:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/02/nysc-warns-corpers-on-national-service-law-school/

But who does that? How can you combine both tedious and rigorous programme? You b mumu ni? Common sense (though not too common now) should tell u, u cant combine both. Legally, time wise, energy, etc.

bvibesblogger:
Former model and super blogger Linda Ikeji is reportedly engaged and is said to be planning a 2016 wedding.

According to Radar, Linda and her beau have been engaged since last year, and are set to become official this year.

“She has been keeping her relationship with the guy low key. He proposed last year and they are expected to get married this year but not sure when. The wine carrying ceremony will be taking place at the mansion she built for her father in the village. I don’t really know the guy but I heard he is into real estate.. one of those silent money types. They have been meeting at his place for a while,” the website reports.

The website further added that Linda may be selling her recently-purchased Banana Island mansion. She is “selling the estate and planning to re-invest the money. She’s in love doesn’t means she’s stupid haba,” Radar adds.

Miss Ikeji is yet to respond to requests for confirmation of the report.

http://www.360nobs.com/2016/02/linda-ikeji-is-engaged-set-to-marry-this-year/

Yes it is true...I am her beau.

alvin000:
She was a lady that I mate on twitter abt 2 month ago in Abeokuta and we agree to meets on Sallah day to enjoy oursef. On that faithful day, the lady show and I took her to sweet sensations eatery joint, b4 we finally arrived home late in the night. We took a hot bath togeza after lots of cudlling n romances. When it comes to the real show, I brought out a condom in my wallet, but as she saw it, she sai'd "over her dead body" I asked her why? She said, "whenever someone used condom on her, she will get some rashes in her pussy the next dat" so since then she always Bleep raw. I asked her 'what about HIV, STDs n d rest? She said that's not a probs. I also asked her 'How many BF's she have? She said 'they r only 3 but she have a kid with her ex. I told her that I am afraid n I don't even trust myself talkless of her, so "if no condom, then no sex". The lady just started criying n raining cursed on me that I said she's a HIV carrier which I did not. Throughout that night she didn't sleep and she even picked off a pillow n slept on carpet while I slept alone on bed. Early in the morning she prepared to go n I gave her some cash to enter motor but she turn it n even show me lots money in her bag. I want to ask you my friends, Have I done anything wrong? Sorry for the grammer, I was engineering student English is a bit probs to me. Thnx

You did nothing wrong. Some ladies r allergic to the component(s) in condoms. dont blame her. she maybe lying too. but just have the allergy info. cases like this,oyinbo gat alternatives maybe some sort of medical lube. dont know. not sure. but dont kill urself.u did d rite thing by not going raw at that time. if u must bed the lady...go into the internet and research for alternatives.ask doctors or medical professionals. but my advice....abstinence. I really dont get it with guys and sex these days. must we bang effrything that crosses our path?

bankable:
i have this girl dat m dating and i luv her so much and i guess she loves me although m doubting it.m 25 and m short, dark and not too fine(dont wanna call myself ugly) and this gel on the other hand is 21 and very sexy too. but their is dis guy dat is in her dept he is also 21 hes very handsome tall and lightskinned. she calls this dude her bff such that she uses it as an excuse to get away with d attrocities she commit wit him like hugging him sitting on his leg even kissing him sometimes buh as a mature person i bone sha. this gel does not allow me to touch her even though i spend alot of money on her and shower her with expensive gifts. on this fateful day as usual i went to see my love nd i was about entering i dint knock d door only for me to see a flash of her unclothedness she quickly pushed me away nd slammed the door claiming she wants to dress so i waited for her to finish dressing then she opened the door. when i entered i got the shock of my life i saw this her so called bff in d same room meaning she was naked with him inside d room. the most annoying thing is that this stupid girl claim hes her bff so dia nothing wrong. see me see wahala see yeye talk for yeye mouth. i feel like killing her if na you wetin u go do. or am i too hard on her.

