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heryourdayji:
I am in this relationship, and I and my boyfriend have had quite a rocky relationship. We often quarrel and argue and just recently, I found out that he had joined a dating website. This surprised me as I don’t know why he would do that while we were together. I confronted him and he apologized, claiming that he only did it because we were having a lot of problems and thought that we were done at the time. I was extremely hurt and angry so I broke up with him and told him that i never wanted to see him again.


The day after that, I was hanging out with one of my male friends, we got into a serious talk and ended up having sex.

I had sex with my friend, hoping it was going to make me feel better but i ended up feeling a lot worse after. I have never done things like this, but when I decided to sleep with my friend I don’t think that my boyfriend and I would ever get back together.



After a few days, he called me (my ex) we were talking and we got all emotional and we decided to give things another go. I love him so much and really want to be with him but I was sad because it took me having sex with my friend to realize how much I wanted my boyfriend back. Having sex with my friend also made me realize how easily mistakes are made so i am willing to forgive my boyfriend for joining the dating site.


We are back together now but I have not told him that I slept with someone else during our short break up and I really don’t want to tell him because i am afraid he will not forgive me and that I will lose him forever this time. I feel like I am being dishonest, which I so hate the feeling but I definitely hate the thought of having to tell him more. So my question is, if you sleep with someone else during a short break up do you need to tell your partner that u slept with someone else? Or is it none of their business when you have broken up?


Please I need good advice from mature romanceland esp guys

Lets look @ This.....

1) You were angry with your BF because he joined a dating site.
2) Because of 1) you broke up with him....short break like you said.
3) You went out of your way to sleep more like have sex with your friend because of 1).
4) You feel bad, he called you, you have made up and back together.
5) You forgive him for 1) and thinks 1) is equal to 3) as you want him to forgive u too.
6) Hmmm....women and rationalisation

Honey...it doesnt work like that. He will be furious. He might even break up with you again or totally. Nevertheless...you still have to tell him. It was your moment of weakness (but expect lots of moments of weakness from him). Talk it over and stop whatever you need to stop and move on. If it leads to end of relationship...OK.If it leads to many more years....OK. If it leads to alter....OK. All in all....Oluwa is involved. I say this honestly and with sincere gesture....I hope you guys make it.

With jokes....if you have that down time again...holla me. I'll make you feel 'best' not worse than u were. That your male friend no sabi do.

What is the source of this story?Hintz or Hearts?

vivianblog3:
Source at: https://www.thecable.ng/court-orders-dss-to-take-nnamdi-kanu-to-prison

Gen Gen

delectablegyal:
No time, i don't want to hear delectablegyal. Cos she is un-fvckable.

Be bold, don't be shy. Don't care whose ox is gored.

What makes delectablegyal unfvkable?is there no hole to put the apparatus?

You wan fvk under age...u dey bugatti, dey form baddest guy.na the daughters way u go born go receive wetin u dish out.no go follow Mrs Veny yan maybe she get younger matured sister.or other female teachers way dey there.

onismate:
Many of my mates dreamt to be posted to great places during their NYSC. No one wants to be a cast away, likewise me. I wanted to be settled before my service. I want to get a job. Not just ordinary job for that matter. Na better job I want so I hoped and wished to be posted to a place with great opportunities.

October 2015 came. I printed my call-up letter and saw that I was posted to Rivers state. I was so happy. My family was so happy. I was glad because it was Rivers state, a land of so many opportunities. I had high hopes. My blood was so hot to get into camp and get out so I can be posted to oil firm.

But the unfortunate came up, that it’s a policy that all corps members were headed to classroom. Non would be posted out of the classroom except they were into medical line or lawyer. And I studied industrial chemistry. “So na teach I go teach,” I thought to myself. But I had no choice. I had to switch plans since I had made up my mind that I will be settling down in Port Harcourt after service. I thought of having a good and well-paying job, even conducting tutorial classes for students just to make money during the service year. During the SAED programs in camp, I collected contacts of some of the facilitators and company owners. All was just networking if they will help me after camp.

