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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hangulsaram: 7:58pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
You should have kept that to your mind and observe if he’s the stingy type or maybe he does n’t have it that time. But how can a responsible Man went to visit a prospective mother in -law empty handed? Some guys no get shame oo 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Munzy14(m): 7:58pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Acidosis:I don't think he is greedy... The same guy fit go back there next week with a fully loaded goodies in his car trunk. Na babe web calm down the enjoy her man. I expected the babe to calm her mom down ,and iron issues codedly with her man...and not feeling entitled with flaring up...That guy might av gone there as a bait or fact finding mission, and I guess he got what he was looking for. This relationship thing will always get tricky at a stage....Na wisdom u need to follow things jeje. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by adajoe555: 7:58pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx: Hey, your bad mouth is something else ...lol 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by extol1(m): 7:59pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:because he didn't go with gift is now a bad behavior. no wonder I see reason why some men maltreat their wives after wedding 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Maravilla: 7:59pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Funny thing is all those insulting the OP, won't even visit their would-be in-law empty handed, and stop copying everything from the white man, it doesn't make you smart, in Nigeria Culture, you don't visit in-laws empty handed, hope this helps. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by KingAlayinde(m): 7:59pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Trayceey: Trayceey: a good mama won't even feels like collecting anything from him in first meeting to claims herself respect........ wonder why Nigerians has turn relationship to benefits 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by At10tion: 7:59pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:Your Fiance is not an honorable person, he's not a man of Honour and doesn't honor you or your family. A person with honor will always leave good impression in the heart of people he met. Even with #500 he will have made himself worthy in the eyes of your mom.. It's not about the gift, it's just courtesy. A singer once sang a song, he said "we were looking for money but then we found honor, and so we went back home! Why..? Because if we find the money it is honor we'll use it to buy" |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by OdenKelechi(m): 8:00pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: So now we've gotten to the point of using "we are africans" as an excuse for nonsense. Yes, it would've been great he went with something for the mum, but does he owe her anything? This is still the entitlement mentality worrying our so called african women and the mother has clearly passed it on to her daughter.. it's disgusting to see. Let's stop using "we are africans" to validate nonsense. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nairalandhero: 8:00pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Onyemaya:hmmmmmm nawa ooo 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by West2019(m): 8:00pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:animal that's ur second name .come let me loan you 10m ,you and your mother, sister are hungry family 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by freeman5050: 8:00pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Miarose: Young man, there is something the call courtesy. I'm not saying is compulsory but at least he should have gotten her something since this is his first time of meeting her mum. More so, knowing fully well his girl was not around, that alone will make him it's utmost necessary to get something for the mum since he pmanned and made up his mind of seeing her, no matter how small. Such movement as a mature man requires you to tender something to the family when you get there. Its part of the fun in the relationship. Take note bro in case you are not married yet. It's a matured advice from a married man. ** I come in peace.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by West2019(m): 8:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lashist(m): 8:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BusinessCity:Shut up is never an abuse...its the internet so i should not detect your age from your moniker before i say shutup. Almost everyone has been accorded without honor at some point..i have had my own share and it didn't make me feel so sad..i hope you just know that bringing gifts to your bf/gf home is never a must..i wish you well too 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 8:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Fiscus105: Brilliant |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: God bless you. Even the reasonable whites won't go empty handed. Talkless an African. The guy did badly and it is unreasonable guys like him that are insulting the lady. He was irresponsible. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Bodydiialect57: 8:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Chujor1634:. She should have simply played the devil's advocate on behalf of the guy to her mum and later find a sensible way of passing the message across to her fiance. Her approach was wrong. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Guy bone her immediately. What nonsense. Is it not your mother that is to play host. Greedy souls. Guy bone the two of them straight. I pity this girl. Your mother will be a perpetual home wrecker. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 8:01pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Lashist: Enjoy. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by descarado: 8:02pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
@op, call and apologise to your man. Go and reprimand your mum else she will continue with this mentality. A good mother in law to be will look for something to give him to take home with. That's how she will endear herself to this man and in turn make the man love and cherish you more. Ladies use your sixth sense! 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by OdenKelechi(m): 8:02pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
GayPontiff: Chop knuckle my nigga... I was fucking disgusted at that "we are africans" bullshit for validating the nonsense. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by comtem2011: 8:02pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:Sorry to say this, are you a Yoruba by tribe cos na we dey count all these things. People have issue o, all these in law of a thing self, na wa o. Wife's mother will complain, Husband's mother will complain. O ga o. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Chimaokigwe: 8:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: You are a curse to your mother. Look at how you've brought shame and disgrace to her in her old age. Is it everything you must say outside or your stupidity knows no bounds. Stupid hungry pauper. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lenient001: 8:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I count that as one of the reasons those rich people do never want to marry or date a poor people because they believes they'll impose on them all their living responsibilities. Your mother should have never judged him or had a hopeless compliment on him. Maybe, he's broke during that time and don't wanna dissapoint you that's why he did that. Perhaps, 'not giving today doesn't mean will never give tomorrow'. Always think before you act. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by sparko1(m): 8:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: It’s very wrong of him to visit for the first time empty handed! (Even subsequent visit), Not even a bottle of wine, biscuits for the children. Come on, if he visits his mom does he go empty handed. You know if you can manage such attitude. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Oyiboman69: 8:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:not in this case |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Augustine1990(m): 8:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
poverty in your family 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Liposure: 8:04pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Not everybody is versed in culture. Cut your bf some slack |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 8:05pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Kriss216: She said it's her fiance. Would a boyfriend go see his girlfriend's mother without her being at home? Okwere omume? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Augustine1990(m): 8:05pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
poor family |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by HeadShot: 8:06pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Shut up jare.... African mentality indeed If he visits often like that... Then i might agree reason along But it was just a one time visit that you dont know whether it was planned... Haba.. The mum acted like a gold digger... Its quite a shame.. I urge that guy to run for his life They will turn him to an atm And he wont achieve anything in life 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Gideon110(m): 8:06pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
ceeceeuwa:You are even worst than the op self.. Spit on you... 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by luminouz(m): 8:07pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: The scriptures you quoted wasn't talking about literal gifts for fuq sakes na...it's your talent it refees to. Your skill set. The way u dey try defend the topic funny me aswear 3 Likes |
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