₦airaland Forum

Sixfeetbelle:
I don't understand why everyone is being angry over this issue to be honest. Is it that we are so poor that courtesy is now a taboo?

I was raised to always go with gifts whenever I'm visiting a family friend so even if I don't have anything on me, bread is never scarce on me. Since this is not the guy's first visit (which I expect he would have maybe shown up with wine that first time), bread would have been more than good. A bottle of groundnut even looks nice.

Let me ask: When we were growing up, did we not have uncles and aunts that always visited with gifts? Did our mothers not package gifts always whenever we went to visit a family member? So why is this one being judged differently?

I do think the lady handled the matter badly, but let's not accept 'bad behavior' as the norm because we're trying to be woke.

because he didn't go with gift is now a bad behavior. no wonder I see reason why some men maltreat their wives after wedding

15ssDRIVE:
I am proud to be an African. Its our culture !!!

culture dey every where you go.


who goes to see his/her mother Inlaw empty handed ? Even correct woman no go, come see her mother Inlaw empty handed ....... no be hunger oh... na courtesy

and how does it translate to successful marriage

saintjimos:
my prayer is that the said guy shouldn't read this thread

lol

seunak2016:
if you are yoruba man ,I will definitely insult you but if not .... you think someone giving you her daughter to marry isn't a greatest gift ever? someone who is raise till that level you can approach her and say you like her...ordinary 10k cash is OK for recharge card unless someone is extremely poor you won't give your mother in law to be something on the first visit

oga, that was not the first time he is visiting them

Graxie:
Please don't marry him, he will always hate your mom. You did wrong by telling him what your mom said. It wasn't his first time and he didn't go empty the first time. Your mom is greedy.

not only will he hate her mom but will also maltreat her

the government should do the needful by upgrading and equipping the hospitals to international standard. and see how people will stop flying to abroad for medical care

Arewa247:
Which cities in Northern Nigeria are frequented more by visitors? Surprisingly, the north is still attracting investors and generating tourism revenue yearly to the Nigerian government. We have listed five states you may love to visit in the north that are exciting and full of life. We would not bring up the capital city, Abuja because it is unique and definitely not avoided by Nigerians.

Kano

A city known for its commercial activities in Nigeria is Kano. It is the second biggest city in the country and is dubbed the ‘Center of Commerce.’ Kano was named after the legendary Aminu Kano. It attracts hundreds of thousands of people to it including the power figures in the country. It is strategically located and has links to African countries like Cameroon, Niger, Chad and Republic of Benin by road. Its Mallam Aminu Kano International Airport serves both local and international flights. Kano is not lagging behind with hotels that range from budget hotels to luxury five star hotels. A lot of Nigerians aren’t even aware Kano is very beautiful with numerous places to visit. [hyperlink] We have listed some important places you can visit when you are in Kano.

Kaduna

Kaduna is not far away from Kano. It is barely an hour drive from the ancient city of Kano. Kaduna is called the ‘Crocodile City’ and is rich in culture and tourism. There is an even mixture of both the Christians and Muslims. Take away tourism from Kaduna, and you would embrace intellect. There are so many great educational institutions in the city which pulls a chunk of Nigerians to it as students.

Jos

The temperate weather of Jos makes it peculiar among other cities in the north usually associated with harsh weather. The town is relatively peaceful with hundreds of places to visit. Nollywood still loves this place, and once in a while great movies are shot here. Things are not expensive, and there are a lot of expatriates here. With a population of over 900,000 according to the 2006 census, Jos has become one of the biggest cities in Nigeria. Sometimes, it seems like Jos is a city in another country because of its temperate weather and the lifestyle of the people.

Lokoja

Lokoja is the confluence city that brings together rivers Niger and Benue. Today, Lokoja has become a stop-over for travelers coming to Abuja, Kaduna, Kano and other cities in the northern Nigeria. You can feel the friendliness of the people who easily mingle with strangers here.