The Passing out parade (POP) in camp came. But it was unfortunate when I saw my posting letter. I was posted to Asari Toru local Government, and the PPA was Angulaman. Immediately I saw it, I was weak. I made inquiry about my PPA and I discovered it was a Riverine area. I wasn’t happy at all. All my hopes of been posted to an oil firm had been dashed. Infact it looked as if all those great dreams I had in camp had been shattered. “I thought if it would be possible to change it I will just do that.” It was possible but with good reasons.

After leaving the camp, I visited my PPA, Angulama. I had to cross two rivers before getting there. Infact when I got there, I began to weep. No strong browsing network, light sef no dey. This one na village. The school sef wey dem post me no dey exist sef. The kids there sef, one has to be begging them to come to school, “chaiii, loveth you don surfer for your life,” I thought to myself. I felt as a female corper, I can’t cope there.

When I resumed fully at my PPA. Me and my fellow corpers had to be going from house to house in that community. We were going to beg parents to release their kids to come to class.

After a week, I was so tired of the community. I was going out to Port harcourt to withdraw money from ATM. I entered the boat and another passenger who said he was an indigene of the Angulama community began chatting with me. He said he had been noticing me in that community, that the way I dress doesn’t just suit me as a corper teacher in that community. And truly, my fellow corp members had told me same. One even said I do dress to kill. But do i! I didn’t think so because I bought couple of beautiful clothes before going to camp, thinking I would be posted to a great firm so my dressing would be so effective. When my corper leader officer (CLO) was even saying that I shouldn’t be dressing too corporate in that kind of village.

So the indigene man was telling me that he really admired the way I always dress to school even when the school sef doesn’t exist, and no students in the classroom. I smiled and thanked him so well. He said I don’t deserve to be in that community with that kind of my cute and great dressing. I laughed, wetin man fit do! I told the man that even though I didn’t like the place but I have no other choice. He said his name is Mr. Wene and he stays in Port Harcourt. He said he came to check his house and was going back to Port Harcourt. He said with that my fine cooperate dressing, I can fit into all those big organizations. I laughed and jokingly told him that I don’t mind if he could link me to any big organization. He laughed too and told me he can do it. And, I really appreciated that as we chatted and he told me all his exploits and great men he had and is working with. And I believed me. I saw him as a genuine and sincere guy. Infact as he was saying it, I was happy that I have found a helper, someone that will connect and link me to great and big players in Port Harcourt. He looked genuine and somehow rich. And I saw him as a God sent agent. He even paid my transport fare to Port Harcourt and we exchanged contacts before leaving to our various destination.

After my transaction in port Harcourt, I had to rush down to my PPA to work on my CV. Throughout that weekend I and Mr. Wene talked so much on phone. He said there was a job offer that came up in Trans Amadi and it was a multinational company that has their Headquarter in Texas, U.S. The company deals in chemicals. He said if I don’t mind him linking me because he knows a friend who is an insider. I was so happy about it. “Even if say e reach N70,000 wey them dey pay I go just ghost my NYSC,” that was my thought. I asked him the name of the company, he said he won’t tell me that moment as he laughed on phone. I smiled and took it as a joke. He asked me to send my CV to him through email so he could forward it to them. I had to remind him that there was no browsing network. “Ok kkk,I remember,” he said. He said he would be coming next weekend so I should prepare the hardcopy of my CV, so when he’s going back to Port Harcourt he will take it. I was just so happy as I gave a colleague of mine to help me print out the CV in Choba.

The next weekend came and I gave Mr. Wene my CV. I felt I was close to my breakthrough. Mr. Wene assured me that I shouldn’t bother myself and, that I will get the job, and he had already told his insider about me.