You have what the medical people term a disorder arising from the conflict between the desire to be noticed and the fear of being humiliated, characterized by aggressiveness or withdrawal into oneself. The babe is not yours..she is just talking to u for the gifts you shower her. You na maga. Leave her and move on. Then stop seeing youself as u described. you are wonderful and handsome. every babe would wanna be with u.

EastanPower:
This man should be released immediately.

He has not killed anyone neither has he bombed anywhere, why detain him against court orders?

Buhari should set good examples for others to follow in this country.

...I think about so many ways to respond but...it's waste of resources. Just go....

here i was thinking we would finally have the 1st Nairalanders wedding. Which the romance section will have their special seating.Let me keep hoping and dreaming....

Toks2008:
I have heard many ladies say stuffs like "John loves me but i can't marry him because i have no feelings for him but I love Jude but he is just acting funny and he even told me he does not love me" but she will still continue to hope that Jude wakes up one day to start loving her while she keeps driving John away.

This is the case with many ladies loving a man who does not want or love them while neglecting or friend-zoning the serious minded dudes who sincerely want them.A happy and peaceful union is not about being with a Tall,cute,handsome,rich bla bla bla...but its about having a man who respects and sincerely wants you.

Please as a lady,you must understand that it is not every man who professes love to you is genuine and not not all the men who ask for your hand in marriage really wants you because many guys marry for different reasons.Some want unhindered sex,some just want to have children,want someone to take care of the home front or just satisfy the demands of family members so be sure to test that man to know if he really loves and wants you as a wife for the right reasons before saying yes i do to him..

I have so many lady friends who have been in and out of affairs and i can boldly make this conclusion with no fear of confrontation that for a lady to have a fulfilling marriage, it is not about how sweet looking or romantic or rich a guy is and infact the feelings of the lady towards the man as important as it may be does not guaranty a happy marriage rather it is what the man feels towards the lady that matters.

[b]Now let me blow your mind;many ladies will not agree with this but this is how women are wired. Men are visually influenced while ladies are emotionally influenced.[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]

If a woman marries a man she does not love as in no single love at all but this guy starts to show her real love and i mean treats her like a queen,i bet you that in no time, she will begin to fall in love with him even if he is a fat,short,ugly man. This is the mystery that women don't even understand just like the act of sharing a man but if you marry a guy by all means because he is a cutie,rich or for any other reasons asides from his unequivocal desire for you, trust me,by the time he treats you like a poo after marriage,that cute guy you marry will look like a beast and all the money he has will be inconsequential to you . The beauty and the beast movie is not just fiction.[/b]

My unbiased conclusion is that if a lady marries a man that truly loves and cherishes her,SHE IS COMPLETE IN MARRIAGE but if a lady marries a man she loves and feels so crazy about but does not truly loves or desires her,SHE IS MARITALLY FINISHED .

Every woman should pray to marry a man who will make them complete.

My humble personal take.

I like that part the most. To digress a little....this is the reason men cheat a lot (they see a hot babe, they want to hit it. no emotions attached. just hit it) and also the reason it is hard for a guy to forgive his babe that he caught cheating. It is also why men can't marry a babe they know they guys that fvked her or even do the dreadful...leaving her on their wedding day when he finds out she has been about town in the past.

Women on the other hand can easily forgive, once she sees or starts seeing that emotional change. The visuals will always be in a man's head.

I thought the plates and spoons they would be using would be gold, diamond, platinum, or all together plated...*long hiss*

Its the same kind of plates and spoons and cups I use in my house. Same my for neighbour.

So why all the thiefing of millions, billions, trillions?

jidxin:
Angela had worked for our family for two years. She’s hard working and fond of kids. I treated her like a younger sister. Recently, I discovered she was pregnant, and guess who she said was responsible? My loving husband, Deji. When I confronted my husband, he didn’t deny it. I never suspected Deji had been having sexual relations with the maid. I probably should have been more vigilant. Do I even have to blame the girl? What about my husband who could not keep his hands off her? If he had gotten another woman pregnant apart from my maid, it would have been bearable. But how could he stoop so low as to do it with our maid? Right under my nose? Hhmmm…. Now, he’s asking me to forgive his infidelity, claiming that it was the devil’s handiwork. I’m so confused even though I feel so betrayed and tempted to leave the marriage. What would you do if you were in my shoes?

