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It’s pretty obvious when one of your buddies finally makes his move with a girl and gets to release some of that pent-up sexual tension. You’ll catch him the next day whistling for no reason and cracking the relaxed, loopy smile of the satisfied as you watch the game. But what about women? How can you tell whether the women you meet at the bar, see every day at work, flirt with at the gym, or—gulp—your significant other, have tangled in the sheets recently. Tousled hair? Bite marks? These Hollywood-ized signs are, in fact, misleading. All women are classically hard to read in everything, but here are five genuine ways to tell that she recently got lucky. With these signs, you just may find yourself understanding her a little better.

You are More Attracted to Her

The more active her sex life, the more her body releases pheromones, chemical messengers that your sense of smell picks up and can be designed to attract the opposite sex. A review published in the Journal of Advanced Research analyzed a series of recent studies on pheromones and found that they can increase arousal and mood in the opposite sex. In other words, if you find that just standing near her and breathing in her natural scent gets your engines revving, there is a good chance she got some recently.

She Feels Happier

Aside from offering a welcome distraction from a stressful work week, and the benefits that come with the natural physical exertions in the sack, research by the University of Colorado, Boulder, shows that frequency of sexual activity increases self-perception of happiness. The study, which surveyed more than 15,000 people, found that those who reported having sex two to three times a week were 55 percent more likely to report a higher level of happiness than respondents going through a several month dry-spell. Additionally, the research shows that we get even happier with our lives when we think we are having more sex than our peers. Competitive much?

She Looks Prettier than Normal

“During sex, your body undergoes a lot of changes,” says Bean Robinson, Ph.D., associate professor in the Program of Human Sexuality at the University of Minnesota Medical School. “The two main things that happen have to do with muscle tension and the increase of blood flow to all areas of your body.” A slightly flushed face indicates better health, higher estrogen levels—a hormone linked to perceived fertility in women—and attractiveness, reports a study from the University of St Andrews in the UK. All other things being equal, her flushed cheeks tell your brain she is more sexually attractive.

She Got a ‘Great Night’s Sleep’

Women who orgasm have a 30 percent increase in the hormone prolactin directly following sex, and a second spike the following afternoon, research from the Oxford Journal of Human Reproduction reveals. Why does this matter? Along with other functions, prolactin is also one of the hormones that causes drowsiness and can help encourage the deep REM sleep that we associate with a good night’s rest. So when she remarks on her sound ZZZs, or heads off for a noon-time nap, she might be sleeping off the effects of a successful romp the night before.

She is Less Needy

“There is a deep need for people to feel bonded,” says Robinson. “The sexual act and activity releases oxytocin, a hormone that helps people bond.” This bonded feeling fulfills a deep evolutionary need for women to foster a strong social network to protect potential offspring, according to research in the journal Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience. With elevated levels of oxytocin, her inherent “bonding needs” will be better satisfied, making her less clingy for a while. Plus, oxycontin helps women clarify social interactions, so she doesn’t over-analyze and hang to your every word, a bonus for any type of relationship. - See more at: http://www.exlinklodge.com/2015/05/5-salient-signs-to-know-that-she-had.html#sthash.01CQLVLH.dpuf

I am positive my story is just one in a hundred similar stories. but I really do need to know how one deals with a husband who constantly cheats regardless.

I have been married for a little over four years. I have two kids. Its the same story of constant cheating in the years we have been married but it took a twist some few days ago. Cheating is almost a norm with men these days. and I took mine as my own cross.

Of course i had prayed, nagged, pleaded, sucked about it. but I had to let live and focus on giving my kids the best of me.

I concluded that if it didnt happen under my nose, then I can pretend it isn't happening and live my life without the threat of high blood pressure because of a man. But what I feared most happened. It happened right beneath my nose.

My husband of four years decided to bring his escapade into the estate where we live. I had been suspecting he had something to do with the sister of one of the residents. i let my fear ride till I got absolute proof they were involved.

What got me so pissed was the fact that he would take the girl in question and her nieces shopping. take out to places where I dint even know he could afford. yet, this is a man that I cant remember the last time he took his family out or bought his kids provision. I was livid! things hadn't being right for us financially for a while and i was supporting him in everyway I could. I work too so I carried a lot of the house running cost thinking he was saving his salary for rent and school fees. it wasn't until the landlord starting calling and the school sent letters home that I knew neither had been paid.
so learning and confirming the one of the girls he runs around with lives right under my nose threw me over the edge.

I went to confront her with the ploy of wanting to buy gas from her sister who she resides with.
when she came out, I asked her if she knew my hubby and why she was hurting a fellow woman so. I expected her to be a remorseful. instead, she ran her mouth. I was shocked she would have the guts to pour insults on me! I thought to myself that the girl is beneath me.I cant stand and trade words with her. but I had to deal with her. fortunately, I had on a solid leather belt. I removed it and before she knew what hit her, I lashed her thoroughly. neighbours came to her rescue and she ran inside the house. naturally, I confronted my hubby when he came back. he denied it and then got angry with me. before I knew it, he got violent.

So now, I got beat up by my hubby because I confronted him and his lover. am lost. sad. hurt. angry. I don't know what to do. to stay or to walk? will I ever get past the hurt I feel now? can I ever forgive him of the humiliation? because I discovered after I confronted and lashed the idiot girl that most neighbours knew. they had seen them together on several occasions.. apparently, I was even the last to know. am just so fed up. why does it have to be this way?

I love this man. I really do. but I am at a crossroad now. http://www.exlinklodge.com/2015/05/dear-el-readers-how-do-you-cope-with.html

So because US want to extradite someone from Nigeria that why NDLEA shamelessly house arrested senetor-elect abi? I have to say this, Nigerians are fools and slaves in there on country.