Few days later I received a call from someone who said his name Emmy. He said he was calling me from I&Q American chemical company in Port Harcourt and my CV was sent to their company that I am interested in one of the vacant positions. Na so I tell am “Yes.” Emmy said since I studied industrial chemistry, the position that they would fit me as an industrial junior manager in the company. “Chaiii, na so I happy ooo.” I told him that wouldn’t be a problem. He asked if I would like to work with them. “Chaii, that question no make sense. Who wan reject that kind offer.” Na so I shout “Yes I will.” Na so he tell me say he go call back later. After the call, I was so happy. I felt I was going to win a jackpot. I felt my life was about to change for good.

3 days later Emmy called me and said the next day would be my oral phone interview and I should prepare for it.

The next day came and I was called by a female worker from that company. She asked me couple of questions like my name, why I want to work with them and my goals. I answered them to the best of knowledge. She told me that the company would get back to me.

2 days later, Emmy called and told me that I was successful and they would be expecting me to resume in the next 2 weeks. I was so happy as he told me that my salary was N80,000. “Chaii, see as i just dey happy.” This one na total ghosting for NYSC since I have gotten a good job. After the call, I called my family back at home that I had gotten a job in a multinational company in Port Harcourt. Na so them happy for me. But yet, I was yet to know were, address of the company in Trans Amadi axis of Port Harcourt. I didn’t even know more about the company.

A day later I called Emmy to know how far about my job offer. He told me there was a new development. That I was supposed to come to the company to sign and fill some forms but it has to cut short because the organization is trying to give another person the job. Immediately I heard that, na so my heart fly commot. Wetin I don already happy. I had called so many people that I had gotten a good job. “Na im devil wan pour sand sand for my garri.” I began begging him to help so I won’t loss that kind of opportunity. Emmy said the main thing was because I didn’t pay for the job application fee. I asked how much was the application fee. He told me it was N10,000. And I began wondering why and how people pay for job application fee! I didn’t want to lose that job. I told Emmy that I am a corper and I didn’t have that kind of money. He said he couldn’t do anything about it. I called Mr. Wene to tell him about the new development. Mr. Wene said he would get back to me so he could contact some executives. Few minutes later Mr. Wene called me. He said that I was even supposed to pay N20,000 that of his influence it was reduced to N10,000. He said I should try to pay the money, that that is how they do it. If not, I will lose the job. Na so I begin find money oo. The little money I had was not enough. I had to borrow more money from my colleagues to complete the N10,000 within 24 hours. After raising the money, I called Emmy. Na there the bobo come tell me say I go pay the money into their account so they would process it before I can come to their office. A colleague of mine going to Port Harcourt, I gave her the N10,000 to pay in to the account Emmy sent. It wasn’t even a company’s account number. It was a personal account number. After the payment, Emmy even called to confirm they have gotten the alert.

2 days later, Emmy called and said that I should come with my original documents to their office in Port Harcourt. He gave me the address which was located in Trans Amadi. Na so I the next day I dress wella come go trans Amadi axis, with the address Emmy gave to me. I looked for the company and the place but couldn’t find it. I asked people but everyone said they don’t know or even heard about the company. I tried calling Emmy’s number but it was telling me “the line was switched off.” I called Mr. Wene, same thing. Till date, their numbers had been switched off. It was all dawned on me that I had been duped. I came to realize that the I&Q company doesn’t exist. I even came to realize that I wasn’t the conly corper who fell for that kind of trap. So many corpers were victims of this kind of this fraud. I wanted to report the matter, Mr Wene to the community chief in in my PPA but I was told not to go because I am just a corper in that community and I might just been in danger. Couple of my friends were blaming me because I was so greedy and gullible. Truly I was gullible.

http://www.hovabuzz.com/frontline/1082-how-i-got-scammed-looking-for-a-supportive-job-as-a-corper

You forgot to mention whether Mr Wene or Emmy shine congo, on top say u dey find work by any means possible. It's sad that there are still gullible ppl in our system. We as Nigerians suppose sharp. Word of advice for job seekers....any body person or agent that requests for money before giving you job...na SCAM