Considering how 'Dear Bunmi' cliche this story is....i'm surprised ppl are still asking the what do i do question or what would u do if u were in my shoes? Possible ans:
1) Kill yourself or commit suicide
2) Leave with the situation. Raise the child as yours.
3) Cuff your hubby's dick so that he doesnt do it to the neighbour's maid. Since that's his thing.
4) Never ever think about leaving your husband or kicking him to the curb. Bad Omen.
5) Sexrvice him AM to PM and make sure when u are not around the maid is filling in for you.....very well.
6) Any other thing that comes to your mind will do.

MadeOfBlaq:
If u ask me

na who u go ask?

dollyjoy:
Rape?


guys rarely encounter rape compare to their counterpart.

Pls Dolly dont show yourself here. Just because guys have the penetrating tool does not mean they cant or havent been forced to penetrate where they didnt want to penetrate. Ans as shameful as it is for the penetrated, so it is for the penetrator when forced.

MadCow1:
Nice..

So please find out if a tricycle would help him. Or ask him what can help him in his business.

I'll like to be part of this tricycle aid for the cobbler. Please lets c how we encourage the guy.

angiography:
he is wrong. there's no justification for unfaithfulness.

if I can stay 10yrs of not having sex as a bachelor, it shouldn't too hard to remain committed to my partner after getting married.


There's still a word called SELF-CONTROL....and it's learned, not earned. There's no excuse for being unfaithful for either sex

You are right by saying I am wrong. That response was my quick and short response to women who believe there is a perfect man. You @aniography may stay for a millennia without s3x (married or not) but the next guy cant. Like u said its learned not earned. How many of us have that patience more like discipline? I DO NOT support nor condone cheating by s3xu4l act. My bottom line message there was for women to just prep their mind about the possibility of their man cheating, no matter how good he is. This will prevent a freak out or heart break in the event she catches or finds out he cheats. Hell…haven’t you heard or don’t you know some men of God that cheat? At least the two famous Pastor Chris (or is it Kris) have exposed themselves to that publicly. This s3x cheating in a relationship is not today’s affair….and I don’t think it can be solved today. There are other forms of cheating in a relationship…but that’s a discussion for a new thread.

Julietcutie:
seriously y ...i av a friend who loves her bf so much she is willing to do anything to keep her bf although der dont bleep sha but der do other romantic touch touch stuffs. She is loyal,pretty & has good curves tho...but at d end of d day d so called bf breaks her heart by cheating on her wit a gal he says is his female friend....now my friend has been emotionally down since monday ....seriously guys should jus stop dis cheating ish na i pity her sha
lalasticlala push to front page

Imposican't....Guys are s3x beasts...its in their nature. A woman can stay for 10yrs without that act but a guy...1 yr he is already having fits like a drug junkie. Y do u think widowers marry faster than widows (if ever the widow re-marries)? Its not something men do deliberately. Even if a guy's woman gives him regularly...there is still 1% chance he will cheat. My advice to women, just make up ur mind ur guy will cheat so that it doesn't come as a shock if it should happen. Furthermore, turn born again i.e. ladies. Whether na Muslim born again, Christian born again or anyother kind of born again...pray ur man not to cheat.

johnson232:
senseless advise from a senseless soul...

are u going to provide her with another boyfriend?

Or is your boyfriend better than what she just described?

silly girl....

Dont mind her...she wants her to be BFless like her....*long hiss*

Nkasiobi87:
Good morning everyone. If you have been reading my previous posts then you will know very well how my story has been. After getting a job and trying to ignore My husband'S cheating and other cruel characters towards me, he cheats with a female church member and promises her that he will marry her as a second wife.

After much talking which could not bring any positive results, I decided to let them be And mind my own business. He still enters my room when he feels like doing it with me. Now it happens that am 2Months pregnant after 5 kids. I told him about it he was happy at that given time. I then thought that maybe he will change this time to become a better father.