Makurdi

Finally on our list is the city of Makurdi. It is the capital city of Benue – the food basket of the nation that has become a haven for those who love food as a business or as consumers. There are loads of tourist attractions here for you to see

Arewa is a blessings to Nigeria.
God bless Arewa.
God bless federal republic of Nigeria.

when has Jos, Lokoja, and Makurdi become a northern States in Nigeria. please stop this wrong dissemination of information to the public. we are not part

RemoveKebab:
Remove Jos, markudi and lokoja.
Stop associating middle belt states as northern territory.
Stop land grabbing.

you spoke my mind

larot78:
Love this thread and I hope it will boom..
I likewise seems to be in the same shoes with the post ..pls help a man with three kids and also wish to relocate to Europe ..

Your sincere contribution is needed..

You will not be ill favoured.

Thanks

you can well create your own thread.

sylve11:
Delta state, Igbide to be precise.

is Delta in Europe

ademidedavid:
I sincerely hope year 2020 is not a fore runner for 2021......because 2021 is just 8days and so many deaths have been recorded.

2021 please, I beg you in God's name calm down and just be calming down.

oga, he died at the age of 82, at least he is ripe and he enjoyed life
RIP

jazz, come and hear what your neighboring brother are saying, which one is attempted adultery

pls don't let Trump insult us that the only thing we know in Africa is sex

Beverlyjean:
First time I heard this Charlie thing was about 4 yrs ago thru my 7yr old cousin that came bk from Yankee...tot it was just a joke

abeg you still dey naija

debbydams:
seriously I don't know what to say, we ladies tend to love guys that maltreat us.. I just hop op wont maltreat his gf wehn he finally marry her ..my own dey my body

don't tell me you are also enduring abusive boyfriend. you said the truth about ladies loving guys that maltreat them but see guys that care for them as mumu. you ladies deserve what you get

debbydams:
It is well

and you see this as it is well even on your fellow woman.

Kriss216:
Please try and get affordable brain this year. I'll not tolerate your senseless posts this year.



Shalom.

seconded

Redhot111:
Which medulla oblongata are you talking about? Does Buhari have any??

lol

imagine since Prof Yemi Osinbajo removed some security heads when baba was on vacation. baba has been refusing to travel, rather he send his wife to go on the length vacation on behalf

fineboynl:
names on your negative tag list, they ring alert bell once you meet people with the names. the names remembered you of someone you don't want to think about. you hate the name. no matter how you like someone but the very day know their name you tend to loose interest immediately.

kindly mention the names here.

mention your na

must everything be foreign to Nigeria, can't we use our medulla oblongata just as the way the people you are calling used their own

prince3009:
Well deserved!

I bought some Tesla Stocks and didn't regret it!

That SpaceX initiative will give him more crazy money in future as the wealthy would patronize him for a journey to Mars

to go and do what in the Mar

Mysticwebb:
And Russia electoral system meets democratic standard?
Who set the so called standard?

don't mind the poke nosing nation. just imagine when Putin has been in power. you challenge him, you are gone

let her shut up, who brought the prophets and pastors to Africa. perhaps, Africans were using chewing stick before they came to Africa. it is when you get closer to this white that you discover that they have bad odour

I doubt the authenticity of this story if not you would have mentioned the location so that anyone around the area can confirm

Ishilove:
Bullshit. Who threatens to jump because they didn't help a total stranger?

Abeg. Mscheeeeeewww

I wonder, in essence it was a plan work

there is a way this match is doing me but I must give it to man utd

[quote author= post=97755222]What a Dastardly act!
Our policemen and soldiers need to step up their game to shoot these animals call bandits.
Why kill innocent children for Krissake?

May all the evil bandits perish than 24 hours from now.
If wishes were horses.........[/quote]I never knew you are a pastor

NGpatriot:
See useless person asking useless answer.

Simple question.

Is he owing you or any of your village people workers salary?

Only useless people make statements that they can not backup with facts apart from spewing their usual hatred, bitterness, tribal and bigoted rubbish.

since you lacks decorum, I don't need to banter words with you.

Fuckingmallam45:
He paid his workers, just that he’s paying them 30% which is not enough

30% out of 100% is that pass or failure and is the 30% consistent for every month