I saw one recently that attached training to the job and said you will have to pay for the training, and wont be paid during the duration of the training. I think the training was for 3 months. My response to such statements or regulation is that, [s]since you will give me job, make i start, then u can be deducting your fee until fully paid. [/s] in short, just walk away and thank your God.

kstadaura:
hello guys i need your advise on what to do in this situation, i have a good friend and his girlfriend came to me and told me that his joystick is not working, now i dont know what to do.
Some are saying i should ask her to tell me how did she find out, before i approach my friend,but i see this as a dumb approach.
Some are saying i should just forget about the issue cos if talk to my friend, he might suspect something btw me and his girlfriend.
Some are saying i should use the situation to my advantage, though is one is also not acceptable, i dont think i can do this to my good friend.

pls whats your advice?

Talk to your friend.Tell him what his GF said to you.Na so men dey die in silence abi na die in ego.Joystick no dey work no be impotence?he has to get medical help or mental help or spiritual help....bottom line he needs help.its better faced now than when he gets married and his wifey is s3x3d starved.(i am sooo sure he would hide it) when she jump outside to shine her congo...pple go begin blame her.dey curse am.minwhile them no know wetin she dey face.

sweetboiy:
I wouldn't wanna bore you guys with a long story.
I get to know this lady recently in my class & we've being getting along quite alright, I like her & I think she likes me too because I'm getting the message from her but I'm a bit skeptical on how it will look like if we start dating, I'm very confident of the fact that she won't turn me down.
Now my question is;
Will it work out well considering the fact that we are in the same department/class?
What are the consequences if the school management gets to know about it?

Please no hating but constructive criticism will be welcome.
Thanks!

Guy...not all relationships work out.Even if its one month then u break up..at least u tried.cos if u dont u will always wonder.take s3x out of the table..companionship 1st.and weda she be cosmate or not dont mata.people date their flatmate, neighbour, housmate,compound mate etc.follow ur heart head maybe or both.but never ur d1ck.

[quote author=rollUP post=42102096][/quote]LOL...nice one.maybe na true.

Anything do u for leg? why e bend? abi u wan bend am like Beckham?

RadicallyBlunt:
I hear. So hw many of such ladies dey NL now?

Radical...no dey yan like u no dey educated.Must the girls be in NL to answer that kwesion?its an open kwesion.We know ppl that earn such.It is possible...period.so its left 4 the ladies to ans and for guys to comment.

Uzoraustin:
Hello NL's, I have been dating this girl for close to 8months now, we reside in different neighbouring states. She's the one that visit most often but her presence is almost equal to her absent. She'll just come, lay on my bed and close her eyes not that she's sleeping o. If i offer to take her out she'll object it with the reason that she prefer been indoors. If i try to make any advances she'll refuse. We only manage to hug and kiss but if i decide to go further she'll give me a back look and i'll stop. I used to experience this pain around my scrotum anything i have a very strong erection without penetration so i discussed it with her that we should stop clapping since we're not ready to dance. I suggested to her that our meetings will now be in public so that there'll be no room for kissing and hugging which she accepted but i'm not comfortable with it. How long will i continue like this with a woman i want to marry in the near future. Please I need your candid advise.

cc: moderators please do the needful. Thanks

1) You can kick her to the curb.Find another.
2) If you like her that much,keep her around and find some other kitty or kitties to pet if that is what u need.esp with the blue balls thing.
3) You can take it to the next level.pop the question and see if her sexual brain will change.
4) Abstinence is the order of the day.Men u should always go for thanksgiving when a babe say no to your 'i want to fvck' (IWTF) advances.You dont know what she is saving you from.it is not dulling.If you must always fvck, go rent a room in a brothel.

naughtynaughty:
gm boo. Howdy

gm too....just missing u

naughtynaughty:
may thunda faya dt ur empty brain! Biiisssshhh!