On Sunday while the morning prayer was going on, I couldn't stand up because I have started showing signs of pregnancy. I was feeling very anemic so I decided to sit down. My husband came out and stopped the prayer and started saying that I sat down because I wanted to show his mistress that am pregnant and that am doing drama for her mistress, something that I have never thought of doing. He started calling me all sorts of names all to calm the mistress down incase she notices that am pregnant. All to show the mistress that he is not happy with me being pregnant. All to make me feel bad and not happy of my condition.

While the congregation and the mistress were watching and laughing. When I couldn't take it anymore, I decided to walkout of the church. one of his workers ran after me and forcefully drew me back which left a mark on my neck. His claim is that I shouldn't move out while his pastor is talking. I pushed him out of my way, he slapped me inside church while my hubby watch. with the little strength in me I fight back and leave the church premises. I was so hurt that I want to revenge on my husband and his worker. how will I be proud of this pregnant now that he has said in his congregation that all am doing is noting but a show how painful. how do I pay him back.I really wish the worst on them now.God help me that I didn't do something unlawful to them.

This story sound like BS. This is my BS response;
1) Your husband must be a very powerful 'man of God' for his congregation to stand wickedly by his side. I'm making reference to where you said the church laughed at you when your husband was scolding you for 'pretending and showing you r preggie' and the part where someone slapped you even in front of him. He probably would have landed the slap but then he will be called a wife beater. Having one of his followers to do it...is a different ball game.
2) Are you sure your husband is not running a cult? These Rev King kind of church?
3) After 5 kids...u took in for another?in this our economy?
4) Word of advice...you better pick up whatever dignity, shame, love, e.t.c. and get the hell out of that marriage.Go and do serious fasting, praying, chanting, speaking in tongues, etc.

Speechless3 is soooo gay. Normal girls wont make such comments.

Speechless3:
Men and jealousy sef. So girls cant ask their male friends for favours again ? If e pain you go and get your car

Try flipping the coin...if he gets u a cab but as u were leaving he joins his female friend who will take him home. whats your reaction? Lie and thunder will visit you.

During my wild days in the university nine years ago I had a brief fling with a guy I met through a friend. We had séx a few times and saw each other for about a month before we lost touch.

Fast forward eight years later; my immediate younger sister introduced this same guy to me as her boyfriend. I was hoping they would break up so he wouldn't be an issue between my sister and I but that didn't happen.

A year later, they are getting married. Their wedding is actually this Saturday December 15th. There's serious friction between the guy and I as we can't even look at each other or talk directly to each other.

I have been avoiding him since he hooked up with my sister but now that they are about to be married, I'm stuck.
Should I tell my sister what happened between us or leave things the way they are? Does she have a right to know?

I'm confused. Pls help!!!

Oyibo movie plot....*rings loud bell*..wake up u r in Nigeria.

chocolateme:
it has become a general phenomenon for companies and establishments to decline proposing on how much to pay their employ during interviews. They expect the person to come up first with an amount to be paid after which they will deliberate on who has the lowest figure among those interviewed and select from there.
Even the employee will be scared of giving the actual figure he or she thinks its right for the job lest another person goes in and beat him or her down to it especially those that has been working before now.
The establishments are not helping matters too, seeing that the best among them or rather the person they have decided to take for the job is way past below their original intention on the amount to pay him or her, they will keep quiet and allow the salary figure to be as the person stated or they may even reduce it a little yet you see the person very happy to have gotten the job.
For me, it is not really that fair in morals. They should start coming up with the figure they intend paying to whomever they want to employ and stop taking advantage of their fellows.

I wouldnt say its fair or not. The thing is...as you prepare for the interview,you have researched about the company either by internet or asking people. Use that same opportunity and ask about the job role u r being interviewed. The salary and all. U will definitely get different answers as per what different companies pay for that position. With that you have an idea. Then u know u cant go lower than this nor higher than this. Just as for in between.