Why is it that everything converning US gets top priority in this country? who the hell are they and what have they done for this country without taken it back in 100 folds?

Meeeen wakeup guys. ok after all the NDLEA foolishness, why didn't they take him to court? mad people

onatisi:
your post makes no sense. So because u didn't trust gej ,u allowed the nation to lose about 20billion dollars to oil marketers and to punish the nation for 4 solid years so that when u come into power u will remove itdoes that make any common sense to u? Do u know how much nigeria has lost as payments to these oil marketers within 4years

You sef. U don't even understand the big picture. Imagine a scenario were PMS is supposed to be sold at 80 per litre normally while our gvt is telling us that the acqual price is 160 and and that they are subsidizing it thereby paying N80 while Nigerians pay N80.

But in the actual sense, they are lotting/defrauding N80 per littre in any PMS you and I buy. that's why buhari is still amazed with this fraud called subsidy.

Someone here is saying if subsidy is removed that PMS will cost btw N155 to N160 that it is the same thing in Ghana. How can u compare 6th Highest Producing Oil nation with Ghana that is not even the 100th?

If u see evil my people, say it is evil and don't find a way around. it has been say that it only that's good peoples quiteness for evil to foster.

Come Moderator I get complain oo. some post way no suppose make home page dey make home page here. even some they make home page two time in a day while others way suppose make homepage no dey make.

Watin dey happen? abi bribery and corruption still dey for our nairaland? if him dey, am interested oooo

1. The Chatterbox
This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations.
2. The Desperate Chick
This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! When a woman advances WAY faster than normal,watch out. She NEEDS a man so bad that she’s willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless
guy on the corner.
3. The Overly-Critical Woman
Anything you do for this type of woman is simply not good enough. Nothing seems to work unless it is done according to her standards. Anything that is said by anyone will be quickly taken out of context to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against the world. This type of woman has plenty of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person as there will be nothing but misery with her.
4. The Bimbo
This type of woman can’t obtain a GED but has managed to secure a PhD in the science of the bedroom. This is an intellectually challenged woman who looks great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open her mouth. Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and unless you’re just after one-night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl home to meet Mom and Dad. The majority of girls you see on the streets everyday fall into this category, More on www.exlinklodge.com/2015/05/please-dont-ever-consider-marrying.html?m=1

Ghanaian police have taking this person into custody because they are not sure if he/she is a male/female, but they are calling her/him a witch/wizard.

According to the story (which I obviously cannot verify), he/she was flying (as an animal) very early in the morning around 5am but became weak and decided to rest. (this is what Ghanaians are saying). Then fell into a deep sleep only to wake up later naked & surrounded by people who had called the police.

He/she is currently in the custody of Medina police. Is there any other explanation for this, other than he’s a witch/wizard?

What do you guys think he/she is?. Male or female?.

More photos after the cut. - See more at: http://www.exlinklodge.com/2015/05/a-being-with-male-face-breast-penis.html#sthash.pxiiRI5b.dpuf

Una still be learner abi watin? U go touch her without sex, u think say she be dull? Abi after arousing her, u go tell am say u dey go market? abeg make we hear word jor.

Relationship without sex: Well sha, unless u r not in love.

Lawyers badooooo

Abeg lets talk better thing:



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Abeg make una leave GEJ trekkers oooo make we talk better things:






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Henrypraise:
I av bin watchful of "pastors" especially "prophets" since d GEJ episode.

which of the GEJ episode are u referring to?

cozy7:
Dark powers....I won't be surprised if this man performs miracles same day he murdered his (pretty) wife. All in d name of wealth n fame.

My dear is so disconcerting

The Oba of Lagos, Rilwan Akiolu has reportedly told Igbos in the state to either vote for All Progressives Congress (APC) governorship candidate, Akinwunmi Ambode or prepare to perish in the Lagoon.

The monarch is said to have made the statement on Sunday, April 5, during a meeting with Igbo leaders and monarchs in his palace, according to Daily Trust.

“On Saturday, if any one of you goes against Ambode who I picked: complete story at http://www.exlinklodge.com/2015/04/oba-of-lagos-vote-ambode-or-die-monarch.html

A Ghanaian Pastor identified as Eric Isaiah has been arrested in Koforidua city in Southern Ghana for the murder of his wife, Charmain Adusah.

The Tottenham-based self-proclaimed prophet was said to have argued with his 42-year-old pregnant wife several hours before leaving Mac Dic Royal Plaza Hotel in Koforidua. See more pix and complete story at http://www.exlinklodge.com/2015/04/ghanaian-pastor-eric-isaiah-killed.html?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

I use to think Cossy is crazy but now I know she is also naughty. Endowed actress Cossy looking her sexy usual self in a Bunny Party outfit for the celebratory season. See more pix at http://www.exlinklodge.com/2015/04/now-i-know-she-is-naughty-see-cossy-on.html

In keeping with the earlier promise made by members of the National Association of Nigerian Prostitutes (NANP), to declare a three-day free sex in the country should the candidate of the All Progressive Congress, Gen. Muhammadu Buhari, wins the presidential elections, the body has announced the commencement of the bonanza which is to begin on Easter Friday, April 3rd, and will expire at midnight on Sunday, April 5th, 2015.

In a press release sent out by the General Secretary of NANP: see full story and more pix at http://www.exlinklodge.com/2015/04/omg-prostitutes-in-nigeria-declare-3.html

Unknown gunmen this morning at about 11.30 stormed the Afokang Prison in Calabar, Cross River, and freed several inmates. Several people were shot but the number of casualties have not been disclosed. Shops and other businesses in the area were closed down following the rampage according to a report by The Nation. - See more at: http://www.exlinklodge.com/2015/02/jailbreak-reported-in-calabar-prison.html#sthash.rlYN34SJ.dpuf