LOL...no hard feelings Naughty....was just joking

You be my person

!st class lie.The story no qualify for Hintz sef.Even if na true....why would u pretend to faint?what kind of a man r u?and if u fainted for real..u r a wuss.The real reaction (man or woman) 1) be enraged and storm out. 2) just walk away as u have made ur presence known. 3)join the action.

Pheals:
Let me share mine






the rhyme: ABC

A was an apple pie
B bit it
C cut it
D dealt it
E eats it
F fought for it
G got it
H had it
I inspected it
J jumped for it
K kept it
L longed for it
M mourned for it
N nodded at it
O opened it
P peeped in it
Q quartered it
R ran for it
S stole it
T took it
U upset it
V viewed it
W wanted it
X, Y and Z all wished for and had a piece in hand


One, Two, buckle my shoe, Three, Four, knock at the door, Five, Six, pick up sticks, Seven, Eight, lay them straight, Nine, Ten, a big fat hen, Eleven, Twelve, dig and delve, Thirteen, Fourteen, maids a-courting, Fifteen, Sixteen, maids in the kitchen, Nineteen, Twenty, my plate's empty.

The four compass direction

Simply remember the acronym NEWS: North at the top; East on the right; West on the left; South at the bottom


The planet :


Mercury, Venus, Earth, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune etc


: My Very Educated Mother Just Served Us Nachos OR My Very Educated Mother Just Sent Us Nowhere

Do-Re-Mi-Fa-So-La-Ti-Do

Do=doe, a female deer

Re=ray, a drop of golden sun

Mi=me, a name I call myself

Fa=far, a long, long way to run

So=sew, a needle pulling thread

La=la, a note to follow 'so'

Ti=tea, a drink with jam and bread

Which will bring us back to 'Do'

- The 12 apostle

This is the way the disciples run Peter, Andrew, James and John, Phillip and Bartholomew, Thomas next and Matthew, too.
James the less and Judas the greater, Simon the zealot and Judas the traitor.



-The 4 Gospels

I could rememberTry this to help you recite them, and you'll impress your Sunday School teacher: 'Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John went to bed with their trousers on.'


And SMART ---Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, Time bound

Oya tosyne2much , sinaj, ishilove , farano, lalasticlala , seun come and share your experience , the funny way you learned quickly in schools

You missed Pluto.

naughtynaughty:
NB: b4 u read dis..no b me write am ooo. Nah copy I copy am from one site ooo..tor!

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http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/01/nigerian-lady-with-so-so-wide-vagina.html#sthash.avZmd74S.dpuf.

Abeg dis is hard 2belive. Hw is dis even possible? Haba! Nah 5 big d!cks dey sample u evriday? Did I jxt read pestle? Omg pestle? Insyd sum1's kini? Am dead! Hiah! Go meet a gud capenta 2help patch it up! Wts ur advice fr ha?

Naughty! Naughty!! Naughty!!!.....How many times I call you?

After much critical reading....na u write this thing.No blame another person.
Anyway....the is a myth that 'alum' can solve every widening of the kitty cat.
And that pistle thing is scary. How is it that a girl can be that Hot? Not Judging oh.After all....me am Hot like the word itself always.
And who b this lalastica? I always see the name mentioned in many rooms.

Decker:
First of all, Homosexuality isn't all about the sexual activity between same sex, it's not just about what two guys do in the bedroom, it goes beyond all that.

Just like a heterosexual relationship, homosexuality also involves love and companionship between two people. The need and desire to share that bond of friendship and affection with the same sex. It's wrong that whenever homosexuality is mentioned, everyone just thinks about the sex. It's not just about the sexual attraction, there is also a chemical and emotional attraction.

Now, the hallmark of homosexuality is the primary attraction to members of the same sex, both physically and sexually. How they choose to have sex, is secondary, what's important first, it's the attraction.
You have to understand that during sex, partners can choose to use each others bodies any how they chose. Whatever they do is just to please themselves, for gratification. The male can chose to penetrate any part of the females body, it's all part of the sexual experience. In the same way, Homosexuals can also use the bodies of their partners anyhow they chose.

But because homosexuals and heterosexuals have sex in a similar fashion, doesn't make them the same thing and it doesn't make heterosexuals gay. Homosexuals do oral, and heterosexuals do oral too, but no one is complaining about that, so I don't see why anyone should complain about anal.

Chief...i like your response. Being gay or homosexual aint all about sex. Its what you said. Women also can be gay or homosexuals. Its annoying when ppl skip that part. Its annoying too when they think its about sex too. Most annoying...Nigerian gays want to gay everybody. They just dont know boundaries or respect. Gaying everybody here ....i mean the sex.Well...i have digressed.

On the matter....there is a big difference. They ain't same stuff.

kaycii1:
obiagaerinwammachukwuhurunanya!

Blocks don finish for form b4 surname enter sef.

JanuaryTempest:
As opposed to giggling & laughing hysterically I suppose

I wonder oh.is it not better.abi u want her to b gisting and telling u how her day has been or how it was getting a train to one place the last time she went for volunteer work?or maybe that annoying no sound (which is actually better than the obvious fake moan)?abeg...make 'em make some noise.real noise.

covbrand:
Good morning people, I just want to know places where I can meet financially stable guys that are also career minded and wouldn't mind staying outside Nigeria. I am not desperate for marriage as I still have time but I would love to start up a family on time. Thanks.

Me looking for a gal who is not cash minded. she earns her money and wont bother me. but i can bother her. i earn my money too. i would like her to spend on me very well without issues. i'll be faithful and love her very well.

KashyBaby:
I'm OK with it..car doesn't impressed me at all but he can impressed me if he can walk with me the whole day...

Babe,i'll walk with you to the end of the world.

delectablegyal:
Drop ur numbers.

send me a mail.cant share my number here.

cococandy:
Let's clap for you.

You went with he intention of looking for prostitutes to warm your bed for the night and have the guts to be offended that a pair of ladies found it appalling that you'd assume they would be willing to go home with you just like that. So Because they went to the club to dance, that means they are open to go home with any stranger for the night abi?

Your head needs to be screwed on tighter.

Mtchew.

Babe, i like you joor...if not for some reasons i would have been in love with you.

Rollar:
Gnarly!

You guys do realize that most girls experience discharge right? Plus most of them have minor yeast infections (thrush) and sometimes experience very light flow some days before or after menses. Not to talk less of the slimy mucus they secrete when ovulating.....
In essence, bon appetit mes amis

You just had to spoil it for them 'Head Masters'...*tsks* not a good move.Well...c'est la vie. When invited to a neighbourhood party, some come with drinks,some with sugar,some with meat,even some come with weed.In all, there are some that come to destroy.

Mavelshee:
It was on a sunday afternoon during this xmas holiday. My wife and I decided get a little kinky because honestly we havnt had some good actions for a really long time. So my wife asked Martha our nanny to take the kids to our neighbours house upstairs for some play time and bring them back by 6pm. Kpa kpa kpa kpa kpa we don comot cloth, kpo kpo kpo kpo kpo kpo we don start pre-intimacy, and that was when it happened oo....Our 10yrs old son just opened the door "mum can I have some....." and saw his mum leaning on the edge of the bed crying and his dad eating his mums buttoks. Lo and behold this little dude just paused and thereafter there was a big grin + disgust on his face. My wife hasn't stopped crying oo, mostly because she thinks this kind of scenerio can eff up kids chemistry n stuffs. Plus he now looks at me somehow whenever we are together. I hope he doesn't tell the others what he saw.

So please nairalanders how can I explain or brainwash my kid about what he saw that day.

That's a scar for life. He knows what he saw. Kids these days are something else. Better start that sex education now. Talk to him about what he saw.

irunooboo:
Ever since i joined NL i have recieved several Pm's from desperate sex starved guys and i managed to follow just two guys on a date which eventually led to something and something..... I noticed they both cum after 3mins and made it look like it was planned. These are cute tall guys with ripped abs but despite this they cant satisfy a woman. I am tempted to write their monikers but i will hold on for now ladies share your experiences with NL men and their sexual weaknesses

You never try me oh. A trial will conceive sorry i meant convince you.

naughtynaughty:
whr did u keep ur self control dear? If a guy invites u to his place,b vry careful ooo, he might rape u if u refuse to gve in. Nd d mumu police wil ask u wat u we're doin @his crib @d first place so its nt rape

i advice ladies to go with pepper spray to guys house.or taser or even the easy weapon...small knife.cut off any guys dick that trys to come on u without ur consent.leave immediately.

naughtynaughty:
I mean u meet a guy newly, maybe xchange numbers cos u think he is smart, he calls nd d next thing is 'can you come to my house'?? Lyk criosly? Honestly its bcumin so boring nd annoying nowadays.

What's it with guys nah? Cnt u guys patiently woo a lady without adding the 'come to my house' talk? Its a big turn off for me, wats there to b done in ur house dt we cnt do elsewhr?

Is there some solution to global hunger in ur house? Orishirishi. Its so common nauadays dt u wonder if guys hav lost their minds on dating etiquettes. My new frnd yaf turn dis come to my house talk into a daily anthem ooo..no b small thing.

The thing is..80prcnt of the men who invite
ladies to come to their house at
first meeting have no good
intentions at heart..nd y'all need a slap to reset ur brain on how to properly woo a lady. Lord save guys of dis generation

Am I d only one in dis?

Like they said it depends. The truth is guys feel a lot more comfortable and confident when they entertain you in their house. esp if that his house is 'toshed' up.In fact..he lets the house do the wooing. (sorry guys i am exposing us.but its necessary for our ladies to know). a guy may not even touch u for weeks coming to his house.not that there are no perverted guys out there. (i could be one too).but that really depends on u now if u want to open ur legs when u go to his house (which i have no problem with and wont judge u).guys dont want unplanned spending when they r out with u.cos u may just ask for one thing he didnt plan for or bump into a friend that now want to join u guys.surely,the guy will have to take on that hanger-on's bill.another thing,the guy does not want to give in to the chance that he may bump into one or two other babes he has done something with or currently toasting.his house is usually the safe place (for him).u know..u girls can have 5 guys u slept with be in d same room and u wont be botherd.u will even introduce them to themselves but a guy...cant handle the situation if just one girl he slept with is in d same room with a new babe he is dating.

so pardon the 'come to my house'.deal with it in a different way.u really dont have to go to his house.

Loyalblak007:
[color=#FF00FF]I know the truth is bitter...Yes dear..14 [/color]

Don't judge her. Just ask what she was doing when she saw the dick. maybe she was passing by and saw a dude taking his bath and they just smiled and went on their ways. or maybe he is her neighbour she caught peeing.

tuna4servi:
The story is just a write up story jare, d man is almost 50 and his son doing his masters. So wen did he give birth to d boy?i don't bliv in d story, u can come up with another beta story next time pls.

Don't comment like u don't have sense. Is there a stipulated time when one has to do his/her masters? Put into consideration this tough times. Is it easy to pay for masters? Please, if u are privileged to have your parents pay for your studies or you followed a stated time line and achieved it...that don't mean a story about a 60 yr old who wants to do masters is a lie. The story is possible, the fact u should be looking at is the immoral act.

dazzlingd:
mumu like u, allow a girl bring division between u and your father..


why can't u hate the girl and cut her off from ur family

No mind am...na new generation kid.Nevertheless,the father can't be freed.He did an abominable act.The girl could have been pressured,and that's rape.Psychoanalytical history can explain the continuous sexual relationship.Maybe he has threatened her with exposure.Anyways,she should know its over with her BF too cos' dad will spill if son wants to marry....unless dad is really psycho then he will allow son to marry so that he can continue the abominable relationship which will come to light one day.Nollywood has thought us that.